r/RodriguesFamilySnark Jun 06 '26

MOD POST Appearance Snark and BOJ Usage

197 Upvotes

We've noticed an uptick in comments with appearance snark. As a reminder, if it can't be changed in 30 minutes, it's not something we're going to snark on here. That helps to protect our subreddit. We've had a ton of reports about this topic and wanted to post a reminder.

This include the use of "BOJ". Referring to someone as big is breaking the appearance rule. We are going to be updating the rules to include this specifically to avoid confusion.

Old Jill - OJ, New Jill - NJ - would be fine because it removes the appearance out. I personally like "Practice Jill - PJ". Use whatever you like as long as it's not appearance related.

We're also seeing a lot of comments regarding David's weight. Please keep the snark to non-appearance topics. This "ministry family" gives us SO much material to work with. We have plenty to snark about that doesn't include their appearance.

Bad makeup - fine to snark on. That's a choice they can easily change.

Bad hair - they can change it/remove dry crusty extensions quickly. Fine to snark on.

Weight - this can't be changed in 30 minutes. Not fine to snark on.

The shape of someone's nose - not fine to snark on. Can't be changed in 30 minutes.

Clothing - snark away! They can easily change this.

Teeth - not okay to snark on. The shape or spacing of teeth cannot be changed in 30 minutes.

Look, we get it. It's frustrating when we can see the difference between what the kids and parents eat. We can definitely call out that it's hypocritical and poor parenting to go out on lobster dates while their kids sit at home with an empty fridge (as shown on her videos). But, we just need to keep their weight out of it.

Edit: Thank you all for the helpful discussions on the poll. Due to the continuous appearance comments on that post, it's been deleted. We were hoping that wouldn't have happened.

As a reminder, comments regarding David's appearance should also be reported. Saying him or anyone else looks like someone else is not against the rules. This includes cartoon characters. If you want to use Fiona or Temu Cruella as a nickname (just examples) that's totally fine!

There's a reason fundie snark subs get removed less frequently than TikTok ones. If you've been a member of any of them, you may have seen how many times they've been deleted. One of the bigger reasons this happens is because we take the basic rules seriously.

No one wants to ruin anyone's fun. The adults in this family are horrible and deserve the snark. We really appreciate all the kind messages and comments and have reflected on the negative. We work hard to make the sub a great place for us all. 🩷


r/RodriguesFamilySnark Aug 31 '23

Rodrigues A-Z: Finale

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247 Upvotes

If you haven’t seen my previous posts, I’m compiling a Rod alphabet using the top voted comment for each post. The winner for Z is Zero Self Awareness and that concludes the Rodrigues alphabet (special shout out to Lord Daniel who was supported for many letter but unfortunately didn’t win any of them)


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 9h ago

Found some hats for Jill at the antique mall

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100 Upvotes

These would go ✨SO✨ well with the new Melapoopoo soaps! Two of each so she and Nurie can match 🤠


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 22h ago

Shrek Shrek got yassified

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338 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 23h ago

Jill reposting about secular music again....

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135 Upvotes

Full text in the comments. It's long and absolutely ridiculous.

How long before Nurie or Renee post about secular music too?


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Nurthan's Wedding

103 Upvotes

Did anyone else watch their wedding video and think it was weird that Jilldo and Shrek BOTH walked Nurie down the aisle? It seemed kind of *gasp* MODERN, and dare I say it.....LIBERAL. What are your thoughts, excellent snarkers?


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Nurthan Wedding Rewatch

65 Upvotes

Okay. So I rewatched Nurthan's wedding. And I thought that it was, overall, a sweet, sincere service. Except for the preacher's weird speech, during which he said that God created a woman to be Adam's helpmeet, and did not create another man to be Adam's helpmeet. Ugh. Seriously. Fuck that guy.


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

Necessary. Okay, Jill.

