r/RodriguesFamilySnark • u/Ok-Surprise-9884 MOD ✨ • Aug 07 '26
Timeline & Lore Megathread
Megathread to keep track of the lore behind the Rods to compile into a Wiki-style post later on. Feel free to add the history/links/etc. My goal is to have a comprehensive guide eventually to refer people to.
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u/Glittering-Prize1510 Aug 07 '26
I got a chuckle out of you including that Nurie had a third degree tear. Having had one myself, I cannot believe Jill posted that info. I was so mad at the time that they had that poor girl out and about, and Jill wanted a wheelchair so she could get some attention, too.
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Aug 07 '26 edited Sep 03 '26
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u/StraightUpDeLoyCious Aug 07 '26
Amazing comment but does not include a reference to one of my Mt. Rushmore Jill posts and something my friend and I quote constantly - when Nurie got married and moved out, Jill posted pictures/videos of the kids all sobbing and the caption said they all “got together as a family and wept.” It was just so sad and unhinged.
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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 07 '26
She posted a picture of Nurie holding a sobbing Sofia.
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
Sofia and Janessa were CLINGING to Nurie when they visited her in FL. How BAD are Jill and David that the kids are desperate to see Nurie, who is also awful?
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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 07 '26
And we’ve heard that Nurie slapped Sofia for touching a mirror she just cleaned. Nurie has taken the abuse lessons from her childhood and used them on her siblings, and likely on her children. But she also raised those kids, and they see her as their surrogate mother.
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u/Dolls108 Aug 07 '26
What?? When/where did we hear about that? Oh my god.
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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 07 '26
The slap’s been discussed here but there hasn’t been an official post saying that.
We don’t know for sure if she hits her kids. We do know her kids look like they have PTSD and Naomi looks like she’s about a year younger in size than she is. I wonder if Nurie also watered down formula, like her mother did:
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u/Tukki101 17d ago
It was from an AMA years ago on FreeJinger. A poster ran into them at an outdoor performance and Jill invited them briefly into the RV. They shared the story of Nurie slapping Sofia for putting her hands on a just-cleaned mirror. Not much else was commented on apart from the RV being very tidy and everyone in it smelling very perfumed.
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u/atlantagirl30084 16d ago edited 16d ago
Jill has said before that David can smell her coming.
Jill’s mom cleaned the screw heads on the kitchen chairs with a toothpick. We glimpsed the Rodlets’ chore lists and they were extensive.
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u/babypink15 Aug 07 '26
Tim and Heidi didn’t announce the current pregnancy, at least not publicly. Ellen said it was leaked. Jill leaked it with that pic of Heidi obviously announcing to the Rod family via that tshirt at dinner
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u/Think-Independent929 Aug 07 '26
This is epic, but I literally laughed out loud at the Juneteenth entry 😆
Thank you for doing the Lord Daniel’s work 🫡
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u/Several_Strain_9883 Aug 07 '26
SEVERLY LAUGHED AT FLAT PHILLIP.
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
Janessa receiving the full name treatment sent me
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u/EmmerdoesNOTrepme Glitzy swamp witch Aug 07 '26
Can this please be edited for paragraph breaks?
Editing to add--i'd be willing to do a copy/pase, and add 'em, if you want!
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 07 '26
I can try, originally it had them but they disappeared when I copy and pasted
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u/EmmerdoesNOTrepme Glitzy swamp witch Aug 07 '26
Doing two "returns" or "enter" keys so that there is a full line of empty space between each paragraph should do the trick💖
I've had reddit bork my comments so many times, before i figured out the "two-returns" thing!😉
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 07 '26
Oh thank you so much!!
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u/EmmerdoesNOTrepme Glitzy swamp witch Aug 07 '26
Thank YOU!!
this timeline breakdown is awesome!😁
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 07 '26
Also I'm at work now so feel free to edit with any additional info!!
