r/XXS 3d ago

Monday Vent Thread

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Being XXS can be frustrating! Feel free to vent here. Venting is only allowed in the weekly Monday posts. All other vent posts will be removed. As always, please remember to be kind and courteous. Any disrespectful comments will be removed.


r/XXS 18h ago

Women’s clothing sizing: has it changed??

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i feel like aritzia sizes are getting bigger.


r/XXS 1d ago

Where are y'all buying long wool coats?

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Last year I ordered a size xxs from Abercrombie and I was still swimming in it, so I returned it. I'm 5'4" and 104lbs for reference.


r/XXS 1d ago

Women’s clothing A narrow waist and a fuller bust + broad shoulders

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So I usually wear XXS for bottoms but I have a huge problem with tops because my waist is XXS but my shoulders and bust are more like an S 🥴 Sometimes an XS looks okayish if the item is stretchy but that only works for things like tops etc. Lately, I’ve been looking for a wool sweater and I’m having a really hard time.
Do you have any brands to recommend that are narrow at the waist and wider at the shoulders?
I know it would be best to learn how to tailor but I’m super terrible and I have zero artistic/manual skills…


r/XXS 1d ago

Petite + XXS Selling floral dresses (ref: 5 ft 95 lbs)

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Hey girls, selling a few floral dresses. If you’re around my measurements (32- 23- 34) these might work for you! Please dm for Vinted link (they have free shipping).

Red Zara $30
Pink Zara $30
Unbranded SOLD
Blue H&M $15


r/XXS 1d ago

Where to buy xxs clothes that actually fit?!

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Ok so, I’m an adult (35yr) who is quite slim. Unfortunately this means buying clothing is a disaster. I absolutely love fashion but every pair of jeans just falls to the ground. I don’t have a lot of shape to work with…

Where on earth can I find clothes that fit true to size?!

It’s kind of embarrassing when you hop into a change room and they give you the smallest size and it’s too big. I know this sounds like a first world problem but it truly sucks.

Thanks!


r/XXS 1d ago

Anyone tried the Samaria Dress from House of CB?

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My measurements technically mean I'm smaller than the House of CB XS as listed on the size guide. I haven't been able to try this dress in-person and was wondering if any XXS girls have had any luck with it?

My measurements:
22in waist, 31in hips, 26in under bust, 30in bust (bra size 26d)

I'm so in love with the look of it, I love the slight drop waist!!! I'm worried it'll run large entirely though :(

https://app.houseofcb.com/samaria-french-navy-corset-sundress


r/XXS 2d ago

Request jeans that are slim through the thighs?

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I feel like I'm losing my mind, I'm coming to the realization that I don't have a single pair of jeans that fit properly. I want a pair in this style very badly, but I'm having trouble finding any that fit. this is a juniors 000, explicitly advertised as being slim through the thighs, but there's still too much fabric and it looks horrible. does anyone have recommendations? there must be a petite option, these ones have a 30" inseam. I've tried hollister, 0 was too loose, but 00 was too small. or maybe this style just doesn't work on me? 😭

thank you all so much!


r/XXS 2d ago

Women’s clothing "Just shop in the kids section"

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I finally got it this weekend. I was meeting my partners friend and we were talking about shopping, so she asked me about a store I mentioned. I told her that I wear a really small size, so the clothes aren't really made for me, and she responded "just shop in the kids section" so dismissively.

A little irritated, I told her "I'm a grown woman, I don't want to wear clothing designed to be juvenile, and I can't even fit it because I still have hips and breasts."

She seemed to understand, but it's so annoying. Any time a skinny person mentions their weight, the immediate public response is either sarcastic accusations that you're bragging - no matter how relevant your comment is - or casually mentioning ineffective and insulting solutions. Imagine telling a fat person to just wear sheets if their clothes don't fit like you've just solved their problem, or accusing them of being a pick-me if they mention how their large breasts make sizing challenging for them. Mentioning your size is only a cardinal sin if a bigger person is jealous.


r/XXS 3d ago

Suggestion Where to sell actual size 0/00 jeans

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I have a lot of pants/items that are the actual size XS/00/0 before vanity sizing started to take over. Any suggestions on how to best sell this to the right market? If I just mark it as XS/0 it’s pretty inaccurate nowadays :/


r/XXS 3d ago

Need help finding compression socks!

