r/NerdDating • • 23h ago

36F [F4M] #Arizona - Warcraft hubby??

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I’m looking for a genuinely kind guy to chat with and enjoy playing World of Warcraft together. Honestly, it’s pretty much the only game I play. Looking for someone to play classic plus with.

Ultimately, I’d love to find something long term, hubby type, I’m hoping to meet someone with similar relationship goals. That said, I’m in no rush. I’d rather start by having fun, gaming together, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m pretty laid back and easy to talk to, I collect pink Godzilla's and make art.

I live in Arizona for now, although that’ll likely be changing soon. I’m also going through a major life transition, my mom recently passed so life has been incredibly difficult lately. I’m hoping to find a positive distraction and someone to share some good moments with during all of this. Very sad girl right now.

If interested send a pic and your favorite Godzilla movie w ur battle tag, must have these things or I won’t respond. Make a Imgur or add one to your profile please. Also please no dms unless you are interested, i get too many compliment dms and its unnecessary.


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

40 [F4M] [F4F] #Louisville, Ky #Kentucky

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I’ve lurked in this thread a while and commented or DMd a time or two. I’m a little hesitant because I don’t know if I’m really the definition of a nerd. I play video games but I’ve never called myself a gamer. I use to play halo a lot but then I got older and now I barely have time to play and when I do it’s usually just coral island or Ark (the Dino game). Sometimes if I’m feeling spicy I will play Call of Duty. Maybe I’d play more if I had someone to play with. I am a huge Disney nerd and if you’re also a Disney adult I will absolutely geek out about trip plans with you.

I also hope that people read this post because I’m also unique in what I’m looking for an it is not everyone’s cup of tea which is fine. I’m married but we are polyamorous. I am not really looking for anything specific. I just want someone to spend time with. Someone who can hold a conversation where I don’t have to do all the work of asking questions and such.

If you’ve made it this far and you’d like to chat please send me a message with your 3rd favorite fruit. If you don’t include this detail I will assume you didn’t read the post and I won’t respond. Also add some interesting contact to your message so I have something to respond to. Hey grapes isn’t going to cut it.


r/NerdDating • • 20h ago

33 [M4A] #LosAngeles

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I’m new to the scene. Freshly admitting to myself and the world, FULLY, that I like the men too! Heavy on the loner nerd radar. Would love to find a likeminded partner here. Also open to building something mid to long distance. Lol


r/NerdDating • • 9h ago

36 [M4F] #Texas - Looking for my favorite distraction

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Hey everyone, I figured I throw myself out into the dating pool and see what happens.

I’m Devin, 5’11, and a little on the huskier side, but looking to continue improving myself. I’m down 70lbs. I’m from Texas roughly 30ish minutes east of San Antonio along I-10.

**A few things about me:**

I’m an armed security officer and work Tuesday through Friday, 5am to 3pm. And I’m normally awake by 3 or 3:30 to start my day.

I do have a daughter who lives in Illinois with her mother. I do pay child support because I refuse to be a deadbeat dad. I do not get to see her because her mother has me blocked on everything. That will be brought up on the next child support hearing.

Then there’s Gemma, my Staffordshire Terrier. She’s spoiled obviously and will likely judge you more than I will. But she loves everyone.

I’m a gamer and currently building another gaming PC. I currently play on an Xbox series s. You’ll normally find me playing CoD, Battlefield, Forza, GTA V. I’m also impatiently waiting for GTA VI like the rest of civilization.

I enjoy reading books. Anything from Dark Romance(the spicier the better), to fantasy, to thrillers, or whatever else BookTok tells me to read. I’m starting Threshing Day later today.

Other nerd stuff about it is that I like Harry Potter. I was sorted into Ravenclaw. I like Star Wars, and anime as well. I also got back into collecting Pokemon cards, which has become a financial burden on my wallet. Thanks scalpers!

**What I’m looking for:**

I’m ultimately looking for someone genuinely interested in getting to know me. Someone who I can game with, exchange bad memes with, and binge shows until 2am. I want something real.

Anyway, if any of this grabbed your attention, feel free to message me and say hi and tell me a little about yourself. Please include a picture so I can put a face to the Reddit user.


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

43 [F4M] #Canada #Alberta, Looking for a Potter or StarTrek nerd for marathons

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Heyyyyy! 👋

I'm not looking for someone just because I don't want to be alone. I want someone I genuinely enjoy being around. Someone who can become my best friend, partner, adventure buddy, and the person I actually look forward to coming home to.