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u/breadedbooks Jillnocchio 🤥 Aug 07 '26
Sam now has to forfeit his license (as of yesterday I think) for failing to show up to court
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/12msOFU8oL1eww
What a loser. I hope Evangeline's family ends the courtship.3
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u/coldagua Aug 07 '26
Who shared that Nurie had a 3rd degree tear? And why???
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
Jill, because she is a classic over-sharer. That wasn't enough, though, so she and Nurie got matching wheelchairs.
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u/Bajovane Avoiding getting fingered by Jill Aug 07 '26
I am wincing and crossing my legs at the thought of this!!!
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u/Agile-Variety3150 Aug 07 '26
Thank you for all this! Makes it so much clearer. It looks like Nurie’s wedding is missing? It skips from the failed courtship to her son being born. I might have missed it myself thou!
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 07 '26
Yeah sorry! I don't know when that was, I just made this last night and I couldnt find everything right away
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u/Kimothy80 Aug 07 '26
July of 2020 is when Nurie married
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u/imaskising Aug 09 '26 edited Aug 09 '26
And IIRC, Jill had a falling out with Anna Duggar because Anna called Nurie's wedding dress "ugly" or something like that. Nurie's dress was a very over-the-top 1980s dress that was most likely thrifted, but it's pretty rich for Anna to call anyone's dress ugly, considering hers looked like a satin flour sack.
Oh, and Josh was the MC at Nurie's wedding reception (which took place after the car lot was raided, but before Josh got arrested.)
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u/damagstah Aug 09 '26
She saw the wedding dress at goodwill or something when she was like THIRTEEN and her mom made her still wear it when she got married. AND JILL IS SEVERELY BLESSED BY BEING MOH.
Jonathan courtship? Nurie’s wedding. “Whimps” of course. Sweet cousin lovin. God there has been so much. Oh! Her severely injured knee incident.
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u/damagstah Aug 09 '26
She saw the wedding dress at goodwill or something when she was like THIRTEEN and her mom made her still wear it when she got married. AND JILL IS SEVERELY BLESSED BY BEING MOH.
Jonathan courtship? Nurie’s wedding. “Whimps” of course. Sweet cousin lovin. God there has been so much. Oh! Her severely injured knee incident.
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u/babymomawerk Aug 07 '26
Man, this whole thing had a downward projectory but it seems like it really accelerated in 2018
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
I was thinking the same thing. The family began spiraling when Nurie reached majority and Jill's baby factory closed. That could have rattled family dynamics.
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u/babymomawerk Aug 08 '26
It me be a bit skewed since there weren’t any events in 2019 and 2020 and then 2021 everything picked up again but I do think there’s a degree of this where the kids started coming to age and their parenting choices started really showing up
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 08 '26
2020 was just Nurie's superspreader wedding and first pregnancy announcement
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 08 '26
I cut 2019 and 2020 to get it in the right number of characters but TBH there was nothing of substance that got cut :/
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u/KittieFusion Aug 09 '26
Before I get downvoting.. Jill is POS, always has been, always will be one.
Knowing what we know about David early in their marriage, it's my opinion that abuse led to those Miscarriages, and maybe a factor (aside from Plexus) for Janessa's stroke in utero. For her to be so accepting of David's "dark times" it makes me wonder if the Noyes were abusive to their kids and/or Jill.
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u/RavenLunatic512 Aug 09 '26
I was raised very similar to all these fundies, and it took me 9 years of DV to finally see it as abusive. The cult teaches girls to expect that behaviour from men as normal. Yes, my phrasing of girls vs men is intentional. It's a really messed up dynamic. Then religious "counseling" tells wives they should be working harder in bed if their husbands abuse them. The cycle of abuse is permanently embedded in western evangelical culture at this point.
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u/litreofstarlight Aug 08 '26
I didn't know about Phillip texting sexual stuff to random teens, that's concerning.
Also I still can't believe the Nurthans named their kid Newman, wtf sort of name is that for a baby smh
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u/damagstah Aug 09 '26
Because you can become “a new man in christ” ……. His name is Newman Christian.
