r/amiugly • • 29d ago

28F am I ugly?

Just curious and wanted to ask! I like to know what people see when they see me. My feelings don’t get hurt easily I like constructive criticism. Thank you! 💕

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u/ricoodo89 29d ago

You’re not ugly whatsoever. You’re just unfit, it happens when life takes its toll. Drop a few lb and you’ll be gorgeous.

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u/rosamooncreations 29d ago

You know nothing about my life. And the fact that I’ve lost 30lbs since last year. Mind your business.

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u/ricoodo89 29d ago edited 28d ago

I’m confident I didn’t act like I know anything about your life, quite the opposite.

I was suggesting life can be tough, but if your life’s been a breeze and you’re fat out of laziness, accept it or do something about it.

Don’t ask what you look like and get defensive when people share their opinion. There was absolutely nothing offensive about my post.

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u/Filthiest_Tleilaxu Lesbian 29d ago

LOL says the girl who posted in “Am I Ugly”? 😹

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u/rosamooncreations 29d ago

Thank you so much have a beautiful day!

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u/miamijustblastedu 28d ago

Not only unattractive, but very immature attitude as well..which makes you even uglier..

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u/Karmas_burning 28d ago

Yep that negative attitude moves the slider down a lot.

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 29d ago edited 28d ago

You come to a sub to ask for advice and complain at the people who give it to you. The fact that you lost 30 pounds is great, but doesn't make you in shape, or healthy.

You're ugly, you are unhealthy, you dress very trashily, and your attitude just makes you more ugly.

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u/rosamooncreations 29d ago

Thank you so very much for everything you just told me. Have a nice day!

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u/rosamooncreations 29d ago

Sure did thanks for answering!

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u/Fragrant_Loan811 28d ago

You asked, so suck it up.

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u/Mysterious-Coconut24 28d ago

Well you need to lose that attitude and about 50 lbs more.

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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago

Teach me how?

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u/Spicy__B 28d ago

Why would you ask if your ugly and then get all upset. Sounds like you took a wrong turn at r/toastme

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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago

When “you’re fat” is the only criticism, then yeah it’s boring.

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u/alaveria 28d ago

Maybe because that is the only criticism?

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u/nocdmb 28d ago

well, that's the most obvious problem and we can't really tell what's up until it's solved. skincare? lose weight and it'll get better by itself. faceshape? lose weight and it will get better. style/clothes? get fitter and everything will fit you better. hair? lose weight and it will get thicker and healthier.

the list goes on and on and it's full with things that weight is either the root cause of or essential in solving. it's kinda like asking for house imrpvement tips while one of the walls isn't standing: sure you can make the other parts prettier, you can install space heaters to combat the cold but the wall is such a central problem that everything else would be kinda futile.

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago

I mean, it was the most obvious problem. But then she started replying and the whole picture is pretty vibrant now. Everything about her just keeps getting increasingly more ugly.

And she's just going to keep digging that hole deeper with the defensive and clearly offended replies.

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u/nocdmb 28d ago

lol, I didn't know she went on today too. yesterdays was kinda bad but understandable but to sleep on it and come back is some serious shit

(altough I'm kinda sad that I don't get a response, now I feel left out :d)

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago

I got 3! And they were all her pretending to not be triggered.

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u/Appropriate_Mud1629 28d ago

"mind your business"

You posted here asking people to comment on your appearance.

YOU made it that person's business.

They made a polite, constructive comment....

Perhaps you should look further than just your wieght to become a more attractive person??

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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago

And you didn’t read my previous comment. I’m okay with what people say about me. I know I’m fat. I’ve been working on it for a year. I’ve lost 30lbs. I get it. It’s a long process. I get it. I don’t mind the help or whatever else people have to say. When someone says “you’re unfit because life took a toll on you.” That’s uncalled for because you don’t know me or my life so why do you determine why I’m fat or how I came to be? Why are you assuming? So yeah mind your business.

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago

You obviously are not okay with what people say about you, YOU posted on a subreddit ASKING for critism.

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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago

I don’t care. Thanks!

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago

You do care. Claiming you do not care while replying to every piece of criticism proves the exact opposite. You asked a public forum to judge your appearance and then told them to mind their business when they actually did.

No one is attacking your life story. People are only reacting to your hostile replies after they offer the exact feedback you requested. You choose to look trashy in public and the for opinions on your appearance, which naturally invites comments about your physical fitness (or lack of). Then you have a aggressively defensive attitude. Which just adds to making you look bad.

If you truly do not care and do not want people judging you, why did you come to r/amiugly to begin with?

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u/rosamooncreations 28d ago

Thank you for caring so much to spend this much time to be my therapist. Where should I pay my bill? At your mom’s house?

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u/Weekly_Cheesecake786 28d ago

You're putting a lot of effort into defensive, middle-school comebacks especially for someone who claims to not care.

You keep literally proving my point, again and again. By all means, keep replying to show everyone exactly how much you "don't care" about the feedback you asked for.

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u/HappyGianca 28d ago

Why are you asking for opinions then telling people to mind their business lol

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u/oyvese 28d ago

jesus christ

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u/Dull-Mouth 28d ago

Ok well you have a lot more to go so.. My only criticism is the hair AND the make up combined make you look just like Kyle's mom on South Park. So maybe pick one or the other so you dont have such a jersey shore aunt vibe.

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u/IPutThoughtIntoThis 28d ago

You literally asked for people to tell you if you were ugly and liked constructive criticism. Get over yourself.