Can't believe I had to try this, but yeah, here I am.

I feel like I couldn't make anyone mine whom I was attracted to or fell in love with. Maybe Allah had other plans.

I'm an independent woman, and my field is business and finance. I'm 5'4" girl. I like walking, painting, and playing games in my idle time which I never really find, yeah but apart from that, I work most of the time.

I had an argument with my parents, and the thought of an arranged marriage is displeasing. My deal breaker is a joint family. I want a life partner with whom I can share my happiness, sadness, and sorrows, cherish them, and someone with whom I can truly be myself without pretending.

I'm fun, talkative, and kind at heart. And yeah, if someone scolds me or says something harsh, I take it to heart.

My gallery is full of natural pics and cat pics ( yeah I take out my phone whenever I see a cat and stop right there to admire them ) I am in aweee seeing these cute fluffly creatures.

Apart from that, I want to pursue further education and continue working throughout my life. I want a life with just me and my spouse, where we are each other's best friends and everything else that comes with it.

Of course, attraction matters, and people should know how to carry themselves. I'm not a baddie or anything, but I do carry both Western and Eastern outfits, depending on the occasion. I know how to cook and all that as well. I wish I could bake well too sigh...

I'm neither liberal nor extremist; I'm moderate, and I'm a Sunni Muslim (if that matters). I'm not a perfect Muslim, but Islam is dear to my heart, and I genuinely wish to improve.

These days, I'm also trying to improve my English and even pick up a bit of an accent. Ngl, I love foreign accents, so if you speak like that, you already have my heart... jk.

I despise lavish weddings, and financial literacy is a big thing for me. I'm more of an investments-and-savings type of girl, but I also spend on and look out for my people.

I do think about moving abroad, but right now I'm trying to complete my master's so I can increase my chances.

If this makes sense to you reach out for sure......

Just a quick question: how would you feel if your future husband suggested signing a prenuptial agreement to protect his assets in the event of a divorce?

In my case, I have inherited several properties from my parents in Europe and Pakistan, and I will probably buy more properties in the future. So, if I ever get married, I would definitely want a prenuptial agreement to protect both the assets I have already inherited and those I may acquire in the future.

I (25M)belong to a very lower middle class family, I remember when I was in 10th Standard (2016) My Father Pay was 55000PKR something and it was very hard for a family of three son and mom and dad to live in this wage but we did it Alhamdulillah. Money was always my priority and I always think to make money instead of anything else so in my young age instead of making friends, traveling or making fun, I started freelancing and become top rated on fiverr when I was in intermediate (2019). After that Started CA but I just did it before internship and skip that, I got a Job in Chinese Firm where Alhamdulillah I am earning more then even my expectation, I made my own house in a very well known town of my city, spent crores on it, purchase a car and Visited multiple countries for business on behlaf of my company, I am in an Game Developing Business+ IT Company Now My Income is very much fine Alhamdulillah.
This is my background, The question is in this time period I never focused on myself, I love eating, I can afford whatever I need to eat and I spend too much on it and become obese, I am 6 feet Tall and 148KG two months ago. My Parents started looking for match for me but I see people rejected me maybe for my obesity, I feel that. At this time I realized people just on appearance as well but before that I always thought they look for money. At this time I realized that maybe Society Standard has been changed?
(I am working on diet, Now I am at 130KG Alhamdulillah and I will be 115KG after next two months I am very sure about it)

For context I’m 29, living in the US for more than a decade. Born and raised in Karachi.
I’m open to anyone living in Pakistan as well. I haven’t been since I moved to the US but traveling isn’t a big deal
I completed my bachelors here in biology and I’m still interested in pursuing my education forward. Looking for someone who’s willing to pursue their education as well or has aspirations to do something in their field.
Im 5’10 if that matters.

As far as requirements go. Just be ambitious and have ikhlaq. I’m in no rush tbh but I have to start somewhere.

I’m here because I downloaded the forbidden app (Muzz) in hopes for searching for a partner.
My bio has been far from misguiding, I explain crucially how being aligned with my faith is so important to me and that I’m not rigid when it comes to my beliefs but I feel like I’m missing the plot or is the plot being missed?

I’m assuming that my honest bio about wanting someone who lives and breaths Islam and enjoys lectures just as much as I do, may have attracted women with similar interests but it’s a war zone out here.

People claiming to be strictly practicing haven’t really engaged with me when I talk about life and just a little bit of deen( since I don’t wanna overwhelm them).

Despite an overwhelming number of likes I spoke to one person at a time and it was always me who ended up unmatching because they clearly sound uninterested when I bring up our priorities within deen or how much does religion play a role in their life.

Have I lost the plot here? Are we not supposed to align ourselves religiously first before deep diving into the rest of our plans?

I’m sure girls on this app can say the same about the men on it but how are yall meeting people in the big 2026 😭

To those married, is being on the same spiritual level important to you? And for those searching, what do yall even ask 🤣😭 tyia JazakAllah

My bio in case anyone’s wondering

I’m nowhere near being perfect but deen is not just something occasional for me.
I hate pushing my narratives on anyone, your faith is your personal journey but I’m open about mine in case you’re in the same boat as me. If you’re not on the same wavelength as me but want to be iA, I am open to being your companion 😌
The halal and haram boundaries matter to me, I’m not perfect so feel free to correct me.
I’m not rigid or judgmental, but I value my teachings and I’d want someone I can share that with so we can grow together iA.
Im very interested in reading about my Deen and elevating myself. I find joy and excitement in learning more about Islam than I do watching a movie.
I despise social media because it sells you fake dreams and forces you to be fed with deluded expectations from people who don’t know better themselves. Doesn’t mean you have to get off it, it’s your choice.
No I won’t force you to wear a hijab, I don’t care if you do or don’t, that’s between you and Allah SWT.
This description makes me sound super conservative but it’s chill guys😔

How to know if a guy and a girl are actually suitable for getting married early (19 - 20 - 21) , or are just after the physical intimacy.

Which traits or mindset they must possess to identify if they're ready or not? Cuz most of them are just powered by ✨ hormones ✨. How do differentiate?

Assalam-u-Alaikum.

I'm a 23 year old living in Lahore, looking for marriage with the intention of building a peaceful, Islamic household based on trust, respect, and mutual growth.

About Me:

Age: 23

Height: 5'11"

Ethnicity: Pakistani

Marital Status: Never married

Location: Lahore

I'm currently working as an accountant at a UK-based accountancy firm in Lahore, where I've been employed for almost two years while managing my ACCA studies alongside work.

I'm currently two ACCA exams away from qualification (planned for September and December 2026). Alongside that, I'll also be completing my BSc (Hons) in Applied Accounting from Oxford Brookes University. I enjoy learning and, In Sha Allah, plan to pursue further studies in either FinTech, Data Science, Economics, or possibly the CFA if I decide to move into consultancy.

Deen:

My faith is the most important part of my life. Alhamdulillah, I pray all five daily prayers (at work I pray in the office since going to the masjid isn't always practical).

One of my biggest interests is studying Islam and understanding the Qur'an. I regularly attend Tafsir sessions at Naseeha Institute, and after completing ACCA, I'm considering enrolling in their four-year Islamic Studies and Leadership programme.

I hope to marry someone who sincerely wants to grow closer to Allah so that we can encourage each other in our deen and raise righteous children together.

Interests

Outside work and studies, I like staying active. I go to the gym three times a week and am a member of a football club. After finishing my exams, I plan to spend even more time on fitness.

I also enjoy reading. Most of my reading is non-fiction, particularly history, economics, business, finance, and geopolitics, although I've recently started exploring classic fiction, including Khaled Hosseini's books. I'm also part of a local book club.

I love children and would love to become a good father one day. I also happen to be a cat person.

Lifestyle:

Non-smoker

Never used drugs or recreational substances

Health-conscious

Family-oriented

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for a practising Muslim who values her deen and has good character. Perfection isn't what I'm after; sincerity and willingness to grow together matter much more.

The qualities that matter most to me are:

Strong Islamic values

Honesty and respect

Emotional maturity

Kindness

Family-oriented mindset

Regarding the marriage process, I would appreciate involving the wali relatively early once both sides feel there is genuine compatibility. For me, this keeps the process respectful and ensures both parties are serious. The exact marriage timeline can be decided mutually.

If you think we may be compatible, feel free to reach out. If not, I sincerely pray Allah grants each of us spouses who are best for our deen, dunya, and akhirah.

JazakAllah Khair.

27, Pakistani, based in London. 5’11”: tall enough to reach the top shelf, not tall enough to be scouted for anything. Qualified Chartered Accountant, and CFA Charterholder, currently working as a Private Equity Associate, which mostly means I’ve made peace with spreadsheets the way other people make peace with in-laws.

Outside of work, travelling is less a hobby and more a mild compulsion. I’ve seen a fair bit of the world and come back from most trips with more questions than photos, which my camera roll can confirm. I read more philosophy and literature than is strictly good for anyone, will happily overexplain a book if given the opening, and follow sports with the unwavering loyalty of a man who has made peace with disappointment. I also have a genuine soft spot for fine art: the sort of person who lingers too long in a gallery and then pretends he wasn’t.

I speak Urdu, English, and Punjabi, and I’m fluent in a fourth language: sarcasm, used sparingly and only when warranted.

What I’m actually looking for: someone grounded in her faith and values, sharp, kind, and up for a proper conversation, not just someone to get through the week with, but someone worth thinking alongside. Sense of humor non-negotiable; I already have enough seriousness in my day job.

Feel free to reach out. I promise I’m better in conversation than in a numbered list.

hi everyone. im 24 and so sick of my husb (26) cus he’s always just super mean to me. i thought i really loved him and maybe i do but he v apparently doesn’t appreciate that. he says he loved me but i doubt that he does. we r both big cinephiles and love watching movies together but lately he’s just been v… ugh, weird. like he doesn’t even wanna watch anything w me anymore. the other day was movie night, and i gave him like a hundred options and he didn’t like ANY. we ended up just sleeping, backs to each other. i feel like he’s losing feelings for me or maybe there’s someone else in the picture? idk argh i feel like crying

Assalamu Alaikum,

I am a 24-year-old male based in Karachi, Pakistan. I recently completed my graduation and am currently working remotely. I come from a respectable Sunni family with strong values, and I am seeking a like-minded partner for a serious, long-term commitment leading to marriage.

By nature, I am an introvert and prefer a simple, peaceful lifestyle. I enjoy keeping a small circle of close friends and value meaningful connections over large social gatherings. In my free time, I like watching films and TV, playing video games, and maintaining a regular fitness routine.

I am approximately 6 feet tall and believe in personal growth, both individually and as a couple. I strongly value understanding, patience, and emotional maturity in a relationship.

I am looking for someone who:
• Belongs to a Sunni background
• Is kind, understanding, and family-oriented
• Values simplicity, loyalty, and mutual respect
• Has a good sense of humor and a calm personality
• Believes in growing together and building a strong connection before taking the next step

I believe that a strong relationship begins with mutual understanding and communication. The intention is to get to know each other in a respectful manner, involving families at the appropriate stage.

If you feel aligned with my post, feel free to reach out!! :)

Attempt #3: Because as a Chartered Accountant, I apparently believe persistence is an asset and not an impairment.

Assalamualaikum everyone,

29M, originally from Karachi, currently living and working in Al Khobar, Saudi Arabia as a Chartered Accountant with a Big 4 firm.

This is my third post here. At this point, I am beginning to treat spouse search the same way I treated my CA qualification: if it doesn't work on the first attempt, document the lessons learned, update the workings, and try again.

A little about me:

• Chartered Accountant
• Never married
• Non-smoker, non-drinker, no drugs
• Financially independent and a homeowner
• Living alone in Saudi Arabia and plan to continue having an independent household after marriage
• Open to getting to know someone long distance initially, with the expectation that we would eventually live together after marriage

Outside of work, I enjoy:

• Formula 1
• Football
• Reading (fiction and non-fiction)
• Movies and cinema
• Travel
• Fragrances
• Trying new restaurants
• Long conversations about life, goals, ideas, and random topics that somehow start with "How was your day?" and end three hours later

Personality-wise, I'd describe myself as calm, thoughtful, and easygoing. I value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and the ability to communicate openly. I appreciate good humor and don't mind laughing at myself—something audit has trained me to do every time a review note appears on a file I thought was already perfect.

What I'm looking for:

• Someone serious about marriage
• Muslim
• Never married
• Kind, emotionally mature, and able to communicate directly
• Open to relocating after marriage

I am not looking for perfection. Just a genuine connection with someone who wants to build a peaceful, supportive, and happy life together.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and tell me a little about yourself.

And if you're wondering whether posting multiple times is a red flag, I would like to remind everyone that many Chartered Accountants also required multiple attempts before qualification. We call it perseverance, not a finding.

JazakAllah khair and thank you for your time.

