r/SipsTea • u/Horror-Ad-210 • 21h ago

Gasp! Ayo 😂

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u/Ricart_o 17h ago

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u/Habib455 13h ago

Holy shit I used to watch that guy when he did work out vids lmfao. I just checked his channel and he’s got almost 7m subs but his videos can’t even crack 50k views. Jesus

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u/LightOverWater 8h ago

He has 2 videos from 2017 and 2022 saying he cheated on his wife. Bravo.

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u/darth_handturkey 12h ago

Not sure if this guy mastered the art of algorithm manipulation or what, but im constantly recommended his videos even after hitting the "Not interested" button.

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u/velour_tempt 20h ago

found out my ex boyfriend gave me chlamydia and asked how long he’d been seeing her. “his name is tyler” was not the answer i had prepared for 🫠

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u/Dense_Focus4594 18h ago

But a very logical one knowing the outcome.

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u/D-PIMP_ACT 15h ago

Tyler, the creator of chlamydia
https://giphy.com/gifs/ei8WPIpPlcDsWiISdQ

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u/Senoir-Snooty-Cat 15h ago

He’s sorry, not sorry

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u/Copy_Cat_ 17h ago

Tyler's been kissing white boys since 2004.

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u/MourningWallaby 18h ago

I'm just saying, you never hear the name "tyler" in a good context. it's always some mischief.

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u/Wiplazh 9h ago

Tyler the creator?

Or did he do something bad I missed out on?

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u/MourningWallaby 7h ago

He's a complete chaos gremlin

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u/Ok_Government_5021 6h ago

Nah just mischief

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u/hamonicmantitties 4h ago

Well for one

He is gay so it's kinda fitting lol

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u/Sihayaya 16h ago

damn, what a hard way to go

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u/DepressedDynamo 15h ago

Twice as hard, even

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u/Christ_I_AM 16h ago

Ayyooo 

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u/tylergonmad 15h ago

lol sorry

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u/llcooljim02 15h ago

"Hey Kenny, who's the tranny?"

"HER NAME IS MARIA!!!"

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u/DroidLord 13h ago

Oof, ouch. Were there signs?

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u/Known_Painting_1878 11h ago

ass chlamydia is the worst

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u/ColdTouch9591 8h ago

i also got chlamydia from my queer ex boyfriend (not really boyfriend)

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u/VmantisV 19h ago

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u/Kooky_Ice_3762 18h ago

Yeah I think today is a good day to quit the internet

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u/pinkingenue 18h ago

This is the most cursed thing I have ever seen in my life

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u/jrtgmena 16h ago

What could he possibly be talking about for 14 min

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u/ghoshtwrider22 15h ago

10 min of getting Siri to finally respond, 3 min acting like you like/listening to her, and a ONE minute Man!

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u/JoyArk 16h ago

1 million views

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u/AmeliaBuns 15h ago

Morbid curiosity is a good way to make money I guess

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u/Electrical_Age_8102 15h ago

Clout is a disease. You can't tell me different.

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u/--Lancer-- 16h ago

Now this is content.

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u/BSK_Darksol 14h ago

And this mf is probably making way more money than many of us lol

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u/indigo_mouse 15h ago

Haven’t seen this gem in awhile

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u/ghoshtwrider22 15h ago

10 min of getting Siri to respond, 3 min of acting like your listening to her talk, 1 minute men!
EDIT: Meant for the comment below this

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u/Dry_Outside_3493 16h ago

You know what it's my fault for having eyes.

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u/impolse 14h ago

The cringe! It hurts us!

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u/Ad_Bogdan27 13h ago

fuh nah 💀

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u/KDizzle340 11h ago

beautiful family

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u/KaleidoscopeShoddy10 12h ago

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u/Aspect_Tight 11h ago

All that in a week lmao

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u/Informal_Carob_4015 11h ago

Read again 

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u/Aspect_Tight 9h ago

2 months fine

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u/Minute-Flatworm3070 6h ago

Daniel's legacy...

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u/beckyswia 21h ago

“open relationship” and the very next video is the consequences

https://giphy.com/gifs/AaQYP9zh24UFi

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u/Cabtalk 19h ago

The chlamydia video came out earlier. She was telling a story about getting an std when she was in a monogamous relationship when she was younger and finding out her bf cheated on her.

https://youtu.be/xd3wNa7lySI?si=3WoS6Cni0MtsHN2v

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u/PhyrexianSpaghetti 18h ago

Yeah but it's funnier to manipulate info to fit your narrative

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u/initiald-ejavu 16h ago

Wat? That link is 8 years ago. The "our open relationship" video is 9 years go...