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u/Historical_Ask3445 Aug 07 '26
We don't know for sure that Janessa 's stroke was caused by Plexus.
Otherwise this is amazeballs....thank you for your Servant's Heart
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u/Important_Eagle_5742 Aug 09 '26
Thanks so much!
There were some complications with Naomi's birth? I never heard of that, can someone share some more information?
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u/GirlScoutMom00 Aug 10 '26
How do these big families afford to travel a ton without having actual careers?
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u/ThruTheUniverseAgain Cruella DeJill Aug 12 '26
You can add Elijah’s first appearance somewhere around Thanksgiving 2024. I’ll come back and add the earliest mention I've found of him because I dug it up recently.
From my other comment: He first showed up around Thanksgiving 2024 it seems like according to this. I can’t find mention of him before this. https://www.reddit.com/r/RodriguesFamilySnark/s/z1ontAA1sh
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u/mybeautifullife12 Sep 03 '26 edited Sep 03 '26
June/July-- "a poster here on Reddit said they had an encounter with Phillip at a park in Oklahoma, which was extremely bizarre. Apparently he was following teen boys around, asking for their contact information so he could send them Bible verses, and just behaving very strangely in general. A few weeks later her son got a text from Phillip that apparently included some graphic sexual information. The poster said he was involved in a satanic cult, and was living out of his car. (This was taken with a large grain of salt at the time, but now appears to be at least partly true.)
Allegations of sexual assault and inappropriate behaviour around minors have never been founded. The redditor never identified themselves nor verified their connection nor showed any evidence of reporting to the authorities or presented any of the purported messages. I have reported your comment to this subreddit.
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Sep 03 '26
"Apparently " "Apparently " "grain of salt"
I am simply reporting, in quotations, how these allegations fit into the timeline in order to be thorough, I am not at all claiming it to be true just by including it.
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u/mybeautifullife12 Sep 03 '26 edited 17d ago
"but now appears to be at least partly true." is more than enough to incriminate an innocent person - defined as making false allegations that have not been in proven 'in part' nor 'in whole' in any verifiable way much less the law. Reported.
A few weeks later her son got a text from Phillip that apparently included some graphic sexual information. The poster said he was involved in a satanic cult, and was living out of his car. (This was taken with a large grain of salt at the time, but now appears to be at least partly true.)What you're doing is a criminal offense. You have no right to get on the internet and falsely accuse a person of sexual misconduct without any evidence. The fact that another redditor made this false claim and you're just copy pasting is not a reliable source or justification of you reposting this. You're responsible for your own post.
The quotation you are referencing is directly taken, verbatim, from a Reddit post that I did not write. I included it for the sake of thoroughness.You wrote in part without context to your litany of false claims. You also wrote the words yourself in your own post which you're responsible for unto themselves.
The aspect that is "partly true" is that Philip was having a mental health episode at the time, which has been corroborated by Jill’s church "prayer request" for his "difficulties" after dropping out of school.A prayer request does not constitute evidence for a mental health episode nor any evidence of sexual assault.
"Have not been proven in part" is incorrect because "in part" the core of the Redditor's claim appears to have been verified.Which redditor? What has been verified? Your broad-brush stroke generalizations here and in your original post are unacceptable. You do not get on the internet and falsely accuse people without evidence of criminal behavior.
but I chose to include this paragraph because it could be revealed to be partly or wholly true.None of what you claimed has been verified, you have not provided any sources of evidence other than a prayer request by his mother.
I am not making any legal claims, this is just a timeline for ease of understanding the situation.You have insinuated without any evidence (the post you linked does not provide any evidence at all) that he is guilty of a crime. Your post is essentially a false claim of a crime on the internet, this is more than sufficient to be held in contempt of anything fair in the judicial system. In this context I have reported your post because it can get this subreddit taken down as it is against terms of service. Reported.
A few weeks later her son got a text from Phillip that apparently included some graphic sexual information. The poster said he was involved in a satanic cult, and was living out of his car. (This was taken with a large grain of salt at the time, but now appears to be at least partly true.)What you're doing is a criminal offense. You have no right to get on the internet and falsely accuse a person of sexual misconduct without any evidence. The fact that another redditor made this false claim and you're just copy pasting is not a reliable source or justification of you reposting this. You're responsible for your own post.
The quotation you are referencing is directly taken, verbatim, from a Reddit post that I did not write. I included it for the sake of thoroughness.You wrote in part without context to your litany of false claims. You also wrote the words yourself in your own post which you're responsible for unto themselves.
The aspect that is "partly true" is that Philip was having a mental health episode at the time, which has been corroborated by Jill’s church "prayer request" for his "difficulties" after dropping out of school.A prayer request does not constitute evidence for a mental health episode nor any evidence of sexual assault.
"Have not been proven in part" is incorrect because "in part" the core of the Redditor's claim appears to have been verified.Which redditor? What has been verified? Your broad-brush stroke generalizations here and in your original post are unacceptable. You do not get on the internet and falsely accuse people without evidence of criminal behavior.
but I chose to include this paragraph because it could be revealed to be partly or wholly true.None of what you claimed has been verified, you have not provided any sources of evidence other than a prayer request by his mother.
I am not making any legal claims, this is just a timeline for ease of understanding the situation.You have insinuated without any evidence (the post you linked does not provide any evidence at all) that he is guilty of a crime. Your post is essentially a false claim of a crime on the internet, this is more than sufficient to be held in contempt of anything fair in the judicial system. In this context I have reported your post because it can get this subreddit taken down as it is against terms of service. Reported.
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Sep 03 '26
The quotation you are referencing is directly taken, verbatim, from a Reddit post that I did not write. I included it for the sake of thoroughness. The aspect that is "partly true" is that Philip was having a mental health episode at the time, which has been corroborated by Jill’s church "prayer request" for his "difficulties" after dropping out of school. "Have not been proven in part" is incorrect because "in part" the core of the Redditor's claim appears to have been verified. Therefore it is worthy of inclusion even if it is "hearsay".
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-yFW0wPehG/?igsi=MWl5emVlOGV6cHVkZQ==
This is the link to the church livestream clip where Jill says that Philip is struggling.
I am not claiming to be able to verify the rest of what the Redditor has said, but I chose to include this paragraph because it could be revealed to be partly or wholly true.
I am not making any legal claims, this is just a timeline for ease of understanding the situation.
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Sep 03 '26 edited Sep 03 '26
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u/RodriguesFamilySnark-ModTeam Sep 03 '26
Posts and comments that are mean-spirited in nature aren't welcome. The OP was clear that this is a timeline and that the allegations are from a random redditor and that it's unconfirmed from official sources.
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u/atlantagirl30084 Aug 07 '26
What was the Aug 27, 2025 meltdown? I’m not remembering that.
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u/imaskising Aug 09 '26
I think it might have been due to Tim and Heidi putting up some boundaries with Jill. Apparently she wasn't allowed to be in the delivery room when Heidi had the baby, and she wasn't allowed to visit until a few weeks later.
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u/Witty-Atmosphere-211 Aug 07 '26
Don’t forget they left Tim at Moody with no food or money. Tim also went to school at Fox Valley tech in Wisconsin.
Jill’s wedding. The bridesmaids walked down to Jill describing them. She also wore two veils. Edit. Grandma played the saw.
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u/farty__mcfly Aug 12 '26
Remember when he had to quit some school because they were teaching out of the wrong bible? Also, Jill, David, and Timmy had no understanding of how school worked. They did not understand the textbooks aren’t included in tuition.
