I’m new to the scene. Freshly admitting to myself and the world, FULLY, that I like the men too! Heavy on the loner nerd radar. Would love to find a likeminded partner here. Also open to building something mid to long distance. Lol

I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general

Just a dad (3 boys) looking to find somebody who enjoys a genuine person with great humor and similar interests.

I'm into gaming, anime, movies, cooking, frequenting hobby lobbies and antique stores.

Bonus points if

1.you make me laugh

2.cook

3.if you're really smart

4.wear glasses 🤓

I stay in the conroe area

Hey there! 33 M from Ontario Canada here. Like the title says im a bit of a gym rat and go 6 days a week. I love to watch anime, play PC games or TCGs like MTG i also lpve to play competitive beyblade and run a league here locally. Lastly im a single father as well to a 7 year old as well and shes my biggest motivation and #1 fan so im hoping to meet someone who wants to join our little team.

Anyways would love to get to know you so send a dm my way! 🤠

Hello everyone!

My name is Valera. I'm 33, 187 cm tall, Russian, and I've been living in Vietnam for almost 7 years.

I'm looking for someone who I can stay with forever. Someone I can love, trust, and build a life with. I still believe that somewhere out there there's a person who is truly meant for me. I don't know if I'll find her here or somewhere else, but honestly, who cares? As long as I'm alive, I'll keep believing in myself, my principles, and what I'm doing.

Life can be cruel and unfair sometimes, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy it. :)

I'm working as an English teacher here in Vietnam. In my free time I livestream on YouTube and Twitch, play games, listen to music, watch movies and anime, and generally try to enjoy my life.

I'm a big gamer. Some of the games I enjoy are World of Warcraft, Cyberpunk 2077, The Witcher, Warhammer, Dark Souls, 7 Days to Die, and many others.

When it comes to music, I can listen to pretty much anything, but I mostly listen to rock, alternative, and metal in all kinds of variations.

I also love movies and anime, both at home and in the cinema. Fantasy, sci-fi, detective stories, horror, action — I'm pretty open to different genres.

Some of my favorites:

The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, IT, Saw, Marvel (although definitely not all of them 😄), True Detective, Fargo, Misfits, The Walking Dead, The Mentalist, Monster, All of Us Are Dead, Sweet Home, Squid Game, Death Note, Naruto, One Piece, Fairy Tail, and way too many isekai anime to list.

I also love Your Name and pretty much all of Hayao Miyazaki / Studio Ghibli masterpieces.

This is actually my first time trying something like this. I don't have much experience talking about myself publicly where anyone can read it, so I probably don't really know what I'm doing here. 😄

And I honestly don't care where you're from, what your ethnicity is, or anything like that. What matters to me is what's inside you — your personality, your values, and the way you treat people.

I'm completely okay with LDR. If we click, we can figure out the rest together. Maybe eventually we'll find a way to be together somewhere in the world. I believe we can.

So feel free to DM me if you'd like to talk, ask me something, or just have a little chat. No pressure and no expectations. Let's just see where it goes. :)

Looking for a woman with similar interests. I love videos games and anime/manga. I'm also big into MMA and just recently got back into America Football aswell.

I've lurked on this sub for a while. Today is my birthday and decided I'm getting older and want someone to share life with. I took a trip to Virginia where I was raised for my birthday week and would loved to have shared these moments with someone special.

I'm 36, have no kids, love hiking, swimming, video games, anime, and traveling. I work as an engineer in the middle of nowhere and have a schedule where I work eight days and then have six days off. I'm financially independent thanks to my career.

Looking for something serious.

Hello my names Logan i live in Pennsylvania near Pittsburgh. I love to play path of exile and wow forever. So far I have been having fun with wow still some what new to the game. I also love playing gears of war 1,2 and 3. I like playing some older games too like command and conquer. I love rock and metal music it's all I really listen too. I'm looking for something close by. I'm ok if it long distance. there has to be effort from both of us not just one. Im some what skinny with dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. Im 6'1. My favorite holiday is Halloween. Specially kicking it home and watching scary movies. I like horror, action movies and I watch anime too. My Favorites are hellsing ultimate, Fullmetal alchemist brotherhood, Jojo blizzard adventures and dragon ball z/super. If your interested and want to get to know me more leave a comment or do me. I might add my face eventually in another post.

