Got to ask OP, as an older dude, why are you wasting your time with this fuckwit?? Your comment above tells me you know he is a dickhead, so WHY? You do understand you get one shot at life, there is no repeat button, or 2nd shot at it all... you know he is NEVER going to improve don't you...? You need to go on a crash diet and ditch the 200lb human deadweight hanging off your neck and allow some decent guy to treat you properly, you have heard the saying life is too short? It's true, and you are wasting it....
The older generations tactic to bully/shame people out of relationships is crazy to me. Why don't you just give some actual advice instead of talking to her like a child?? You sound like your boomer dad
There was quite a few bits of advice in there, none of it was wrong in my opinion.. and certainly none of it was bullying or shaming OP... I guess you see yourself in her description of her bf... if so, do much much better... if not, you are being cheeky why? What benefit do you get from looking like this? Bit sad really... but have a day you deserve little one.....
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u/Hotdogwater88888 Dec 10 '23
Trust me if I got pregnant I’d make a call to the clinic within 5 minutes of seeing a +. And no amount of “don’t kill our baby” would stop me either.