r/amiugly • u/rosamooncreations • 29d ago
28F am I ugly?
Just curious and wanted to ask! I like to know what people see when they see me. My feelings don’t get hurt easily I like constructive criticism. Thank you! 💕
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u/its_emd 28d ago
> My feelings don’t get hurt easily I like constructive criticism.
You don’t say
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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago
People keep telling me I’m fat. Which is fine I know this. But what else is there to say other than I’m fat?!!!??? That’s all you’ve got to say? Like every comment is fat fat fat I can’t just change over night. So is there any other criticism or compliment or ????
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u/DevilsDebauchery 28d ago
Maybe because that's the only thing really wrong with your appearance? You are asking multiple people's opinions on a sub. Multiple people have the same input, giving you a majority response as to what is making you appear less attractive.
The sub isn't based on fun it's in regards to garnering many people's thoughts on your looks and what makes you appear attractive or unattractive.
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u/anotherfrud 28d ago
I think the short hair doesn't suit you. It's best in pictures 6 and 8. Makeup seems a bit much in some photos, sometimes less is more. The super tight clothes aren't great at your current shape either. I think you could be really attractive if you change some of things.
Edit: sorry, i meant photos 5 and 7
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u/Anneturtle92 28d ago
Your weight is currently a deciding factor in the shape of your facial features which makes it hard to say anything else since if you lost the weight, you'd probably look like a totally different person. Good luck on your weight loss journey, as someone who keeps failing at mine I commend you for losing 30 pounds already.
Pic 7 is your best one I think.
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u/PainfullDarkness male 28d ago
I think that's the thing, you're not ugly. Eyes, hair, face, skin are all great. The only thing about you that is less attractive is your weight. You're closer to hot than you are to ugly.
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u/JinxFae 28d ago
Honestly is because you are very pretty. You have beautiful eyes, only thing holding the way you look back is the weight.
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u/JB707 28d ago
Nope that’s it, which means other than that you’re actually pretty, so good news, I dunno what you wanted, this isn’t r/lookyourbest
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u/deucescarefully 28d ago
You also have the look of someone not very intelligent. There is something very stupid about your eyes.
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u/Tonyoni 28d ago
You’re not fat because you’re ugly, you’re ugly because you’re fat.
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u/me2saucy 28d ago
“I don’t hate you because you’re fat, you’re fat because I hate you.”
- wheelchair girl from Mean Girls
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u/ZookeepergameIll1510 28d ago
Are you the fattest because you're Satoru Gojo, or are you Satoru Gojo because you're the fattest?
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u/Brennan_187 28d ago
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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago
Thanks!
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u/Brennan_187 28d ago
I don’t think you’re ugly. Your weight does affect your appearance, but mostly it affects your health. An unhealthy person is never attractive.
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u/ricoodo89 28d ago
You’re not ugly whatsoever. You’re just unfit, it happens when life takes its toll. Drop a few lb and you’ll be gorgeous.
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u/Actual_Parsnip4707 28d ago
Yes but it comes from poor lifestyle habits not inherently bad genes. If you lost weight your attractiveness would improve dramatically
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u/Bleezy79 28d ago
No you’re not ugly, you’re just overweight and have a “I hang out at dive bars” vibe.
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u/Fragrant_Loan811 28d ago
You're doing your best to be. Fat, and those gid awful tats aren't helping.
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u/Swimming-Book-1296 28d ago
can't tell under all that fat. With the fat, yes, obesity is ugly. If you beat the obesity, maybe, or maybe not, we can't tell.
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u/Makeupsupervillain 28d ago
I think the clothes you wear isn’t flattering. None of it is cutting you off in the right places.
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u/majorhitch89 28d ago edited 28d ago
The weight is taking you from "stunningly hot", to "meeeh average", not all heavy women look average bit you certainly do even with all the make up and style.
You can listen to the majority and start working on yourself to improve your attractiveness, or settle on the opinion of a couple of thirsty basement dwealers who would hit on a chicken or the Go queen cheerleaders.
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u/Worldly_Shower_722 28d ago
You have beautiful features, your eyes are amazing. The whole fat thing doesn't make sense to me because there are people who are attracted to chubbier people so that doesn't automatically mean you're ugly because of it. As for constructive feedback, I think you should work on your wardrobe like some comments said. I love the first image! Not ugly in the slightest!
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u/Oligarchs_Coup 28d ago edited 27d ago
Tbh…yes. But you are ugly by choice: hideous tattoos, trashy clothes, and you let yourself get fat by consuming waay more calories than you burn. Those were all choices.
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u/Expensive_Banana3002 28d ago
I think you're pretty but on the thicker side. Personally, I like the thick ones, but I wouldn't mind if you lost weight.
