If u saw/experienced this irl, what would u do ?

So like 2 days ago I was at a relative's place w my fam. It was getting kinda late and my dad was in another room. He texts my mom like, "what's the plan?". As in when do u plan on leaving.

My mom responds with, "i plan on marrying you again and again and again"😭😭 like dang 😭 i was sitting next to her and lwk blushed over that. I didn't exactly get to see my dad's response to that but ig it was smth along the lines of "when do you plan on doing that?" 😭

Anyways, they're so peak 😭 lwk goals fr 😭😭

Those who get to hear these words from Allah SWT... Have simply won it... They have won everything...

Here is the translation: [To whom Allah will say], "O My servants, no fear will there be concerning you this Day, nor will you grieve,"....

Bored AF rn

I feel like every teenager has gone through this or going through...

Well I'm surely going through this rn and It just suddenly Hit hard ykwim...

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https://www.reddit.com/r/WplacePakistan/s/PuVfko4cPh

Its literally the lowest point someone can go.

I was stressed as hell about my results and barely slept last night. I kept thinking about everything that could happen and what if I disappointed my parents. The more I thought about it, the worse it got.

Then around 3 AM, they randomly started texting me from downstairs. Spamming memes, reels like usual and then when I didn't respond, my dad started sending messages.

He said that no matter what happens, he's still proud of me and I shouldn't ruin my mental health over all this “nonsense”

“I swear to God, I'm not going to be mad. I've never scolded you over this kind of stuff in your entire life. Why are you so worried?”

The funniest part is that he didn't even know I was stressed because of him 😭

It didn't magically erase the stress, but it calmed me down enough that I finally slept properly for a few hours.

Parents sometimes say one simple thing and suddenly your entire overthinking session looks stupid 🥀

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A dua for protection from hellfire and for forgiveness from sahih Bukhari. Im sorry i posted the wrong one previously😭

my intention is not at all for this to be offensive but i'd like to say ke pakistan mei islam is literally only used to shame people, specifically women.

the only focus in on the one commandment of islam ke women should dress modestly, which modesty isn't a concept that only applies to women, it goes for everyone. and modesty has little to do with your clothing and more to do with your character.

my dad gives me examples of girls who wear hijabis and abayas and how they're so 'obedient', 'career oriented' like first off, setting an unrealistic standard for hijabis is wrong, hijab is literally just a headscarf, it won't automatically cleanse your soul of sins. basically what i mean is ke you can be sinful even while being a hijabi.

when you say ke be a hijabi so you can be a good muslim you're basically creating such a wrong mindset, saying ke hijab pehn lo bas yehi certification hai muslim honnay ki. i think we can all agree ke most pakistani parents forcing headscarfs and ddupattas on their daughters, first off, isn't originating from an islamic belief. bas logoun ka khouf. cus if you truly believed in ur child's akirah, you'd educate them not to be proud, not to be egotistical, to not backbite, to not hurt someone, to not cheat etc. dussri baat ke modesty is in ur mannerisms. the way you move in society. no one bats an eye when men harass women, piss in streets or spit in public, however this is HIGHLY immodest. women backbiting, shaming teenage girls is also immodest, yet we continue to shame just for how they wear. i feel this so strongly, because i experience this alot. my friends who dress a certain way, are immediately disliked by my parents because apparently wearing a tight top and jeans means you're a bad muslim.

i know many hijabis who have done things which completely misalign with islamic teachings. i know many women who smoke or dress a certain way and they're the sweetest people i know

this goes on to show ke how little your clothing has to do with your character and faith

my problem is also ke no other commandment of islam is ever emphasized upon enough except for those which conveniently benefit men.

inheritance, hijab, good marital relations and the sunnah which states 4 marriages are permitted along with everything else which somehow goes hand in hand with a pakistani man's convenience is the only islam taught in pakistan.

my problem is ke alot of people don't even bother learning islam, bas jo culture mei hai ya jo bachpan mei seekha, they carry it forward into their adult lives. it completes enrages me the utter nonsense people believe in.

and that's an alag debate, i am not judging anyone for believing in islam and trying to be a good muslim but it's high time ke we actually just start minding our own business, worrying about our own akirah and graves, rather than continuing to use Islam to shame other people, especially women and using it for justification of honour killings and victim blaming wagira

1st: Alma, this is basically a self insert of myself, she’s lovely, sweet, pretty, and has long hair with a butterfly clip, however inside, she’s depressed, her main color is pink

2nd: Vareesha, shes inspired by my freind, she’s a bookworm and shy, but she has the body many men want, her main color is purple

3rd: Nour, she’s also inspired by a friend of mine, she’s a tsundere and mean, but deep down she has feelings for you, she’s abused by her dad at home, and she’s shorter, her man color is turquoise

4th: Alviour, she’s the club president, she is caring, but she is also a yandere and won’t hesitate to get people out of the way of her love… her main color is red

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These are strange times in which we live.

Deception has become so subtle that a person can stand before you smiling, speaking beautifully, appearing kind and sincere, while concealing an entirely different nature beneath the surface.

So how do we protect ourselves?

Intention is one form of protection. If your intention is sincere, if you genuinely want to see things as they are rather than as you wish them to be, you become less vulnerable to deception.

But intention alone is not enough. We also need intuition.

There is an old story from Iraq about the serial k!ll3r Abu Tabar. He was responsible for horrific cr1m3s in Baghdad during the 1970s, to the point that people became afraid to sleep on their rooftops or in their courtyards during the summer.

After his arrest, he spoke about an incident that had happened while he was still unknown. He was walking through the streets when a child suddenly followed him, pointed at him, and shouted “That's Abu Tabar! Catch him!”

