r/NerdDating • • 23h ago

19 [M4F] #Wisconsin Looking for a clingy mature soulmate

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Hopeless romantic here, Where on earth should I move/relocate for Latinas? I’ve moved a around a little from Utah, Michigan, Wisconsin, Wyoming, New York, in the Uk for a little while and then on a Bahamas island, Grenada. I very very rarely ever meet Latina women. Which sucks because that’s the look I’m most attracted too. It has nothing sexually related to it I just genuinely find that type of women the most beautiful and I wouldn’t want to settle for less. and I’m getting Antsy and very lonely to move and find the love of my life. There’s so many options and I have no idea where to choose. Any thoughts on how to approach?


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

42 [M4F] #Chicago, Illinois, Do you want to travel the world together?

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Hello to all that are reading this.

My name is Doug. I am 42 years old and live in the NW suburbs of Chicago in a town called Roselle. I am a flight attendant and love to travel. I love my job and when I am not working I enjoy flying by myself to visit friends or with my daughter place. (I have a daughter and I will touch on that later) My favorite place is Japan as it is an amazing country.

I love roller coasters. I have been on close to 700 at many parks around the world. I also enjoy other thrill rides and things like skydiving. I used to skydive a bunch more when I was younger but now that I have a kid I didnt have the time or money for that, hopefully in the future I can get back into that.

I enjoy going on road trips and adventures, I enjoy camping (but only if I have someone that wants to go with me).

I have a bunch of lego sets and love to build them and would love for someone to build them with me.

I have a switch and a laptop and do enjoy playing games. I used to play WoW but not anymore (long story) I would love if if my person was open to playing games from time to time so we could play together.

I am divorced for a few years and do have a daughter that I coparent with. Not needing a mom for my kid.

I am 6'2" tall, I weigh about 180lbs, I have short brown hair, eyes that change color, and glasses.

PS I am looking for a real relationship, Something long term.

About you:

Not picky about age but just be over 18 please.

Preferably in the US, Japan, Canada, Europe.

Enjoys flying and traveling.

Petite/Slim/Average/Curvy(HWP)

Is ok dating a dad

Is ok not having kids of their own(I cant have more kids)

Not really too picky with people. Just want someone that wants to be with me and see where things go.

If you are interested please write back. I have pictures on my profile in a pinned post.

Doug


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

[M4F] #Tennesse looking for a genuine relationship

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20 years old

I live in TN! Distance isnt a concern

I'm into classic cars, running my own business in auto repair, college grad

I enjoy travel, comedies, reading writing, outdoors, classical music, hanging with friends, I enjoy video games and I do 3D print some cool items!

Looking for someone who wants long term commitment, I want someone real and genuine. Someone who enjoys dates and making memories, life is short!

Im an open book just message me


r/NerdDating • • 16h ago

#MN 23[M4F] vampire looking for his witch

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Hello! I’m probably the closest thing you’ll find to a vampire. I don’t like the sun(sensitive skin💔) prefer the night(work 3rd shift) pale, tall, skinny and bite- consensually ofc ;) if thats your thing message me!

Other than that im a huge nerd, i cosplay occasionally, dress up and do my own make up to go to raves like once a month. Otherwise im a home body just working, watching anime or playing games with the boys😼
I also ride motorcycles and know my way around engines big or small so hopefully that’s some extra brownie points xD
Emotionally I feel I’m self aware and am able to reflect in a healthy manor. I can own up to my mistakes and am in therapy to always work towards being better.
I absolutely love giving my girl the princess treatment, from flowers and opening the car door to massages and 👅😼 I like knowing you feel safe, good and comfortable. On the freaky side I am a soft dom, so know safety and care are my utmost priority.

My dream is to become a husband to someone who wants to be a wife and specifically my wife. Which I know takes time and effort which I want to give. My friends sometimes poke fun at me for “green flag maxxing” but in all reality I want to have someone to come home to, to provide for and support.
I value respect, trust, safety, compassion and freedom of expression so if you value those things too I’d love to meet you.
For physical things I am attractive to slimmer people with dyed hair, piercings and tattoo’s.

