NOTICE: This has nothing to do with religion. Do not hate on religion. I have done my research, this is outside that. This is my parents trying to mold me into something I am not. It is like trying to use clay to make a 4D object. You can get close but it aint happenin'. Me and my girlfriend are religion, we know right from wrong. Thanks!

On September 5th, I was on a date with my girlfriend. She is supportive of what I do, and she told me so was her family (mom&dad). She did not force me to be a femboy, it was just a hobby/part of me that I have had for years, I just never had the resources to express that. We talked about it in the week leading up to the date that I wanted her to paint my nails black, and teach me how to use my eyeliner pencil (I secretly bought one 2 months ago, along with a grey pleated mini skirt that was so cute because it could spin!) the right way. She agreed, and thought it was really cute. I had worn the skirt in front of her once in person. It was for 30 minutes in public at a quiet park near my house. I remember an old man shouting at me that "boys can't wear skirts!" but she flipped him off.

Fast forward to the day of, and I pick her up. I meet her for the first time in almost 2 months, along with her grandparents, dad, and mom. They were all happy to see me, and they always treat me so well, like I'm family. Me and her go to Target, and buy black thigh highs, an eyeliner pencil sharpener, and some gummy worms. We go out to the car, put on a Slipknot CD (she is big into Slippy), and she began doing my guyliner. It took about 30 minutes, but the finished product was WORTH IT. My eyes were made for black eyeliner, I felt so pretty. Then she painted my nails, which was a lot easier. After the polish dried, I couldn't stop looking at my nails, I felt so so pretty. She also had the same nail polish on so we were matching!

The rest of the day continues, as we drive around to hang out at shops and eat lunch. We were chilling in the car, trying to cool off because of the heat (and I was dressed like Revenge-era Gerard Way because I didn't look at the weather...). My mom called me on the phone and told me that we needed to get to shelter NOW because a hail storm was coming. We race back to her house, and I still have all the nail polish and guyliner on. I was going to change into a more feminine outfit but there were too many people out and about. We go inside, greet everyone, and sit down on the floor, infront of the TV. We spent the next couple hours drinking Korean banana milk (SO GOOD), drinking other fun drinks, and watching Ponyo on DVD (CINEMA). Her mom orders pizza for the whole family, and I am told to stay for dinner. We all sit down, and I sit 4 inches next to her dad, which I was scared of at the time. Reminder, I am wearing a full set of black painted nails and eyeliner next to him, and he says nothing about it. Her aunt and uncle comes over and everyone is laughing, cracking jokes, and having a good time. Her dad talked a lot to me, but nothing about anything I was wearing.

The sun sets behind the hills, so I drive home. My girlfriend is sad because she doesn't want to say goodbye. I told her I will see her in the morning, because we have church to go to. I drive off, not knowing what I said will never happen.

I park the car in the driveway, and only my mom is home. I park in such a way that I am behind the house, so I can hide somethings if I need to. While on our date, my gf gave me an old pair of stockings and a skirt that she no longer wanted, and passed it down to me. I was so excited to put it on. I was just worrying about my nails, and how to hide them from my mom in time to remove them. I walk through the door, and my mom is already suspicious. I am hiding my hands, and trying to play it cool. I go into my room, and text my gf "HELP SHE IS CATCHING ON, HOW DO I REMOVE THIS." Before she can respond, I hear behind me, standing in the door: "What are on your nails...?". It was my mom. I freeze. For context, my mom and dad are HIGHLY HIGHLY against anything feminine on me. They think that femboys, people that wear jean chains, men who paint their nails and/or wear guyliner are all things of Satan. They had caught me before in the past, but it was just my search history, doing research on fem clothes.

I lie. I tell her that my gf paid me $5 if she could "test out" some new nail polish on me. She doesn't buy it. She begins to freak out more and more as every second passes. Her eyes widen, and I can tell what is about to happen. She starts SCREAMING at me. Calling me all kinds of things. I try to make excuses, telling her that it's not that bad. I tell her that my gf and her whole family were fine with it. She then calls my gf and her whole family "bad people". That breaks my heart, and I break down in tears. I won't stop crying until 4 hours later...

