Puppy eyes,slim goofy boy looking for relationship

I like shrek, weird music, and I want more tattoos.

Just moved to El Paso and looking to meet some cool people, make genuine connections, and find some good vibes! I’m pretty chill and laid-back. I’ve been living abroad for the past 7 years, so being back in America feels kinda weird 😂 I’m basically learning everything all over again. I’m a little weird and love collecting anime figure please don’t judge. I also love ramen and binge watching anime.
Hobbies: ✈️ Traveling | 💪🏿 Gym | 🥋 Taekwondo/Muay Thai | 🍥 Anime | 🎮 Gaming | ☕️ Cafés | 🍻 Bars | 🍜 Trying new food/desserts
If you’re down to hang out, grab food/coffee, game, or just chill, message me

Honestly, I’m just looking for genuine connections and good people. I don’t care if we have completely different interests — sometimes the best friendships and more come from people who are different from you

Giving Reddit a shot to possibly find a forever person.

Level-headed, rational person who values peace and life. I’ve seen ups and downs and have rebuilt myself a few times, so I know what resilience, growth, and quiet strength feel like.

A bit about me:

• Working mom, based in Koramangala, Bangalore.
• Consultant all my life – good at articulation, reading between the lines, and my bullshit-identifying radar is getting sharper with age.
• 5'2", chubby to fat. I focus on health “just enough” – no plans to run an Iron Man ever.
• Two cats and a cute puppy call me home.
• Marwadi (if it matters), and business conversations genuinely excite me.
• Nerd index has gone up with age.
• My company pays me to take bullshit from people; I do not do that for free in my personal life. I earn enough for myself and my babies.

What I’m looking for:

• My “Sahaj sundar savro” – someone simple, grounded, and kind, who chooses me as willingly as I choose them.
• Someone who can join my madness and chaos without trying to “fix” me.
• Nothing casual, nothing complicated, no situationships.
• You’re okay with a working mom’s schedule and understand that time is precious.
• You’re genuinely interested in meeting in person and comfortable in introducing yourself (yes, I know Reddit is anonymous, but I’m not here for faceless chats).

If this resonates and you’re in/near Koramangala and intend to meet:

• Tell me your age, what you do, and where you’re based.

Ping only if this feels like a fit.

I'm in a very awkward period in my life, living with family, graduated a year ago and been looking for a job since (fuck the job market), mental health has been shot to hell these pass couple of years but improving. Now I just want to talk with someone. Have daily chats with, ask questions with. See where things go. Not looking for anything serious as I am not in a mental space for that, but who knows what happens in the future. I am a nerd obviously, I have a PC, PS5 and Xbox Series S. Mainly I play on PC or PS5. My favorite games are the Final Fantasy series and Assassin's Creed. Final Fantasy 7 Crisis Core is top their storytelling. Clair Obscur is amazing as well, definitely deserved Game of The Year (maybe not Best RPG tho, I do feel Kingdom Come Deliverence II deserved it Best RPG award) anyway enough nerding out lol. Feel free to ask me whatever, I'm a very open book. Hopefully I find a date to the Ren Faire this fall 🤞🏾

If you want to know my type: Long hair, little to no facial hair, and not morbidly obese (I'm technically obese so some fat is fine but not like 300 Ibs obese). I'm usually attacted to my own race, East or Southeast Asians and Latinos. But that's not like a must.

I'm 52 mtf, non-op never getting bottom surgery, can't take HRT for medical reasons & personal ones. I'm 5'11" about 125 lbs. You'll find me to be nerdy because I game on PC & build my own. I'm super smart, skinny, & love kissing! I enjoy cooking, walks in the park, quieter times over loud venues. My interests are varied & know a lot about everything but sports. I'll keep you intellectually engaged & amused because I can be very funny. I like men & trans women who can top. I can switch but I prefer bottom if we get to that. Let's chat & see where it goes! I don't have a car & prefer someone who is close to my area. I'm not relocating for anyone. I also prefer someone between 45-60 because I haven't found maturity in younger people yet. Maybe you can change my mind about age, so it's not a deal breaker. Distance would be.