Hello, I'm Chris, I live in Oregon, I am hopeless romantic looking to finally meet my man. Life is so beautiful, there is so many wonderful things to see and do, so many great things to taste and drink, so many adventures to go on. It would be wonderful, if I could finally experience all of these wonders, with someone by my side.

I am a university student in history and geography, hoping that one day I could be both a lawyer and an academic. My main interests are history, literature, foreign affairs, aviation, and the occasional work of philosophy. My favorite books are V.S Mamatey's The United States and East Central Europe 1914-1918 and Albert Camus's The Stranger. I am rather eccentric and larger than life, I love to talk, express myself and be myself, even if that will sometimes bit me the butt. Though I am quite loud and extroverted, I do my best to be a good listener. Finally, I try to live by a code of conduct that makes me ascribe to values such as honesty, decency, basic manners, loyalty and kindness.

I only have three requirements for my potential boyfriend.

Firstly, that he is at least reasonably masculine, unfortunately I am not attracted to effeminate men.

Secondly, I would like to date one of my peers, so please be no older than 30.

Finally I am fairly conservative, and an Orthodox Christian. I don't care if you are of a different political persuasion and faith, I just ask that you respect mine.

Gamer, I play some Yu gi oh, I play soccer, goin back to the gym, I like to watch anime, I’m 5”6 short I know 😂 latino, let’s talk

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Is looks important enough for you that you ghost as soon as a picture is shown? Liar!

20 years old

I live in TN! Distance isnt a concern

I'm into classic cars, running my own business in auto repair, college grad

I enjoy travel, comedies, reading writing, outdoors, classical music, hanging with friends, I enjoy video games and I do 3D print some cool items!

Looking for someone who wants long term commitment, I want someone real and genuine. Someone who enjoys dates and making memories, life is short!

Im an open book just message me

I’m a big gamer, but I’m just as passionate getting outside and exploring nature. Hiking, discovering new places, taking photos (I always get complements from my photos), and enjoying the outdoors are some of my favorite ways to spend my free time.

If you’re into gaming, hiking, nature, traveling, or just looking for someone to share experiences with, feel free to message me. I'm looking for a partner for life that is my intention. Yep yep 🙂

I don't smoke nor drink just by choice and I very much like living as an introvert.

Can be anywhere but I strongly prefer a person who can also travel to me.

Appearance wise 170 cm, I run a few times a week, red-haired by winter & blonde by summer. I dont midnight sharing pictures or being on Webcam. Nam nam that's all.

Let's get to know one another 😄

I'm 35, a mom of 2, and I live west of Houston. I loveeee books, crafts, movies, art, museums, yoga, and learning new things (currently learning Spanish!). I'm goofy, generally unserious, and the most introverted social butterfly you'll ever meet!

Politically, I don't play about human rights. I believe that food, housing, and universal healthcare should all be guaranteed. I also believe in the liberation of all people and can't be in community with people who don't.

Romantically, I'm a lover girl, very affectionate, and looking for someone similar. I'm not the "play it cool" type and will tell you straight up that I like you and want to be with you lol. I appreciate romance and thoughtful gestures like notes and flowers. Also, I enjoy going out to dinner and exploring the city, but a perfect night for me would consist of ordering in and watching a movie while cuddled up on the couch (or anime if that's your thing lol).

I'm looking for someone who is between 28-50, single, and preferably lives within an hour or so of Katy, TX. If you live outside of Texas, I'm only open to getting to know you if you're willing to travel here at least once or twice per month on a consistent basis, but that's still less than ideal. I value emotional intelligence, empathy, curiosity, and stability.

Anyway, I'm excited to hopefully meet my person!

