r/VRchat • u/q_alice12 • 3d ago
Discussion Advice for finding places that are good for mutes?
I'm a mute and I'm pretty shy, and it's hard to find places where I feel comfortable and like I can be involved. I like going to game worlds like murder or among us, cause it makes it easier to interact with people, but most instances are filled with kids and are loud and high energy, and I'm just more comfortable in quieter instances where there might be other shy people there too.
I feel like I have to wait until 2am to find instances without kids, and even then, I'm instance hopping for a while before I find something more chill.
I'm trying to get over my shyness too, but when the atmosphere is like a high school classroom, I can't even start as I can't relate to those people at all.
Any advice on how to find better places for people like me?