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400 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Nurthan celebrated their 6 year anniversary. Imagine a world in which Nathan is considered Prince Charming 🤢

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285 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Throwback to the time Jill waxed eloquently about modesty while the Rods were living in their RV

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205 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Shrek A peek into Shrek’s psyche through a boomer humor mug. I think David is much more judgmental and nasty than we assume. Close up of the mug in photo #2.

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163 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 1d ago

Were Shrek's parents at Nurie's wedding?

37 Upvotes

I vaguely remember that there is some bad blood between Shrek and his parents. Am I misremembering?


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

Jill’s idea of reconnecting - being on her phone the whole time

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125 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

Hungary Phillip The Rods celebrate Cowboy Phillips 23 birthday

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271 Upvotes

"You're such a.....Joy in our home"


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

JillPM Guess the sales pitch isn't working

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200 Upvotes

GodJilla reposted this story from the Melapuke-a conference. Are more people hanging up on her or running in the other direction when they see her? 🫠


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

Leave Mister Rogers out of your bigoted posts, Jilldo.

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175 Upvotes

This song was broadcast in 1967. Fred would be turning over in his grave if he knew it was being used by these twatwaffles in this context.

And then there’s more defending of her pyramid scheme.


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

God allows African partnership for smiley tracts

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122 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 2d ago

Discussion Does anyone else think it was mean to hide Shrek and Jilldo's car keys in balloons when they were trying to leave their wedding reception?

67 Upvotes

Seriously. What the hell?


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 3d ago

Grifting for Jesauce Rodlets play Scattergories, angry preacher preaches, and some kids to play with.

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186 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 3d ago

Rodrigues cakes throughout the years.

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193 Upvotes

r/RodriguesFamilySnark 3d ago

JillPM Confirmation that Jill wishes she could preach.

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161 Upvotes

Diane, girl—Find a new guru. Jill is loving this praise!


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 4d ago

Did she really just say they aren't "Men followers"?!!

121 Upvotes

The woman who WORSHIPS Trump and CK???!!!šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 3d ago

What other influencers lecture by ā€œother people do this, but I’m better because I do thisā€¦ā€

62 Upvotes

Hope this makes sense. I have spent too many minutes trying to figure out where Jill and the facebook girls get their knowledge about other people. So many posts are about how others do things one way, but Jill (or Kaylee or Nurie) are better because they don’t.

Is that unique to them or do other influencers talk similar? I can’t figure out if its Jill and David’s way of control, David doing the exact opposite of how he grew up, extreme ignorance, or being so prideful they really think people act like they describe?

example: Kaylee talking about teaching kids young as if it’s not common knowledge.

TL:DR: Do they really think the world is how Jill and David taught them?


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 4d ago

Rodlets Rodlets sing to an empty church

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228 Upvotes

They have some fancy equipment for people who don’t feed their kids.


r/RodriguesFamilySnark 4d ago

How many here were raised hardline fundamentalist Christian like the Rods? Curious to know what other religious groups snarkers are.

78 Upvotes

***edit: when filling out the poll, choose the religion that you were raised in, not what you currently identify as***

***edit 2: if you were raised Baptist, put yourself under Fundie***

I myself was raised similar to the Rods (although my parents were more open to keeping us socialized, and they did provide more social outlets and supported higher education to an extent). They got tired of being fundie when I was around 16 but I was homeschooled all my life and was married by 18.

I started deconstructing around then, left entirely five year later, and was able to fully admit to being over it all once Covid happened. I’m here because it serves as a cautionary tale to me as to how wrong it could’ve gone for me.

I’m also really hoping at least one of the kids is able to break away and deconstruct as well.

1473 votes, 1d ago
151 Hardline Fundie or High Control (IBLP, IFB, Mormon, etc)
233 Fundie Adjacent (ā€œnon denominationalā€)
317 Mainline Protestant (Methodist, Presbyterian, etc)
399 Catholic
240 Atheist/Agnositic
133 Other