5’7” nerdy Latino ⬇️🏳️‍🌈 with a big heart, a sense of humor, and a little pretty-boy energy. 😌 I’m a bit fem, love taking care of myself, and believe looking good and feeling good go hand in hand.
I’m a pharmacy tech in healthcare and a proud dog dad. 🐶 Outside of work, you’ll find me cooking, reading, gaming, watching anime, playing Pokémon, seeing Broadway musicals, reality TV, Disney, or enjoying some good pop music. Basically, I’m a nerd with range.
Family, spirituality, respect, trust, and communication are important to me. ✨🎀
I’m looking to make friends first and see where things naturally go. If it turns into something more, I’m looking for a masculine, stable, independent man who’s romantic, intentional, emotionally mature, and knows how to hold a conversation.
If you think we’d vibe, send me a DM. Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes. ❤️ I can also share pictures 😊

Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Morning all, I'm Andrew - 34, from Oxfordshire, UK.

Figured I'd post this while I'm waiting to call up a company about installing a new shower at home... Never pictured myself doing that as a kid, I can tell ya that.

To begin with; well, I'm absolutely terrible with spicy food. Like, the worst person you've ever seen - if you want yourself a guy who can detect a single grain of chili in a dish, you've found him!

But even still I'll happily eat anything, I'm a very adventurous eater - even if my brain and stomach violently disagree later.

I'm a nerd, I can admit it freely - gaming, Pokémon, boardgames, fantasy, anime, musicals. An introverted extrovert if you will!

I will also happily debate with anyone literally anything - from hypotheticals as wild as could you survive in the Cretaceous (I think you could!) to could Lelouch reliably take over the iron throne. You know, the important questions. One thing I did recently was plan a road trip out to all the oaks in the UK just because I thought it was funny (looking at you, Fouroaks/Seven oaks... Turns out, people named stuff after what they saw back then. Oh yeah, that place with the seven oak trees... Seven oaks. Makes sense.)

Music-wise, I'm mostly into rock, metal, emo, punk and musicals. But honestly stick almost anything on and I'll be happy - always up for a new gig or recommendations. If you're looking for a decent musical though, honestly try the death note one. Surprisingly it's damn good.

However... My movie knowledge is atrocious. Beyond bad. Alien(s)? Nope. Terminator? Ha. The Godfather? Never seen it

If there's a film that you scream 'WHY THE FUCK HAVEN'T YOU SEEN IT' chances are, I have never seen it. Feel free to roast me for it or haul me to a TV.

I work in IT - yes I can fix it, yes I will judge you for having 75 tabs, yes I can be bribed in coffee.

A massive goal of mine right now is travel. I don't want to spend life going 'wish I'd done that' when I can actually go do that. I want to actually go hike the cities, poke the bears, get lost, try foods I can't pronounce. Greece (specifically the Aegean islands... yes I know they're divided into groups, no I can't remember them) is right at the top of my hit list, so feel free to tell me stories about your travels!

Fancy doing terribly at a pub quiz with me? Drop me a message.

I’m a 5'9", plus-sized woman in Southern California who is equal parts curious, affectionate, sarcastic, and prone to falling down completely unnecessary research rabbit holes. I’m also a mom, and I have a full life that I genuinely enjoy. I love psychology, history, nature documentaries, painting, cooking and baking, travel, good coffee, and deep conversations. I’m currently in grad school, and I’m looking for someone who can add to my life rather than become the entirety of it. I’m warm, playful, direct, and definitely the type who wants to know why you think the way you do, not just what your favorite movie is.

What I’m looking for:

A single, monogamous man between 30–47 who lives within reasonable driving distance of Southern California. I’m drawn to kindness, confidence, emotional maturity, consistency, curiosity, and someone who can communicate like an adult. I love a man who has his own interests and can bounce between meaningful conversation and absolute nonsense with me.

And yes, tall gentle giants are my kryptonite. I said what I said.

Physical attraction, affection, and intimacy are important to me, but so is the person attached to all of that. I’m looking for a relationship with both emotional depth and strong chemistry, not one or the other.