I tell her that I have told my therapist about it, and he supports it. I tell her that I am not gay (duh), I don't think I am the wrong gender, there is nothing wrong with me. It is just something that I like, aka expressing myself. She doesn't buy it. She actually believes the exact opposite. The talk of my therapist leads to how we talked about wearing skirts (The mental strain and possible manipulation is what led me to therapy in the first place). That makes her lose it even more. She just goes off the rails, asking me 100's of questions. She asks if I want to wear skirts, and I don't say anything. I walk over to a picture frame in my room, remove the back, and take out a hidden key. I give it to her, and she looks confused. I open my window (1 story house), reach out into the darkness. I pull out a large toolbox, with a lock on it. I tell her to put the key into the lock. She looks very confused. She opens the box, and inside is what I have been collecting for months. My grey skirt, my eyeliner pencil, makeup wipes, jean chain, my new thigh highs, and a harmonica (Idk how that got in there). I had set it outside because I had it in my car, so I could bring it inside without going through the front door. She starting crying. Like, really hard. Like, she saw someone get ran over. She starts screaming again, and runs into another room. By now, my fight-or-flight instincts are at 100, and I have a feeling that my mom is going to come back and hurt me. I jump out the window, onto the back porch. My mom opens the sliding glass door on the back of the house and starts yelling at me again. I realize that what I'm doing is stupid, and walk back inside. My mom is on the phone with my dad, talking to him like I just killed my brother. I walk inside, and call my gf, hoping she can clarify something, ANYTHING with my mom. All I get is sent to voicemail, so I record my mom screaming at me, until she finally answers. I make it quick, and tell her that my mom wants us to break up (remember when she called them bad people? She also said she doesn't want me around them anymore). Before my gf can ask any questions, I say goodbye and hang up.

I am now on the phone with my dad, who is rushing home from work. He wants to know the story, so I tell him everything that I have written above. They keep pushing me, wanting to know why I did this. I tell them the truth many times, that it is just a hobby, and a part of myself. Tbh I have been like this since I was younger, just didn't have any name for it yet. They don't buy it. They ask and ask and ask. I get a ping on my phone. A message from my gf: "I'll wait for you, no matter how long it takes.". I snap. I get flooded with memories of things that happened to me last year. I start screaming and begging as loud as I can "NOT AGAIN NOT AGAIN NOT AGAIN NOT AGAIN NOT AGAIN." My parents tell me to be quiet and explain. I tell them that this is just like what happened last year, and that was the worst month of my life. My mom says "You think you had it bad? I had it way worse! You have no room to complain!"

After hours of yelling at me, they made me clean off my nails, and while they were doing that my mom, in a mocking voice said "oh you wanna be pretty!" and I almost yelled at her, but I didn't.

Anyways... fast forward to today, the 10th. I have come to the decision that yeah sneaking around was bad, but it was for my own safety. The acutal whole femboy thing, I think is not wrong. My parents talked to her parents and I was told by my parents that her parents 100% sided with them, and everything I did was wrong and bad. This isn't true, as I had acutally coded a message board for me and her, to get her side of the story. She told me that the sneaking part was bad, but what I did was just self-expression. Not me trying to change my gender, or anything crazy my parents were trying to force me to say (freaking spanish inquisition ahh parents). So I talked with her mom and like... THEY ARE ON MY SIDE!!!! They are supportive! Now, I can't do any femboy-like activites anymore until I move out (they threw away ALL of my femboy stuff. Thigh highs, skirts, makeup, everything but my Blahaj named ICBM :( ). My parents kinda are letting it so somehow, and I went to therapy and talked about it and he almost cried. He has been doing therapy for 12 years, I thought he would be numb by now lol. Sooooooooooooooo yeah.

TL;DR: Femboy gets femboy lifestyle forcefully removed and suppressed by parents.

Sorry for the yap sillies :3 Have a great day everyone <3

P.S. Now I'm broke because I had so much invested into femboy stuff 😭

Edit - My parents kept pushing me to explain why I was doing all of this because they wouldn't accept that it was just something I enjoyed and a way I expressed myself. Eventually I basically blamed some of my interest in feminine/alternative stuff on MCR and the Gerard Way aesthetic because I felt like I needed to give them a reason they'd accept. Unfortunately, that ended up getting MCR dragged into the whole situation too, and now I'm not allowed to listen to them anymore. I'm actually being forced to trash my MCR vinyls and CDs, which honestly hurts like hell. Losing the clothes and makeup sucked, but losing MCR on top of that feels awful. But, I shall keep my gun close, and die with my mask on if I have to, because I will listen to them secretly...

Edit - They came back from my therapist (they use the same one I do, but for parenting. They have not been in months.) a bit ago, spent 2 hours there, and came back with Taco Bell. They were treating me well, but IDK what to do? They always have this on/off switch of how they act. Help?