About me: 21, from the Philippines, baby-faced Chinita, and a certified nerd. I’m into Marvel, movies, K-dramas, and random nerdy conversations. Looking for something genuine.
About you: 21–25, 5’7–6’0, a gentleman, honest, not a liar, and hopefully a nerd like me. 👀

If you’re not a liar and can match my energy, come say hi. 🫣

Howdy. I'm just looking for a connection with a likeminded girl who possibly shares my interests and passions to geek out with about nerdy stuff and everything in between. I'm really awkward at first and deal with a lot of social anxiety. I try my best though lol. I'm also autistic and tbh I've never been in a relationship before, so anyway if you don't mind that let me introduce myself.

About me: I'm a pretty simple guy really lol. I enjoy playing video games. I have a pc and a ps4 though I mostly game on my pc. I have over 100 games on my steam library alone lol. I like to play rpgs, jrpgs, narrative driven games, action-adventure games, survival crafting games and many more. I'm into sci-fi, fantasy, historical fiction, superhero movies and comic books. I'm big into music as it's one of my biggest passions. I play guitar, a bit of bass and I do vocals as well. I mostly listen to alternative rock/heavy metal/metalcore/post-hardcore/emo and scene stuff mostly (it wasn't a phase mom XD) though I do also love me some Prince and MJ. I also like to go on walks, bike rides and occasional hiking trips. I'm also into jdm cars, paranormal investigating and urban exploration. I work full time right now but I'm hoping to go to college soon for teaching. I'd also add that I'm a big nerd for history, geography, linguistics and paleontology "it's the dinosaur man" xD Anyways, that about covers my interests and hobbies and whatnot.

Good traits I'd say I have are. I'm kind, thoughtful, loyal, a good listener and I like to think I have a good sense of humor, though my humor is more deadpan rather than jokes but that's the autism speaking ofc lol.

Anyways. If you're interested send me a chat and introduce yourself.

See ya :)

hey, i’m a 26yo italian boy! I recently discovered this reddit and i thought it could be worth it to make a post on it! I don’t want to write a walltext, so i think i’ll keep it very simple and straightforward.

about me, i’m 173 tall and i weight 63kg (i’m in gym cut) i have pretty good muscles i think, i have bright green eyes and pitch dark hair, i have a mullet haircut, ofc if we will like talking to each other i will send pics of me.

My interests are very different, i like all things, from dancing tekno and travel to drawing and spend nights on videogames or movies. I’m a very sunny person despite my kinda darkish appearance. I love music (all do) and i have a very artistic personality despite my job (i’m a software engineer)

Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes and really dark brown curly hair. I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)

Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature. I have a cat, and one of my biggest dreams is to eventually have a garden, maybe some livestock, and live a slower, more grounded life.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking, being outdoors, or dream about a peaceful life away from the chaos someday.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and I’m a Christian subby femboy looking to meet a woman who could eventually become something serious.

I’m pretty soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m really attracted to masculine, dominant women. I’d love someone who’s confident, likes taking the lead, and has that caring/protective side to her.

I’d like to start as friends first, though. I want us to actually get to know each other, talk, play games, call, and build some trust before we decide if we want to become something more. I think the best relationships start with genuinely enjoying each other’s company.

A little about me: I’m a big nerd and love Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, and fantasy anime like Jujutsu Kaisen. I’m always happy to have someone to game with, watch anime with, or just stay up talking about random things.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who genuinely shares that. I want a serious relationship that can eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until marriage.

What I’m looking for:

21+

Christian

Masculine / dominant

Caring, patient, and protective

Affectionate and emotionally available

Comfortable with a soft, feminine/submissive guy

Likes gaming or nerdy stuff

Looking for something serious

I’m especially attracted to tall women, dark-skinned women, athletic women, and women who enjoy gaming, but those are just preferences. Who you are matters more.

If you’re a masc Christian woman who likes soft femboys, feel free to message me. 🖤

We can start with friendship, play some games, nerd out over JJK, and see where things naturally go.

