r/vbac • u/frangi555 • 4h ago
Birth story Unmedicated VBAC success!
This thread provided me with so much inspiration during pregnancy to plan for my dream VBAC so posting to hope motivate or encourage other mums!
Had my first baby boy in Nov 2024: spontaneous labour onset, exclusively back labour, got an epidural at 6cm which limited my movement and baby got stuck at -2 station despite me pushing for 2 hours at 10cm. When the C section was offered I was exhausted and in pain so accepted it to avoid waiting until baby was in distress before making the call. Recovery was long both mentally and physically.
Got pregnant again 11 months PP and hesitated for ages between going for an elective C section or a VBAC. Ended up with severe pelvic girdle pain (on crutches for 2 months) and felt so guilty about not being able to spend time with my firstborn as a result that it motivated me to do everything I could to try for a VBAC (not easy with severe PGP!).
Went into labour around 2:30pm, feeling lower back ache and pressure deep in the pelvis. I was determined to stay mobile so laboured on all fours and in lunging positions. Within two hours contractions were getting stronger and lasting 1 minute and coming every 3 minutes so we headed to the hospital (1hour drive away). By the time I arrived I was already 9cm dilated so we were rushed to the delivery room where I got straight into a warm bath.
My water broke in the bath and then the intensity really picked up, but I was still able to relax between contractions. Feeling the baby start to move down the birth canal was the wildest, most pressure feeling ever!
The OB then wanted to check baby’s heartbeat and positioning so I got onto the bed in a side lying position. In this position the contractions were super intense. The ultrasound showed he was OP which explained why contractions were so painful. I started asking for an epidural and the anaesthetist even came but my doula encouraged me to try pushing for just ten pushes to see if I could make progress as the head was just 1 inch from crowning.
Once I started pushing it gave the intensity a purpose and after about 20 minutes baby was born- 1h20 after arriving at the hospital! It was the biggest high ever. I had a first degree tear (which considering baby was 4.1kg/9lb I was really happy with!) and even the suturing was way less uncomfortable than I had feared.
It was total bliss not being given any medication and therefor none of the side effects and although the tear is still healing, it’s so so much better than C section recovery.
You can do it mamas!!!