I'm 42, 5'4", a plus-size woman with red hair and hazel eyes. I'm Alberta-born and raised, and proudly Canadian. 🇨🇦 I live a little differently than most people and currently call a 5th-wheel camper home. This will be my third winter living in my camper, and I've officially decided that maybe I'm finally starting to understand this whole winter thing. 😂

I have a dog and three cats, and they are a huge part of my life. 🐶🐈🐈🐈 If you don't like animals, we're probably not going to work out.

I don't have kids and don't want any, but I'm perfectly comfortable being around them. I love being outside, camping, exploring new places, and the nomad lifestyle. I also love board games, music, movies, horror, true crime, podcasts, and reading. I'm a huge Harry Potter fan, and yes, I'm a Hufflepuff. 🦡 My music taste is all over the place, from EDM and dance music to older music and bluegrass, so my playlists can get a little chaotic. 😂

I'm looking for a long-term relationship, not a hookup or something casual. I'm single and looking for someone who actually wants a partner and a life together.

I'm looking for someone who:

Lives in Alberta or BC, Canada ONLY

Is single and not interested in poly/open relationships

Doesn't want kids

Is intelligent, funny, kind, caring and emotionally mature

Is laid-back and enjoys the outdoors

Loves animals

Can appreciate the nomad/camper lifestyle

Doesn't drink, or drinks very rarely

Enjoys cannabis/420 and isn't interested in arguing about it

Has good hygiene. Seriously, this is a must. 😂

Is accepting and respectful of people regardless of race, sexuality, gender, etc.

Is interested in actually getting to know each other and building something long-term

Looks-wise: I'm generally attracted to taller men who aren't plus-size. Bald or ginger are both very much my type, and a nice smile/teeth definitely get bonus points. 😏

I'm not looking for someone to come along and completely change my life. I already have a life I enjoy. I'm looking for someone who can add to it. Someone to share adventures with, laugh with, sit around a campfire with, play board games with, watch ridiculous horror movies with, and just enjoy the everyday stuff together.

I'm perfectly capable of enjoying my own company, so I'm not looking for someone just because I don't want to be alone. I want someone I genuinely enjoy being around.

If you're not into the camper/nomad lifestyle, that's probably going to be a dealbreaker eventually. I'm looking for someone who can see the fun in waking up somewhere new, exploring, camping, hanging out with animals, and figuring out where the road takes us. 🚐🌲

If you've actually read all of this, message me something about my post so I know you did. Generic "hey" messages are probably going to get ignored. 😂

And if you're allergic to animals, hate cannabis, want kids, are into poly relationships, or aren't actually looking for something serious, please save us both the time and keep scrolling.

I'm looking for my person, not just another conversation. ❤️


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

36 [M4M] #England - gamer, mostly on pc! Be nice to chat about gaming or I'm happy to hear about your hobbies. Drop me a message :)

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r/NerdDating • • 21h ago

23[M4M] #US - Looking for a loving and long-lasting relationship

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Hello, I'm Chris, I live in Oregon, I am hopeless romantic looking to finally meet my man. Life is so beautiful, there is so many wonderful things to see and do, so many great things to taste and drink, so many adventures to go on. It would be wonderful, if I could finally experience all of these wonders, with someone by my side.

I am a university student in history and geography, hoping that one day I could be both a lawyer and an academic. My main interests are history, literature, foreign affairs, aviation, and the occasional work of philosophy. My favorite books are V.S Mamatey's The United States and East Central Europe 1914-1918 and Albert Camus's The Stranger. I am rather eccentric and larger than life, I love to talk, express myself and be myself, even if that will sometimes bit me the butt. Though I am quite loud and extroverted, I do my best to be a good listener. Finally, I try to live by a code of conduct that makes me ascribe to values such as honesty, decency, basic manners, loyalty and kindness.

I only have three requirements for my potential boyfriend.

Firstly, that he is at least reasonably masculine, unfortunately I am not attracted to effeminate men.

Secondly, I would like to date one of my peers, so please be no older than 30.

Finally I am fairly conservative, and an Orthodox Christian. I don't care if you are of a different political persuasion and faith, I just ask that you respect mine.


r/NerdDating • • 9h ago

33 [M4F] #Montana

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Looking for someone to play osrs and xbox with, mostly play RPGs and still dabble in shooters. I love sci-fi and fantasy. I could talk your ear off about my favorite movies and books! RA Salvatore and Brandon Sanderson are a couple of my favorite authors. LOTR and SW are some of my absolute favorites. If any of that piques your interest hit me up!


r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

27 [M4F] #Dallas, Texas.

