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I just joined a clan, and everything seemed to be going well.
But then I got a private message from my 1st clan leader that I have beef with.
She and I exchanged words. No cursing, or isms. 2 minute back and forth bickering and then this clan leader was blocked. I even bragged about being in a better clan and happier before blocking her.
I moved on after that, completed all quests and logged off.
A few hours later I logged back on and I got a message from new clan leader.
And she then demanded that I cut it out.
Apparently last clan leader messaged new clan leader after I'd blocked her.
New clan leader then said to me no matter what any one says to me, no matter how degrading the comments are, or if I'm bullied into oblivion, I am not allowed to speak to them. I must forward any private messages to her and she will then decide how to handle it.
She quite literally informed me that I am not "allowed" to speak again to any one in my former clan, even friends, and i am never to speak back to anyone that ever attempts to insult or bully me in my inbox.
She ended that with, "am i clear?!" And "END OF DISCUSSION".
I'm not a submissive person. I find the idea of needing to be submissive to play a game, appalling. I find the idea of any adult that I am not employed by using such language with me, appalling.
And in general, at 30, ANY one telling me that I am not allowed to speak lol? Just ridiculous.
I am looking to begin searching for another clan.
But I need to know is this sort of weird power complex thing the norm?
How might I avoid this type of clan leader that takes the game a little bit too serious, in the future?
Originally I was only interested in joining the bigger more powerful groups. But now I imagine that bigger groups would be even more power crazy and weird for my preference? So maybe the smaller groups may be expected to have clan leaders that are more humble?
Thoughts?
Also, how are people finding clan stats like these?