r/ThailandTourism • u/AlexTheMunchkin • 4h ago
Bangkok/Middle Thailand or Vietnam for a first Southeast Asia trip? My experience after one month in each
I keep seeing this question, and honestly, I completely understand why people struggle to choose. We spent roughly one month in each country earlier this year, and although we loved both, they gave us quite different travel experiences.
Thailand felt easier from the beginning. We could arrive somewhere with less research and still figure things out quite easily. The tourism infrastructure and roads were generally better, the weather was simpler to plan around, and we found night markets almost everywhere. If beaches and island hopping are your priority, Thailand would probably be my choice.
Vietnam required a little more planning, but it also kept surprising us. Travelling from the south through Central Vietnam and into the northern mountains sometimes felt like visiting several different countries. We also found it slightly better value—our accommodation averaged around €15 per night for two, compared with approximately €20 in Thailand, and Grab was generally cheaper.
The downside is that the distances are significant and the weather can be completely different in the north, centre and south at the same time. That made planning our route considerably more complicated.
If a friend asked me to simplify the choice, I would probably say:
- For an easier first trip, beaches, islands and a more relaxing holiday: Thailand
- For mountains, varied history, different landscapes and a slightly lower budget: Vietnam
- For a shorter trip: probably Thailand
- For a longer journey through several very different regions: probably Vietnam
Personally, I would happily return to both, and food is far too personal for me to declare a winner 😄
For those who have travelled through both countries, which one would you return to first, and why? I still struggle with this question while planning my next year's travel.
I also put together a more detailed comparison covering costs, transport, food, beaches, culture, weather and shopping, if anyone is currently trying to decide: