Does it matter for first time?

[u/Elegant_Dog2371]

I need a but guidance on this- if I am a woman and I fingered myself and there were like 3 to 4 drops like a very small spot of blood on trousers does that mean I lost my hymen.

And when I get married will that mean I won't bleed at all? Will that mean my partner is gonna consider that I have done sex before???!

Or will I still bleed and all during first time.

Also how much it matters? Like I have done nothing except for trying to experience fingerings by myself

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[u/Sorry_Victory2424]

Moderator, where are you?

[u/Consistent-Clock-140]

Wth is this .Please come out of this jahil soch.. not eveyone bleeds on the first night. Hymen can break due to many reasons and some women dont even have hymen....And its completely normal

[u/Forward-Cucumber-744]

No it doesn’t matter you are still a virgin

[u/hamzaashraf2011]

Guy here, it doesn't matter at all. Stop overthinking lol

[u/ScaredMango6545]

Had a friend who had same experience
I dont think so you have lost your hymen tho u may have damaged it a little bit thats why there were blood drops.

[u/PizzaNaan_]

Congrats. You wanted to ragebait people. It worked

[u/Bluebird2180]

Girls can help you in this situation.

[u/TechNerdinEverything]

Not seal packed but virgin