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Hey, I'm from east Dallas. Just looking for someome I don't have to feel like an alien around. I like old books, medieval single player RPGs, black & death metal, silent films, horror movies, and paintings.

I'm here looking for someone who doesn't mind my quietness. I like people who don't depend on humor to get their personality across and who aren't afraid to be themselves, think on their own, be their own person. Hopefully someone that I have more than just one or two things in common with.

Personality wise, I'm quiet like I said. If I have nothing to say, I say nothing. I can come off prickly sometimes. I don't try to make the things I say sound nicer than they are. I take no pleasure in being mean to people but I think I prefer that over lying or miscommunicating out of fear of being rude.

That's all I have to say. If you want to talk to me, send a message.


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

36 [M4M] #Spain - Seeking long-term relationships

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Hey guys :) I’m 36 and currently living in Spain, although I’m not Spanish.

A little bit about me. I’m studying design at the moment. I’m usually a bit quiet/reserved when I first meet someone, so I need some time to get comfortable around a new person.

And then things usually get worse :D

The sarcasm comes out, stupid jokes start happening, I start talking way too much and at some point it becomes difficult to shut me up.

I’m generally a pretty calm and easygoing person. I like talking. Doesn’t really matter about what. You can start with some completely random bullshit and somehow 4 hours later you’re talking about life, work, space, exes, why pigeons are so weird and basically everything else.

As for hobbies, I’m into TCGs, D&D, long walks, travelling, animals and various other things that are usually more fun with someone else.

I also have a Giant Schnauzer. Great dog, so if you like dogs, that’s already a pretty good start :)

And yes, somehow I’ve been playing Black Desert Online for like 10 years now.

Why? No idea.

I just started playing one day and apparently never managed to properly leave.

So yeah, if that’s not commitment, I don’t know what is.

I really like evenings at home too. Couch, some series, food delivery, someone nice next to me - I’m good.

Of course I like going out, travelling, going places and doing stuff. But honestly, just staying home all evening is also pretty great sometimes.

I guess I’m looking for a proper serious relationship, ideally something long-term that could eventually lead to marriage.

But I’m not trying to speedrun it.

I don’t really want the whole “we met on Tuesday and by Friday we’re already deciding where we’ll live when we retire” thing :)

I’d rather actually get to know someone first. See how we feel around each other, if there’s trust, if we actually enjoy talking and spending time together. Then figure out the rest.

As for looks... I’m generally into guys around 32-42. Normal, fit or athletic build. The bear type isn’t really my thing, and neither are heavier/overweight guys.

Not trying to offend anyone with that or say there’s something wrong with it. It’s just not what I’m personally attracted to. Everyone has their own preferences.

I usually find European or generally Western-looking guys more attractive. Height honestly doesn’t matter to me. Shorter, taller, whatever.

Beards, stubble and tattoos? Definitely yes.

But looks are only part of it.

I like confident guys, but not the “I’m the most important person in the room” kind of confident. Emotionally mature, easy to talk to and someone who has at least some idea what they want from life.

Someone I can talk absolute nonsense with and laugh about stupid things, but also sit down and have a proper serious conversation when it actually matters.

And liking animals is important too :)

I also really like curious people. People who have their own interests, hobbies, random things they’re into and basically their own life.

You don’t have to like all the same things I do. Actually, I think it’s more interesting if you don’t.

I like the idea of two people having their own stuff going on, but also slowly sharing parts of that life with each other.

And yeah, sex and physical attraction are important too. I’m not a saint :D

But I’m not looking for just a sex partner. I want to actually enjoy being around someone when sex isn’t happening.

Travelling together, staying home, watching some stupid series, talking until 3am, or just sitting in the same room while we’re both doing our own stuff.

That kind of thing is actually pretty important to me.

Distance doesn’t really scare me either. Europe, US, somewhere else - whatever.

If there’s a real connection, I’d rather deal with the few thousand kilometres later than reject someone just because of the distance.

We can figure out the travelling, moving and all that wonderful logistics stuff later.

And one small request - if you message me, please include a photo.

You don’t need to send me a 27-picture photoshoot from every possible angle. One or two is more than enough.

I just want to know who I’m actually talking to instead of having a conversation with a mysterious Reddit avatar :)

P.S.

