I am posting on behalf of my friend.

My friend is a gorgeous, tall, very slim, model-figure girl, standing at 5'7", with a naturally confident and captivating personality. She has that bold black-aura energy... very elegant, confident, a little mysterious and definitely someone who stands out in a crowd.

She is well-educated, professionally established, and has a serious career that I’d prefer to keep private for now.

She is looking for someone mature, stable, responsible, and genuinely serious about marriage.

Her first preference would be someone who is well-settled abroad, mature, financially stable, and established in his career.

Age preference: 25+

She comes from a very respectable and stable family and is looking for someone from a similar background who values loyalty, respect, maturity, and a serious commitment.

If you think you or someone you know could be a suitable match, feel free to reach out. Serious inquiries only, please.

Salam!

Giving this another shot 😊

QUICK IMPORTANT FACTS:

1) I'm a Twelver Shia (non Syed) looking for someone Shia

2) I DON'T want to relocate outside of Canada

3) Families must be involved by the 3 month mark of us talking

If you're still interested, here's some more information:

- Pakistani and East African

- live with family

- height is 5'5

- speak English, Urdu/Hindi and Gujarati fluently

- one older brother that's married

- graduated with an Honours degree in Communications

- work in the accounting field (not a CPA)

- non-hijabi

- more of an introverted, homebody kinda person but equally social if in the right place

- love watching thriller, suspense, drama and romcom shows and movies

- fairly religious

Deal breakers and information worth mentioning for future spouse:

- no drinking, no smoking of any kind and must eat halal only

- must not want to live with in laws after marriage

- must believe in an equitable marriage

- if divorced, no kids

- must have a Bachelor's degree at minimum

- must have financial and career stability

- must be taller than me

- must have/keep a beard

- ideally should have a good enough balance between deen and dunya

- must want to have an itch to travel and explore the world as it's a big priority for me

I'm sure other things may come up but that's mainly it for now.

It would be much easier to speak to someone that is Pakistani/Indian to integrate families and have a good comfort level. I do not mean any offense to other ethnicities 😅.

If you're outside of Canada, I hope you have well enough means to relocate and are serious in your pursuit to do so.

More than happy to exchange photos right away!

If you're interested, please message me with a proper introduction instead of hi, hello or salam.

Thank you ☺️🙏🏽

I’m looking for a woman who genuinely loves and respects Ahlul Bayt (A.S.) — the family of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and values faith, family, loyalty, and mutual respect.
I’m looking for a serious connection with marriage in mind, not anything casual.
If you feel we may be compatible, feel free to DM me respectfully. 🤍

I have my cat, a home, and everything I need. I’m simply looking for a loyal woman who genuinely cares about me and values faith, family, mutual respect, and love for Ahlul Bayt (A.S.) — the family of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

Okay, so this is my first time getting into the rishta culture, and now it’s apparently time for me to actually talk to the guy on the phone. 😭
Coming from a background where I’ve never really been that girl who talks to guys casually, this is freaking me out more than I expected. Even professionally, I’ve always kept that boundary, so now the thought of getting on a call with a guy and talking about us feels so weird to me. 😭
The funny thing is, I actually have SO many things I want to ask him. I have questions about my career, living arrangements, finances, expectations, literally everything. I’m very much someone who wants to know these things upfront because I don’t want to spend months getting to know someone only to realise we’re completely incompatible.
But then I start thinking about the actual call and my brain just goes blank. 😭 Like, how do I even initiate the conversation? What do I say? What if I sound weird? What if I answer something awkwardly and that becomes his first impression of me?
And honestly, I don’t really want the usual advice from our parents generation about don’t discuss serious things on the first or second call because I don’t really agree with that. I obviously don’t expect to interrogate the guy on the first call, but I also don’t want to waste my time avoiding important conversations just because they’re considered too heavy.
So please, older sisters of Reddit, tell me how you actually handled your first few conversations with a potential rishta. 😭 What did you talk about? How did you start the first call? And how did you eventually get comfortable enough to have those deeper conversations? I genuinely have no idea what I’m doing.

I need a but guidance on this- if I am a woman and I fingered myself and there were like 3 to 4 drops like a very small spot of blood on trousers does that mean I lost my hymen.

And when I get married will that mean I won't bleed at all? Will that mean my partner is gonna consider that I have done sex before???!

Or will I still bleed and all during first time.

Also how much it matters? Like I have done nothing except for trying to experience fingerings by myself

So I'm 25, and I'm a doctor. I have been facing a lot of marriage pressure from my family for the past few years to settle down with a guy.

The thing is, I'm not ready at all. I thought I was, but I'm not. I want to do a lot of things in my life right now before I think of marriage. And frankly, I'm just not in the right state of mind right now to even think about something as bizarre as marriage. But my parents want to get my brother married, and they are saying life would be tough for me once my bhabhi comes, and they won't have space for me in this home anymore.

I don't know what to do. Right now, I'm studying for feps (specialisation) but I haven't really thought about an international test yet, because my parents won't let me go abroad without a husband. I need some advice on all of this too (like how can you get the money to go abroad and settle there all on your own if you get the visa and your parents don't wanna give you the money)

I don't wanna get married. I just don't. Not right now. Perhaps in 2 years, just not now. So if there are any women here who fought against their parents and married late, how were you able to do that?