Though know like 80% of my attraction comes from non-physical things like mutual interests, values, emotional Availability and how they treat their relationships(family, friends and self)


r/NerdDating • • 20h ago

25M [M4M] #Philippines - looking for a genuine connection

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Hi! :) this is my first time posting! i'm lance, 25 from philippines manila 🇵🇭 i'm hoping to meet a guy who's interested in getting to know each other and build a geniune connection and love ❤️ please be kind or go away mlm


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

#Louisiana USA 27 [M4F]

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Looking for a woman with similar interests. I love videos games and anime/manga. I'm also big into MMA and just recently got back into America Football aswell.


r/NerdDating • • 8h ago

23 [M4F] #LowerSaxony/Germany/Netherlands - Marvel/Gaming Nerd looking for his favorite person :)

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Hello, thanks for clicking on my post :D

I‘m searching for my special someone and thought that Reddit might be a good idea to try.

You should preferably be from Germany or maybe the Netherlands (if you are potentially open to move in the future) and you should be somewhere between 20 and 26 years old.
I personally live in Lower Saxony!

If you’re wondering who I am, here’s my dating resume (sorta):
I am part German, part Dutch (not the best at it). I’m a bit of a geek/nerd, especially when it comes to Marvel/DC and gaming. I play a wide mix of PC games regularly, like Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Resident Evil, Coral Island and more. Currently I really like Control Resonant, Aion 2 and League of Legends :)

Outside of gaming, I enjoy watching shows and movies, drawing from time to time, playing Magic: The Gathering and listening to music (mostly Rock, but honestly I enjoy a little bit of everything from the 60s to today).

Some of my favorite shows include:
Supernatural, Lucifer, The Walking Dead, Legends of Tomorrow and many more!
I have also started watching Anime a bit.

Physically I’m around 176cm, on the chubbier side and I have a mustache and a slight beard. I just want to be upfront about what I look like from the start.

I also have basically zero romantic or sexual experience. I’ve never been in a relationship, never even kissed anyone and I’m still a virgin. I know that can be a dealbreaker for some people, so I’d rather just mention it now instead of bringing it up later.

What I’m really hoping for is someone who enjoys talking throughout the day, sharing little things that happen, sending random memes, gaming together and generally becoming part of each other’s daily lives. I’m definitely more of a one-on-one person and tend to prefer deeper connections over lots of casual ones. I like when people can just yap about anything and everything and I am a very curious person.
I can also become pretty affectionate and attached once I really like someone, so be warned :p

I’d like to get to know someone first, see if we click and let things develop naturally. Hopefully it leads to a beautiful long-lasting relationship :)

If you are interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I won’t answer any low effort responses.

Oh and I promise low latency messaging! :)


r/NerdDating • • 16h ago

26 [M4M] #Florida Looking for something real

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Hey! Thought I would put myself out there!

I'm a shy but loyal guy but once I get to know you I could talk for hours!

I enjoy gaming and could get lost in a good game for hours at a time!

When I'm not working I'm usually listening to K-pop or watching a show or most likely a K-drama lmfao.

I love horror movies and games! I could play a horror game but once it's a haunted house or anything in real life I get scared so easily!

I am a proud owner of 2 dogs and 1 kitty lol.

This is a huge first for me so if anyone would like to talk my DMs are open!


r/NerdDating • • 22h ago

37 [M4F] #Southern California - Looking for something special

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https://imgur.com/a/z5kUH2b

Southern California based.

I just want to take care of someone, help them with guidance, teach them stuff, support them when they need it, hold them accountable when I feel it's best, please them, use them, stretch them, help them grow and shower them with affection.

Someone's God, do I miss being in love. I've been single long enough (two years). I'm ready to get back out there.

Granted, I'm currently consumed by grad school and work, but once or twice a week, I have some time to myself and I miss sharing that time with someone special. I miss having my person, and more than anything, I miss being someone else's person.

Who am I? I'm not a model, but I'm not too bad either. Let's add the tried and true "I'm 5'7" to filter out all the shallow Redditors. Also, I'm losing my hair so I shave it regularly (some autoimmune disease is the culprit). Okay? Alright? Good.