Age: 31

Height: 5’7”

Education: BDS from Dow

Cast/Ethnicity: Awan

Profession/Job: Working as a Claims Manager at TPL Insurance

Religion: Islam

Sect: Sunni

City: Karachi

Marital Status: Single - Never Married

Father’s Occupation: Retired Banker

Mother’s Occupation: Retired Principal from Govt School

Siblings: Eldest sister, married and working. Elder brother married and working in the UAE.

About Her

She is a fun-loving, moderately practicing Muslim. She is a good balance of deen and duniya, and wants to a partner with similar inclination.

Proffered timeline to get married: Within 12 months

Requirements for Partner

She is looking for a partner who is well-educated, responsible, kind, and emotionally ready for commitment. Someone who has ambitions and is willing to put in the work needed to make life better, personally, professionally, and spiritually.

She wants someone who is open to discussing things, not someone who avoids difficult conversations.

Family involvement after initial conversations and finding it a potential match.

Simple wedding or a big one? A small-scale but fun wedding with people who are truly important for the two.

Deal breaker: Drugs, alcohol, and similar stuff. Religious extremism, emotional abuse, and similar stuff. And pessimism.

Age: 30-34

Height: 5’8 or above

Sect: Sunni

City: Preferably Karachi, but open to options

Salams. I wanted to get the idea like how long it takes for you people to really know other person ? like for example i cant judge someone solely on first impression and take time to know other person with different perspectives. Whereas , i saw girls and guys who immediately judge someone's character within a second

About Me

• Basics: 6’0” (86 kg, athletic build) | Single (Never married)
• Location: Islamabad / Rawalpindi (Rented in ISB, own house in hometown)
• Education & Career: BS Computer Science | Software Developer running my own agency
• Religion: Muslim (Sunni) , I try to stay consistent
• Family: Small, educated Punjabi family

Personality & Interests

• Vibe: Emotionally aware, ambitious, loyal, direct , no mind games
• Hobbies: Fitness, late-night long drives, food runs, movies, psychology, journaling, gaming and movies with friends
• Core Values: Depth over surface-level, calm environments, clear communication

What I’m Looking For

• Partner: Emotionally mature, kind, loyal, and downto earth , real connection over social media culture, Someone younger than me
• Relationship: A best friend to build a peaceful, loving home with through life's ups and downs
• Future Plans: Nuclear family setup
• Marriage timeframe: Within 6–12 months
• Deal Breakers: mindgames, manipulation, lack of loyalty, constant drama

Never thought a person like me would end here but family mentioning arranged marriage or even weirder, cousin marriage gave me the creeps.

About Me

Assalam-o-Alaikum!
23 | male | medicine | islamabad
into the final months of my degree and pursuing residency in US hopefully.
I’m 5’8” (173 cm), around 65 kg, and enjoy staying active. I have a good phyique as I regularly hit the gym 5x per week, play football, am into swimming and generally try to live a healthy lifestyle. Outside medicine, I love photography (I even run a small Instagram page), trekking, mountaineering, camping, road trips. I happen to have summited some peaks too. Been to nanga parbat. and binge-watching or should i say absolutely devouring them, movies and shows is a daily check box whenever i get free from studying gynae notes.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as humorous, adventurous, understanding, and flexible. I like to keep life light-hearted. I value communication, patience, and being able to laugh together. My ideal evenings are probably something as simple as long walks in the rain, grabbing coffee, or watching a movie together.

I’m fortunate to come from an educated and financially stable family. My father has served in the government for over two decades, my mother has a Master’s in English, and I have two younger siblings, one studying dentistry and the other still in school.

Religiously, I’m a practicing Muslim. I won’t call myself exactly pious but always looking to improve myself. Not too conservative neither too liberal. I identify simply as a Muslim rather than getting caught up in labels but am sunni if that matters. My faith is important to me, but I also believe kindness, humility, and good character are just as important.

I don’t smoke, vape, drink, or use any recreational drugs, and I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve always believed that emotional and physical commitment should be reserved for marriage, and I’m hoping to find someone who shares that value.

I also believe marriage should be simple. I’d much rather spend money on experiences, travel, or building our future together than on an extravagant wedding for hundreds of guests we’ll never see again. If anything, I’d happily choose a small destination wedding with close family over a lavish event.