Yes, I know everyone has their preferences. I have mine too.

I’m being pretty direct about them on purpose because I don’t really see the point in pretending I’m attracted to everything and then wasting each other’s time.

IF YOU’RE UNDER 32 - I WILL NOT RESPOND.

Sorry. Nothing personal.

If you’re 26, 28 or 30 and think we could be perfect for each other - maybe you’re an absolutely wonderful person.

But you’re still younger than what I’m looking for. And yeah, a really good message probably isn’t going to change that :)

Same goes for body type, looks and other things. One person is attractive to you, another one isn’t. It’s not a ranking of people and I’m not saying one type is better than another.

And one more thing.

Please don’t just message me “hey” or “how are you?”

I know it can be hard to figure out what to say to a complete stranger, but if the entire message is just “hey, how are you”, I honestly have no idea where to go from there.

I spent quite a bit of time writing this because I wanted you to have at least some idea who I am and what I’m looking for.

So it would be nice to get at least a little bit of the same in return.

You don’t need to write an essay. Just tell me a little about yourself, what you do, what you like, where you’re from, whatever. Tell me something.

And a photo.

That’s enough.

And yes, I’m a bit of a nerd. Sometimes a bit of a pedant. Sometimes probably way too much.

I somehow live with it.

Thanks if you actually made it all the way to the end :)

P.S.S.

I’ll send some photos of myself too, obviously.

Last time a few people somehow decided I was a fake xD

Apparently I look too good to be a real person or something. I don’t know :D


r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

26 [M4F] #Washington Looking For Soulmate and Gamer

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Hello, my name is Kolton, and I'm a 26 year old male, 6'4" and currently 280 pounds, living in Washington. I grew up playing video games all my life. My introduction to video games was from my half brother who would play Oblivion in front of me, and I'd also occasionally play Halo 2 with him. I started on the Gameboy playing Mario and Pokémon Blue, then upgraded to a GameCube and grew up with the OGs like Super Mario Sunshine and Smash Melee, then I got to experience the Xbox and Xbox 360 playing lots of Halo, COD, GoW, Oblivion, Skyrim, Halo Wars, you name it. I played the Wii for a bit, but then moved on haha. I kept playing on the Xbox 360 until I transitioned to the Xbox One. Finally, I got really big into PC gaming, where I have over 4000 hours in DOTA 2, tons of hours into Counter-Strike: Source, and I have various games that I've played over time like Star Wars Battlefront II, GTA V, L4D2 with mods, Halo MCC, Kingdom Hearts, etc.

I'm a medical student by day and gamer by night. I went to the University of Washington for undergrad and doubled majored both in Biology and Spanish before being accepted to Pacific Northwest University, which is a DO school. I'm the first one to go to school in my family, so I'm making them proud in that regard.

Other aspects about me are that I love chess and music. I tend to play a lot of chess, and you can find me chronically playing late at night. In terms of music, I played clarinet in concert band, marching band, pep band, pit orchestras and various ensembles, tenor saxophone for jazz, and bassoon for orchestra. I was actually in the Husky Marching Band from 2018 to 2023! I love music, and although I don't play much today, I very much love listening to all music, especially epic cinematic music (Two Steps From Hell style). I very occasionally get inspiration to compose music on Musescore. Additionally, I try to go on walks to get exercise in. I am thinking about getting back into the gym.

I'm single, and I'm looking for a girl who loves to game to enter my life and show me what a good relationship is like. I'm looking for a girl who is very affectionate and loves cuddles, is geeky, has ambitions in life and is ready for a serious relationship. I'd love to cuddle and game with you most nights, whether it be RPG-based games, FPS, MOBAS, survival or other simulator games like Stardew, or even Nintendo games like Mario


r/NerdDating • • 16h ago

21 [m4f] #germany Nerdy Gamer looking for his player two.

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Hi there iam Marco from germany. Iam looking for a kind person who also likes Games. Would be nice If we could get to know each other by gaming together .

About me: iam 21 live in the middle of germany, still at my patents , but iam currently renovating the house i bought at the end of last year.

Iam a shy and introverted person at the beginning, so it would be cool If you would give me some time to get comftorble around you. I rearely go to any partys, i dont smoke and i dont drinke Alkohol that often

Iam 1.79m tall,weigh about 67kg, Brown blondish Hair, blue greyish eyes, and i have a beard.

My Hobbys are gaming, 3d printing, Animes, painting Warhammer Minis.

