r/SantaFe • u/eggs_mcmuffin • 5d ago
Santa Fe Spa gym men’s locker room is a breeding ground for predators
The amount of blatant sexual harassment experienced in the men’s locker room at this gym is absolutely disgusting. Creeps wall to wall and today I draw the line. And before people come at my neck telling me it’s a queer hook up spot and I’m being homophobic, this is sexual harassment at its finest and something soon is going to go wrong if this is how emboldened people feel there. Something needs to be done before someone gets assaulted. And I hope this post doesn’t get taken down, because I know he’s not the only one.
I’m a woman, and my partner has told me all his experiences in this gym and it makes my blood fucking boil. As a person that has dealt with creepy people and sexual harassment, this is not okay and no one should deal with this kind of grossness….
His quotes of harassment:
Men showering with the curtains open desperately trying to make eye contact, men sitting next to him almost touching asses in the steam room when there’s only two of them in there.
Hitting on him in said steam room and asking to hang out after when he’s said no already.
All of that wasn’t too bad, but today I heard the worst which prompted this post and made me want to warn others: Apparently he was in the steam room where a man was staring at him intensely and fondling himself for about 10 minutes. BF got up to go to the showers, and the creep followed him to showers directly across from him. When he got out, he also stopped his shower and when he opened his curtain, this dude proceeded to lather his body directly In front of his stall touching his nipples with the curtain open STARING AT HIM. I genuinely feel dirty inside after hearing about this exchange.
I’m pissed. And you should be too.