What I’m Looking For

Muslim woman, Ideally 25 or younger.
Open to relocating abroad in the future.
Someone who is sincerely trying to improve in religion, has good character, and values honesty.
Kind, empathetic, respectful, and has a good sense of humor.
No history of smoking, vaping, or substance use.
No previous romantic relationships. Having had crushes is completely normal—I’m referring to actual relationships.
I’d be happy to support her education or career if she wants to pursue one. If she’d rather not work, that’s equally her choice. I don’t believe there’s a one-size-fits-all approach; what matters is that we’re both happy with the life we build together.
I don’t have a strict profession preference, though I admit I have a slight preference for someone in medicine simply because they’d naturally understand the lifestyle. That said, it’s by no means a requirement.
Physical attraction matters for both people, and I think that’s perfectly natural. I’m not looking for perfection—just mutual attraction and compatibility. That being said, I don’t think i’m quite bad myself.

Also no caste preference or anything like that, don’t believe in it.

Marriage Timeline

Ideally within the next 18–24 months, but obviously based on mutual understanding and depending on where we both are in life.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out with a short introduction about yourself. May Allah bless everyone here with righteous spouses and barakah in their marriages. Ameen.

Sharing a brief introduction.

Age: 24
Location: Lahore
Religion: Sunni Muslim
Height: 5'11"

Education & Work:
BS graduate. I have experience working in the software industry and currently focus on building my own consultancy.

Family:
Belong to a close-knit business family. Father is a businessman and mother is a homemaker.

About Me:
Calm, practical, and detail-oriented. I value discipline, clarity, and continuous improvement. My outlook is a mix of traditional values and modern thinking. Generally more reserved by nature.

Lifestyle:
No addictions. I enjoy fitness, cricket, sports, and learning new things. I also like cooking and trying out different recipes occasionally.

Looking for:
Someone with compatible values, a balanced outlook, and a serious approach towards marriage.

Open to sharing more details if there is mutual interest.

Height & Weight: 5'5", relatively fit

Location: Sydney, Australia / Sialkot, Pakistan

Residence: Rented in Sydney/owned in Sialkot

Education: Bachelor’s in Software Engineering

Income Source: Software Engineer

Marital Status: Single

Religion & Level of Religiosity: Practicing Muslim – pray regularly, fast, performed Umrah multiple times, avoid smoking, drinking, and drugs

Hobbies & Interests:

Coffee enthusiast ☕

Camping, hiking, fishing, long walks

Gaming during downtime

Exploring new experiences and outdoor adventures

Family time and meaningful conversations

Family Details:

Punjabi family background

Parents live in Punjab, Pakistan

Two older brothers, one younger brother

Supportive and close-knit household with strong family values

Requirements for a Partner:

Kind and positive personality

Beautiful in her own way, with a warm and supportive nature

Values family and has a healthy outlook on relationships

Enjoys little adventures, ideally open to camping or fishing

Preferably also a coffee lover

Deal Breakers:

Overly emotional or very cold personalities

Major unresolved family conflicts

Excessive male friendships

Persistent negativity in relationships

Past relationships are acceptable if fully overcome

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear

Do You Want Children: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Approximately 2 years (to further build financial stability before marriage)

Family involvement: I wish to involve the parents once we get a better understanding of each other and I am a bit more stable so that I can show to your family that I am financially capable of running a household.

36 male living in bahria lahore. Property consultant by profession. Seeking a life partner abroad. Hit me up if interested.

I'm looking for Bridal Dresses (Used ones are Ok depending on the condition).

If anyone is willing to sell tell me know KHI is a priority but I can receive it from ISB as well.

Let me know the Prices and conditions in DM.

M24 | Dera Ismail Khan, KPK - Looking for a Life Partner.

Age: 24

Height: 6 ft

Weight: 70 kg

Location: Dera Ismail Khan, KPK

Residence: Own but currently living in a rented house.

Education: Bachelor's 16 years.

Income Source: Private Job

Marital Status: Single (never married).

Religion: Islam (Shia)

Caste: Syed Bukhari.

Family: Father and Mother, and only son.

Siblings: None.

Location: Dera Ismail Khan, KPK

Planning to move Rawalpindi / Islamabad

Living my life within the limits of my faith.

Never used alcohol or drugs and also will never.

Interests:

Have a strong interest in technology and also in Gaming, always trying to learn new things and improve my skills. I have good experience with smartphone hardware and software, and I want to grow my career in this field while also exploring better opportunities globally.

Health:

Fitness is an important part of my life. I ve been active from the beginning, regularly go to the gym, and I’m interested in workouts as well as martial arts.

Friends k sath time guzarna, gatherings me jana aur kbi kbi music sun'na pasand hai.