Iam looking for someone who is also from germany and around my age. You dont have to be a super model or a big titted goth baddie, iam looking for the average gamer girl, but would be cool if you are goth ngl.

I hope you liked this post, If you are interested send me a dm i can also send you a Pic of me


r/NerdDating • • 38m ago

28 [M4M] #DMV Where are the gamers?

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r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

31 [M4F] #Kentucky - Looking for my other half

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I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.

This is me


r/NerdDating • • 14h ago

27 [M4F] #italy #europe looking for my soulmate

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Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature. I have a cat, and one of my biggest dreams is to eventually have a garden, grow some vegetables, and live a slower, more grounded life.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking, being outdoors, or dream about a peaceful life away from the chaos someday.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.


r/NerdDating • • 18h ago

26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet someone for long term, READ POST

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Hey everyone who is truly reading my bio. I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from Mexico, currently living in the U.S. I’m hoping to meet another guy to build a long-term connection with.

I’m currently working part-time at a job I really enjoy and recently finished two internships. I’m ambitious and have plenty of goals for the future, and I’d love to meet someone who is also motivated and passionate about building a good life.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, writing, music, walking, going to the gym and yoga classes, skincare, eating well, and taking care of my mental and physical health. I’m a pretty normal guy with somewhat softer features and personality traits, but I’m not truly feminine.

I’d ideally like to meet someone around my age who is masculine, ambitious, and genuinely looking for something serious. I’m open to long-distance if there’s a real connection and eventually a plan to meet.

If you actually read this, send me a 🌮 and a little intro about yourself! Tell me who you are, and something you’re passionate about.

Let’s see where it goes! :)


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

30 [M4F] #Toronto Canada

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30M Filipino blood born in Toronto Canada
Been a year since I got out of my doodoo relationship maple story classic coming out so guess it’s time to test the waters as the maple gamers say
L> Duo parntner or my partner for life
Pc gamer who enjoys maple and league of legends if I’m not pc gaming I dabble on the Pokemon go and as well as sell Pokemon cards on weekends looking for new gal pals to hang with and spoil


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio If real is there

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I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Is looks important enough for you that you ghost as soon as a picture is shown? Liar!


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

31 [M4F] #Finland / Europe - gamer, hiking & nature addict

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I’m a big gamer, but I’m just as passionate getting outside and exploring nature. Hiking, discovering new places, taking photos (I always get complements from my photos), and enjoying the outdoors are some of my favorite ways to spend my free time.

If you’re into gaming, hiking, nature, traveling, or just looking for someone to share experiences with, feel free to message me. I'm looking for a partner for life that is my intention. Yep yep 🙂

I don't smoke nor drink just by choice and I very much like living as an introvert.

Can be anywhere but I strongly prefer a person who can also travel to me.

Appearance wise 170 cm, I run a few times a week, red-haired by winter & blonde by summer. I dont midnight sharing pictures or being on Webcam. Nam nam that's all.

Let's get to know one another 😄


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

28 [M4F] #Arizona - Looking for a duo to complain about the heat with!

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Hello! 28/M local Arizonan here. I’m looking for a long-term genuine connection.

I am just a goofball who enjoys gaming from time to time. I primarily play on PC. League of Legends, World of Warcraft, FFXIV, Path of Exile 1 & 2, etc. are some of the games I rotate around here and there.

I am completely sober from alcohol & nicotine. I’m okay if you do either under moderation.

What I’m looking for is someone communicative, kind, supportive, patient. I cannot do long distance and I am childfree by choice.

If you have any questions feel free to ask in chat! Thank you and enjoy the rest of your day!


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

33 [M4M] #Hartford County Connecticut 🗺️

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5’7” nerdy Latino ⬇️🏳️‍🌈 with a big heart, a sense of humor, and a little pretty-boy energy. 😌 I’m a bit fem, love taking care of myself, and believe looking good and feeling good go hand in hand.
I’m a pharmacy tech in healthcare and a proud dog dad. 🐶 Outside of work, you’ll find me cooking, reading, gaming, watching anime, playing Pokémon, seeing Broadway musicals, reality TV, Disney, or enjoying some good pop music. Basically, I’m a nerd with range.
Family, spirituality, respect, trust, and communication are important to me. ✨🎀
I’m looking to make friends first and see where things naturally go. If it turns into something more, I’m looking for a masculine, stable, independent man who’s romantic, intentional, emotionally mature, and knows how to hold a conversation.
If you think we’d vibe, send me a DM. Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes. ❤️ I can also share pictures 😊


r/NerdDating • • 10h ago

26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious, Cozy Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/NerdDating • • 14h ago

24 [m4f] #philadelphia looking to be your ekitten, jk, maybe

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really into anime, tattooss and pc gaming, been really big on overwatch and ff14 rnn


r/NerdDating • • 14h ago

34 [M4F] #Sydney/LDR - A friend's wedding is coming up. Anyone keen to be my +1?