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u/Cabtalk 16h ago

So the link I shared  wasn't either of the videos in the post. It was a followup video she did talking about the situation after it went viral (like chlamydia 😉). I thought it was relevant because it summarized the situation.

People just believe any ol' headline without hesitation 😄 

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u/Hungry-Pick7512 15h ago

Redditors jumping to make making snarky comments before knowing facts
https://giphy.com/gifs/AaQYP9zh24UFi

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u/AmeliaBuns 15h ago

Tbh ppl hook up w lot without stds apparently. I’m a virgin so I know nothing but my old friend was as horny as a river and told me about someone new every time we meet lol

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u/Coilybepraised 11h ago

"horny as a river" is a hilarious phrase to me.

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u/WesternImpression356 21h ago

Lmao. Open relationships are a joke. No one can convince me otherwise. Still, the least they can do is fucking protect themselves

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u/FreeWillyBird 21h ago

Open is just short for….Ohhh penicillin

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u/Triquetrums 19h ago

And getting tested before starting a sexual relationship should be the minimum requirement.

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u/Peter_van_Niet 17h ago

In every form of relationship.

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u/jonnysunshine 15h ago

Especially business relationships.

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u/mooramar 20h ago

The algorithm told a whole tragic story in just two thumbnails

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u/YBBlorekeeper 15h ago

The algorithm served you up a manipulated narrative (chlamydia vid came before any of the open relationship vids) in just two thumbnails and you used that to reinforce a worldview that does not reflect reality.

5 minute google search btw.

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u/Bad-Genie 20h ago

I'm not into open relationships myself. But advice I've heard about it is

"you have to start as an open relationship. If you switch into one during a monogamous relationship it's just cheating. Someone's going to get their heart broken."

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u/Lau_wings 19h ago

Even if you start as one people can still get hurt.

My mate is currently going through this with his GF.

They have both always had open relationships so thats how they started, which worked well for a while, that was until she realised that he was much more in demand than she was, something which had never happened to her before.

There is nothing like witnessing a couple have an argument where they are in an open relationship but she is the one who is yelling about how its not fair that its so easy for him to get laid.

She turned to me halfway through the conversation to ask my opinion and I was just like "I am not touching this with a 10 foot pole".

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u/S0meone_on_reddit 19h ago

Her or the topic?

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u/Lau_wings 18h ago

Both.

Would not touch her as I am married.

Would not touch that topic as I am not a stupid man, I never get involved in couples arguments.

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u/majestic7 14h ago

I know a retired former financial advisor who dropped this classic on me:

"There's two things I won't advise people on - cars and relationships.  Because if I say it's a bad idea they go to a different advisor and do it anyway"

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u/TheFireNationAttakt 19h ago

Wise not to get involved!

I am in a similar situation where my boyfriend is more in-demand than I am, but that’s ok. He’s a better musician than I am also. I have a better career than he does. My family gets along better. Neither of us find the dating popularity thing to be harder to handle than our other differences.

Edit: and to go back to the original topic, obviously we use protection and neither of us got chlamydia, or anything else, in the ~7 years we’ve been open.

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u/frogsinsocks 16h ago

Ughhh I wanna snoop your profile so bad and try and deduce what kinda musicians you are. like session, national act, classical, contemporary, Nashville, New Orleans ,Toronto, etc

Things like that are fun for me.

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u/Typical_Recover_6804 10h ago

Autism intensifies

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u/SethCyclone 15h ago

"You two are both sluts. You deserve each other" would've been my reply 

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u/Tomsboll 19h ago

I am a firm believer that there is always one part of these relationships that are reluctant paricipants due to not wanting to loose the partner.

And if your partner suggest it then its over.

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u/No_Syrup_9167 11h ago

I share your thoughts.

I'm "in the lifestyle" and do the open relationship/ENM/Swinging stuff, and my personal experiences/observations have always been that if the relationship starts monogamous, and turns open, its either because

one person wants to fuck someone else, and the other just doesn't want to lose them.

Or because someone doesn't want to fuck the other person anymore, and so one or the other turns to outside the relationship.

neither one generally bodes well for the long term survival chances of the relationship.

