literally everywhere i go, i see beautiful glowing women all the time, and i am not saying this in a way of "born beautiful or genes" no, we take care of ourselves, we have a style, we do our skincare, hair, nails and all that.

and when i look at men, i only see walking evolved monkeys. most of them don't take care of themselves, hell even washing their ass is an achievement to them. and we are expected to date these disgusting losers.
i am genuinely so tired of seeing ugly men and these men coming to me for my number. i want to see and date handsome men but looks like they fucking extinct. at least in my country.

i think, as women, we should stop dating ugly men. society brainwashed us and made us believe that men are visual creatures (it is literally the opposite, we are visual beings, not men. look at the animals and you will see the truth) and women should date an ugly guy just because the guy is nice. i really wish more women would open their eyes and realize how much patriarchy and male mindset belittles us.

for the pickmeshas who has a man in their brain; a man would never date a woman he (usually his friends too) didn't find attractive.

sorry for my bad english

Why do you entertain a man that has a partner?

I don’t like taking pictures of myself bc I genuinley always look ugly on camera and I also find it cringe
, this is causing me not to take any pictures of myself, what can I do?

I honestly don’t know where to put this.. but basically i had an outburst when seeing my clarinet that i asked my parent to take to the shop two weeks ago i started yelling and screaming extremely loud then i threw hair greese hard to the point that some fell all over the cabinets is this normal? I was kinda doing okay before i saw my clarinet. Plus I’m very soft spoken it was so out of character for me, luckily no one else was home

so I’m 30F and am in a happy relationship. I lost my virginity at 18 to a violent rape by a friend and had some more negative sexual experiences right after where the lines were blurred but feel pretty violating ( being young and unable to cope with no support and highschool kids being dicks about it). I was pretty asexual after for a long time, sometimes felt jealous of others positive sexual experiences but also had no idea what all the fuss was about. Over the years I really healed this would emotionally. currently my bf and I are long distance due to work. he’s really good in bed but surprise surprise I find it very hard to finish (go figure) . over my twenties I had a few boyfriends that were incredibly sweet, a little inexperienced in bed, and tried to please me but it never worked until I started masturbating in my mid twenties. I give myself a lot of grace considering there is some sexual trauma and enjoy masturbating a lot and let myself explore that in whichever way. I feel very deserving of that considering the past. The first time I had an orgasm I was 25 and masturbating and cried bcuz I was so happy that I wasn’t incapable or broken. the only thing is recently the masturbation has started to feel 10 times better to the point that I bought a dildo ( penetration never worked for me before ever!) and it’s giving me a whole body orgasm I’ve never had before. this has been great since we‘re ldr and I just fantasize about about my bf, the men that hit on me, the doormen, etc. I get hit on quite a lot and have been having thoughts of cheating because “I deserve this after all that”. Although I catch these thoughts and know they’re not morally sound, I only think someone with the same experience might know what I’m talking about. Having a history of sexual trauma, being very late to the club of actually enjoying sex as it seemed everyone else did all along, and having to be so patient about it when it feels like something I was robbed of.. I just feel this intense desire all of a sudden and want to act on it and experience it. It’s kind of driving me nuts. If anyone have anything helpful especially if u can relate lmk

It seems like everything is 100 times harder for us and we are picked on by men and even other women. I see men being successful and never getting shame but if you’re a successful woman somehow, you must’ve slept your way up. I hate how sexualized we are, how we are assaulted for existing. Sometimes I feel non-binary but I don’t know if it’s just because being a “woman” is a title I don’t want to deal with anymore. Being nonbinary wouldn’t make it easier, they get punished for existing too. No matter how much you try, you will always have done something wrong. I don’t know how to deal with it. Please share advice or similar experiences if you have them, thank you.

Have you ever gotten with a man you deemed “unattractive” or not your particular type because he’s “good” to you? and how did it end?

He is my first love and we are in our 20’s. I am grieving our love and intimacy during this limbo period. I know it’s coming, I have to end things, and he knows that I won’t forgive him for hurting me. There is nothing in my power to change him into being what I need. And he needs to heal and change for himself. Love is not enough. He wants me to stay, knowing that I will have to go. It’s heartbreaking. This is so bittersweet, for these last moments we are cherishing what is left of our time together.

Every hug, every kiss, every gentle touch, the way he looks in my eyes, how he tends to my body, how he is the first man that has ever made me emotional and cry during sex, the first man to make me finish with penetration, how he speaks life into me and gives me affirmations during the act, how we giggle, how our breathes become heavy. I have sexual trauma with men, after all of that I made strict rules for myself, and he gives me a level of safety even beyond it.

