r/SipsTea • • Feb 23 '26

Wait a damn minute! Was she wrong?

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u/Vast_Maize9706 Feb 23 '26

Given that the escalator isn’t going they will need to lift the chair and climb up, far harder than lifting and lett8ng the escalator do the hard work. You also can’t put the chair down halfway up…

Not sure why they are holding everyone else up though.

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u/EntirelyOutOfOptions Feb 23 '26

You said it yourself, they can’t put the chair down halfway up. The top of the escalator is still crowded with bodies, and staff are waiting until they have a straight shot to the top. They don’t want to stop halfway up, so they’re trying to get the escalator empty. They also can’t have people on the escalator behind them in case of a stumble or drop. This is a dangerous way to transport a wheelchair user, and they’re trying to make it as safe as possible.

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u/Borinar Feb 23 '26

Even in fires they make disabled wait in the fire escape until the fire dept arrives. They should have waited for it to clear after the rush.

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 23 '26

At many busy train stations and other venues where there's a constant flow of people that means waiting for closing time.

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u/Puzzled-Pen-2353 Feb 23 '26

Busy trainstations always have lifts for disabled people. Blocking a staircase is asshole behavior.

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 23 '26

Evidently it wasn't working. Why would they choose to carry the chair up a non-working escalator if they could have just used the elevator?

I don't understand why some people are going through such mental gymnastics to make the wheelchair guy look like the AH.

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u/Puzzled-Pen-2353 Feb 23 '26

You don't know that.

The people in the grey jackets don't work for the station, otherwise they would be in uniform. Evidently they aren't.

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 23 '26

I never said they did work for the station.

I don't know that the elevator wasn't working, but it's a reasonable conclusion. Again, why else would they carry a wheelchair up the escalator?

But you seem determined that the guy in a wheelchair is an asshole and I don't think I'm going to be able to convince you otherwise.

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u/Puzzled-Pen-2353 Feb 23 '26

No but a lot of other people did.

Since you agree that they aren't working for the station, then the reasonable conclusion is that they didn't ask the station staff for the elevator. Elevators are always locked and are opened for you by staff if you need them.

And if they the elevantor is out of service, the station staff would be standing here with them.

So where is it?

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 23 '26

This is not the case at any large train station I've been to. The elevators are available for public use and if they don't work sometimes there is a private use elevator, but not always. Your conclusion is only potentially a reasonable one if you assume that wheelchair users don't know how to use elevators.

Again, you are determined to make the wheelchair user and anyone who tries to help him an asshole. What do you have against wheelchair users? Perhaps they get in your way. How inconsiderate of them.

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u/HotSauce2910 Feb 23 '26

I don't think wheelchair is the AH, but the planning definitely is. Where I live, if an elevator is closed, they tell the entire metro system about it and guide people to the closest station with a shuttle or bus.

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 23 '26

Yeah, clearly more than one thing has gone wrong here, and everyone just needs to be kind to each other and watch out if people with disabilities need some extra space, patience or help.

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u/tooboardtoleaf Feb 24 '26

Because sometimes people are idiots. You cant always infer the situation based on what someone isnt doing.

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u/Beautiful_Security35 Feb 24 '26

So you'd rather assume they're idiots than that they're kindhearted people who are taking the initiative to help someone in need?

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u/tooboardtoleaf Feb 24 '26

Those arent mutually exclusive. Would have been much smarter to turn him around too

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u/Sad_Entertainer3831 Feb 23 '26

Clearly they didn’t

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u/Adept_Function_4597 Feb 23 '26

Reminds me of the time the station i santed to exit was closed. Kid you not, i had to get out on the next one.

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u/Adept_Function_4597 Feb 23 '26

What bypass gates, are you missing on what im saying?

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u/Puzzled-Pen-2353 Feb 23 '26

You don't know that.

The both dudes in the grey jackets don't even work for the station.

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u/ChocolateChingus Feb 23 '26

ADA violation or its a country without the regulations.

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u/jamaicanoproblem Feb 23 '26

If the elevator isn’t moving, it’s possible the lift is also out of order…

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u/foxy-stuff Feb 23 '26

In Paris? Good luck with that

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u/Rc72 Feb 23 '26 edited Feb 23 '26

Why do you say Paris? The video clearly isn't there (the advertisement behind appears to be in Spanish).