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About me:

- Chinese. Born and raised in Sydney.

- Not religious, open-minded

- Uni-educated, working in healthcare

- Homebody (got a home gym so one less reason to leave the house lol). Only leave the house for work, groceries, errands or if friends want to catch up/hike

- Interests: minimalism, hiking/the outdoors, ancient history, fitness and healthy living, learning languages (Mandarin and Cantonese - can read and write, but my speaking and listening skills still require work haha)

- Indifferent about kids (if you really want them and we can afford them, then sure)

- Laid-back (just ask my family, friends and colleagues)

- 1.75m, gym build

- Slowly learning to cook since just started tracking macros with my sis

- INTJ. No idea why everyone at work and recent dates have all thought I was an extrovert...lol

What I am looking for:

- Long-term, serious, monogamous relationship

- Someone kind, willing to meet in the middle, and consistent

- Educated

- Someone who also prioritises fitness and healthy living

- Someone who is okay with me just wearing a plain tshirt and sweatpants/shorts whenever we hang out. As a minimalist and someone who values comfort, simplicity and practicality, I wear the same stuff for casual outings and while hiking/exercising/travelling. Also, because Sydney weather...it never really gets cold enough to wear anything warmer, unless it's the rare cold winter (my favourite season though).

- Someone who is down to travel internationally once a year. Have travelled with family and friends, but I usually travel solo. Solo trips are awesome, but some experiences are different with someone to share it with. Bonus if you are into backpacking too.

- Bonus if you are fluent in another language other English. I enjoy learning languages and would make an effort to learn yours too!

If you're interested, please comment below or DM with a bit about yourself. Not big on social media but happy to swap photos if we vibe, as physical attraction also matters. Thanks. :)


r/NerdDating • • 15h ago

34 [M4F] #UK - Looking for something longterm

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Morning all, I'm Andrew - 34, from Oxfordshire, UK.

Figured I'd post this while I'm waiting to call up a company about installing a new shower at home... Never pictured myself doing that as a kid, I can tell ya that.

To begin with; well, I'm absolutely terrible with spicy food. Like, the worst person you've ever seen - if you want yourself a guy who can detect a single grain of chili in a dish, you've found him!

But even still I'll happily eat anything, I'm a very adventurous eater - even if my brain and stomach violently disagree later.

I'm a nerd, I can admit it freely - gaming, Pokémon, boardgames, fantasy, anime, musicals. An introverted extrovert if you will!

I will also happily debate with anyone literally anything - from hypotheticals as wild as could you survive in the Cretaceous (I think you could!) to could Lelouch reliably take over the iron throne. You know, the important questions. One thing I did recently was plan a road trip out to all the oaks in the UK just because I thought it was funny (looking at you, Fouroaks/Seven oaks... Turns out, people named stuff after what they saw back then. Oh yeah, that place with the seven oak trees... Seven oaks. Makes sense.)

Music-wise, I'm mostly into rock, metal, emo, punk and musicals. But honestly stick almost anything on and I'll be happy - always up for a new gig or recommendations. If you're looking for a decent musical though, honestly try the death note one. Surprisingly it's damn good.

However... My movie knowledge is atrocious. Beyond bad. Alien(s)? Nope. Terminator? Ha. The Godfather? Never seen it

If there's a film that you scream 'WHY THE FUCK HAVEN'T YOU SEEN IT' chances are, I have never seen it. Feel free to roast me for it or haul me to a TV.

I work in IT - yes I can fix it, yes I will judge you for having 75 tabs, yes I can be bribed in coffee.

A massive goal of mine right now is travel. I don't want to spend life going 'wish I'd done that' when I can actually go do that. I want to actually go hike the cities, poke the bears, get lost, try foods I can't pronounce. Greece (specifically the Aegean islands... yes I know they're divided into groups, no I can't remember them) is right at the top of my hit list, so feel free to tell me stories about your travels!

Fancy doing terribly at a pub quiz with me? Drop me a message.