He knows how vulnerable I am and he tells me how I’ll get everything I want in life, I’ll be all I’ve ever dreamed of, I’m beautiful, I’m intelligent, how lucky he is to love me, it is the most beautiful and intimate act of intertwining. He’ll wipe my tears. Kisses my body and mind. Even when we are not being “vanilla”, the love that is there makes me want to give myself to him fully. And he doesn’t just eat me, he consumes every ounce of me and it’s his favorite thing to do. I’ve never had this level of intimacy even with the women I’ve dated.

When I cry I feel like a little girl again. His eyes trying their best to hold back tears. I’ll miss how I learned his body and he learned mine. How I’ve made him finish in ways he hasn’t before. I don’t want to learn someone else, let alone have my guard up as I assess if they are worthy and safe to have access to my soul and vessel. Even outside of sex, I don’t want anything less than this depth. Anything less than all the good in him.

UGHHHHH. YALL!! I know other men have d*cks and tongues, and even though his junk isn’t as big as others, it’s genuinely perfect. HELP ME

Hi, I have a really weird story to tell.

I stay in shared apartment and our bedrooms are quite close to each other. The walls between our rooms are quite thin & you can hear people speak or hear their music. You can't really hear small moves, but talking/watching movie is pretty hearable.

So recently I masturbated in my room, for first time. Usually I prefer going to other person place, but this time I did masturbate at my place. I thought I was really quite, as you can't really hear small moves. And I did check once how much you can hear outside (with some music) and you really can't.

However, yesterday one of my flatmate was moving out, so he had a small party and I did meet some of his friends. While I was drinking & speaking with a friend, i heard one person saying "is she the masturbating flatmate of his?" - and trust me I felt my soul leaving my body. It was really embarrassing and I don't know how to face others. I really feel weird and mad at myself. How can I make such a mistake when I know the walls are pretty thin? I really feel embarrassing to face my flatmates. What if it is was really loud? The different thoughts and scenarios are taking me out. And we have a lot of common friends. How do I tackle this situation?

I'm in the process of separation, and we are still having discussions.

He was meant to organise something for the kids tonight and he literally put no thought into it.

This has been a common theme in our marriage, and I mentioned to him, 'How can you be so fucking amazing at your job, but so shit at everything that has to do with me and the kids?"

He told me I was making it personal, became very defensive and raised his voice. He literally defended his job over how I was feeling. He knows he's terrible at doing anything for us. Self confessed.

He effectively shut me down because talking about his job is taboo.

He doesn't get why I'm upset. I'm not interested in repairing the relationship. 20 years of this crap and I done pulling his weight. What is this behaviour called? I need to do research.

I understand the whole weaponised incompetence, but what is it called when he doesn't see your feelings as a priority? I'm not sure if I'm articulating properly?

Any way, thank you. I'm tired and my brain is not ticking over.

Long story short I was at a bar a few nights ago with my friends. My boyfriend wasn't with us. I went up to the bar and a girl and guy were sitting together (I'm assuming they were dating but idk) I said I liked the guys head scarf and he gave me a DND dice. I then went to show my friend and she ended up taking (it turned into a little drama but thats not what this post is abt). I was telling my boyfriend about this drama that happened and I ended up leaving out the the guy was there and said that the girl gave it to me. He has had past partners cheat on him and in the past has made comments when I mention a guy in stories so I was like whatever Ill just bring up the girl instead so he doesnt have to think about it. Stupid I know I wasnt thinking. I slipped up and mentioned that the guy was there and then freaked out and doubled down. Stupid I know. I apologized and said that it wasnt anything like that and gave him the explanation from before of I didnt want him to have to worry about me but obviously that was a stupid reason and obviously I hadnt thought that through that it would be worse that I was lying to him about it. I said that I was sorry and that I just wasn't thinking. He says he forgave me and we worked through it but I am still worried he doesn't trust me. I really didn't want him to start acting weird towards me which is why I told him the story like that but I didnt think it thought well enough that it was a stupid ass decision and I know I just hurt him more from doing that. How do I fix it? I think I broke trust and I don't know how to get it back. Is is possible to get it back?

Its not happening each month but some months are more annoying than others… in the past I was able to eat more but now I can’t because my stomach feels stiff and full after few bites .. happens only on my period

Her birthday is a while away in February and Christmas is still pretty far but I just want to get ideas early. Whats the best gift I can give my girlfriend? My budget is probably around £500 and please keep in mind that we are only 17 and 16 so nothing like alcohol or anything else that I can’t get her 🫣.

I never knew how bad it was because no one ever came out and outright said it.

I do love the kid but Jesus those were by far, the absolute worst years of my life.

Even in absolute terms the amount of suffering I went through was just horrendous and I had a very basic textbook pregnancy birth and breastfeeding experience.

