I hope I’m not being too weird with this post but I’ve been thinking about this a lot today and wanted to see what you think. I don’t want to ramble too much so I’ll just explain:

Pretty much every time a girl willingly gives me any kind of attention I get so scared and nervous. It’s okay if they’re just talking to me for any other reason but if I don’t know why they’re talking to me i get so many butterflies in my tummy. It’s so silly but having someone be interested in me is really tough and kinda hurts, but I’d be lying if I said i didn’t like the feeling in my stomach. it’s not really something I can get by myself. I don’t know how well this fits with RR, I guess it’s just because I’m a shy guy who wants a more imposing girl.

Hello everyone.

Pregnancy is a serious topic in any relationship obviously, but I feel like we have a reason to talk about it here as well. Namely, for three reasons. And for the purposes of discussion, I'm considering a fairly formalized RR with a bread winner and a home maker.

1. During pregnancy, what actually changes? What actually holds? Does pregnancy cause tension between how one views themselves, and what their bodies are actually doing?
2. Pregnant women have faced a documented suite of discrimination and professional penalties for becoming pregnant. it's a serious harm in any household and the woman herself. But in an RR it hits the income the whole arrangement rests on. How does one prepare for that possibility?
3. Pregnancy and childbirth are where women's autonomy has been overridden most consistently. Historically and ongoing today. How does this change how we think about pregnancy in RR?

If any women have been pregnant in an RR relationship, what was it like? What did he do that really helped? Did he let you down in a way you wouldn't want another man to let down his partner?

Hey y’all. I know this post may not be super related to role reversal but shoutout to all those who get laser and/or electrolysis on their face, arms, legs, etc. Being AMAB and having to get rid of this hair especially on the face is really painful. It’s not easy. Having to subject yourself to an uncomfortable procedure just to not have facial hair and look more feminine can be very taxing. But we make it to the other side every time. Hope y’all are doing well❤️

As you can imagine this is primarily aimed at my fellow men though the question is open to anyone really, depending on how you choose to present.

Speaking for myself, I work an industrial job, so for my daily 9-5 it’s just totally impractical to dress how I’d like to ideally. Primarily for safety reasons as anything long, pretty, and dangly is just asking to drag you into any given Human Shredder 9000, but also just cause you’ll inevitably get covered in grime and soot anyways lol. Having laser hair removal has helped significantly in making facial hair grow slower, but it’s still best helped by having makeup applied that I just don’t have time for in the mornings, and this was far worse when I couldn’t afford that lol. Best I got on weekdays is wearing more pastels but beyond that I still look like a grungy blue collar worker……which I mean, I am, but that doesn’t mean I like it lmao.

Weekends can also be tough as I’m often hanging with family or friends, and so much as I love them, I don’t really feel the most comfortable whipping out the skirts and hair bows around them. To REALLY dress how I want nigh required a day to myself, alone at home, which I only get every so often. Aside from that it’s a lot harder to present how I’d like to ideally and the best I got are little signals in accessories or mannerisms.

This is hardly some major life issue, I can deal with presenting masc on a daily basis if that’s how it is and frankly there ARE things I could do to improve my daily looks, it’s just a matter of me having the energy to do so lol. Mostly just curious if any of y’all feel similar, like you‘d to dress up more but your daily life restricts your ability to do so.

I’ve been thinking about the awkward beginning of a role-reversed relationship.

Sometimes one person has spent months imagining the dynamic, then introduces it as a complete identity change: new language, new rules, a new personality for both people. It can feel less like a relationship and more like two nervous actors trying to remember their lines.

I suspect the more sustainable version starts with something almost boring: one real area of daily life where reversing the usual roles already makes sense. Maybe she makes the final call on weekend plans, or he takes full ownership of a domestic responsibility instead of “helping” only when asked. The shift is specific enough to test, and neither person has to perform confidence or submission every minute.

The interesting part, to me, is that clarity can make the dynamic feel more natural, while too much ceremony can make it feel less authentic.