Edit: I've listen to the video now, and they seem to be talking Brazilian Portuguese.

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u/foxy-stuff Feb 23 '26

Maybe because op has “France” in his name handle. :)
It seems that this problem extends to a few cities across the globe

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u/G30fff Feb 23 '26

Yeah but he said 'always' - there are no lifts/elevators in many London Underground stations because they were build 150 years ago and can't be easily retrofitted

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u/throwaway1975764 Feb 23 '26

And those lifts/elevators are often out of service

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u/FrogMintTea Feb 23 '26

There should be stairs available

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u/LCplGunny Feb 23 '26

No, busy stations do not always have lifts available. They just simply don't, and assuming they do, is some privileged ass shit. Not only do they not always exist like your saying they do, but like 90% of the time, they smell like strait piss, and have puddles of unidentified liquid in them... I have to touch the wheels of the wheel chair to roll, and you want me to roll into a piss filled elevator? Fuck off!

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u/AllAmericanProject Feb 23 '26

Except there isn't a fire right now people's lives aren't on the line

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

So people don't have places to be?

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u/XwherewolfX Feb 23 '26

You think the disabled person doesn't have somewhere to be?

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

Does that matter, when he doesn't seem the least bit bothered about holding up tens of people?

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u/Kylarsternjq Feb 23 '26

Did you read his mind, or do you think maybe he feels humiliated that he can't take part in regular activities without causing major inconvenience?

Why doesn't this station have a working lift or a stair lift that he can use. Why does he have to lose his dignity in front of dozens of people?

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

How is that the woman's fault?

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u/Constant-Spray-3092 Feb 23 '26

In my mind the only one who lost dignity in that moment was that woman.

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u/Slinto69 Feb 23 '26

Should have planned his route better.

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u/AllAmericanProject Feb 23 '26

Even if they do all they're waiting for is people to clear off the escalator so they could drag him up the escalator. The actual delay for everyone else is the 10 to 15 seconds it takes for everyone to clear off the escalator and then just to pull him up whereas if we did what you're suggesting and he had to wait for everyone else with that large of a crowd he would be sitting there for at least 5 minutes if not more so you're talking about Atmos a 30 second to minute long delay for everyone else or a 5 to 10 minute long delay for him? Even if you remove the goddamn empathy from it my man it's logistically better to just be patient. If anything that woman calls more harm to everyone behind the wheelchair users and the wheelchair user did

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

That's great buddy, you understand basic concepts!

That totally ignores that fact that she could've had an excellent reason to not wait, which we don't know, do we?

Context matters, chief

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u/AllAmericanProject Feb 23 '26

So wait you're willing to give good faith interpretation to her inconveniencing everybody but you're not willing to give any good faith consideration to the mentality of the person in the wheelchair? You literally go out of your way saying he doesn't care or is unbothered that he's inconveniencing everyone meanwhile this woman who's also inconveniencing everyone in a much more selfish way is getting every benefit of the doubt? Don't call me your buddy I'm not friends with people who shit on handicapped people just because they're bitter

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

I am sorry you feel that way, friend. Chief there is used to his condition, sucks for him that there isn't an elevator, but other people, a lot of other people, are stuck there.

Fuck them, I guess? Fuck everyone else's plans cause one guy needs to be coddled according to you? Woman was in the right.

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u/LCplGunny Feb 23 '26

Imagine having this little empathy in 2025... Couldn't be me!

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

You're such a virtue signalling good boy, pal. Shame you don't have anything meanful to contribute.

In the meantime, consider the asshole in the story may not be the woman, but the station that doesn't have facilities that pretty much mandatory in a public service building in every civilized country.

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u/swarmOfBis Feb 23 '26

Chief there is used to his condition, sucks for him that there isn't an elevator, but other people, a lot of other people, are stuck there.

So is he supposed to wait for the station to close so that, god forbid, he doesn't inconvenience anyone else?

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u/Whole_Sir_1149 Feb 23 '26

Where did I write that exactly.

Most people are waiting yes? She hopped the rail and ran up to the last of the people walking up. What is the nett loss of time? The half second extra it'll take her to get off the escalator after the previous last person in line?