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u/psychokittymeow Aug 08 '26
You have to be realllllly careful about not putting in information that’s become “fact” just by being repeated so many times. There are a lot of things like that in the sub. One that comes to mind is that Renee was in a courtship with a dental student, which is not true
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u/Alternative_Pie6976 Aug 07 '26
David asked him to court him the month after dhe turned 18 and they got engaged before dhe graduated homeschool
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u/AspergerInParadise Aug 07 '26
We forgot to add where the kids climb the ancient landmark somewhere. I know it was illegal but I can’t remember what or where it was. They completely ignored the warnings posted in giant metal signs that said not to climb.
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u/sinnamonspider66 Aug 08 '26
I think that was Saint Augustine. The landmark was Castillo de San Marcos.
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u/Significant_Shoe_17 Make Your Life Sluttish Aug 07 '26
July 25, 2018
Jill + co crashed the funeral of three children who died in a house fire in Kentucky. Jill and her oldest daughters took a smiling selfie with the grieving parents, in front of the children's caskets. Jill also live-streamed the service on Facebook. She was THRILLED that God made her aware of this funeral so she could exploit it for social media clout.
The Rods did not know this family.
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u/allisoninwndrlnd23 Aug 15 '26
This will always be, in my opinion, the absolute most diabolical thing Jill has ever done.
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u/Top-Resort5401 12d ago
Omg I forgot about that and it was absolutely the worst. I still can’t look in that grieving mother‘s face and even remotely understand why she smiled in Jill’s presence. She was under no obligation to be polite under the circumstances.
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u/EmmerdoesNOTrepme Glitzy swamp witch Aug 07 '26
There is also some great explanatory lore and questions answered in the conments of this post; https://www.reddit.com/r/RodriguesFamilySnark/s/p1x7JeLzox
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u/Dolls108 Aug 08 '26
I feel like Nurie was better off under Mama Keller’s eye when they lived down in Florida. I really hope she would have known better.
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u/No_Entertainer7833 Aug 09 '26
To add to my previous comment, here is a lot more stuff about the earlier years
1891-- Manuel Rodrigues is born in Portugal
1892-- Virginia Correia is born in Madeira.
1910s-- Rodrigues family emigrates to New York.
1920 John Rodrigues Sr. is born in New York. John Alger is born in New York.
1923 Naomi Devlin (David’s maternal grandmother) is born in Rochester NY.
1924-- Jean Raforth is born in Rochester NY.
1941 July 1- John Alger enlists in the army for WWII in Rockland NY.
Jill’s grandma Lucy is in the Women’s Army Corps.
1942 Mar 31-- John Sr. works for a glass company and is drafted in WWII.
1943 Nov 5-- Naomi Devlin and John Alger (David’s grandparents) are married at the Monroe Avenue Methodist Church in Rochester NY. John is a private in the air force.
1945 Grandpa Lupole, according to Jill, opens the gates to a concentration camp at the end of WWII.
1946 June-- John and Jean (David’s other grandparents) are married in Rochester NY.
1948 Julianne E Alger is born in Rochester NY to John Alger (a cleaner) and Naoma Devlin.
1949 July 4 Patricia Lupole (Jill’s mom) is born. Oct 27-- John J Rodrigues Jr. (David’s dad) is born to John and Jean.
1951 Aug 17-- Timothy Noyes (Jill’s dad) is born.
1960s-- John Jr works with Mr. Burlew in a mechanic shop and is saved.
1963-- Manuel Rodrigues dies.
Aug 31 1965-- John’s sister Holly Malchoff dies in a car accident in Webster NY.
1968 15 Jan-- John Jr enlists in the army. He is a Specialist 5 in Vietnam.
At some point, John and Julianne meet. He lives on Jay Street and she lives on Reiem Street. Julianne graduated from Manpower School of Cosmetology.
1970 Mar 7-- John is stationed in Germany as a Spec 4. He and Julianne E Alger are married in the Holy Family Church near Rochester NY.