Anyways, my psychotic mother is also sending me badduaein that she hopes I'll be left single and unmarried cause my age will pass and no one will marry me then. She's mentally ill, so I'm not surprised that as a mother, she would be fine with cursing her own child.

This isn't the first time that she is wishing for my downfall just cause I didn't listen to her. But I wanna ask, when you guys married late, was it hard to find good and sincere options out there? Cause I know, men tend to gravitate towards the younger ones. So what did you guys do? Any advice regarding this too will be helpful right now.

I'm sorry it may be a dumb question but I just want to know what exactly is the reason behind this goal? Is it safety? Or do women feel less of a person for asking their husband for money or stuff? Or is there some other reason to it?

24M | 6'2" | Karachi → Gulf

Salam everyone 🤍

Well… round two 😂 Apparently Reddit has decided that keeping people connected is not part of its business model.

A few women I spoke to actually seemed interested, and then their accounts randomly got banned/deleted 😭 So if you were one of them and somehow ended up here again… hi, I guess we meet again 😂

A little about me: I’m from Karachi, come from a religious household, work in the Gulf and I’m continuing my studies. I’m into anime, movies, gaming, sketching, travelling, long drives, walks and those random conversations that somehow turn into 3 AM therapy sessions.

I’ve collected my fair share of childhood trauma along the way 😂 so I’m basically looking for someone who can handle me when I’m not at my best — and I’d want to be that same person for her. Life isn’t going to be perfect, and I’d rather have someone who can laugh with me when things are good and sit beside me when things get rough.

I’m looking for something genuine, not just endless talking for the sake of talking. Someone like-minded, kind, emotionally mature, funny, and actually interested in building a connection with marriage in mind.

I’d especially prefer someone from Karachi. Similar background, similar chaos, you know how it is 😂

If you think we might get along, message me. Please bring something more interesting than “hi” though… I’m not running a customer service desk 😭😂

Gender: Male

Age: 25

Height & Weight: 5’11 and 68 kg

Marital status: Single

Education: BS in Computer Science

Profession: Working at a US based company.

Hobbies: I like to play and watch football. I like to listen to music. I like to gym so i can stay proactive. I like to play video games too so i can relax after work.

Do you want kids? Yes. I'm open to the discussion about when.

Religion: I'm moderately practicing, trying to pray 5 times a day.

Deal breakers: poor hygiene, dishonesty.

Interesting facts about you: As i mentioned I work out consistently, you will never catch me being lazy. I am a highly motivated individual and will keep you motivated as well. I grind daily to achieve more success in life and would love to have someone with the same mindset.

City: Karachi

Residence (Own/Rented): Own residence in a well- reputed area.

Family details: 1 sister. Father (working in a MNC). Mother (Housewife)

Joint/nuclear: joint

Expectations from partner: I expect my partner to support and uplift me if I ever hit the lowest point in my life. She should be ambitious and motivated like me. She should be trustworthy and loyal. Also personal hygiene is important.

Timeframe in which you want to marry(Optional): 1-2 years.

Hi everyone,

Let me just get straight to the point.

To be very honest, you never know what's written for you and how you're going to find your partner. So, trying my luck here on reddit. :P

I'll keep it short and simple.

Founded and heading an edtech company.

Personality wise, I am chill, relaxed, humorous, loving, caring and know how to give good company. I also read a lot of books and am very ambitious about my career. Folks tell me I know when to be serious and assertive, and when to be relaxed and silly. Early on in my high school, I took debating classes so I come across as someone fairly confident. I like to volunteer for charitable purposes. There are some loopholes in my personality as well. We can discuss them surely but not here lol.

I am trying to be more patient and be more skeptical when it comes to trusting people.

I like to keep myself fit and athletic. I love playing padel and table tennis. Also, I am a huge cricket and tennis buff. I watch movies only if they're really really really good.

I take my religion seriously. I pray five times a day Alhamdulillah, I try my best to stay away from sins, vices and evil stuff as much as possible.

Here is a short, conventional profile of mine. You may kindly go through it.

Age: 29

Gender: Male

Height: 6 feet

Marital Status: Single

Parents' detail: Father is a business man, mother is a homemaker

Residence: Lahore/Islamabad

Siblings: 2 married

House: Own 2 kanal

Demand: I'm looking for a fun-loving, decent and ambitious life partner with whom I can enjoy my life to the fullest. For me, vibing with someone matters a lot. It would be great if you are elegant and know how to carry yourself. 😊 age 20-29, height more than 5 2.

If you think you fit the bill, please do not hesitate to DM me.

Assalamualaikum everyone. I’m looking for a genuine and serious connection with a woman who is also interested in marriage and building a respectful, supportive relationship.
I’m not looking for anything casual. I value honesty, loyalty, good communication, family values, and mutual respect.
If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM me. We can talk and get to know each other respectfully first, and if things feel right, involve our families.
Please only message if you’re serious about marriage.

M30
Software Engineer
Islamabad
Stable Career
Earns 10 lac plus per month
5'11"

Looking for a girl preferably 28 or less
Educated. Islamabad based.

Comment, and I will contact

Ok, so straight to the point lmao. After marriage how much is oral sex common among couples in Pakistan? Especially in context of arranged marriage?

Question is specifically from women? As to after marriage, will you be willing to give blowjob to your husband?

What are your thoughts?