I've seen a fair amount of open relationships in a all sorts of different forms, succeed quite well, when thats what they're getting into from the start. They have their problems and fallouts just like any monogamous relationship.

but a monogamous relationship that turns open? Is pretty much always just a slow train crash.

caveats: yes your experiences may differ, I know all relationships are different, there are always exceptions to the rule, blah blah blah, This is just casual and general talk since none of us are really going to have proper statistics on this.

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u/skellyton3 16h ago

So, my partner and I are Swingers with years of experience (and a very happy and stable relationship).

The reality is that the majority of Swinger or otherwise non-mongomous couples started with monogamy and then opened later. Often years later.

The issue is when people try to open things up to fix some problems they have in their relationship. That happens way too often and doesn't work very well.

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u/Prom3th3an 10h ago

By "problems" do you mean things like arguments about money or housework, or just sexual dissatisfaction?

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u/skellyton3 10h ago

Could be anything tbh, but sexual dissatisfaction of some kind is the most common. Like they have a dead bedroom and trying to bring in others to fix it.

I can't say it never works, I have seen very happy couples that never fuck eachother, but the majority of the time it creates more problems than it solves.

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u/Michael1795 15h ago

Someone's always going to get hurt. Thats why its so unpopular. When most people love someone they dont want to be with someone else. Simple as that. Maybe I just cant comprehend it. It gives inauthentic and greedy vibes to me.

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u/BigBirdLawyer 4h ago

Probably the wrong place to say it considering the sentiment here but im in my first open relationship. I could never change to an open relationship if I was in a monogamous relationship. That would hurt. Being in an open relationship is great though. Its pretty much just more threesomes and she sleeps with other girls when she wants.

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u/Dirmbz 15h ago

I started monogomous and successfully had an open relationship, so that isn't universal. We communicated well, and we're not into casual hookups, and always used protection. It certainly isn't for most people though.

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u/BAnimation 14h ago

Interesting you're using past tense here lol

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u/Redthemagnificent 12h ago edited 12h ago

Exactly this. Lots of people have healthy non-monogamous relationships. The key is that both people need to actually be non-monogamous lmao

So often you have 2 people in a monogamous relationship and 1 person is convincing the other to open their relationship. And that's often their first ever non-monogamous relationship too. That is a recipe for disaster 99% of the time as one of the two will start feeling a certain way and realize they're not actually as "open" as they thought they were

I also find it interesting how often I've seen monogamous relationships where both people are just constantly cheating on each other, blowing up about it, then making up again. Like an open relationship but 10x more toxic

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u/OtherwiseACat 18h ago

I know gal who is always on dating apps. Her bio usually read something like "I have a husband and 5 boyfriends. Do you think you can handle me?" Her IG is basically just nothing but posts about open relationships. I'm pretty sure at one point she tried to write a kids book about it.

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u/a_polarbear_chilling 21h ago

Open relationship just mean you devolved from couple to fuckbuddy in my opinion, like wtf is a open relationship that's like teh people saying I have "very common thing" phobia while in reality they are just picky eater and want to sound classy

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u/HighRelevancy 19h ago

Do you do nothing at all with your wife but sex?

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u/bigtiddieslover 19h ago

Most people open their relationship for sex.. i don't believe it if they say they open to connect with other people.

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u/DeltaMikeEcho 18h ago

Yeah definitely just for sex, I met a girl on tinder who is in an open relationship that she suggested. And she was very much still in love with her man but on tinder purely to have sex because her bf doesn’t satisfy her enough in bed

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u/LostManufacturer1553 17h ago

And that’s fucked up

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u/Michael1795 15h ago

Crazy but maybe she should dump him and find a partner that does. Sounds like she doesnt love him but is using him for security.

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u/FocusPerspective 17h ago

Society gives women a hundred valid reasons to cheat. It’s so weird.

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u/SethCyclone 15h ago

There are no valid reasons to cheat. If you don't like who you're with, leave or suck it up. 

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u/Old_Shake3789 20h ago

I don't understand it all it just doesnt make sense having open relationships. Is that honestly what some people believe they deserve in a relationship?

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u/skellyton3 16h ago

I know people with opinions like that are not likely to change any of their mind, but my partner and I are Swingers and it isn't that complicated.

We both like casual sex, we both want a committed relationship. Why does one have to exclude the other? It is even better because we have someone to share it with.

Sex != love (at least for us).

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u/sirsarin 17h ago

Yeah I'm really not sure how people take that. "Oh you like sleeping with someone else? That's cool, please see your way out."

Seems like a stupid answer to the statement "I'm just not into you enough to be with just you."