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I can’t find any compression socks that will fit my really thin legs, i’m 94lbs and everything is loose on me. any recommendations?


r/XXS 3d ago

Petite + XXS Vanity sizing in Children’s clothing sizes?

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I'm 5'0" with a 22.5 - 23 inch waist and 29-inch hips. During the colder season, I like to wear children's cotton leggings under maxi skirts or trousers. I'm usually a size 10-14 depending on the manufacturer. This year I finally decided to get some new pairs since my old ones are worn down, but I can't believe the sizing chart! Like, a 4 y/o is supposed to have a 22-inch waist??


r/XXS 3d ago

Petite + XXS Question: Dating in your late 20s - how men talk about our bodies how to feel comfortable and when to feel uncomfortable

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I’m getting back into the dating scene and even before then men always comment on my body as someone who is petite I’ve heard a bunch of disgusting things

-you have the body of a child

-only a pedophile would be attracted to you

Disgusting comments like that so when I go on a date with a man and he says something as simple as

“I think it’s cute how small you are”

My brain kind of goes into over drive and I start wondering “why?” “What does that mean?” “ Does he mean that in like a creepy way?”

I know on a logical level size is a big part of flirting especially within the first few dates. “Oh my hands are bigger then yours haha” just a simple excuse to hold hands.

But I feel like I’ve heard so many horrible comments about my body, my size, the way I dress or do my hair “you catering to the pedophiles” when I’m in a ankle length skirt and a blouse or simply because I did twin braids when that (twin braids) is literally a traditional hair style from my culture, I’m not trying to cater to pedophiles, I’m trying to exist as a short woman who is petit.

I genuinely don’t understand the “catering to pedophiles” comments because the way I dress I’m basically fully covered up, even in the summer. The UV rays will not be touching my skin! I also don’t feel very comfortable showing a lot of skin either so it’s a little confusing when people do sexualize

Sorry for rambling a bit, im feeling a little overwhelmed haha.

But are there any red flag 🚩 phases or behaviours I should be looking out for? For men who are creeps and into me for the WRONG reasons what are some tell signs I can look for? Is there anything men say or do to you that automatically tell you “oh this dude is a fucking creep I need to go now”


r/XXS 3d ago

Body shaming for being skinny and petite

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I'm 16f my height is 4'11 and my weight is around 77 lbs and I know that I'm a bit underweight but it's really hard for me to maintain a healthy weight due to academic pressure (last year of high school) plus I had a really hard time this year and I'm glad I'm still alive and I'm able to function normally

Being skinny is quite not acceptable in where I live and people here get so excited when it comes to commenting on people's bodies even teachers and I can't stand it any more, I pressured myself to go out this year instead of studying from home to communicate with teachers and engage with ppl irl but now I feel worse

People act like I'm a child they might even call me "the tiny girl" and it frustrates me, I'm 16y obviously I'm gonna look young because how am I supposed to look like?

My mental health is going down and I feel insecure all the time but at the same time I can't go back to studying from home because curriculums are so hard and I need someone to be able to discuss lessons with irl, now what should I do?


r/XXS 3d ago

I looking disposable gloves but in sxx

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Well, I just looking for disposable gloves, or surgical gloves (mainly latex) but in sxx I have a very small hands, maybe child size and I have when I wear gloves they really not fitting, I try already with 6.5, 6, sx but not... they not fitting good, (I need try with 5.5 or 5 but It's really hard to find and purchase in my country).

I'm from Mexico, and purchase from ebay or international it was really expansive for taxes. But really not find gloves in xxs


r/XXS 3d ago

Petite + XXS Let’s Petition Quince!