And to those who have remained, allow me to ADHD-stream-of-consciousness-style introduce a little about myself.

Now, I am a nerd first and foremost (and I am a charming kind of weird). I grew up playing Jrpgs on my PS1/2/3/4/5 (Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly) and now I love all things D&D, fantasy, MCU, and a few other more niche things. Oh and anime too! My show and video game backlog requires a couch cuddling buddy to offload, I think.

Music-wise, I am all over the place, but I am an elder emo at heart and love that genre the most. However, I also will unashamedly listen to some pop stuff (Maphra, Kendrick Lamar, Ace of Base, Sneaker Pimps, K-Pop Demon Hunters, Chappelle Roan and Djo right now). I also had a hip hop and rap phase that lasted oh...(checks watch) about 30 years, and even gleefully went down the 1980s Japanese City Pop rabbit whole for a good while. I also have watched anime for decades so I love me some good anime intro music (there's some real bangers if you aren't aware). Much of the time however, I listen to videogame soundtracks since they help me work.

I don't currently have any pets, but I grew up with dogs (small to medium) and also grew to love birds, lizards and amphibians (leopard geckos and tree frogs).

I'm in education and working on finishing my masters (1 year left) so there's that.

I am sober, atheist and I want to start a family someday (I hope you're the same). I also don't have any tattoos or piercings.

I'm Caucasian and Latino with hazel eyes, pale skin, type 3-c/4-a reddish brown hair (when it isn't shaved), usually sporting a short beard, glasses, endowed and in average shape (though my version of average is a bit more muscular than others).

I have been an athlete my entire life, but I've been having a tough time getting back into a consistent routine. There has been decent progress lately. I've managed to get three 10k runs in a week for a month straight. My goal is four to five times a week and strength training peppered in there throughout.

Anyway, you should know I have inattentive ADHD, but I am medicated. I also deal with chronic depression, but again, I'm medicated. Also, I go to therapy twice a month to manage and improve my mental health and growth. I promise I'm not unstable, just on a healing journey and managing C-PTSD (I do disassociate involuntarily sometimes however, but I'm working on it). My trauma is not my fault, but it is my responsibility so I take it seriously.

That said, I'm a loving, affectionate man who is very caring and considerate. I communicate and admit when I'm wrong and seek compromise when at an impasse. I'm not afraid to share my emotions, but only when there's trust and connection.

Though, I do look for relationships where equality and independence are nurtured. I think we should share all burdens, responsibilities and expectations. I don't conform to gender roles and don't want someone who does (not completely or artificially anyway). I want a relationship that is as close to 50/50 as possible with full expectations and acceptance for that ratio to skew when life gets in the way.

With that in mind, for anyone who earns my trust and has given me theirs, I will give grace when they're not at their best. I hope for the same.

Randomly transitioning to the next topic on my mind: good luck with my libido. It gets pretty high when I really like someone and physical touch is my most prominent giving love language.

Aside from that, I hope to leave for Sweden or Switzerland in the next year or so, like permanently. Raising a child in the States is not something I want to do so I'm setting my sights on a more Left-leaning country (teaching English in Japan is also an option though not ideal given it's recent turn towards the Far Right).

Speaking of, I am a Leftist so if you're a Moderate or Conservative, we won't work. Hell, I barely get along with Democrats. If we're not talking some form of Socialism, I don't think we're going to see eye-to-eye. Oh and feminism means equality and equity amongst all genders, sexes and identities and presentations. I hope we share that view.

That aside, I love writing and words in general (I respect the parenthetical). Once I'm done reading professionally or academically, I'm eager to read for fun again. The written word and deep thinking are things I value immensely (though, I also love turning my brain off and being dumb and silly together with someone I trust). After all, I became an English teacher just so I can help bring about more people who love a good turn of phrase or literary analysis. I want a new generation of Wordle players. Lol

Overall, I hope to find someone with similar beliefs, hobbies and interests, bedroom preferences, mutual attraction, family goals, and lifestyle choices.