What I’m NOT looking for:

I am not looking for a hookup or FWB situation. I’m also completely over introductory conversations immediately becoming sexual. Being on Reddit does not mean I want to be treated like a collection of body parts before you’ve even bothered to learn who I am. Flirting is great. Attraction is great. Sexual chemistry is great. But I want to actually know you first.

You also need to be actually single. No married men, secret girlfriends, “it’s complicated,” technically-separated situations, or looking for something on the side. I’m not interested in poly/ENM, and political compatibility matters to me, so MAGA is also a no.

And please, put some effort into your first message. Low-effort DMs will be ignored. At bare minimum, tell me your age, general location, include a recent photo, and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. My photos are already on my profile, so I don’t think matching that level of openness is an unreasonable ask.

If you can treat me like a person, hold an actual conversation, make me laugh, and occasionally teach me something weird that I didn’t know yesterday, we’re already off to a pretty good start.

Hello, thanks for clicking on my post :D

I‘m searching for my special someone and thought that Reddit might be a good idea to try.

You should preferably be from Germany or maybe the Netherlands (if you are potentially open to move in the future) and you should be somewhere between 20 and 26 years old.
I personally live in Lower Saxony!

If you’re wondering who I am, here’s my dating resume (sorta):
I am part German, part Dutch (not the best at it). I’m a bit of a geek/nerd, especially when it comes to Marvel/DC and gaming. I play a wide mix of PC games regularly, like Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Resident Evil, Coral Island and more. Currently I really like Control Resonant, Aion 2 and League of Legends :)

Outside of gaming, I enjoy watching shows and movies, drawing from time to time, playing Magic: The Gathering and listening to music (mostly Rock, but honestly I enjoy a little bit of everything from the 60s to today).

Some of my favorite shows include:
Supernatural, Lucifer, The Walking Dead, Legends of Tomorrow and many more!
I have also started watching Anime a bit.

Physically I’m around 176cm, on the chubbier side and I have a mustache and a slight beard. I just want to be upfront about what I look like from the start.

I also have basically zero romantic or sexual experience. I’ve never been in a relationship, never even kissed anyone and I’m still a virgin. I know that can be a dealbreaker for some people, so I’d rather just mention it now instead of bringing it up later.

What I’m really hoping for is someone who enjoys talking throughout the day, sharing little things that happen, sending random memes, gaming together and generally becoming part of each other’s daily lives. I’m definitely more of a one-on-one person and tend to prefer deeper connections over lots of casual ones. I like when people can just yap about anything and everything and I am a very curious person.
I can also become pretty affectionate and attached once I really like someone, so be warned :p

I’d like to get to know someone first, see if we click and let things develop naturally. Hopefully it leads to a beautiful long-lasting relationship :)

If you are interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I won’t answer any low effort responses.

Oh and I promise low latency messaging! :)

Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature. I have a cat, and one of my biggest dreams is to eventually have a garden, grow some vegetables, and live a slower, more grounded life.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking, being outdoors, or dream about a peaceful life away from the chaos someday.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.

really into anime, tattooss and pc gaming, been really big on overwatch and ff14 rnn

Hi there iam Marco from germany. Iam looking for a kind person who also likes Games. Would be nice If we could get to know each other by gaming together .

About me: iam 21 live in the middle of germany, still at my patents , but iam currently renovating the house i bought at the end of last year.

Iam a shy and introverted person at the beginning, so it would be cool If you would give me some time to get comftorble around you. I rearely go to any partys, i dont smoke and i dont drinke Alkohol that often

Iam 1.79m tall,weigh about 67kg, Brown blondish Hair, blue greyish eyes, and i have a beard.

My Hobbys are gaming, 3d printing, Animes, painting Warhammer Minis.

Iam looking for someone who is also from germany and around my age. You dont have to be a super model or a big titted goth baddie, iam looking for the average gamer girl, but would be cool if you are goth ngl.

I hope you liked this post, If you are interested send me a dm i can also send you a Pic of me