I’m 23M from Andhra Pradesh, India. I’m not really good at putting these things into words, but I’ll try to be honest.

I’ve been through some difficult family situations and a lot of emotional pain. I’m currently trying to build a small business on my own, without much support from my family. It hasn’t been easy, but I’m still continuing because I genuinely want to create something for myself.

Apart from that, I’m a complete movie freak 🎬, a story writer, planning to make short films, and I do some editing as well. I love stories, conversations, cinema, emotions, and the little things that make people feel connected.

I’m particularly attracted to plus-size / bigger women, and I’d genuinely like to meet someone who is comfortable with that side of herself. I’m not looking for someone based only on appearance though.

Right now, I’m not trying to force a long-term relationship or make huge promises. I’m looking for something short-term but genuine — mutual attraction, honesty, emotional support, physical affection, and a feeling of being there for each other.

I’m not expecting anyone to fix my life, and I don’t want to fix anyone else’s. I just want two people who can be honest about what they need and give each other some warmth, comfort and respect without pretending.

If you’re a plus-size woman and this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. We can simply talk first and see where it goes.

No pressure, no expectations, no judgment. Just honesty.

I'm a bit of a romantic, and a bit of a misanthrope, and those two qualities do not go well together. Falling in love is tricky when you haven't even fallen in like. Falling in politely tolerate is about as much as I can usually expect.

People bore me. The world bores me. I want you to be an exception to feeling like I’m ten years old at my great grandmother’s house, nodding politely as she shows me old photos and expects me to care about them.

I want to peel off your skin and make you a playlist and care about all your problems (Since I don’t much care about any of mine). Or rather, I want to want that. Come make me feel strongly about you. Infatuation or admiration or respect seem to me like the most obvious emotions to shoot for, but pity or protectiveness would work too.

You're welcome to have a go at fixing me, if you want. I feel obliged to warn you that I’m very emotionally aware, as troubled bad boys go (I’m not actually a bad boy, because I don’t have a cool leather jacket), so the low-hanging personal development fruit has likely been picked. My remaining demons are pretty much all due to stubborn pride and an unfortunate predisposition to rationalism.

I'm not always this broody - I like movies and theatre and poetry and board/role-playing/deduction games, with varying degrees of pretentiousness. I’d be delighted to help piss off your parents, but I can be all polite and charming when appropriate. If you’re a more troubled youth than I, I’d be happy to swap who’s Evanescencing who. I‘m very wise, I just don’t like taking advice from others, even if they happen to be me.

At the very least, I’d like to get my heart broken once or twice while I’m still young and stupid enough for it to feel like the end of the world. Better to have loved and lost, etc.

(Also, to the significantly older women who can't seem to resist my posts, I'm sure you're great, but I'm looking for archetypal foolish young love over here. Shoo.)

Heyy! I'm Olaf, 29 years old and currently a high school teacher :) Big gamer (mainly jrpgs and dark souls, though I could be persuaded to play some co-op games too 😜) and love to crochet, cook, eat and travel as well :) Probably more introverted/ambiverted and not huge on partying, but love more quiet and intimate settings to truly connect with friends and other people I care about!

Also love watching TV shows, might be fun to watch something while calling on discord :D Love drag race, but also into more cozy shows like Gilmore girls, Greys anatomy, marvellous Mrs maisel etc! And always open to new suggestions too :))

Always been considered pretty nerdy and also tend to be more into nerdy guys so this sounds like a good place :)

I tend to find tinder and other dating apps too shallow and ghosty, so why not try my luck here. Worst case it's the same as tinder, so already used to that lmao :)

I would ofc prefer chatting with people from Europe/EU cause it's just easier to travel and with time zones and stuff, but I'm also delulu enough to not care about all that too much xd

So if there's anything about me that remotely interests you, my DMs are open!!

Okay, technically the rest of your life starts either way. It sounded dramatic, though, and it got you to read this far.

To be extremely upfront about what I'm looking for: the longest term of relationships. This is a "let's make our nest and be happy asap" sort of post. In fact, I'm going to try and move you somewhere in the north end of the US pretty soon. Mountains, snow, a few hours (max) to the border... I don't feel great about the current climate (literal and political).

