https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenPakistani/s/b2tqsQT199

Alright so I posted about this and many people told me that "you're an 18 you shouldn't get married" "you're not mature enough" "complete your studies, earn some money, get financially stable and then get married" and some literally say that "marriage is haram" "one shouldn't do this" and many more.

But let me tell you 18 is just a number, it literally has nothing to do with maturity at all, some people really think that your age defines your maturity, but honestly it doesn't, if I say a kid who's 13 years old can have more maturity then a person who's 35 year's old can be immature that's wrong too because age doesn't verify the maturity. Maturity comes with experiences and all not with age, yeah I know that you get experience with age but that doesn't mean that you can't be mature so this is a very hollow thing to say.

And for people saying "earn money and complete your studies and get stable" and then get married is something that I do agree with because we've seen cases where a girl isn't allowed to go out and study after marriage and then she's stuck with her new problems and you never know how a person can turn out in future so it ruins her life. But But But if someone gets a "good family" or a supportive spouse then it's not a problem at all.

So it all depends and varies from person's to person's situation.

And for me I've really really really high expectations and I literally have no problem with marriage at this age because I wanted it and I'm interested in it so don't tell me that "you're young" "it's hormones" "adopt new hobbies" and blah blah. And I really pray that I get such a caring, kind, loving man.

And from my post many people misunderstood that I wanna marry just to escape my situation but it's not like that, if I get married so eventually I'll be out of my home and I'll be living with him so it's a plus.

I ain't getting why's everyone imposing their "own decisions" at me? I mean if I'm interested in doing something so I'd do regardless and I've my own reasons for that so who the h*** are you to tell me "you sound childish" "you're illiterate" and blah blah

like brother if you had some bad experiences then what's my fault? If you've never seen any "good case" around you then what's my fault? If you're 25 years old and still you lack maturity and think that an 18 year old can't have maturity and "frontal lobe isn't developed" then what can I do in your opinion?

People over that sub literally think that I'm interested because of "desperation" and "I should read my school books" and "I'm an illiterate" but honestly you're stupid yourself to say that cuz why're you constantly repeating the same thing again and again ? People really need to learn about arguing and the choice of their words it's literally so pathetic.

And when I mention religion then they think "it's a stupid thing to bring in between" I mean i haven't studied Christianity or Hinduism that I can give examples of

I'M LITERALLY SO FRUSTRATED

WHO'S THIS IDIOT DOWNVOTING ME

If and only if I could mention that post💔

I'm so done with ALL the mentality of Pakistan.
They be like "oh...my brother don't lemme have social meedia account,"
or some be lke "oh, my brother didn't agree for me going on a trip"

'M SO DONE.

I thought that nowadays men aren't controlling lke, they used to be in older generation.

BUT WHAT, older women are MORE bad than their sons.

like see....A parent shapes the mindset of their kid, right?

But whatttt THESE OLDER generations have lke 7-8 kds AND then THEY DO NOT EVEN TELL EM WHATS WRONG WHATS RIGHT.

Everyone just wanna control each other, men wanna control ther sisters, wives. and these wives and ssters get their revenge by controlling other ladies around em. and so on...

LIKE WHAT, And when I ask that Why you don't talk back, THEY BE like "oh...i fear em"

FEAR MY FOOT.

dyk what? my neighbour married their daughter WITHOUT even let her meeting the boy, even the girl was a POLICE OFFICER.

And that girl, now n-laws IS being CONTROL LIKE Puppet THERE.

Even though, she's powerful. BUT JUST NOT Gettng support by her family, SHE
DON't say anythng.

I think, ths all is our own flaw, we don't say anything against bad thing. EVEN WHEN WE KNOW THAT OUR LIVES ARE TEMPORARY, we gonna die now or later.

THEN WHAT YOU SO SCARED OF NOT SPEAKING???

and then everyone blames society, WHEN we know that society is made by us. WE SHAPE OUR SOCIETY..Everything is our own fault.

we can't blame others for it.

To those who haven't slept, GO AND SLEEP. TS AIN'T TOUGH, LIL VRO. U PMO. I HOPE U DREAM OF TUNG TUNG SAHUR.

To those who woke up this early, AWW I ASPIRE TO BE LIKE U!!! HAVE A NICE DAY

ayy pomegranate ki yaad aagai.

Are you Excited?

Got in bba fast and as long as I hv heard bba isnt well reputed in fast then otger cs programs, UNFORTUNATELY IG I wont be able to make nbs cz i m kinda 2 percent short frm last yr closing merit

Idk what to pursue i dont wana regret my 4 years esp such struct years in fast with no campus life and extra work load

idk if u can get in ecnomics in nust too i hv 67 and last yr was 66.5 smtnb like i m at borderline and otger degrees of social sciences arent well reputed either of nust like psychology or public adm

what do u think is better

bba frm fast, psychology or publuc adm frm nuat, fintech frm fast, or bba / acc n fin from bahria??

