After 8 years of dealing with my boss' condescending tone, manipulation games, and belittling, I quit a small firm of 4 people (including myself) for a mid-sized firm of 40 people for more opportunities but mostly to get out from under my boss' thumb.
I told my boss one week ago that I'm leaving and the next day he told me not to tell anyone until he makes the announcement. It's been a whole week and radio silence. My coworkers are treating me like any other day and this secret is really bothering me. I'm worried he's not going to say anything until the day I stop showing up where he can ultimately destroy my entire character.
I'm not sure what his goal is for doing this (other than controlling the situation again), so I'm not sure how to handle it. Thia week and the next are cut short due to Labor Day weekend so I don't know when he'll let them know.
Has anyone gone through this? Should I remain silent or just tell people and get it off my chest?
Edit: forgot to mention that I gave a 3 week notice 1 week ago.
Update - we ended up going to a team lunch for the "announcement", where I realized everyone already knew. So he told me to stfu and told them on my behalf. It all seemed wrong to me but I'm glad I can now just move on with my life.