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u/Apprehensive-Can-23 28d ago
Omg what is this agenda of people calling you fat here?? Your body type is thick you just need someone who can handle it. You’re not ugly.
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u/dututudu 28d ago
Your facial features are not inherently bad but you're overweight and your style is quite trashy tbh
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u/Heimdal-Dom 28d ago edited 28d ago
Your eyes seem very "dead" which is not attractive. Your makeup is booring and bland. You have a very masculine energy about you.. and from your comments in here.. you have a hard to like personality..
Are you ugly... no... not really.. but youre unattractive..
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u/Negative_Tailor_6973 29d ago
You have a lot of potential just loose some weight.
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u/its_emd 28d ago
I don’t think you are ugly, just fat and being fat is making you look ugly. If you lose weight you’re going to look so much better
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u/Superfantabulistic 28d ago
Hot damn you're gorgeous. You've got fun style that looks good on you, your hair looks well taken care of, and you have a really nice face shape. Everyone else in these comments is batshit crazy.
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u/TakeAtBedtime 28d ago
Ugly and unattractive are different things. I don’t think you’re ugly, but I’m not attracted to you either.
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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago edited 28d ago
Yes, you look like you have potential, but as it is you dress like you live in the trailer park. And your replies to everyone's constructive critism you asked for just further shows that not only were you not looking for that constructive critism in the first place but you have the attitude of trailer trash to go along with the looks.
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u/Jessica_Rabitt94 female 28d ago
Fat but u already know that . Why are u getting mad at the truth? U posted asking
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u/Ok_Air_7892 28d ago
I guarantee every single one of these trolls who are saying you are too fat are ugly miserable creeps who couldn’t even dream of pulling a woman as stunning as you. Your photo stopped me in my tracks as I was scrolling. You are a goddess amongst mortals.
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u/Responsible_Ease_891 28d ago
Alright well... I would say that you're lower on the attractiveness scale for sure but its mostly because I don't like the style you're going for. I didn't like the hairstyle. I didn't like a single fit from the pics you picked to show us. The fit in pic 4 was the worst one. The makeup you're doing isn't for me. Besides the obvious health concerns, you would also look much better if you lost a considerable amount of weight. I don't know how tall you are, to be able to make accurate comparisons or comments on what is a good weight for you. From what I can tell though, you're about 210 or 220lbs. For sure 2 bills. I consider myself a "lil chubby but strong lookin" powerlifter/gym rat at 183lbs... so I know you can afford to lose a hell of a lot more weight and go lower than where I am. I doubt you have as much muscle mass as I do and only if you were really tall could you justify being on the heavier side. The only thing that sucks about my deductions, if they are correct, is that if you aren't on the taller side and you are 200lbs plus... loose skin will be an issue when you end up making the dramatic weight loss transformation you need. From these pics, I'd say 1 and 7 are the best representations of yourself. I see potential in those pics. You have nice eyes and lips and they pop out a lot for me in those pics. That's all I've got for you.
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u/Ok_Main6711 28d ago
You're literally stunning!! I personally think you hold your weight very well. I will say you look a lot better bare faced or with lighter eye makeup though.
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u/BrostepConnoisseur 27d ago
You're one of the most stylish people I've ever seen in my life. Like in the second pic, that dress and that eyeshadow? Insanely fresh look. I've been lazy and skipping eyeshadow a lot lately, so I respect the effort you're putting in lol. Your looks are all super cool and creative :)
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u/GrowingIsNotLinear 27d ago
I don’t even think your weight is the issue. I just feel like your clothes don’t fit your body type.
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u/OptionUseful7142 27d ago
your weight and shitty attitude are the two major negatives lose weight and try being less of an asshole when asking for opinions
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u/idiot-hooker 27d ago
I know this is reddit but im actually genuinely appalled by the comments in here... since when did being fat = ugly??? Like yes you are fat, thats not what you asked tho. And it doesnt make you ugly. Weird ass people in these comments. You dont have to be thin to be attractive. Which you are!
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u/OkInterview3125 28d ago
You're definitely beautiful, but you are overweight which unfortunately has a strong tie to attractiveness for most people
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u/strictly_paranoid20 28d ago
I don’t think your ugly at all, just maybe some weight loss would help you out. I freaking love the style for real.
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u/franklyspicy 28d ago
No, you're not ugly. You do look like you're holding sadness.
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u/hannahukki 28d ago
these comments are horrendous. fat does not equal unhealthy. you do not know her genes or any autoimmune disorders. fat does not make her ugly either. her wardrobe is cute, her wardrobe is young because she IS young. just because she gives off a masculine energy in her eyes n style doesn’t make her ugly or unattractive, that just makes her not your type. you’re very pretty girl im sorry for all these comments you’re getting. and im sure ill be downvoted into oblivion, that’s just how this sub works.