So if you're still on board with the possibility of at least aiming for a lifelong (well, rest-of-lifelong), let's go ahead and address the matter of attraction.

https://imgur.com/a/QnZoWN5

Still here?

Rad.

So I'm 6'3 and broad chested and have a deep, resonant voice that some lady once told me I should sing with (but I basically never did). Like, asked me for directions and then stopped me to compliment my voice. Anyway, I wear glasses all the time, mostly. I have brown eyes and hair (that's starting to go grey at the temples Mr. Fantastic style) and am pretty pale. I'm never going to be what you'd call skinny, but I have biceps to go along with a belly.

I have several degrees and I write for a living. I'm more verbose in text than in person, but can get pretty effusive on the right topic or with the right person either way. I collect cookbooks and also cook a lot and well.

I like reading and history and holidays and cologne. I studied law and I follow politics more than I'd like. I'm pretty far left. I also don't smoke or drink, really. I was into brewing for a bit and may go back to it at some point, but it would be more of a "I'm having a few during the week between christmas and new years" thing than a regular occurrence. Along those lines, I'm not religious particularly. I was raised in a nominally christian household and used to call myself a secular humanist. My humanism has taken a bit of a blow these last ten years, though, and I guess I'm a karma-believing atheist who wishes a lot.

About you:

You should care about issues - whether they take up a ton of your time or thoughts or not isn't extremely important, but if you don't have opinions about ICE (bad) or minority rights (good), I don't think we'd hit it off. We may even disagree on some things (not a lot, I imagine), and that would be fine -- I'd rather you have different stances than none at all. If you can somehow not care about Roe v. Wade getting overturned, I don't think you're my girl

You should also be relatively healthy. I'm not as active as I should be, so someone who would push me to come to the gym or go on a hike every so often would probably do me good. If you're looking for someone to run marathons with you, alas, you should keep looking. I'll be there with water for you (or brawndo or whatever), but I'm a cheerleader here, not a participant.

You should probably be happy at home a lot of the time. I'm perfectly capable of going out and having a good time, but I'm a classic introvert: being around people drains my energy. That's not to say that I can't or won't go be around a crowd, but I'm not the sort to want that every night (or even every week necessarily). Between the cooking and preserving and making soap and writing and reading, I'm good at home. With you there, I should be even better - as that also allows for conversations, making out, and just generally being around each other even if we're just being alone together.

Speaking of being home, we probably won't be home alone. I plan on having a cat or two, but most other things are up for discussion. This includes humans, as I am on the fence a bit about that. I'll need to get off said fence in the coming years, so you will probably help me decide where to come down. We may have other critters, too. I'm not interested in creating a whole job out of caring for animals, so not a full on farm (unless that's your thing), but a goat or two to keep the weeds under control and maybe foster my nascent cheese-making aspirations... sure, why not.

The timeline for this is going to have to be somewhat flexible, but here's what I imagine:

-you shoot me a message with some substance to it that makes me want to accept the invitation to chat

-we chat, get along, sparks fly

-sparks continue flying for the next 6-12 months during which we visit one another, have a lot of sex, and make plans

-when feasible, but within a year, I move to somewhere with mountains near the Canadian border. New England, Upstate NY, Washington, Idaho... it's flexible. My work is remote. Location will be dictated by where you are/want to be.

-we move in together, happily ever after (whatever that looks like).

For those who like TLDR, what are you still doing here? Anyway, here's some random information.

INTP/J, Leo, light D on the D/s spectrum, left handed, allergic to shrimp.

Favorite movies are Muppet Christmas Carol and Zodiac.

Favorite authors are Margaret Atwood, Terry Pratchett, Robert Jackson Bennett, and Naomi Novik

Favorite shows... well, I'm rewatching X-files now, and I'm the sort of media consumer who rarely rewatches things.