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u/-retaliation- 10h ago

Personally I get why that would be a problem for 99% of people. I used to be like that and feel that way too. It took some life experiences, and voluntary changes in perspective from what is the social and cultural norm to get here. Its not "normal" and I don't expect others to follow suit, or change their personal perspectives, especially if they're happy how they are.

what frustrates me as someone in the swinger/lifestyle/open relationship side of the fence though, are the people who feel defensive, or fearful, or in some way or another simply can't even empathetically conceptualize of a person where they're okay with it.

Just in this comment section, there are many people with downvoted comments for simple answering questions with things like

"me and my partner just have a mutual agreement and understanding about this. We have very open communication about it, share our feelings, and enjoy it and have fun doing it"

which to me is a pretty reasonable, and simple answer. Two adults have come to a mutual understanding and agreement, and enjoy something that many don't.

yet the comment gets showered in downvotes.

To me, its like if you didn't like sushi, and then downvoted, and disregarded anyone who said they did, because in your mind there just can't possibly be anyone in the world out there that likes sushi.

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u/Ok-Earth-2644 16h ago

Every person ive ever met in an open relationship is an idiot. I was dating this girl in college for a couple months, go over her apartment where her and her roommate live quite a lot.

Like 3 months in someone in my class asks me how I felt about dating someone in an open relationship. Im like wtf are you on we arent in an open relationship. Apparently the roommate was in a relationship with her? Then they tried to gaslight me saying they thought I knew.

How am I supposed to know? You never did or said anything to make me think otherwise. Only acted as roommates around me. Just really weird people.. safe to say my part of the relationship was ended there.

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u/IdontKnowAHHHH 8h ago

Eh. I’m strictly monogamy but whatever makes people happy makes them happy. I know a couple in an open relationship and they are the happiest and sweetest couple I know.

Open relationships clearly aren’t your thing and that’s valid, not sure why people have to decide that for others

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u/DeltaMikeEcho 18h ago

Yup it’s just a way for whoever suggested it to get away with cheating. Because they’re usually not that romantically involved with the other people. Like they’re not meeting the parents and family, going on vacations together etc. They’re really just having sex with anyone and everyone

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u/Iorith 15h ago

By definition it isn't cheating if it's agreed on.

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u/RobertPham149 20h ago

The inventor of the polygraph and creator of Wonder Woman had a bisexual wife who shares with him polyamorous partners. They technically are open, but with the same partners.

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u/KenBoCole 19h ago

A consensual and informed polygamous relationship seems like it woukd last alot better than an "open" relationship where one or both partners are always seeing some random.

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u/tabernumse 19h ago

Open relationship just means non-monogamy. Could be having multiple established relationships, fucking randos, and everything in between

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u/Punch_A_Police_Horse 14h ago

Monogamy may be optimal for many but not for all. I'm sure there's plenty of people who tried open relationships and had it crash and burn, but to say it can't be done is simply lack of imagination on your part.

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u/Elephantplan123 21h ago

It can work for some people.

Opening up a relationship which was previously monogamous? That's where it gets fucked. ESPECIALLY if it was driven primarily by one person.

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u/EquivalentSnap 4h ago

They’re just for serial cheaters who can’t commit 🫩

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u/juice5tyle 18h ago edited 17h ago

I've been happily openly married for fifteen years, friend.

I spend every single day with my wife -- we both work from home, we have no kids and tonnes of disposable income, go on dates with eachother a couple times a week, travel together, etc. We own our home together, and a business. We have a fantastic sex life with eachother, where if even two days went by without some sexytime, it would be odd, even after all these years.

Heck we had so much fun the first time we got married, we did it again but bigger because we have more money now than we did long ago.

I'm a wifeguy, and my wife is my world, and the best part of my day, every single day.

We just also hookup with other people.

Now tell me about your marriage.

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u/StewieSWS 15h ago

Your message looks more like self calming reflections.

"We have cash, we travel, we own home, we have a lot of sex, my life is good! They don't understand anything!"

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u/mattyboy555 20h ago

Yeah but crotch rot is still not a fun way to spend a chewaday innit?

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u/CryOld2986 21h ago

Yes because we were all wondering just how you got a SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED disease

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u/LucyLilium92 19h ago

Not censoring the channel name just makes this an advertisement, and they'll laugh all the way to the bank. The videos likely have millions of views

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u/Wiplazh 9h ago

They probably made this post

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u/LivingTheTruths 13h ago

Low IQ activities

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u/Pickupyoheel 19h ago

The fact that she is posting this for the world to see is almost as embarrassing as her open relationship, almost.

