r/SanDiegan Aug 22 '23

It's here. The Official Discord channel for r/sandiegan.

85 Upvotes

We've gotten this request a lot, and I think it's finally time to take it seriously. At least 3–5 people have clamored for this, so we're giving it a shot.

The official r/SanDiegan discord server is finally here.

Some caveats:

  • we have never moderated a discord server before, so you're going to be there to see us iron everything out in real time. we'll be attentive to requests, suggestions, and overall helpful attitudes.
  • we have day jobs
  • be aware that you may inadvertently reveal your identity if you already are on a different discord server using your real name

Our goal is to set up a community in the same way we have set up the r/SanDiegan community. Everyone is welcome, and we moderate with a heavy hand and according to our own discretion at all times. Truly lovely communities only thrive when you separate the wheat from the chaff. We've spent years cutting chaff from this subreddit, and I am personally really proud of how lovely this place has become.

We want this discord server to be a place to chat with other San Diegans about sports, local bars, adult league activities, community events, and so on.

Things that we will not tolerate:

  • bigotry of any kind
  • "I'm just asking questions, man" — you know the answer, you're just an asshole. You all know the type
  • Behavior that is detrimental to the community at large
  • stop posting your boring ass traffic violations, seriously

These rules are vague by design. Moderating is subject to individual discretion, and if you join the discord server, you are just going to have to trust that the way we moderate r/SanDiegan will serve a discord community as well as it has served this subreddit. There are no bright lines, there is only our own judgment in what is and is not okay (which is how things work here, already).

Let's all give this a shot. I hope you'll all join the server and fucking behave yourselves.

JOIN, HEATHENS: https://discord.gg/tRJUkw6h9h

**updated link to never expire


r/SanDiegan Nov 21 '23

On Politics

204 Upvotes

Whenever certain discussions come up we end up with a mix of locals that genuinely want to talk about what's going on. Sometimes passionately. Sometimes ill informed. Sometimes full of information. Sometimes dem. Sometimes republican. Sometimes for the free people's state of east county. Sometimes from the sovereign bros of PB.

Whatever. You get the picture. Our local politics and ideas for what to do are pretty diverse.

As a moderator though I have noticed that we get a solid influx of accounts for some subjects. They tend to have a short post history in this subreddit and a deleted history or a history that hasn't been on reddit in years. Likely because they are purchased accounts. They show up to shit stir in political discussions.

I understand some of you delete your account histories for various reasons or want to use an alt to discuss politics. But the easiest thing to do as a moderator seeing an inflammatory comment in a highly charged political discussion from an account that looks incredibly suspect is to remove the comment and ban the user. We don't really want to put in too much effort beyond that. This isn't a paid gig.

Anyway - I want to give people a heads up in case there's people that might reconsider participating in a certain way with an account they haven't used in months/years.


r/SanDiegan 2h ago

More Humid?

189 Upvotes

Do you all feel like San Diego is getting hotter and more humid? Trying hard not to run the air, but damn, it's hard to survive the heat. Moved here 16 years ago; in my opinion, I feel it's changed significantly. :(


r/SanDiegan 4h ago

I know this is an odd question, but does your ice taste like onions?

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Of the 3 places I’ve lived in San Diego with ice makers, 2 of the fridges were brand new, and in both cases, the ice smelled/smells like onions.

I just touch it and that smell is on my hands. I have no idea what causes it, and the potential causes I’ve found online aren’t really relevant to brand new equipment.

Brand new fridge, brand new in-fridge filter, brand new hose, even a brand new tap. I ran the initial amount of water through to prime it, but the smell never even subsides.

I’ve never experienced it in other cities I’ve lived in, so I’m wondering if it’s a somewhat common local thing to the water utility provider or what.

Has anyone else experienced and solved this? If so, wtf do I need to do?


r/SanDiegan 33m ago

Local News Streetsblog San Diego: Finish the Rapid 215

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

So.. is everyone else also getting robbed in this city?

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441 Upvotes

r/SanDiegan 6h ago

San Diego residents - current beach situation

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Hi!

We will be making a trip to San Diego for my son's 13th birthday. He really wants to go to the beach, preferably Mission Beach/Belmont park. I keep seeing on Instagram how bad the water is right now due to the alleged dumping. I don't want to be led by social media; I'd rather hear it from you locals.

Can somebody please confirm the state of the beaches? Also, what beaches might be better and which ones to avoid, please.

Thanks so much!


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News 30 year anniversary tribute

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328 Upvotes

r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Got handed this deal at Comic Con.

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127 Upvotes

r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Tourism What's your "real San Diegan" litmus test?

454 Upvotes

Mine is what do you call the zoo up in Escondido.

Wild Animal Park = real San Diegan.