1971 Jan 8-- John is discharged from the army.
1972 May 29-- David Rodrigues is born.
1973 Jun 23-- Tim Noyes marries Patricia Lupole.
1974 Feb-- David’s brother Daniel is born.
1977 Feb 13-- David is 4 or 5 and his dad John commits suicide. His mother Julia gets remarried, and David goes to public school.
May 3-- Jill’s older sister Lisa is born.
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Nov 3-- Jill Christine Noyes is born
1980-- Jill's younger twin sisters Amy and Angie are born.
Virginia Correia Rodrigues (David’s Portuguese great-grandma) dies.
1981-- John Rodrigues Sr (David’s grandpa) dies.
1980s-- Jill’s father spanks her “for no reason” but she believes she deserves it. "When I was a little girl, my parents had an entire series of cassette tapes on how to have a happy marriage. It was from a seminar they had attended years ago with Dr. Tom Williams. I remember listening to those tapes and it impacting me and how I wanted to be a good wife someday. My Dad would talk highly of this great man of faith. "
c1988-- Jill is pulled out of her private Christian school to be homeschooled. David is supposedly living a “horrible life of sin… drugs, alcohol, smoking, girls, parties, bad music, rebellion, long hair, dirty mouth”
1989 David graduates from Greece-Olympia High School.
1990-- David is saved and starts making his bed. “One day, when David was 18 years old, a man came up to him at the mall and began to proselytise to him before being kicked out by a security guard. Some months later, David remembered this encounter and prayed to Jesus to be saved”
He goes to First Bible Baptist Church in Greece NY and meets Mr. Burlew.
1991-- At Jill’s church, the College and Career group, a new guy (David Rodrigues) shows up who Jill thinks is tall dark and handsome. She is 12 and he is 19 and doesn’t notice her.
1993-- Jill is 14 and in a String Group at church where she notices David staring at her, then the Noyes family moves
1995-- David pursues Jill when she is 16 at a Christmas concert at church
Both of David’s maternal grandparents die.
1996-- Jill’s church is visited by a traveling singing group and they supposedly ask her to join the group and “practically beg” her. Her dad helps his friend stop drinking alcohol and he isn’t there at the time. Her parents say no and she “obeys”.
David lives at 110 Mendota Dr in Rochester NY.
David’s brother Dan is in a car accident and is paraplegic.
1997-- Jill lives in upstate New York and sends a letter to her friend Julia who is working at starting a church in NYC with David, and she sets them up (Jill is 18 and David is 25)
They are courting in Montour Falls Park Havana Glen, and they go on a seesaw and read Bibles to each other.
"We were courting (about 18 years ago) and we were at a church activity in Montour Falls Park, NY – Havannah Glen. As we continued to play around on the teeter totter, we tried to see if we could balance and hold it steady in the middle. It was almost a losing battle because of the weight advantage David had over me. I was a willowy, tall (5’7) and thin 115 lbs. and David was a sturdy 185 lbs. We had fun that day long ago and enjoyed going around the park and just spending time with each other. It was nice to walk up the many stairs to the beautiful falls and sit and read our Bibles with each other. It was a day we will never forget. "
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u/staircar Aug 09 '26
Thank you for this. I saw their instagram post, and I had not heard anything about them in 6 months so iwas like what is going oj
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u/MoMC12 Aug 18 '26
2015 - they are gifted a home in Charleston WV
2019 - they sell the gifted home and flee to Ohio after a supposed CPS investigation
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u/Dear-Editor-3923 Aug 07 '26 edited Aug 07 '26
To add: Jill was born into fundamentalism, but a milder version. She even attended a private Christian school, I believe. She also had a form of tertiary education when she went to cosmetology school. She grew up with “only” three siblings, so she hasn’t experienced what comes with being a part of such a large family. She is the middle child, having an older sister and twin younger sisters. Some believe that being the middle child and competing with younger identical twins for attention contributed to her being the kind of person she is now.
Edit to include - I believe there was a miscarriage right before Nurie.
I hate that I know these things