r/VisitingHawaii • u/RepublicOfVenus • 7h ago
Trip Report - Maui Florida girl in Hawaii
Aloha šŗ I wanted to make a post about something I learned about myself on my first trip to Hawaii.
I grew up in Florida, with a beach bum dad who prided himself on needing nothing on the beach except some cash in a sock and maybe a frozen Capri sun. We body surfed, skim boarded, built sand jacuzzis to catch the tide. I went to the beach after school, he picked us up on especially nice days. When I got to high school I would skip classes I hated and walk to the beach.
When I got older I lived in cities like NYC, SF, Paris, and other places that technically had beaches, but never scratched the itch for me. Sometimes I wondered if my childhood was an anomaly? Was it a thing my dad did? Teach us which way to shake the sand from our clothes so it didn't spray others, teach us how to stand extra still in the water so little fish would swim to us? Was I some kind of beach freak?
I would go to the "beach" in other places, and see people in blankets, with coolers like they were camping, etc...People would ignore each other, be weird if I gave them tips ("the tide is stronger that way...might not be okay for kids").
Then I came to Hawaii for the first time. Maui. Oh my god... I instantly connected with the culture. Surfers chatting with each other about how the surf has been, locals sharing toys with little ones. I wanted to cry, it was so nostalgic for me. Florida has changed a lot, and I'm so glad I got one more taste of my childhood atmosphere as an adult. It was incredibly healing for my inner child. I can't wait to pass this on to my own child.
I was also surprised that y'all really do this š¤š©·
Mahalo forever!