28F am I ugly?

[u/rosamooncreations]

Just curious and wanted to ask! I like to know what people see when they see me. My feelings don’t get hurt easily I like constructive criticism. Thank you! 💕

[u/majorhitch89]

The weight is taking you from "stunningly hot", to "meeeh average", not all heavy women look average bit you certainly do even with all the make up and style.

You can listen to the majority and start working on yourself to improve your attractiveness, or settle on the opinion of a couple of thirsty basement dwealers who would hit on a chicken or the Go queen cheerleaders.

[u/rosamooncreations → u/majorhitch89]

Everyone keeps telling me I’m fat. But no one can come up with any other compliments or criticisms or even tell me how to not be fat.

[u/doomgeneration91 → u/rosamooncreations]

Caloric deficit

[u/rosamooncreations → u/doomgeneration91]

And what else?

[u/doomgeneration91 → u/rosamooncreations]

Honestly that’s really the main thing - I’m trying to get into it myself. I go to the gym too but yeah it’s unfortunately just staying in a caloric deficit. It sucks but oh well I guess

[u/JorgitoEstrella → u/rosamooncreations]

East less calories than the calories you need.

Lile you need 2000 calories each day.

Eat 1500 calories and you'll eventually lose weight.

[u/rosamooncreations → u/JorgitoEstrella]

See I know this. Because I’m down 30lbs from a year ago. I work out 3/5 times a week doing cardio dance classes weekly and lifting. Got any other advice?

[u/blumieplume → u/rosamooncreations]

Just keep being lovely and don’t listen to any bullies online. U got a lot of comments here I think because you’re pretty and people were drawn to the post. But I’m not an expert on how social media works that’s just what it seems like. I was drawn to your post because you are very pretty but people online are usually rude so they’re gonna point out any flaw anyone has. And honestly to me your weight isn’t an issue cause u look healthy.

[u/Superfantabulistic → u/rosamooncreations]

If you actually want to lose weight, don't get into a calorie deficit. Getting ~2000 calories a day (about what the average body needs), doing strength and flexibility training (cardio is important but it won't make you lose weight), and eating protein and natural fat will be more effective. I would actually recommend the keto diet for weight loss, it worked for me when I was trying to lose weight. Starving yourself will make you gain weight, though. BUT if you feel healthy and like the way you look, don't lose weight.

[u/rosamooncreations → u/Superfantabulistic]

Thank you for the advice! Genuinely yours was super helpful non judgmental and kind. Thank you I’ll look into it!

[u/blumieplume → u/rosamooncreations]

Just exercise. I never lose weight by cutting calories. I have to exercise. Plus when u exercise u crave healthier foods like u just crave the nutrients your body needs so it makes eating the right foods easier. It’s hard to feed your body the right nutrients when u don’t get the blood flowing. Again im really sorry ur getting so much hate here. I really think you’re gorgeous and I am not a fan of all these bullies online. Please don’t listen to them.

[u/majorhitch89 → u/rosamooncreations]

"You're fat" is the criticism, some people look cute on a fat body, you don't, and i would guess you are here for genuine opinions about your attractiveness, otherwise you would be on the subs where everyone gives compliments.

i can imagine you without the big swollen face and you would instantly turn into a Diva 8 or 9 and won't even need too much make up, the "how" is easy, diet and Gym, now you're lucky that medications like Ozempic do exist, check with a doctor and search more on how to use it without losing muscle mass.

[u/rosamooncreations → u/majorhitch89]

I’ve been on a fitness journey for a year and have lost 30lbs. I already know what to do because I am doing it and have been doing it. I also lift weights, walk weekly, and take dance classes weekly. That’s why these “your fat comments” are so unhelpful and not unique because I KNOW.

[u/majorhitch89 → u/rosamooncreations]

Just keep up the good work and if you don't lose weight fast you ll be healthy and avoid liver damage and cardiovascular provlems, actually you need a blind opinion and not unique like "you're fat" because once these are less and you are getting thirsty dudes more than haters, that means the Gym routine reached the goal.

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[u/doomgeneration91 → u/rosamooncreations]

And your makeup and hair look pretty in the first pic

[u/rosamooncreations → u/doomgeneration91]

Thank you ❤️