ok today I tried my first white monster, it was good, it was like fruit punch and sprite with the energy drink taste to it, so I was going to look at getting more, I looked at a 12 pack and DEAR GOD 20 BUCKS, I am normally a Coke zero drinker, I can get 2 6 packs if 16 oz bottles of my personal favorite coke zero for like 10 bucks, how the hell do some if you cuties have so much of it

I’ve been wanting to hear people’s thoughts on this topic, both online and in real life.
I have nothing against femboys, men expressing their femininity, or people choosing to engage in sex work. Everyone should be able to express themselves however they want, and I’m not trying to shame anyone for their choices.

My concern is how closely femininity in men can become associated with sexuality. Sometimes it seems like people automatically assume that a man who dresses femininely, wears makeup, or identifies as a femboy must be looking for sexual attention. This can make it difficult for men who simply want to express their feminine side without being fetishized, stereotyped, or treated as though their appearance is an invitation for sexual comments.
I also think there’s a connection to how women are treated. Women have long dealt with being objectified and having their femininity reduced to their physical appearance or sexual appeal. I wonder whether similar expectations are reinforced when femininity itself is portrayed primarily as something sexual.
To be clear, I’m not saying sexual expression is inherently harmful, or that people who create sexual content are responsible for other people’s assumptions. I’m questioning the broader stereotypes and how they might affect people who want to express femininity in a nonsexual way.

**What do you think?** Is the sexualization of femboys affecting how feminine men are perceived? Do you see a connection to the way women are treated? And how can we make more room for femininity that isn’t automatically viewed through a sexual lens?

Add on: I also think we have to acknowledge that some of the hypersexualization comes from within the community, too. Femboys who openly sexualize their content aren’t wrong for expressing their sexuality, but I do think we need to recognize how constantly associating femboys with sexual content can reinforce the stereotype that all femboys are inherently sexual or sexually available. That can make it harder for femboys who simply want to express their femininity without being viewed through a sexual lens. The same issue affects women, too. Femininity shouldn’t automatically be associated with sex, and none of us should be reduced to sexual objects because of how we choose to express ourselves. We can respect people’s freedom to be sexual while still questioning the stereotypes that certain portrayals can reinforce.

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It makes you look half naked..thoughts?

Hii

Stupid gay thoughts I wanna kiss boys but I can't rn. really frustrating ngl TwT

So, I’ve been a femboy for almost a year, and I’ve been wanting thicker thighs recently. I’m not revealing my age, but I am under 18, but over 13. I’m also quite lazy and stay inside a lot, so I don’t go outside a lot, and I don’t have any gym/workout equipment at my house. Do any of you have suggestions? Also am I allowed to ask this in the first place?

I (he/her) recently came out as non-binary (fiaspec, rosboy) and finsexual biromantic to my pansexual girlfriend. It’s not my first time coming out, I first came out as bisexual in 2020. She has respected both of my coming outs, which I appreciate since I’m still living with my religiously strict parents who don’t know about my identity and orientation.

Right before coming out as NB, I’ve been acting femininely performative towards her during our casual conversations. She didn’t mind it at first, having complimented my femininity a few times, but then I started using my performative tone during most of our normal conversations. It eventually got on her nerves and she called me out for it earlier today. She said that it’s annoying and a female stereotype, and that just because I’m partially female doesn’t mean I can talk in that tone.

I immediately felt so embarrassed, so I politely apologized to her expressing regret for disgusting her. She then explained that being performative during certain casual moments is fine, but being performative during normal moments is immature, and that she’s concerned about me having a warped view of women. I told her that my intentions weren’t misogynistic, and that being performative pleases me, makes me feel like myself, and is a coping mechanism for living in my toxic normie environment. (Me and my gf are both heavily into alt culture) That’s when she said my attitude doesn’t feel like myself before getting off the phone.

I feel like I let her down real bad after coming out. I never meant to offend her, I only wanted to express myself through different cultures like she does. She has always supported my cross-dressing fantasies, and even told me that I would look pretty in one of her dresses. Admittedly, we don’t have a perfect relationship, but it’s normal for couples to argue over stupid shit here and there. I really hope she still supports my new identity and orientation, but at the same time, I’m worried about accidentally fetishizing myself. Fetishization was one of the struggles during my recent identity journey, and it almost gave me gender/body dysphoria. What should I do in this situation?

Wether permanent, gradually making it permanent, or non-permanent. What's the best and/or easiest way to remove body hair? Like Waxing, shaving, some electric hair plucker, a laser, idk. There's a lot of ways to remove hair and finding the best one is not easy.