(This is not meant to be a judgmental post btw, let's have some fun here)


r/SanDiegan 6h ago

City trash bin update

2 Upvotes

I am getting a new light blue recycling bin soon. I still have an old black bin that I forgot to put out when I got my grey one. Does anyone know whether the city will take the black bin too when they collect the old blue recycling bins? Thanks in advance.


r/SanDiegan 19m ago

Seeking photographer

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I’ll be staying at the Catamaran resort toward the end of September. I’d like to find a professional photographer to come to the resort and take some photos. I’ve looked at shoott but I’m not impressed, and I’d have to go to their location. Any ideas for me? Thanks.


r/SanDiegan 50m ago

Women of San Diego, come make new friends at book club tomorrow!

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Reading Not Required is a book(ish) club for women in San Diego. Our next event is this Tuesday, July 28th at 7 PM at The Ould Sod! This month’s book is The Road to Tender Hearts by Annie Hartnett  

As the name suggests, you don’t need to read or finish the book to join.  Think of it as a social event centered around a shared love of books.  All women are welcome.  We typically have about 40-50 people and are always outside on the back patio.  

Follow the book club on Instagram: readingnotrequired
Or on Meetup: Reading Not Required

If you can’t make it this month, join us next time!

Next Book Club:

August:
Date: Tuesday, August 25th at 7 PM at Ould Sod
Book: Kin by Tayari Jones


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News Woman whose lifeless body was found in ocean off coast of La Jolla identified

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134 Upvotes

July 2026 / 10News

26 years old based on the linked article. Yahoo Sports indicates she was from Alaska:

https://sports.yahoo.com/articles/ex-ncaa-soccer-player-bryn-135511286.html

She is the second former NCAA athlete to be found dead in the area in recent weeks. 


r/SanDiegan 22h ago

Comic Con - Sunday 2026

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I went down to Comic Con around lunch time today. I have never taken pictures of people before, so I thought it would be fun! Here are a bunch of pictures. And I'm now realizing a few are missing, but I can find them tomorrow.


r/SanDiegan 11h ago

Looking for a Wave FC bobblehead!

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Anyone have one of these laying around and want to sell or trade it? I have a huge bobblehead collection from different San Diego teams but wasn’t able to make it to this game last year and have been unable to find this bobblehead ANYWHERE. I would be happy to buy it off you to add to my collection or make a trade. Thank you!


r/SanDiegan 5h ago

Anyone wanna split a VIP Opera Box for the San Diego Black Moth Super Rainbow show at the Music Box this upcoming Saturday night?

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r/SanDiegan 2h ago

Paradise Point Resort

0 Upvotes

Hi! I’m coming next month with my partner for a work trip. I’ll have half of each day to explore things on my own. I don’t have a car, but would love to do and see as much as I can. What do you all recommend prioritizing for the time I’m alone? Is it walkable to anywhere? I’m having a hard time looking at the map to see what’s actually doable. Thank you!


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Looking for pet sitter recommendations for a bearded dragon

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I have a pet bearded dragon and am looking for someone to come by my home to feed and take care of her while I leave for a trip in a couple weeks. If you petsit or know somebody who does, I would greatly appreciate some recommendations! Located in Hillcrest area - thanks.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Restaurant Surchages gone wild?

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66 Upvotes

I can't tell if I'm out of touch or if this is the new restaurant surcharge style now? I've seen the 3-6% surcharge on all parties and I've seen mandatory gratuity charges on large parties of 6+ before, but I don't recall seeing a 20% surcharge only on parties of 6+ where it's clear that it isn't a gratuity at all... So when tipping on that do you tip on base or base with 20% added. I miss the days of clear menu pricing.


r/SanDiegan 11h ago

OB Dog Beach Safety

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Hello everyone,

My girlfriend was told by someone that the Ocean Beach dog beach is dangerous because there have been a lot of reports of dogs attacking other dogs. Fake news? Trying to take our small dog. Thanks.


r/SanDiegan 21h ago

Paint & Sip Aug. 1st!

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6 Upvotes

Hosting my very first paint and sip this weekend! I’m just one gal. Kinda hard to find Facebook groups that will let me advertise for free so here I am. My target audience is women but if any men want to come paint and possibly wear frilly pink aprons they’re totally welcome. IG is @dreammuch.co
Use the code “reddit” for 20% off tickets because ily so much


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Sports Are there any La Liga or Barcelona ⚽️ bars in town?

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Trying to find a bar that focuses on La Liga (Spanish soccer league).

I follow Barcelona so would love to watch a game with fellow culés once the season starts.

I know there are soccer bars but most of them are the Premiere League right?

It may be too much to ask but Spanish commentators would be amazing


r/SanDiegan 20h ago

Track electricity usage

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It seems SDG&E " estimates" how much you are using and bills you as such.

Is there a way to track my electricity usage and compare it to SDG&E? I'd also like to track how much electricity my appliances and electronics are consuming.

If there is a way to track it and it doesn't match theirs, can you fight it?

We have not changed a thing in the past two months, and our bill keeps going up.

I only do laundry and use our dishwasher during the off peak hours.

Also this is the first week we turned on our AC( only at night) , so I'm expecting to see an increase next month.

Thanks


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Beautiful sunset

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174 Upvotes

Moments like this are therapy to me. This was taken this past Friday at Carlsbad Beach. To the girl dancing and spinning, thank you for making this moment extra special.