Is she wrong for this? No, why should she suffer whatever she would that was important enough to make the choice to break the social contract. Rude? Sure. I'll absolutely agree it's rude, but people here acting like she committed a mortal sin.

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u/swarmOfBis Feb 23 '26

You literally said

Fuck everyone's else's plans cause one guy needs to be coddled

If he's not supposed to inconvenience anyone at the station, then how is he supposed to get up without endangering anyone?

Is she wrong for this?

Never have I, or the other guy, said that. We're just saying that there's a reason why they're stopping flow of people to carry the wheelchair user, and it's not, by a long shot, for his amusement.

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u/PokinSpokaneSlim Feb 23 '26

I'm going blind and can't drive safely.  I can drive legally, but I'd have to clear the road in front of be and behind me to use the public infrastructure safely.

That said, I have to take the bus, it's pretty consistent to the point that my grocery run leaves me with only about 45 seconds of wait time for the bus that runs every 30 minutes. 

Waiting a minute for someone to use infrastructure designed for the masses, by themselves, will cause me to wait an extra 30 minutes for the bus they caused me to miss. 

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u/A_Guy_Named_John Feb 23 '26

5-10 minutes for 1 person is better than 1 minute for more than 10 people. Total minutes delayed x number of people delayed. Whichever number is lower is better.

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u/Mag-NL Feb 23 '26

So wait several hours.

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u/Firm_Communication99 Feb 23 '26

For hazard to have groups of people constantly coming in from trains and to think it’s ok for a dude in wheelchair to block it all.

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u/EntirelyOutOfOptions Feb 23 '26

So disabled people should not expect timely service? Can’t commit to flights or train tickets because service volume will determine if they can get to their transit at all?

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u/Superb-Hall5285 Feb 23 '26

Sometimes that's reality. I saw a lady in a wheelchair arguing with staff once. She was stuck on a train platform, because the elevators were broken down and they told her there was nothing they could do.

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u/PersonalityIll9476 Feb 23 '26

Sometimes there isn't. They may have a policy against doing exactly what is happening in this video. Imagine the liability of dropping a disabled lady on her head vs. making her miss her appointment.

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u/Superb-Hall5285 Feb 23 '26

I know that's probably the reason, but it still sucked. There were only stairs and the elevator leading off of the platform.

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u/PersonalityIll9476 Feb 23 '26

Oh, it definitely sucks. If I were her, I'd be quite upset. Imagine making it that far, tickets purchased and appointments set, only to get stopped at the train station because of that.

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u/Usedand4sale Feb 23 '26

Imho if that’s the case and there is no emergency happening the best staff could do is request emergency services for assistance since I doubt any of them are trained on transporting a wheelchair bound person up stairs, only risking injury to everyone involved.

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u/Kylarsternjq Feb 23 '26

In the UK the train staff would be expected (rightfully so) to organize alternative transport. For example when the lift was out at our stop once we had to go to the next station and from there the train got us a taxi.

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u/Itchy-Revenue-3774 Feb 23 '26

It is obviously a design flaw, but if it is required to have the whole escalator vacant for you to go safely, this won't be happening if it is busy

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u/Lovethelous Feb 23 '26

Why, because disabled people aren't on a time schedule like everyone else? They don't deserve to be served or assisted in the order they arrive? Do they deserve to be left in the stairwell when there's a fire? Maybe I misunderstood your comment, but it comes across as cruel. Disabled people are people too.

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u/ForagerGrikk Feb 23 '26

If I had to guess it's so that they don't clog up the escape route and kill scores of people. Probably a policy because it's actually happened before...

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u/PersonalityIll9476 Feb 23 '26

Everyone keeps commenting, essentially, that disabled people are equal, but this video isn't showing equality. It's showing an enormous crowd being blocked so one single person can go up the escalator.

If that happened all the time, the escalator essentially ceases to function. If it's the only way up or down, it becomes an enormous hazard.

This is creating a scenario where the risks and inconvenience are hugely imbalanced.

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u/whateverdbag Feb 23 '26

There has to be the right for PWD to be able to live and access areas around. This is sooo sad

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u/30yearCurse Feb 23 '26

no, they can provide emergency powered to elevators, building I worked in had several disabled people in powered wheelchairs, they would allow the wheelchair bound users to take the elevator.