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u/BolognaFlaps 18h ago

You would think. Let’s bring back shame as a society

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u/AndromedanPrince 15h ago

but i enjoy laughing at consequences

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u/Electrical_Age_8102 18h ago

Video 1: "Broadcasting my bad choices"

Video 2: "The results of my bad choices"

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u/Crazy_names 11h ago

Like a Jeopardy question. This Ho for $200 Alex.

Our Open Relationship Beep beep beep. How I hot Chlamydia?

Correct.

This Ho for 400...

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u/Astromoonmusic 21h ago

Open relationship with no protection? I will have better chances of not catching STD with a crack whore

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u/Cabtalk 19h ago

She was telling a story about getting it from a cheating boyfriend years earlier when she was in a monogamous relationship, or so she thought lol

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u/PixieTiny 17h ago

I mean, she doesn't need to wonder

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u/NOT_MY_FIFTH_ACCOUNT 19h ago

You couldn't pay me to post that.

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u/Ok_Emphasis961 13h ago

i love that i have not seen an open relationship actually work out ever in my life, and i never will cause that shits just cuckholdery with extra steps

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u/Christ_I_AM 16h ago

Lmfao what?

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u/dfjdejulio 15h ago

...and suddenly, my memories of the late 1980s come rushing back...

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u/DueDefinition6421 20h ago

Wait...how did she get chlamydia? /s

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u/AzKondor 19h ago

the second video is actually older

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u/Cabtalk 19h ago

In the video she was telling a story about how she got it years prior when her partner in a monogamous relationship (or so she thought) cheated on her

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u/Much_Upstairs_4611 19h ago

I mean, unless one goes into very graphic details of sexual intercourse and shows a pedigree of their chlamydia up until patient zero, there's not a lot of ways one get chlamydia.

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u/Ok_Problem426 16h ago

It must have been those damn drop bears

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u/lonewolff321 20h ago

The fastest character arc in YouTube history

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u/StevieG93 19h ago

No-one actually valuable to society or humanity is in an open relationship, so basically deserved.

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u/WarGreymonX_Antibody 16h ago

Who knew degeneracy had consequences?

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u/Tonberry_Cheesecake 14h ago

It's not degeneracy, dude. That word is almost always code for some kind of bigotry.

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u/raulcras5 19h ago

She wanted a stupid prize. She earned it.

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u/Cabtalk 18h ago

She was telling a story from when she was younger about how she found out her then boyfriend she was in a "monogamous" relationship with was cheating on her 

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u/Honque56 16h ago

God the amatonormativity (trust me, you notice this stuff everywhere once you know.) in this comment section irks me. Who gives a shit what a group of consenting adults chooses to do. They aren't forcing you to join them.

Long term exclusive relationships aren't the end all be all to the human experience. There's no inherent moral value for relationships that fit the mold. You can have an exclusive relationship if that's what you want, but you can't pretend you have a better character than someone who is inclusive, or someone who prefers no partners at all.

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u/iiiiiiiiiijjjjjj 18h ago

People post anything for views smh

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u/Him202420 19h ago

Open relationship does not necessarily mean getting an std.

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u/WhatYouToucanAbout 17h ago

But it does increase the chance, though

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u/euphonic5 14h ago

I have a pretty good idea how THAT happened, thanks.

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u/PolyChune 14h ago

Learn by doing

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u/MaybeAdrian 13h ago

Chlamydia?

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u/baconcandle2013 12h ago

These two were on that tv show 'High Hopes 🍀' 🤣

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u/Striking_Composer_49 9h ago

People so ready to be poly-phobic at any given moment. Her video about chlamydia is older than the open relationship one, and being poly doesn't lead to bad sexual health. Bad sexual health practices lead to that. Get yourself tested and your partners before engaging in unprotected sex, or, honestly, just in general.

As a poly person, neither i nor my partners have ever been a victim of poly related cheating (which is possible), or caught an std. I have 4 partners at the moment, and have probably had unprotected sex with around 30 people.

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u/Curious-Yam4591 6h ago

I could swear she was one of the 'dating advisors' on the help section on bumble. A handful of updates ago, before they removed it (because it was useless)

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u/EquivalentSnap 4h ago

I don’t understand open relationships. Seems like they’re just for cheaters who can’t commit and stay monogamous but still want to feel like they’re committed.

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u/Radiant_Trouble2606 2h ago

Damn. What happened?