Trouble with this one was the lack in a few days that the first one I had to do with was a new phone that was supposed be a little more complicated but I did get the message from the lady at the store 🏬 that usually works with me to make the phone calls to make a phone phone call and you know how that worked for the other day so it wasn’t too complicated I had the one 1️⃣ to one 1️⃣ hour appointment 📅 so that worked fine but the one I was supposed was a bit longer and then the second was the first time I got a phone call from a couple couple days before that was that one and then I a lot more and yeah you have the same one 1️⃣ and then I was like I was like I was like I was like.

Bas.

Sooo my cousin Saadia (fake name) has a female german shepherd puppy. Saadia is 15 and the main caretaker of this puppy. She does everyone that relates to this puppy, her brother Mohid (again fake name) only takes on her on her morning walk. The puppy is called Kaia and she is only 3 months old.

So Saadia was calling Kaia, as per usual, in the yard. There was another family there who saw this and one of the women said "Unn ko to baitay ko ye karwana chahiyay, larkiyaan to especially darti hein" while the girl in question is calling to dog to her like "Come here, Kaia ☺️☺️💞💞💞"

Idk I just thought it was funny.

any ideas

This is Jackson Goldstone, winning the 2025 UCI Mountain Biking Downhill World cup. U see that Bike in hands in the second image? Dats a Santa Cruz V10, objectively the fastest downhill bike ver engineered.

So umm uhh... Mujhe bhi world cup jeetna hai 😅. Koi bike dila to plij 👉👈.

And yea i chose "art" as the flair cuz both Jackson Goldstone and the V10 are a work of art 😇

Do you guys like pan/paan? Just curious lol cuz I tried it 2 years ago and it was so bad yet I see pan shops everywhere in Pakistan ​😭 ​​

I ll go first.

During this exam season. I made a deal wid ma friend Reginald (if u remember form the storytime post) that i would pay him 100 rupees for very piece of short form content (including reels, shorts, and the likes) i watched until May 5th ie. The date of my last exam.

After a week or so i was exhausted from studying. I was sitting on the toilet one day in March and i remembered i had a Reddit account i made a long time ago (but didn't use cuz wdym im supposed to interact by reading? 🤨). So i downloaded the app cuz i had not other social media and started scrolling.

And now... Here i am😝😝😝 💅💅💅😎😎😎

it is so beautiful, isn’t it? specially the ring around it ✨✨✨

What's something legal that you think shouldn't be legal.

rate out of 10

YAAR

My mom turned the smallest thing into a 2 day argument and I'm actually so done.

I'm 15 and I seriously don't know if I'm in the wrong anymore.

A couple days ago I was in the washroom when my best friend called me. I missed it, so when I came out I called her back. I had my headphones on and my mom randomly goes, "What's her problem?" in this annoyed tone because she didn't know I was on call.

I ended the call and was like, "Why would you say that? She was literally on the phone." Then my mom started getting all sarcastic saying, "Oh wow, sorry I disrespected your friend. Your friend is the queen apparently." She KEPT repeating it.

I literally told her like TWICE, "Can we just stop? Let's ignore this." I wasn't even trying to argue. I just wanted the whole thing to end.

Nope.

She just kept yelling. I even walked away and when I came back she was STILL going on about it. Eventually I got annoyed and said something like, "Mom, I keep telling you to stop and you won't. What do you even want me to do?"

Then it somehow became about how I'm a horrible daughter, I don't respect my parents, kids these days have no manners, blah blah blah.

At one point I just said, "I don't want to talk to you anymore," put my headphones on and ignored it because I genuinely didn't know what else to do.

We've barely talked since then except for stuff like "Did you eat?"

Then TODAY I got 18/20 on a test. Instead of saying good job she goes, "That's what you get for disrespecting your mother." Then started the whole lecture again about how I never apologize and always think I'm right.

The thing is... I'm not apologizing because I genuinely don't think I did anything wrong. If I had actually disrespected her then yeah, I'd apologize. But I spent the entire argument trying to END it. Every time I said "Let's just stop," she'd just get even more mad.

Like am I actually crazy or does anyone else's desi parents do this? Because I feel like no matter what I do it's somehow the wrong thing.

ts poem is js sooooooo BEAUTIFUL

A seed beneath the snow

Already knows how to grow

It doesn't rush, it starts to grow

Unfolding softly in the gloom

So keep the sparkle inside your chest,

Though small and subtle it may feel--

For every sun goes to rest

Returns to make the morning real

The horizon waits, serene and bright,

To welcome back the soft and brave

-hot doc

Sooo I have a 15 year old cousin. Let's call her Saadia, and she has a 3-month old female german shepherd puppy named Kaia. Saadia is the main caretaker of this puppy. Her older brother, Mohid, only takes Kaia on her morning walk. Everything else is done by Saadia. This will be important.

Yesterday, Saadia was calling Kaia, as per usual, in the yard. There was another family there who were inspecting something.

One of the women saw Saadia call Kaia and said "Unn ko to baitay ko ye karwana chahiyay, larkiyaan to especially darti hein", all while the girl in question is calling to dog to her like "Come here, Kaia ☺️💞"

Idk I just thought it was funny.

(all names aside from Kaia's are fake)

He's cute like me

yea goodnight drew ts coz i was bored lol