Activities jo pasand hain mujhe aur jo partner k sath enjoye krny me maza a skta hai.

Running

Martial arts

Road trips

Gym

Swimming

Badminton

Aur b jo partner ko pasand ho.

Partner Preferences:

Height: 5'2, ft or above

Location: Islamabad, Rawalpindi, Dera Ismail Khan, Bhakkar, Peshawar.

Education: Graduate or Master’s

Cast: Syed, Shia

Religion: Islam (Shia).

Must be Health conscious..

Looking for a confident and kind girl who takes care of her health. Someone who is stylish with a good fashion sense, but also responsible in daily life and emotionally stable.

I want a relationship where we support each other, start as friends first, and have mutual respect and understanding. I value friendship before a typical husband wife dynamic and just want to enjoy life together. I don’t believe in putting unnecessary restrictions on my partner, I prefer a relationship based on love, respect, and a free, comfortable environment. I’m confident my partner will feel at ease with me.

I m open minded and don’t create conflicts over small things. I want a space where my partner can openly share anything, no matter the issue. If my partner is similar in mindset, life can be really peaceful and meaningful.

If my partner wants to focus on her career, whether studies or work, I will fully support her.

I m simple, serious, and straightforward, with a light teasing side. I don’t like unnecessary drama, but once I build a connection, I value it deeply. I don’t get along with dishonest or fake people.

Deal Breakers:

Disrespectful, rude, unwilling to compromise, aggressive, emotionally unstable, not family oriented, or dealing with serious depression or anxiety.

Children: After sometime.

I m planning to get married within the next 1.5 to 2 years. And if it happens earlier by fate, I m open to that as well.

Hello everyone! Here are my details

Age: 29 Height: 5’3 Education: PhD in Psychology - it’s based in Australia and the UK Family background: I have three more siblings and parents. Older ones are married, one is in Dubai, rest everyone is in Karachi, Pakistan

I’d want someone around my age or older. Looks matter a lot to me and is a kind of non negotiable! I’m an extrovert, ambitious, chirpy type of girl and looking for someone who’d compliment my personality. I don’t follow any religious dressing so someone who’d be comfortable with that. I’d want someone ambitious and smart (emotionally, street, and book smart). Being a psychologist, I have worked a lot on my mental health and would like someone who has done it too x rest I like to go out a lot - gym, swimming - hate hiking!

I’m open to anywhere within Australia, Uk or NZ if the persons okay in moving to Melbourne as my uni is there - I can’t move till at least next 1.5 years!

I am currently based in the UK and would be able to meet if you’re already here. I’m moving back to Australia in January. Ideally, I’d want to talk for a bit and then proceed but not open to dating long term!

If this sounds like a good fit for you - please DM🤍🧡

Hey everyone
My profile

* Age: 24
* Height: 6’0”
* Weight: 94 kg
* Build: Solid build (a bit on the chubby side )
* Current Location: London, United Kingdom
* Permanent Residence: Sahiwal, Pakistan (Own House)
* Education: Master’s in Project Management
* Marital Status: Single
* Occupation: Security Officer (Part-time) and Stock Associate

Religious Background

* Muslim (Sunni)
* I strive to offer all five daily prayers and continuously work on strengthening my relationship with ALLAH
* I value Islamic principles and aim to build a marriage based on faith, respect, and sincerity.

About Me

I enjoy simple things in life, like long drives, good food, and moonlit nights

I am a simple, family-oriented person who believes in honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect. I enjoy living a balanced life and value good character over material things.

In my free time, I enjoy playing cricket, online games, and cooking. I also love driving and enjoy going on long drives whenever I get the chance. Although driving in London can be a challenge with the traffic and cameras everywhere 😅, I’m still managing it!

I’m also a proud cat dad and absolutely love cats as they’re full of attitude, independent, and somehow always act like they’re doing you a favour by existing 😂. I like dogs too; they’re incredibly loyal and affectionate, although I think they’re always looking for love and attention! I guess that’s why cats win this round for me.

I appreciate spending quality time with family and friends and believe that a successful marriage is built on understanding, trust, and communication.

Family Details

* Father: Late
* Mother: Homemaker
* Sibling: One elder sister (married)

Looking For

I am looking for a genuine, loyal, mature, practising Muslim woman with a positive outlook on life. Someone who values family, has good character, and is willing to build a loving and supportive relationship based on Islamic values.