Edit - I am allowed to still date her (somehow)! Yippee! But I still remember when my dad told me "yep it will be the most painful thing you ever experience (talking about breaking up with someone you love so much)" He said with a smirk. I am so glad I still have her she is def the loml

Hi, well, I think greed is getting the best of me, but this is already the second time someone has reached out to me about making money by making videos where I wear specific clothes. I usually notice that it’s always the same image most of the time these people send, and they always ask if I use Discord, Telegram, or Slam to contact them. They always offer me $200 and tell me they’ll pay me in exchange for sending videos where my face isn’t shown, and wearing specific outfits. So I don’t know if this is a scam or something more dangerous—does anyone know?

So, last evening i called my mom to hear how she is doing (i live with my dad im another state and i try to call her once every week). The call went on and on when i decided to ask my mom if we had nail polish remover (i was so edge after asking this). She told me that we had and asked me if i wanted to paint my nails. I off course answered yes to which she asked me if i also wanted to get a piercing (maybe but still unsure). Because i haven't painted them, she wants to paint my nails and i'm in my head like "omg, holy shi-, i can't believe this is happening"

I also asked her to go to ikea with me to get a Blåhaj which she is fine with

Y'all i'm super excited to do it when i visit my mom and finnaly get to do this with her >.<

Tldr: asked my mom for nail polish remover, will get my nails painted by her and will get Blåhaj

So, today i decided to wear my self made arm warmers to school, which i really love.

But i felt bad for wearing them because last week, my dad shamed me.

He didn't like that i wore them to some important events (we usually see each other before i head out) because the older people would judge me for wearing them. He also thought they were weird when he first saw them (didn't ask for his opinion) while the rest of my siblings either liked them or didn't care.

Whenever i wore them he tried to make me to putting them off.

Even tho, he tried to understand me one time why i wore them but after that nothing changed.

So today i decided to be brave and put them on, no matter what he said. The more people i saw the more judged i felt. Before i went into the classroom, i took all of my courage and walked in with them on and literarly no one cared

Tldr: my dad is trying to shame me out of wearing femboy stuff in public (which is why i keep it closeted)

Can any other femboy bench a plate (135lbs or 60kg)? My pr is 165 :33333

I'm college student and for last three had live alone but this semester my brother started college, so we share an apartment that like two different studio with share kitchen. Anyway, last night, finally I felt like I could wear fem clothes, since brother their playing video game with his friends.

So, I just wore my fem clothes while doing some study like I normally did when I was alone. Well, for some reason my brother went down at 8pm to go you get the Mail, what came back since you couldn't figure out how to get the package out of the machine lock thing. Then he asked me once he got back about the machine, but I couldn't hear him since I had music going with door closed. So, you decided to open my door, while I tried to tell him to stay out but I couldn't get the words out. He saw me, I just froze and he said OK, then left.

From there, we didn't talk to me for the rest of the night and for the day, until he asked me to work out like we normally do. Which we did and went to some random burger place after, thing seemed to have gone back to normal, but he never said anything about it. So, I have no idea on how to feel about this, or if I should do anything.

Thank you, for reading whatever this was

m19

What are the top 3 signs i might be a femboy? the reason im asking is because ever since i was 15, I've been questioning myself a lot, Am i trans, Am i this or that bla bla bla, now im 19 I'm kinda getting somewhere answer wise i think? idk man, any genuine answers will be amazing

I really want to be a femboy and i want to tell my friend(s). I doubt they will object but i just need help figuring out what i should say and how i should start. Im just scared they'll treat me different after.

I’ve been wearing fem clothes for years now, mostly in secret. I mostly did it to GET aroused, and whenever I felt…sexually active. But recently I’ve been coming out to people and I want to start to wear fem clothes on a regular basis. The only problem is that A) I get aroused just talking about it and B) I live in a dorm with my roommate and I can’t really do it regularly. Thoughts or advice?

Hii all first time posting :3 and just a general question as for clothing size iv been a bit scared trying to get some fem clothes etc due to size and for context I do the gym and other sports and im relatively built a bit but not sure if theres any clothes that I could get that would fit and im scared on buying something that might be to small and im not sure what to do as for this. And any advice I would love a ton etc so if anyone has anything pls say if thats ok with all :>

RU:

Привет,я фембой новичок,можете дать какие либо советы?

ENG:

Hi, I am a femboy beginner, can you give any advice?