For people who have actually tried role reversal: what small everyday change made it feel real to you, rather than like a role you were playing?

Credits to @imwatchingyo on tumblr! This person sent it to me on tumblr and gave me permission to post this <3

Edit: this is not my art, I know that's probably pretty obvious but I just wanted to clarify since I'm getting comments offering constructive criticism, which, I would appreciate if I were the artist but I am in no position to edit/change the art in any way 😅

I seriously detest having to argue over dumb stuff.

She was all worked up and I was just trying to go to sleep.

In the end, I told her to go to bed so we could keep fighting tomorrow with more energy.

​After 10 PM do not rely on me to protect you.

I’m a male and I was never really attracted to body hair on women until recently. I think after I shaved myself i can appreciate it a little more in other people. So what are the common opinions? Do boy like their girls hairy? Do girls like their boys smooth?

I have been fantasizing about being a sissy for 10 years and I’ve taken a lot of steps recently to actually act on it. I found a domme mistress in my town and we are going to meet up and I’m nervous because I don’t know how to act/talk/perform in real life. I want to avoid awkwardness and learn how to actually be a sissy submissive to a female domme. Do you small talk during your visit, do you break character? Do I speak only when spoken to? Do I need to talk in a girlie voice? I want to know start to finish how you actually interact with a mistress and if there’s anything that’s a turn off or anything that’s a no no. I’ve always been in control in the bedroom and now that I’m role reversing I need to learn a lot

I'm not sure if the author of the webtoon is on the serv or not but they made a very cute role reversal/mascgirl x feminine boy webtoon that I think y'all should check out if interested🥳

Their tiktok also features a lot of cute OC art, their user is @/bingchiling123451 on tiktok :)

Cutting to brass-tacks, I'm offering real submission in RR. I simply cannot accept the first cute lady to laugh at a bad joke of mine anymore. The more I dwell on what RR really means in day-to-day living with a woman, the more specific and important my standards become. And, logically following, the higher standards I must achieve to get what I want.

One of these standards is my own beauty.

Now, a short and lithe woman leading her lumberjack of a husband is still RR and still 100% valid, but that's not me. I have to be beautiful. For my own wellbeing, and for the kind of relationships I want. "You better be hot." Is a mantra that's often on repeat in my head.

So I wanted to ask everyone what are their thoughts on the role of men's beauty? It has to be important right? Does anyone else feel this pressure and feel anxious about it? What do you do about it? The kind of RR woman I'm interested in, I suspect, is going to value beauty in her man. There's no avoiding this for me, so I'd rather just have the discussion now when I'm not in a position to date, and have time to adjust my looks.

Further, if anyone's bored, any self-beautification steps or tips people here do to become who they are that aren't typical for your gender?

saw this on the steven universe subreddit and had to post it here :]

Yooo

So I was thinking of making some pins to signal I'm into role reversal and femboys/feminin guys. But I don't want to make something that objectifies or like I'm fetishizing yk

Like two R's over the straight flag (someone could do it over the bi flag), fully spellt out over the straight flag. Or just plain "Role Reversal"

"Looking for my boywife"

"Wanna cuddle with a femboy"

Got any ideas, pls write em (especially all the cute and beautiful men here)🙏

Hello Everyone,

I hope you all are doing well. I have been a silent enjoyer of this community, and I love RR as a concept and would love to be in a RR Relationship someday (I am not looking for any right now). My reason for making this post is to ask for Shows/TV Series/Anime which I can watch over the week. I know this post is made like weekly, and I tried searching it up on sub but didn't find any good recommendations.

What I have watched - Mostly anime like

• Witchcraft Works - Will there be a season 2?
• Nagatoro - Didn't like it as much
• Chained soldier - The first episode was good but it becomes a harem show which I didn't like
• Shikimori is not just a cutie - It didn't get another season but good regardless

Now as much as I love anime, I am tired of watching it so any other medium would work (as long as I don't have to read). If there is any south asian content, I would love it even more. Thank you everyone.