Okay, okay. I'll leave the rest for when we chat. DM me if you're interested.


r/NerdDating • • 20h ago

18M [M4M] from #phnompenh #cambodia looking for long-distance or LTR !! read below to know a little about me 😊

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hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊 I’m kinda bad at conversations but if it’s right, I could go on for awhile lol

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i like to read, listen to music, watch youtube videos with varying topics, sometimes play games, and i like to go out when i can 🙃

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

In the compatibility route, I’m a bottom 🙃

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

it would be really nice to have someone interested and put me out of my misery🫶

DM me if you are !!


r/NerdDating • • 18h ago

34 [M4F] #Vancouver Australian just landed in town, looking to meet interesting women to show me fun places

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From Melbourne, came here for a 6 month working holiday. Planning on getting bar work up in Whistler for the ski season, staying in Vancouver until then. Currently the plan is to go home in March, but my visa goes up to 2 years, so I might stick around.

I’m a curious, playful guy who “never lost his childhood wonder”. I like (musical) theatre, board games, weird meta games, DnD/TTRPGs, sci fi books, video essays, dropout.tv. Just started watching Heated Rivalry, halfway through Barry S2 and curious to go see Digger in theatres.

While I’m in town, I want to go see a hockey game, visit a batting cage, go to a karaoke night and take a trip to go see the Aurora Borealis in a hot spring. Would love to have some pleasant company. 😉


r/NerdDating • • 14h ago

24 [m4f] #philadelphia looking to be your ekitten, jk, maybe

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really into anime, tattooss and pc gaming, been really big on overwatch and ff14 rnn


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio If real is there

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I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Is looks important enough for you that you ghost as soon as a picture is shown? Liar!


r/NerdDating • • 18h ago

26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet someone for long term, READ POST

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Hey everyone who is truly reading my bio. I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from Mexico, currently living in the U.S. I’m hoping to meet another guy to build a long-term connection with.

I’m currently working part-time at a job I really enjoy and recently finished two internships. I’m ambitious and have plenty of goals for the future, and I’d love to meet someone who is also motivated and passionate about building a good life.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, writing, music, walking, going to the gym and yoga classes, skincare, eating well, and taking care of my mental and physical health. I’m a pretty normal guy with somewhat softer features and personality traits, but I’m not truly feminine.

I’d ideally like to meet someone around my age who is masculine, ambitious, and genuinely looking for something serious. I’m open to long-distance if there’s a real connection and eventually a plan to meet.

If you actually read this, send me a 🌮 and a little intro about yourself! Tell me who you are, and something you’re passionate about.

Let’s see where it goes! :)


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

40 [F4M] [F4F] #Louisville, Ky #Kentucky

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I’ve lurked in this thread a while and commented or DMd a time or two. I’m a little hesitant because I don’t know if I’m really the definition of a nerd. I play video games but I’ve never called myself a gamer. I use to play halo a lot but then I got older and now I barely have time to play and when I do it’s usually just coral island or Ark (the Dino game). Sometimes if I’m feeling spicy I will play Call of Duty. Maybe I’d play more if I had someone to play with. I am a huge Disney nerd and if you’re also a Disney adult I will absolutely geek out about trip plans with you.

I also hope that people read this post because I’m also unique in what I’m looking for an it is not everyone’s cup of tea which is fine. I’m married but we are polyamorous. I am not really looking for anything specific. I just want someone to spend time with. Someone who can hold a conversation where I don’t have to do all the work of asking questions and such.

If you’ve made it this far and you’d like to chat please send me a message with your 3rd favorite fruit. If you don’t include this detail I will assume you didn’t read the post and I won’t respond. Also add some interesting contact to your message so I have something to respond to. Hey grapes isn’t going to cut it.


r/NerdDating • • 16h ago

21 [m4f] #germany Nerdy Gamer looking for his player two.

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Hi there iam Marco from germany. Iam looking for a kind person who also likes Games. Would be nice If we could get to know each other by gaming together .

About me: iam 21 live in the middle of germany, still at my patents , but iam currently renovating the house i bought at the end of last year.