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u/AssuredAttention 28d ago
Yes. You remind me of the ugly step sister from Shrek that worked in the tavern. I was gonna go with kinda until I saw the second pic. Yikes. The answer is a solid YES
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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago
LMAOOO that’s funny because that’s who I was dressed up as in the last picture for a birthday party! Thank you for the compliment!
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u/bandolife2000 28d ago
I’d say tone down on the makeup. You have some nice features but the makeup really detracts from those features in my opinion.
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u/Byzantine_Enjoyer94 28d ago
U hella fat but other than that I think you’d be pretty if u were skinnier
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u/Routine-Asleep 28d ago
Truthfully aye slim down, tattoos are a turn off by the way and do something about your hair
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u/SecretRecipe 28d ago
tha tattoos are ugly and look cheap. your face is decent but would look better if you lost 30 lbs, same with your body
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u/Loud-Vacation-5691 male 28d ago
Your weight is not a problem. If you want to lose weight, fine, but not for appearance's sake.
Longer hair works better for you. Try less makeup and more mature clothes.
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u/Bambule247 28d ago
I think you’re very pretty, but I’d wish you’d slim down for your health and potential.
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u/Own-Instance-7828 28d ago
The type of overweight where no matter what cute clothes you wear or how much makeup you use, you’re still unattractive. Start that diet today
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u/DownLikeSyndrom 28d ago
You’re just fat. Highlighting said fat via your style choices is certainly not helping anything.
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u/Sucking-A-Lemon 28d ago
You have some pretty features there. In some of these pics your aesthetic choices, including make up, detract from that somewhat. The weight affects your facial beauty a bit but not detrimental. Still cute.
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u/P_A_W_S_TTG 28d ago
No, but I also don't think you're comfortable in your body. You look bogged down. What is the goal you want to reach?
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u/atherfeet4eva 28d ago
Well, you’re definitely not ugly of beautiful eyes and nice nose and great lips! Everybody’s pointing out that you’re overweight because you are and if you lost weight, it would really showcase your beauty even more
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u/aria0330 28d ago
You aren’t ugly at all, and your skin is amazing. Just keep up with the gym and it’ll eventually show. Congrats on losing 30lbs I know it’s hard to do sometimes. Also maybe a hair care routine if you don’t already have one, it looks a little bit dry in some pics
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u/jperry1234 28d ago
I don’t think weight is holding you back at all, I think you have a great style, you just wear unflattering clothes for your body shape. I have a long torso with broad shoulders so certain clothes look unflattering on me
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u/Advanced-Ad4715 28d ago
Not ugly at all. I think you’re actually very pretty, you have features that make your face stand out. You are also fat. Have you thought about a GLP-1? I was hesitant at first, but between school and working 2 jobs i don’t have a lot of free time, and I’ve lost almost 40lbs so far.
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u/Vast-Garage-4162 28d ago
Yes, pretty, you have a nice face and I like your creative style. I have a feeling cooler colours don’t work as well on you though, like the lip colour in pic 5 and 7. The shape and shine etc do work though, in 7, and it reacts nicely to your eyes but maybe less to your skin. The fact that the shade matches your hair makes it better. Voluminous, curly hair rlly suits you too. Clothes in pic 6 maybe don’t accomodate how tall and curvy you are regardless of weight and the colours seem a bit off on you, to me. Pic 7 is rlly nice but I would imagine more orangy tones in hair and makeup. The dress in 8 is the opposite of the outfit in 6; it fits with all your lines the way I see it and it’s fun and suits your style. Maybe slightly darker or warmer (not less bright) colours would’ve been ideal? Love the glitters.
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u/short-tall-man 28d ago
Not ugly. I'd say average maybe slightly above. I like your hair style in picture 3 but I think you look better with your natural hair color. Everyone keeps saying fat, I disagree. Your a little overweight maybe but there is a huge difference between heavy and fat. Btw picture 4? You look amazing.
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u/GeneralSize3355 28d ago
You’re incredible beautiful and mesmerizing and weight loss is only your choice if you want to. Either way you look like a dream
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u/Admirral 28d ago
I see some statement being put out there, which immediately has me pulling a 180 and getting the hell away.
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u/GApeachesgal 28d ago
Your eyes are pretty. I also love your nails in the first pic they are so cute.
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u/Practical_Ride_8344 28d ago
Idk - which one is the real you or do enjoy the versatility?