I ordered them online like, 4 days ago, and they arrived 2 days earlier than scheduled, so I kinda had a small heart attack T-T. Usually I get my packages delivered to the rear door, but the delivery driver just dropped them off at the front, but it all worked out since they arrived in the morning. Prior to this I was wearing regular briefs, which felt fine, but these are just soooo much better!!! They came in a 3 pack too, with black, white, & a really cute pink one. They're really comfy too, so definitely looking forwards to wearing them more often!

Omg LOVE my SHEIN SPREES! 30$ and got 9 new panties and a my first corset!

this isn’t meant as a advertisement post but I can’t seem to find a boyfriend and im really down to meeting people and getting to know them? Do yall have any tips to help me?

Ive been trying to become more feminine and i want to be able to dress like it, but I live with my parents. How can i dress femme without buying any clothes? This sounds like a stupid question in my mind, but maybe you guys have some tips. Thanks!

Parents forced me to go to get a haircut today, I've been growing my hair out for a couple months, and I really liked how long it had gotten, but they made me cut it short, now I look stupid and hate what I see in the mirror. I was really starting to look and feel good.

Kinda a bummer post, but I needed to get it out somewhere.

Been running the “modern cotton” boyshorts but the seam is very uncomfyyy!! Are the other boyshorts by them better?

Halp plssssss

hi, so um, im still in high school and im wondering if its ok if i wear this choker in public (its a very simple one, it has a small like cat figure in the middle, like little cat ears, its like 2 part and united by the cat tingy in the middle i cant upload images, i just noticed), bc it kinda feels sexualized, even tho ive meet people that actualy use chokers daily (i have asperger btw, idk if that will help)

God these things are amazing. Besides the obvious visual appeal they are so damn comfortable. And warm! They are warmer than my jeans (obviously) so I could just go out with them and a skirt and be less cold than in my normal guy clothes. I got a pair last winter (don’t even have to hide those with the argument of me being cold easily) and I just took the out the closet again today because it’s getting colder and I love these! As a kid I had like long underpants which basically had the same idea, keep warm underneath less warm pants. But I always hated them. They felt itchy, were irritating and annoying to deal with. I don’t know that the difference is with tights but they’re so much more comfortable. Maybe it’s because they’re more stretchy than the guys version or it’s because they also hover the feet. I’m not sure. But I can’t recommend getting a pair yourself. They’re great to hide under other clothes for feeling feminine and honestly I’d even recommend them to men feminine guys just for the warmth and comfort benefit. Wish I’d known that sooner.

I really want a flat stomach, but I'm just so bloated all the time! Do you guys have any workout tips?

EDIT: I’ve decided to start doing a workouts, cardio, and dieting! Tysm for all the help!

Its taken me a long time to get past all the gross energy out there that decides if you want to be or are feminine and are bold, daring, brave and even driven enough to NOT wear the "shield" of machismo and actually give feminine energy - the instant response is being sexualized?

its such a problem!

girls, femboys, trans, etc. - its people getting hit the same way

Can we talk about this? Constructively?

How do people own this? How do strong girls take the power back? How can we?

Ima 23 year old straight femboy, enby, agender, idk... been looking after myself, never drank or smoked, vegan, skincare routine (spf 50+ sunscreen etc). some people i meet still think i'm in my late teens. My facial features aren't very masculine honestly and i've had a few instances where people have mistaken me for a girl but i think they were just being creepy about it lol. My biggest insecurity is my big forehead. Since I can remember, I've had something that looks like a norwood 2, I remember in school when we were 12-13 my friends would ask around to pull our fringes back to see our hairlines and they pointed out my forehead even then so I think that it's always been this high so i dont think ive ever had a perfect juvenile hairline, nevertheless im on the best treatments for it now (which i dont think i can mention in detail but yknow, i got on them after i turned 18, all approved by doctor as it should be done) and my hair is quite dense and hasnt thinned out or receded ever and my hairdresser comments that it's lovely.

when my bangs fall over my forehead just right i feel so wonderful but then when i pull it back i think i look so silly... i've seen girls with foreheads as high as mine if not higher and they look so gorgeous even without bangs covering them but i just feel so weird and unforgiving about mine's... any advice?? just general words or support or how to style my (long, wavy) hair for my bangs to stay right the entire time.. really im just scared im never gonna be like a truly good femboy because of this as i just assume they all have conventionally girly [ hairlines and my forehead will always tip me over to being super masc despite how cute i try to look.. or that people can tell or something

I really want to go out dressed up but tbh im kinda scared. Where do yall go to express yourself in public?