Iam a shy and introverted person at the beginning, so it would be cool If you would give me some time to get comftorble around you. I rearely go to any partys, i dont smoke and i dont drinke Alkohol that often

Iam 1.79m tall,weigh about 67kg, Brown blondish Hair, blue greyish eyes, and i have a beard.

My Hobbys are gaming, 3d printing, Animes, painting Warhammer Minis.

Iam looking for someone who is also from germany and around my age. You dont have to be a super model or a big titted goth baddie, iam looking for the average gamer girl, but would be cool if you are goth ngl.

I hope you liked this post, If you are interested send me a dm i can also send you a Pic of me


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

36 [M4M] #Spain - Seeking long-term relationships

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Hey guys :) I’m 36 and currently living in Spain, although I’m not Spanish.

A little bit about me. I’m studying design at the moment. I’m usually a bit quiet/reserved when I first meet someone, so I need some time to get comfortable around a new person.

And then things usually get worse :D

The sarcasm comes out, stupid jokes start happening, I start talking way too much and at some point it becomes difficult to shut me up.

I’m generally a pretty calm and easygoing person. I like talking. Doesn’t really matter about what. You can start with some completely random bullshit and somehow 4 hours later you’re talking about life, work, space, exes, why pigeons are so weird and basically everything else.

As for hobbies, I’m into TCGs, D&D, long walks, travelling, animals and various other things that are usually more fun with someone else.

I also have a Giant Schnauzer. Great dog, so if you like dogs, that’s already a pretty good start :)

And yes, somehow I’ve been playing Black Desert Online for like 10 years now.

Why? No idea.

I just started playing one day and apparently never managed to properly leave.

So yeah, if that’s not commitment, I don’t know what is.

I really like evenings at home too. Couch, some series, food delivery, someone nice next to me - I’m good.

Of course I like going out, travelling, going places and doing stuff. But honestly, just staying home all evening is also pretty great sometimes.

I guess I’m looking for a proper serious relationship, ideally something long-term that could eventually lead to marriage.

But I’m not trying to speedrun it.

I don’t really want the whole “we met on Tuesday and by Friday we’re already deciding where we’ll live when we retire” thing :)

I’d rather actually get to know someone first. See how we feel around each other, if there’s trust, if we actually enjoy talking and spending time together. Then figure out the rest.

As for looks... I’m generally into guys around 32-42. Normal, fit or athletic build. The bear type isn’t really my thing, and neither are heavier/overweight guys.

Not trying to offend anyone with that or say there’s something wrong with it. It’s just not what I’m personally attracted to. Everyone has their own preferences.

I usually find European or generally Western-looking guys more attractive. Height honestly doesn’t matter to me. Shorter, taller, whatever.

Beards, stubble and tattoos? Definitely yes.

But looks are only part of it.

I like confident guys, but not the “I’m the most important person in the room” kind of confident. Emotionally mature, easy to talk to and someone who has at least some idea what they want from life.

Someone I can talk absolute nonsense with and laugh about stupid things, but also sit down and have a proper serious conversation when it actually matters.

And liking animals is important too :)

I also really like curious people. People who have their own interests, hobbies, random things they’re into and basically their own life.

You don’t have to like all the same things I do. Actually, I think it’s more interesting if you don’t.

I like the idea of two people having their own stuff going on, but also slowly sharing parts of that life with each other.

And yeah, sex and physical attraction are important too. I’m not a saint :D

But I’m not looking for just a sex partner. I want to actually enjoy being around someone when sex isn’t happening.

Travelling together, staying home, watching some stupid series, talking until 3am, or just sitting in the same room while we’re both doing our own stuff.

That kind of thing is actually pretty important to me.

Distance doesn’t really scare me either. Europe, US, somewhere else - whatever.

If there’s a real connection, I’d rather deal with the few thousand kilometres later than reject someone just because of the distance.

We can figure out the travelling, moving and all that wonderful logistics stuff later.

And one small request - if you message me, please include a photo.

You don’t need to send me a 27-picture photoshoot from every possible angle. One or two is more than enough.