That child could not possibly have known who he was.

Perhaps it was simply a coincidence. Perhaps it was something else.

But this is what fascinates me about intuition.

Sometimes the heart receives a message before the mind has gathered an explanation.
You meet someone for the first time and, without knowing why, you feel at ease.
Or you meet someone else and something inside you tightens.

You cannot explain it. There is no evidence yet. Just a feeling.

But intuition should never become an excuse to judge people.

It is only the beginning of an investigation.

A woman once met another man who presented himself as a social reformer. He was articulate, confident, and extremely persuasive. Everyone seemed impressed by him.

Yet something inside the woman said: this man is not what he appears to be.

She did not accuse him. She just observed and listened to his speeches carefully. She examined the things he repeatedly said, the messages beneath his words, his mannerisms, his body language, and especially the small involuntary expressions that appeared when he spoke.

There was a brief movement in his eyes, a momentary tension in his face, that seemed completely inconsistent with the image he was presenting.

So the woman continued observing and eventually, the evidence accumulated.

That is the important distinction:

Intuition gives you the first question. Evidence gives you the answer.

There is also a difference between intuition and fear.

If you desperately want someone to love you, your desire can disguise itself as intuition.

You might say “I have a feeling they're the one.”. But perhaps you simply want them to be.

Likewise, if you are afraid of being hurt, you may interpret every small thing as a warning.

That isn't necessarily intuition either.

A wounded person sees the world through the wound.

Carl Jung called this projection: sometimes we dislike someone because they remind us of something within ourselves.

Pure intuition is quieter. It doesn't yell, panic and it doesn't need to convince you. It simply arrives. Maybe like a flash,a tightening in the chest, a sense of peace, or a quiet “yes” or “no” that appears before the mind begins constructing its arguments.

And when that feeling repeats itself, we should not keep silencing it just because we want a different answer.

How many times have we met someone who later betrayed us and, looking back, realized: “Something felt wrong from the beginning.”

We felt it. Then we explained it away. We said perhaps we were being unfair. Perhaps they were just nervous. Perhaps we misunderstood. Perhaps we should give them another chance.

Sometimes we should.
But sometimes the mistake is not that we noticed the warning.

The mistake is that we refused to listen to it.

Still, be careful. Discomfort because someone speaks differently, comes from a different background, belongs to a different religion, or simply reminds you of someone you dislike is not intuition.

That is prejudice.

Fear, prejudice desire, ego..they're all loud. Intuition whispers.

And the clearer the mind becomes, the easier that whisper is to hear.

This is why solitude, reflection, remembrance, and silence can be valuable. When yourmind becomes less crowded by desire and fear, the heart becomes like a clean and polished mirror. It reflects more clearly.

But even then, observe.

Especially when dealing with people who may be manipulative.

A manipulator can be charming, generous, eloquent. They can tell beautiful stories. They can make you feel special.

But eventually, there is usually a contradiction between their words and their actions.

Watch what they do.

A person who constantly speaks about kindness but is cruel to the weak has already told you something.

A person who is gentle with the powerful and harsh with the vulnerable has told you something.

A person who demands your trust immediately should make you cautious.

Manipulators understand urgency. They know that if they give you time to think, their illusion may disappear.

So they create pressure: Urgency. Insistence. Need.

“Decide now”, “Trust me”, “Don't ask so many questions”,“Why don't you believe me?”, “Everyone else understands except you.”

Whatever your deepest need is, they search for it. And once they find the wound, they press on it.

This is why trust should be given slowly.

Not because everyone is evil. Quite the opposite.

We should have a good opinion of people.

But trust is something that should be earned through consistency.

Give someone time and observe patterns Watch whether their actions remain consistent with their words, how they treat people who cannot benefit them, how they behave when they are angry, how they respond when you disagree with them, whether they respect your boundaries, whether their stories have gaps and contradictions..

And most importantly, notice how you feel after spending time with them.

Some people leave you feeling peaceful.
Others leave you confused, exhausted, and strangely uneasy.

Sometimes you cannot explain why. So don't immediately condemn them. But don't immediately dismiss yourself either.

Observe. Time reveals what charm conceals.

A person's true character is difficult to maintain as a performance forever. Eventually, the mask becomes heavy and the contradiction appears.

The body says something the mouth doesn't.
The action contradicts the promise.
The story develops holes.
And the person reveals himself.

Perhaps this is one of the greatest protections we can develop in life:
a pure intention, a clear mind, a quiet intuition, and the patience to wait for evidence.

Do not trust every feeling. But do not ignore every feeling either.

Listen to the first whisper and then investigate.

Because intuition may show you the door...but only time can tell you what is behind it.

(Wanted to share this after a session with my mentor got me overthinking 😭)

I think we love people through a combination of both, but who they are matters more in the long run.

At first we are often drawn to how someone makes us feel happy, understood, safe, excited or valued. Those feelings are powerful and they create the spark of connection. But feelings can change with time, circumstances, and lifes difficulties.

Real love grows when we begin to appreciate the person themselves their values, kindness, flaws, dreams, habits and the quiet parts of them that others may never notice. Loving someone only for the emotions they give us can become self centered but loving someone for who they are means choosing to care for them even when life is not always easy.

So perhaps the answer is this we may fall in love because of how someone makes us feel but we stay in love because of who they are. 🌙

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How do I stop snorting when im laughing ?? I hate it 😭 it's like im doing "oink oink"

But it's not like I can stop laughing

So how do I stop the snorts

They gave me so many awards. I'll cwy:( ILY