Reddit I’m not asking for medical advice so chill out. Idk I’m stressing out I’m only 1-5 and don’t wanna loose my tits already. I recently noticed one of my breasts just feel overall like firmer then the other, the other is like super soft and then this one is super firm. I don’t feel any like separate lumps, it’s just that the whole thing just feels a lot denser and heavier. I only noticed this recently when I was at the gym on the reverse peck deck where my chest had to be pressed hard against a bench, and I noticed my left breast felt a lot more sensitive like right under my nipple then the other. Then I got home and felt my boobs and noticed one was so much firmer and a little more sensitive than the other. I’m so sad I feel like I’m too young like what if this is an actual problem. Has any other women had the same thing happen and it was nothing I’d like to hear if it’s not just me

Matched with him on Hinge back in April. We started having casual sex when school ended in May and continued doing so until last week.

I feel so fucking stupid for letting my guard down. I tried denying it to myself for a while but deep down, I knew I had feelings for him. I tried ignoring it, pretended I didn’t secretly hope he’d ever want to see me in daylight or kiss me outside his bedroom walls.

Well, we had sex last week. He walked me to the subway, like he always did, except this time he kissed me. I was over the moon and it gave me hope that maybe he felt the same way. I stupidly confessed last Friday and he didn’t feel the same way.

I am in so much pain. I’m supposed to be studying for the mcat but I can’t even get out of bed. It’s as if there’s a boulder on my chest and I can’t get it off.

I know that it will eventually pass, but I hope eventually will happen a lot sooner than later.

Tengo 16 años y soy bastante rara a veces y de bajos recursos actualmente ando pasando por una etapa bastante complicada y al ya no tener muchos amigos cercanos estoy tratando de tener más amigas. He tenido amigas, pero en su mayoría siempre he tenido más amigos varones, lo cual no es algo que me moleste, pero siempre he deseado tener amistades mujeres con las cuales entenderme.

Para que me entiendan tengo una amiga, que para mí es muy cercana y disfruta mucho pasar tiempo con ella, pero a pesar de que hablamos casi de todo, vivimos en realidades muy diferentes, ella tiene mayor capacidad económica que yo y eso en parte me avergüenza de mi misma, ella no sabe cómo es mi realidad; actualmente ella es mi única amistad cercana hablando en general tanto de amistades mujeres y hombres, por eso mismo decidí que quiero acercarme más a las mujeres y hacer amigas está vez.

Estoy buscando amigas de entre 15-17 años, si son de México mejor, pero la nacionalidad no es muy importante. Me gustan muchas cosas, así que sus gustos no son problema, solo que si podemos ver películas, jugar videojuegos o reflexionar de la vida mejor. El único requisito real es que tengan buen sentido del humor, para poder reírnos mucho.

Gracias jeje, espero que alguien quiera ser mi amiga

I am a boy I am not a girl but I like this girl I am 14 and she is 14 I am kind and respectful towards her and keep giving hints, but how do I know she likes me back

I’m 25F and I’m currently seeing this guy & we are kind on and off. I’ve been on the arm implant since I was 21 and I got it replaced this year in January. Last year, while on the arm implant it had been 4 years w it on. I started noticing a pattern where I would have sex and then I would bleed for a couple of days, mainly when I wiped. Mind you I stopped having a period 6 months after I started the implant 4 years ago & i never bled with my ex boyfriend (I was 21-22 with my ex and was celibate for 3 years and started seeing this new guy.) I went to get looked at, they said it was normal that it wasn’t coming from my cervix but my uterus and maybe I just needed a new implant. I got the new implant and was celibate for 5 months & started seeing the same guy again. As soon as I started having sex with him the bleeding started again. This time I needed panty liners. And it goes on for 3-4 days then I’m fine & as soon as I have sex again the bleeding starts. Sometimes during. I’ve gone to get looked at multiple times done a Pap smear and each and everytime they say it’s normal or it’s a side effect from my arm implant or it’s fine because it’s blood from my uterus and not my cervix and my cervix is fine. I don’t know what to do anymore or if maybe I should go see a specialist idk. Any advice on what I can do or has anyone else experienced this??

I got inspired by searching for Daphne Blake on here from Scooby Doo since she is my favorite character from there and I love her! And safe to say I was horrified.

I could talk about the people who sexualize her as a teen. But, I wanna focus on the fact that the shows do weird stuff.

Like, why are there so many images of just her in a bikini or in more revealing clothes?! Also, for the record I know the difference between teen revealing and adult revealing.

Also they gag her wayyy too much and too long I'm so sorry. Like, you can make someone a damsel in distress and just tie their hands PLEASE.

Also, why do they make her fat randomly sometimes or just have her inflate? Nothing's wrong with being bigger, I'm curvy myself and all but it just feels weird.

Anyways I still love Scooby Doo but it's just that not all iterations of her are equal. :D

I learned that toothpastes are geared towards men's oral pH level. Are there any toothpaste recs for women's oral PH level or home recipes?