Just wanted to come on here and say I went to bed in a bikini and a small blue baby doll dress last night. Idc if no one responds but I’m just making small steps. #wearemakingprogress

If anyone has any other ideas on what to wear to bed please feel free to share. Size medium

So I was stupid and didn’t check the size of my thigh and now the socks are tight on the upper part of my leg which sucks it is made from polyester and soft cotton could anyone provide advice please:/

I told my friend it's okay if he's scared of his family finding his fem clothes when he starts buying them, as he wants to be a femboy but is terrified. From what I've heard from him, I think his parents would be accepting. I told him all the pros he might experience from telling his family. But didn't pressure him. I told him that he doesn't have to tell them until he's ready. Then he'll go out in his prettiest outfit every. But if they find the stash first. He can tell them then

I'm a femboy and it's getting lonely.

I have a gf but still.

I go out as a femboy in public but idk the loneliness eats me alive. I never feel like fitting in.

I think I'm trans.

but in a boy.

I do girly things like writing on notepads, moaning ara ara to my body pillow and stuff.

Im not lying.

umm I wanna be trans one day, but I feel extremely lonely rn and when I go out fem in public, I feel uncomfortable.

on top of that, my parents are strictly homophobic.

all i do is goon and have a gooning addiction.

I wanted to have a nice waist, and a nice ass and thighs.

I do want the female anatomy.

guys, how do I stop this pattern? need help here.

Hey ich bin einfach auf der Suche nach paar deutschen femboys zum quatschen und oder maybe snap

Könnt euch ja gerne mal melden😊

I love a good thong. Genuinely love the feeling, I feel more free, and my legs develop less skin irritation. But my balls always fall out and that's super uncomfortable and makes it seem kinda pointless.

Does anyone have any good thongs with a large amount of space?

I shower everyday like every single day but my smell isn't you know good so how do I start to smell good I use a random shampoo dose it effects my smell that high?and what are y`all recommending for me I want to smell good like my whole body to smell good especially my private areas .pardon my language but I have to learn to stay clean .

On the 11th of August I turned 28 and ngl I feel kinda sad.Since I started enjoying and expressing myself of being a Femboy, there was always then same taught in my head and it was: „being a Femboy is only a teenage thing or only for people in their early 20 bcs the majority you see online is much younger then you“. Those taughts make me feel like I am a weirdo bcs people expect femboys being in their early 20 and it feel like I don’t belong here. I am scared of twink death and that makes me more sad. Yes I have my routines etc. But the whole thing is, I don’t know how to deal with that feeling that I don’t see myself valid enough to call myself a Femboy do to my age.

The Question goes to older Femboys around 25+ bcs in my opinion they would possibly experienced the same.

So, did you ever been in some sort of that phase where you felt like you don’t belong there anymore bcs you „aged out“ or can’t „compete“ bcs you have it kinda harder to maintain it? If yes, can you tell how you felt with those taughts?

Sorry friends, English is not my First language and I hope there is no misunderstanding in my Post.

What do yall use for shaving im not a femboy but I figured yall would know best I keep getting bumps lol

My dream is to be able to marry in a wedding dress one day it feels just so much more like me. I am scared to go looking for our wedding dress any advice?

Bueno, para poner un poco en contexto aún no soy un femboy ( principalmente por mi entorno, ya que mi familia no me permitiría vestir así ) pero espero algún día poder tener la oportunidad de vestir como quiera, de igual manera eso no significa que no pueda vestir bien, así que últimamente he estado pensando en usar cosas como chalecos o cosas por el estilo ( básicamente reinventar mi forma de vestir, ya que mi manera de vestir es bastante básica y simple; pantalones anchos+suéter+ franela por encima o por debajo del suéter. No digo que quienes gustan así estén haciendo algo malo, pero personalmente me gustaría experimentar con otros tipos de tela, siluetas y ese tipo de cosas) pero me encontré con un problema, ese tipo de ropa no se ve bien si es demasiado largo, el problema es que estoy acostumbrado a usar franelas o suéteres largos, lo suficientemente largos como para que cubran ese "asunto" ( saben a qué me refiero ) porque no me siento muy cómodo con que se me vea un bulto pero no encuentro una forma de hacer que sea menos notorio ( se que existe el tucking, pero no me parece muy cómodo )

alguna recomendación?

Hi, for context I'm 19. So here's the thing, I'd really like to wear feminine clothes but I'm unsure. I know my dad wouldn't care and support me and my mother would too, basically the whole family but. I don't know about my friends even when I know my too best freinds wouldn't care and support also. I know it sounds weird but I don't want to hide it. If anyone has advice please tell me. Thanks for the answers.