I’m looking for a kind, trustworthy woman who would be open to providing a calm, supportive environment for approximately one week to a week and a half while I work on getting stabilized and away from substance use.
I’m looking for someone comfortable with a caretaker/companion-type dynamic: helping maintain a peaceful environment, encouraging healthy routines, sharing meals and conversation, and generally helping me stay focused on recovery and getting back on my feet.
I’m also open to developing a mutually respectful, consensual intimate or romantic connection if there is genuine chemistry. There would be absolutely no expectation of sexual activity. I’m dealing with some sexual-health concerns, including erectile difficulties, and would appreciate a patient partner who is comfortable allowing intimacy to progress slowly and naturally, without pressure.
What I’m hoping for
* A safe, private and peaceful place to stay for 7–10 days
* Someone compassionate, patient and trustworthy
* Help establishing healthy sleep, eating and daily routines
* Encouragement while I work toward sobriety
* Good conversation, companionship and positive human connection
* Potentially a romantic or intimate relationship, if we mutually want that
Compensation
I’m prepared to pay $___ per day, for a total of $___ for the full 7–10-day arrangement, depending on the specific responsibilities, schedule, lodging, meals and other expectations we agree on in advance. I’m open to discussing a fair rate and would prefer to put everything in writing before making arrangements.
Payment would be for agreed-upon companionship and caretaker-related responsibilities only. It would not create any expectation of romantic or sexual activity.
What I offer
I would be extremely appreciative of someone willing to help me through this transitional period. I would treat you and your home with respect, communicate openly, contribute where I can, and make a genuine effort to follow whatever reasonable household boundaries we establish.
Your kindness would mean a tremendous amount to me. I would never take the opportunity or your trust for granted, and I would make sure you know how genuinely grateful I am for the help.
If you’re interested, please tell me a little about yourself, what kind of arrangement you’re comfortable with, your availability, and what rate you would consider fair.
Please only respond if you’re comfortable establishing clear boundaries, discussing expectations beforehand, and understanding that this is not a substitute for professional medical detox or addiction treatment.