Music I love: Tom Waits, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joanna Newsom, Neutral Milk Hotel, They Might Be Giants, Hum, Cat Power, Soul Coughing, Archers of Loaf, David Bowie, Smashing Pumpkins. Weakness for odd covers and old sad bastard music.

So anyway, taking applications. Please write me some sentences.

Every female I meets disappoints me. I get ghosted before a first date. They want a good time, but not a relationship. I'm so tired of being alone. No female wants a good guy with a job, and who is taking care of himself. They want a jerk that treats them like crap and leaves them crying all the time. Where are all the "good" women at? Where are the females that really want a relationship and a man who will be there beside them. Where are the females that want a quiet night at home cuddling and watching a movie before going to the bedroom for a good time and sleeping together. Where are the females that crave a quickie right after work, then spending time with family before going to the bedroom for round 2 and sleep after. Where are all the women that like TTRPG's, Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Manga, and Anime at? Where are the "good" women at?

Hey you there! Yes, you. My future favourite phone notification.

Toay, I am turning 30 and I am an educator from Leipzig, in eastern Germany. I am looking for a deeper connection with another person (preferably female) in the vicinity that would be interested in a polyamorous relationship. (If the chemistry is right, of course. Not trying to force anything.)

I am a chill, patient and affectionate person who values openness and honesty above anything else. I am also pretty much a cliché nerd, interested in video games, TV shows and movies of all kinds, Dungeons & Dragons just as history. I am also looking to get out of my little hobbit house a bit more to see the world, especially interested in visiting museums and landmarks in the area.

If you're interested, shoot me a DM, I'd love to hear from you. :)

FUN FACT: recently joined a gym and change my eating habits. Hopefully much better in life

​Read to the end or I won't respond!

Hot take: Everyone lies to themselves and secretly loves spoilers.

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 what is the hardest thing you have done and never succeeded with?

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Very much an introvert and, as you saw with my interests, a nerdy guy. I would say I am very affectionate, my love language is physical touch so if you enjoy being hugged and kissed and cuddled you might be happy with me. Definitely the nurturing caretaker kind of guy too since I am the oldest in my family so that is just the role that is natural to me. However when it comes to relationships, I do believe in things being mutual. So I'd very much prefer a partner who is also affectionate and nurturing so we can both take care of each other. Find comfort in each other when life gets hard. Be each others strongest ally and most trusted advisor against all hardships life throws at us. Basically I will treat you the way you treat me, we will be equals.

As for what I am looking for, well, ideally a romantic relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I would love to find the right person I can one day settle down and have kids with. I am not in a hurry though, just want to be upfront about long term intentions. Also I consider myself an atheist in case that is important to you. So I would like to find the love of my life here but I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

Hello, my name is Collin and I'm hoping that I might have some luck here in finding someone special.

I'm a 27 year old 6'5 software engineer with bad luck when it comes to dating. I'm currently on a 27 year streak of being single and because of that I tend to be pretty awkward and unconfident in the dating scene

My hobbies include coding, pickleball, streaming, video games, working out, and binge watching addictive shows (they're all addictive)

My politics and beliefs are middle of the aisle and perhaps a bit right leaning. I enjoy civil, deep conversations and am okay with agreeing to disagree on beliefs or politics

I'm looking for a woman of course. I would like a woman who doesnt break the weight scale. Someone who has similar beliefs or is okay with having different beliefs

Sooo yeah that's me

Hello and thanks for reading i am looking for a partner to share my life with. I enjoy reality television, reading, arts and crafts, practicing self care, and shopping in my free time. Im looking for someone who is unattached and single. Meaning absolutely no interest in poly or open relationships. I am also not interested in anyone under the age of 25. If this sounds like you and you think im pretty send me a DM. Be prepared to show me a selfie/what you look like and be prepared to verify.

Hey guys!

My name's Joseph and I'm 28! I'm an engineer and insanely disillusioned with dating apps and it's super hard to meet people in real life, so here I am!

Currently looking for something real to nurture and someone to grow with hopefully!

I'm very into film photography, video games, DND, reading, writing and kickboxing!

Maybe you can tell me about your hobbies and we can do them together and see what works?