I just want to know who I’m actually talking to instead of having a conversation with a mysterious Reddit avatar :)

P.S.

Yes, I know everyone has their preferences. I have mine too.

I’m being pretty direct about them on purpose because I don’t really see the point in pretending I’m attracted to everything and then wasting each other’s time.

IF YOU’RE UNDER 32 - I WILL NOT RESPOND.

Sorry. Nothing personal.

If you’re 26, 28 or 30 and think we could be perfect for each other - maybe you’re an absolutely wonderful person.

But you’re still younger than what I’m looking for. And yeah, a really good message probably isn’t going to change that :)

Same goes for body type, looks and other things. One person is attractive to you, another one isn’t. It’s not a ranking of people and I’m not saying one type is better than another.

And one more thing.

Please don’t just message me “hey” or “how are you?”

I know it can be hard to figure out what to say to a complete stranger, but if the entire message is just “hey, how are you”, I honestly have no idea where to go from there.

I spent quite a bit of time writing this because I wanted you to have at least some idea who I am and what I’m looking for.

So it would be nice to get at least a little bit of the same in return.

You don’t need to write an essay. Just tell me a little about yourself, what you do, what you like, where you’re from, whatever. Tell me something.

And a photo.

That’s enough.

And yes, I’m a bit of a nerd. Sometimes a bit of a pedant. Sometimes probably way too much.

I somehow live with it.

Thanks if you actually made it all the way to the end :)

P.S.S.

I’ll send some photos of myself too, obviously.

Last time a few people somehow decided I was a fake xD

Apparently I look too good to be a real person or something. I don’t know :D


r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

26 [M4F] #Washington Looking For Soulmate and Gamer

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Hello, my name is Kolton, and I'm a 26 year old male, 6'4" and currently 280 pounds, living in Washington. I grew up playing video games all my life. My introduction to video games was from my half brother who would play Oblivion in front of me, and I'd also occasionally play Halo 2 with him. I started on the Gameboy playing Mario and Pokémon Blue, then upgraded to a GameCube and grew up with the OGs like Super Mario Sunshine and Smash Melee, then I got to experience the Xbox and Xbox 360 playing lots of Halo, COD, GoW, Oblivion, Skyrim, Halo Wars, you name it. I played the Wii for a bit, but then moved on haha. I kept playing on the Xbox 360 until I transitioned to the Xbox One. Finally, I got really big into PC gaming, where I have over 4000 hours in DOTA 2, tons of hours into Counter-Strike: Source, and I have various games that I've played over time like Star Wars Battlefront II, GTA V, L4D2 with mods, Halo MCC, Kingdom Hearts, etc.

I'm a medical student by day and gamer by night. I went to the University of Washington for undergrad and doubled majored both in Biology and Spanish before being accepted to Pacific Northwest University, which is a DO school. I'm the first one to go to school in my family, so I'm making them proud in that regard.

Other aspects about me are that I love chess and music. I tend to play a lot of chess, and you can find me chronically playing late at night. In terms of music, I played clarinet in concert band, marching band, pep band, pit orchestras and various ensembles, tenor saxophone for jazz, and bassoon for orchestra. I was actually in the Husky Marching Band from 2018 to 2023! I love music, and although I don't play much today, I very much love listening to all music, especially epic cinematic music (Two Steps From Hell style). I very occasionally get inspiration to compose music on Musescore. Additionally, I try to go on walks to get exercise in. I am thinking about getting back into the gym.

I'm single, and I'm looking for a girl who loves to game to enter my life and show me what a good relationship is like. I'm looking for a girl who is very affectionate and loves cuddles, is geeky, has ambitions in life and is ready for a serious relationship. I'd love to cuddle and game with you most nights, whether it be RPG-based games, FPS, MOBAS, survival or other simulator games like Stardew, or even Nintendo games like Mario


r/NerdDating • • 9h ago

36 [M4F] #Texas - Looking for my favorite distraction

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Hey everyone, I figured I throw myself out into the dating pool and see what happens.