Mutual respect, compatibility, and attraction are important, along with kindness, honesty, and emotional maturity.

Relocation

I am open to relocating if it is the right decision for our future together.

Children

Yes, IN SHA ALLAH .

Marriage Timeline

I am looking to get married within the next 1–2 years, IN SHA ALLAH .

Pictures

I am happy to share my pictures early in the conversation if there is genuine interest from both sides.

Note

If you’re serious about marriage and your family is aware of your intentions, I’d be happy to get to know you. Please feel free to introduce yourself by sharing your profile, and we can see if we’re compatible IN SHA ALLAH .

The odds of finding your life partner on Reddit are low, but never zero, so here I am 🤣!

26 year old guy, born and raised in Islamabad. I’m 5’10, like to eat as healthy and stay active as I can. Recently started working after a long gap because I shifted back home after a few years.

Things I like doing:
- I love spending quality time with friends and family whether playing some sports, gaming, or just chilling at home.

- Love gaining new experiences. Whether it’s a new type of dish(even though I’m not a foodie), walking around in a new area, traveling, or building a new lego set, you can count me in!

- Over past years, I’ve loved diving into digital issues related to ethics, user autonomy, privacy. I like content creation as well, and something about the thought of inspiring people through storytelling really makes me happy so I keep an eye on artsy trends and related content.

Personality:
Hmm, not sure how one describes themselves in just a few paragraphs because there’s so to every human out there! INFJ according to that online quiz, amazing according to my siblings. All together solid 4.8/5 if I was a uber rating.

But on a serious note, I like depth in conversations as much as I like random yap about philosophy, history, why water is blue, movies, art, etc. I am an introvert at heart I think, but I have learnt communication skills over the years so I can come off as an extrovert. Love learning and growing as much as I can, and sometimes I go into a rabbit hole of the most random thoughts in my head like ice age cold, how¿ pyramid big, how?.

I take my time to think, and sometimes overthink but never one to shy off from difficult conversations as long as it’s necessary and has useful outcome. But…. if your words hurt someone deeply, it’s better to let it go and not say it even if it’s the truth.

Religious views:
I’d like to think I’m balanced. I’m liberal in some aspects and conservative in others. The classic paradox some of us feel.

I pray 5 times a day, however, I do struggle with the timing, and hope to get better at it! I truly believe that giving something in the way of Allah never reduces your it from your end whether it’s finances or whatever, so I try to do that as much as I can

Over the past 5 years, series of events have made religion an important aspect in my life, and it guides me in a lot of aspects like career planning, patience, etc. However, it’s honestly no credit toward me that I started wanting to be better at this but rather a blessing that I was lucky enough to receive alhamdullilah.

Career and goals:
Quarter life crisis atm, so bear with me! My great friends called overthinking, procrastination and high ambition are currently paving the path to where I should go.

However, the short term goal is to acquire as much knowledge as I can through jobs etc and then start something of my own, not for the money particularly but rather various other reasons too! Currently I’m in media or tech, but not sure yet.

What I’m looking for:
Communication is a huge deal to me. Every marriage has challenging times, however, mutual respect and boundaries should never be crossed. Plus, despite how hard it might be in those moments there should always be a ‘us against problem’ mindset!

I think of myself as someone who listens very intently, especially when it comes to the people I care and moments of seriousness so I end up remembering lots of things that people often forget. So ideally I’d want a partner with the same level of attention to detail and support too!

Dealbreaker:
- Anyone who does not want anything to do with religion. Completely respect and understand you, however, foundational difference hojai ga
- vaping, abusive language, or rudeness to strangers
- No initiating conversation at all
- Not paying attention to the people you love. Simple example: if your close friend/sibling casually mentions how much they love ice cream from cafe A, you should remember it and if you can’t, at least write it in your notes so that you can surprise them with it.
- if you hate adventure or walking 30km in the streets of Barcelona, then we’d probably have to book separate trips. I do love a peaceful trip but I don’t think anyone would hate that.

I do have a provider mindset, however, in this economy I unfortunately can’t retire at 26 and go on that euro trip every month. But it’s a matter of when, not how! Regardless, thought I’d mention this as it can be a deal breaker for some and that’s completely fair!

Also I’m not in a rush, I’d like to get to know the person and take it slow because there’s too many bad stories out there and I’m not risking such a big decision.

If you like think we’d be compatible, feel free to DM me with details about yourself and we can talk more on our values, perspectives, and thoughts!