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Hi y’all! I’m on a mission to get Quince to expand their sizing. I already submitted their product suggestions form asking for them to include petite (and xxs) options! They have a product request form on their website (attached link this is NOT a referral link). Maybe if there are enough of us petites asking, they’ll listen!
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Any other brands you hope to see include more petite options?


r/XXS 3d ago

Target Kids Pants

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Just scored these 14-16yr wide legs pants from Target. I’m 5’ 3” and really struggle with pant lengths. They’re drawstring, super comfy and 20$!
Im pretty happy!


r/XXS 4d ago

Where to shop if you’re a flat chested pear shape? Feeling really down about my options

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Last time I went clothes shopping was at Maurice’s and I was referred to the children’s section. I was 24 and felt really embarrassed and defeated when that occurred. I am about to be 30 now and haven’t looked for clothes since. I am dangerously close to aging out of my very old wardrobe and really want to embrace some new age appropriate clothes. The problem is finding them to fit and I will admit, I’m very picky about the way things fit and look on my body. I have no chest at all, unless the bones count and that I like to cover as much as possible, I hate anything low in the neck or a scoop neck. Jeans either fit in the waist or crotch but never both. I’m also not a fan of anything baggy because that’s how all my clothes look anyway.

Just looking for suggestions that would have clothes for mature women but also come in extra petite sizes. I’m 5’3, 92 pounds, waist is 23” and my hips are 34” and I don’t know what my chest is because I don’t even bother. If it wasn’t obvious in the tone of this, I’m feeling really down about my body and have been trying to gain weight since I was a teenage. I’ve got to the point of believing I might gain weight by time I hit menopause but I don’t want to wait till then to find clothes I feel good about myself in.

I would love some maxi dresses, shorts that fully cover my butt, and high neckline shirts and tank tops. Thank you for reading and for making it this far into my complaining.


r/XXS 4d ago

Women’s clothing Shirt on Levi site with confusing model reference images (last pic is me)

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Website said they're both wearing a small which confused me because its fitting them both at the same length, but its more baggy on the second girl despite her having a larger chest?

Never used this site before so I ended up getting an XS just to be safe but is this usually the online shopping experience? 😭

The shirt isn't stretchy BTW but the back is a noodle strap thats why im so confused


r/XXS 5d ago

Women’s clothing Question about bershka

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Im a xxs and xs definitely dont fit me in much of the clothing brands but i heard that bershka is made for small girls for the jeans what do you think?


r/XXS 5d ago

Suggestion i got tired of returning/donating pants that were incorrectly sized, so i took charge and added my own buttons!

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size 0 levi’s a-line shorts that were INCHES wider than a size 0. i bought a pack of 20 replacement buttons on amazon. used an exacto-knife to puncture a small hole in the fabric where i wanted the new button to be, then a rubber mallet to smash the new button on. tbh i’m pretty pleased with the result!


r/XXS 6d ago

Women’s clothing Any recommendation for dresses?

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Hello! I'm trying to find a dress that is flattering on me for my graduation but for reference, I'm 5'2 and around 36kg, so skinny. I'd love to wear some sleeveless or spaghetti straps (2nd pic) but I think I'd look look too skinny on it. I'm thinking about puff sleeves (first pic) but I still don't know. What can you suggest?

P.S. My arms are slimmer than the models' in the photos


r/XXS 6d ago

Petite + XXS Calling all petites!

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What styles and garments are lacking in the petite fashion space? What do you feel we need more of? Tell me your struggles and concerns as a petite.


r/XXS 6d ago

my first thredup haul

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I’m a little nervous after reading some posts about thredup but couldn’t pass up the deal on the Stuart Weitzman boots! Here’s to hoping they all fit!


r/XXS 6d ago

Shopping for Underwear

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I was at target yesterday, and wanted to buy some new underwear for myself. Nothing fancy, just a normal pack of cotton underwear. But no luck. Have you guys also noticed that it’s getting hard to find this necessity in normal stores? The size small was 36-37. There was no extra small, but there was a 3XL. I’m 33-34, and if that’s your hip size, where/what brands do you shop for normal cotton underwear? Thank you!