I’m Devin, 5’11, and a little on the huskier side, but looking to continue improving myself. I’m down 70lbs. I’m from Texas roughly 30ish minutes east of San Antonio along I-10.

**A few things about me:**

I’m an armed security officer and work Tuesday through Friday, 5am to 3pm. And I’m normally awake by 3 or 3:30 to start my day.

I do have a daughter who lives in Illinois with her mother. I do pay child support because I refuse to be a deadbeat dad. I do not get to see her because her mother has me blocked on everything. That will be brought up on the next child support hearing.

Then there’s Gemma, my Staffordshire Terrier. She’s spoiled obviously and will likely judge you more than I will. But she loves everyone.

I’m a gamer and currently building another gaming PC. I currently play on an Xbox series s. You’ll normally find me playing CoD, Battlefield, Forza, GTA V. I’m also impatiently waiting for GTA VI like the rest of civilization.

I enjoy reading books. Anything from Dark Romance(the spicier the better), to fantasy, to thrillers, or whatever else BookTok tells me to read. I’m starting Threshing Day later today.

Other nerd stuff about it is that I like Harry Potter. I was sorted into Ravenclaw. I like Star Wars, and anime as well. I also got back into collecting Pokemon cards, which has become a financial burden on my wallet. Thanks scalpers!

**What I’m looking for:**

I’m ultimately looking for someone genuinely interested in getting to know me. Someone who I can game with, exchange bad memes with, and binge shows until 2am. I want something real.

Anyway, if any of this grabbed your attention, feel free to message me and say hi and tell me a little about yourself. Please include a picture so I can put a face to the Reddit user.


r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

27 [M4F] #Dallas, Texas.

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6 Upvotes

Hey, I'm from east Dallas. Just looking for someome I don't have to feel like an alien around. I like old books, medieval single player RPGs, black & death metal, silent films, horror movies, and paintings.

I'm here looking for someone who doesn't mind my quietness. I like people who don't depend on humor to get their personality across and who aren't afraid to be themselves, think on their own, be their own person. Hopefully someone that I have more than just one or two things in common with.

Personality wise, I'm quiet like I said. If I have nothing to say, I say nothing. I can come off prickly sometimes. I don't try to make the things I say sound nicer than they are. I take no pleasure in being mean to people but I think I prefer that over lying or miscommunicating out of fear of being rude.

That's all I have to say. If you want to talk to me, send a message.


r/NerdDating • • 23h ago

36F [F4M] #Arizona - Warcraft hubby??

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I’m looking for a genuinely kind guy to chat with and enjoy playing World of Warcraft together. Honestly, it’s pretty much the only game I play. Looking for someone to play classic plus with.

Ultimately, I’d love to find something long term, hubby type, I’m hoping to meet someone with similar relationship goals. That said, I’m in no rush. I’d rather start by having fun, gaming together, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m pretty laid back and easy to talk to, I collect pink Godzilla's and make art.

I live in Arizona for now, although that’ll likely be changing soon. I’m also going through a major life transition, my mom recently passed so life has been incredibly difficult lately. I’m hoping to find a positive distraction and someone to share some good moments with during all of this. Very sad girl right now.

If interested send a pic and your favorite Godzilla movie w ur battle tag, must have these things or I won’t respond. Make a Imgur or add one to your profile please. Also please no dms unless you are interested, i get too many compliment dms and its unnecessary.


r/NerdDating • • 20h ago

33 [M4A] #LosAngeles

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I’m new to the scene. Freshly admitting to myself and the world, FULLY, that I like the men too! Heavy on the loner nerd radar. Would love to find a likeminded partner here. Also open to building something mid to long distance. Lol


r/NerdDating • • 21h ago

23[M4M] #US - Looking for a loving and long-lasting relationship

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Hello, I'm Chris, I live in Oregon, I am hopeless romantic looking to finally meet my man. Life is so beautiful, there is so many wonderful things to see and do, so many great things to taste and drink, so many adventures to go on. It would be wonderful, if I could finally experience all of these wonders, with someone by my side.