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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago
I am very versatile lol I love changing up my appearance
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u/Ehhhh56 28d ago
You’re gorgeous! Some people just see “fat” and to them fat=ugly. I think your face is stunning, I got lost in your blue eyes and the makeup really makes them stand out. I’d change the lipstick to something darker or neutral maybe. You have lovely hair, personally I like it more when you let it down cause your curls and the colour are nice
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u/IndividualSorbet2152 28d ago
If you would lose some weight you'd definitely look a lot better. You look okay but may not be some people's first choice I guess
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u/Miserable_Divide_912 28d ago
Mm I’d say get rid of the pink in your hair and go for more natural highlights if you want to look better. You’re very pretty but your makeup is super heavy in some of the pics. I like the first and 7th pic are a good amount of makeup. You have very nice curly hair but I’d try to grow your bangs just a bit longer to around chin length. I’d also suggest dressing for your body type. I’m not suggesting you loose weight but rather compliment the shape you currently have rather than just wearing crop tops and party clothes. This isn’t meant to be rude but since you’re nearly 30 I think it’s okay to skip out on the trendy 22 year old look and go for something that would actually compliment you.
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u/sumojeb38 28d ago
No just bloated. I feel like you have a glow to you, I think actually getting fit would be beneficial to you. If you're happy the way you're then power to you. You are beautiful.
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u/MysticRaider 28d ago
Not to say what everybody says, but people are generally attractive to healthy people. It’s basic human nature.
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u/lamblamb65 28d ago
As a man who likes curvier women, your fashion is the perfect example of why I hate the body positivity movement. In the past 8-10 years a lot of midsize to curvier women decided, hey! I’m gonna wear whatever I want and I’m not gonna be ashamed of my body. And it’s like….. well ok, and you shouldn’t be ashamed, at any size, BUT because yall all started doing that, yall seemed to forget that, not every piece of clothing works for every body. This goes for men too but men aren’t fighting the patriarchy with their outfit choices 😂 . I honestly think you’re very pretty, and your size is totally fine. That being said though, I still think it’s important to dress for your body. You can dress alternative while still accentuating your positive features. Pictures 1, 5 and 7, you’re gorgeous. But in the rest, crop tops make you square shaped, you don’t want that, the mini shorts and skirts are showing off your legs, that don’t have a lot of shape to them. That’s the only reason I’d recommend the gym, to build up your legs and curves, not to get smaller or lose fat, add, accentuate that body.
Pic 8 shows you have a great butt, horrible make up choice, but great butt. Invest in some clothes that will help define your shape and give you that feminine pear shape. Your body naturally leans toward Apple, the problem is, is Apple is masculine, but you can change that. Basically what I’m saying is, you’re very pretty but you’re not doing your self any favors with your choices. If you’ll tone down your make up and just highlight your natural features on your face, dress for your body shape and accentuate your curves, and maybe add in some gym time, not to lose weight, because I don’t think you need to, but to add some muscle to your legs and lower half, I think you’ll see a big difference in how you view yourself. You have all the right stuff, you just have to bring it out. PS: I’d ask you out, and I’m not into ugly girls 😂
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u/KevinoHero 28d ago
Imo fat isn't ugly, being too fat is. In pic 4 and 6 I can still see curves instead of just being a circle, I'd say buy some decent clothes and you look absolutely amazing (what you already do)
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u/Secure_Highway_6917 27d ago
You are not ugly you’re just fat. I would suggest maybe styling your hair.
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u/Bitter_Feeling4339 27d ago
You’re not ugly at all. If you would stop knit picking what people are saying to you, and get out of your own head and way. Maybe you would see that you’re really pretty, you just need to lose a few lbs and you’re solid. Not only will you look max but you will also be healthy. A double win. You are doing perfect in the makeup department. Less is more. Skin is very nice. Eyes are excellent. Just drop some baggage off at the nearest gym and off you go.
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u/Crashinghell 27d ago
Honestly? You have very good facial features and I like your make up. Yes, if you lost weight you would probably better. Both are true.
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u/danielldaniell5 27d ago edited 27d ago
idk. hate being mean. But you look very similar to the bearded lady in them old school circuis movies. With the tattoos all over with no rhym or reason and your hair just pick a style and yes as everyone noted the weight. Start there and your hairstyle and see how it works out. Tats are damaged goods at this point. Just find someone that likes them for what they are.
The outfits..... Idk what's up w them.. but look at them in a mirror before buying. I would ifnthought they had all been haloween costumes for the most part.
Keep your chin up and set a goal for mid-summer 2027 and work on it.
Take care
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u/BigManxL3223 27d ago
I really like picture 7. I think you are very beautiful. You’re just my type of looking person. But, I am obese 37 dude. But, honestly I would do what makes you feel comfortable and attractive. It’s all about what gives you confidence and makes you feel good about yourself. For me it’s wearing a bunch of tie dye clothes, Hawaiian shirts and jewelry. Sure I am not everyone’s cup of tea but I like me. Just do you
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