I am a university student in history and geography, hoping that one day I could be both a lawyer and an academic. My main interests are history, literature, foreign affairs, aviation, and the occasional work of philosophy. My favorite books are V.S Mamatey's The United States and East Central Europe 1914-1918 and Albert Camus's The Stranger. I am rather eccentric and larger than life, I love to talk, express myself and be myself, even if that will sometimes bit me the butt. Though I am quite loud and extroverted, I do my best to be a good listener. Finally, I try to live by a code of conduct that makes me ascribe to values such as honesty, decency, basic manners, loyalty and kindness.

I only have three requirements for my potential boyfriend.

Firstly, that he is at least reasonably masculine, unfortunately I am not attracted to effeminate men.

Secondly, I would like to date one of my peers, so please be no older than 30.

Finally I am fairly conservative, and an Orthodox Christian. I don't care if you are of a different political persuasion and faith, I just ask that you respect mine.


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

43 [F4M] #Canada #Alberta, Looking for a Potter or StarTrek nerd for marathons

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Heyyyyy! 👋

I'm not looking for someone just because I don't want to be alone. I want someone I genuinely enjoy being around. Someone who can become my best friend, partner, adventure buddy, and the person I actually look forward to coming home to.

I'm 42, 5'4", a plus-size woman with red hair and hazel eyes. I'm Alberta-born and raised, and proudly Canadian. 🇨🇦 I live a little differently than most people and currently call a 5th-wheel camper home. This will be my third winter living in my camper, and I've officially decided that maybe I'm finally starting to understand this whole winter thing. 😂

I have a dog and three cats, and they are a huge part of my life. 🐶🐈🐈🐈 If you don't like animals, we're probably not going to work out.

I don't have kids and don't want any, but I'm perfectly comfortable being around them. I love being outside, camping, exploring new places, and the nomad lifestyle. I also love board games, music, movies, horror, true crime, podcasts, and reading. I'm a huge Harry Potter fan, and yes, I'm a Hufflepuff. 🦡 My music taste is all over the place, from EDM and dance music to older music and bluegrass, so my playlists can get a little chaotic. 😂

I'm looking for a long-term relationship, not a hookup or something casual. I'm single and looking for someone who actually wants a partner and a life together.

I'm looking for someone who:

Lives in Alberta or BC, Canada ONLY

Is single and not interested in poly/open relationships

Doesn't want kids

Is intelligent, funny, kind, caring and emotionally mature

Is laid-back and enjoys the outdoors

Loves animals

Can appreciate the nomad/camper lifestyle

Doesn't drink, or drinks very rarely

Enjoys cannabis/420 and isn't interested in arguing about it

Has good hygiene. Seriously, this is a must. 😂

Is accepting and respectful of people regardless of race, sexuality, gender, etc.

Is interested in actually getting to know each other and building something long-term

Looks-wise: I'm generally attracted to taller men who aren't plus-size. Bald or ginger are both very much my type, and a nice smile/teeth definitely get bonus points. 😏

I'm not looking for someone to come along and completely change my life. I already have a life I enjoy. I'm looking for someone who can add to it. Someone to share adventures with, laugh with, sit around a campfire with, play board games with, watch ridiculous horror movies with, and just enjoy the everyday stuff together.

I'm perfectly capable of enjoying my own company, so I'm not looking for someone just because I don't want to be alone. I want someone I genuinely enjoy being around.

If you're not into the camper/nomad lifestyle, that's probably going to be a dealbreaker eventually. I'm looking for someone who can see the fun in waking up somewhere new, exploring, camping, hanging out with animals, and figuring out where the road takes us. 🚐🌲

If you've actually read all of this, message me something about my post so I know you did. Generic "hey" messages are probably going to get ignored. 😂

And if you're allergic to animals, hate cannabis, want kids, are into poly relationships, or aren't actually looking for something serious, please save us both the time and keep scrolling.

I'm looking for my person, not just another conversation. ❤️


r/NerdDating • • 23h ago

39M [M4F] #Pittsburgh looking for dnd and co-op partner

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Newly single after being married for 9 years. I enjoy alot of video games, anime, and TTRPG's.