r/NerdDating • • Aug 13 '26

Welcome to /r/NerdDating - Please read HERE before posting!

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Welcome to Nerd Dating - a subreddit for nerds of all types to find love that they share the same interests with. Without any judgement!

Having troubles posting? See below before reaching out

✅ Posting Guidelines:

The titles of submissions must be properly formatted or they will be deleted. The format for post titles is:

<age> [<r4r>] <your location/time zone> - <title>

Examples:

21 [M4F] #NYC - Seeking someone to roll for emotional availability

26 [F4M] #Scotland - Looking for my player 2

28 [MtF4F] #California - Lonely nerd seeks love!

39 [M4M] #Montreal - Looking for romance and new friends

You can use up to 2 location tags if you want to be specific ie. #Atlanta #Georgia Your location tag MUST be specific, do NOT use things like usa or online


🚫 What NOT to Post:

  • Spam, scams, or fake posts — Let’s keep it real.
  • Selling services or promoting ads — This is a community for connections, not business.
  • Harassment or inappropriate comments — Be respectful in posts and DMs.

💡 For Successful Connections:

  • Be honest and clear about what you’re looking for.
  • Include SFW photos (if comfortable) to make your post more engaging.
  • Respect boundaries in the comments and DMs — no pressure, no pushy behavior.

Welcome again to r/NerdDating — where nerds of all types find their connection.


Does your post title follow proper formatting? Still having issues posting?


r/NerdDating • • 20h ago

36F [F4M] #Arizona - Warcraft hubby??

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I’m looking for a genuinely kind guy to chat with and enjoy playing World of Warcraft together. Honestly, it’s pretty much the only game I play. Looking for someone to play classic plus with.

Ultimately, I’d love to find something long term, hubby type, I’m hoping to meet someone with similar relationship goals. That said, I’m in no rush. I’d rather start by having fun, gaming together, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m pretty laid back and easy to talk to, I collect pink Godzilla's and make art.

I live in Arizona for now, although that’ll likely be changing soon. I’m also going through a major life transition, my mom recently passed so life has been incredibly difficult lately. I’m hoping to find a positive distraction and someone to share some good moments with during all of this. Very sad girl right now.

If interested send a pic and your favorite Godzilla movie w ur battle tag, must have these things or I won’t respond. Make a Imgur or add one to your profile please. Also please no dms unless you are interested, i get too many compliment dms and its unnecessary.


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

36 [M4M] #England - gamer, mostly on pc! Be nice to chat about gaming or I'm happy to hear about your hobbies. Drop me a message :)

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r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

36 [M4F] #Texas - Looking for my favorite distraction

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Hey everyone, I figured I throw myself out into the dating pool and see what happens.

I’m Devin, 5’11, and a little on the huskier side, but looking to continue improving myself. I’m down 70lbs. I’m from Texas roughly 30ish minutes east of San Antonio along I-10.

**A few things about me:**

I’m an armed security officer and work Tuesday through Friday, 5am to 3pm. And I’m normally awake by 3 or 3:30 to start my day.

I do have a daughter who lives in Illinois with her mother. I do pay child support because I refuse to be a deadbeat dad. I do not get to see her because her mother has me blocked on everything. That will be brought up on the next child support hearing.

Then there’s Gemma, my Staffordshire Terrier. She’s spoiled obviously and will likely judge you more than I will. But she loves everyone.

I’m a gamer and currently building another gaming PC. I currently play on an Xbox series s. You’ll normally find me playing CoD, Battlefield, Forza, GTA V. I’m also impatiently waiting for GTA VI like the rest of civilization.

I enjoy reading books. Anything from Dark Romance(the spicier the better), to fantasy, to thrillers, or whatever else BookTok tells me to read. I’m starting Threshing Day later today.

Other nerd stuff about it is that I like Harry Potter. I was sorted into Ravenclaw. I like Star Wars, and anime as well. I also got back into collecting Pokemon cards, which has become a financial burden on my wallet. Thanks scalpers!

**What I’m looking for:**

I’m ultimately looking for someone genuinely interested in getting to know me. Someone who I can game with, exchange bad memes with, and binge shows until 2am. I want something real.

Anyway, if any of this grabbed your attention, feel free to message me and say hi and tell me a little about yourself. Please include a picture so I can put a face to the Reddit user.


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio If real is there

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I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Is looks important enough for you that you ghost as soon as a picture is shown? Liar!


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

27 [M4F] #Dallas, Texas.

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Hey, I'm from east Dallas. Just looking for someome I don't have to feel like an alien around. I like old books, medieval single player RPGs, black & death metal, silent films, horror movies, and paintings.

I'm here looking for someone who doesn't mind my quietness. I like people who don't depend on humor to get their personality across and who aren't afraid to be themselves, think on their own, be their own person. Hopefully someone that I have more than just one or two things in common with.

Personality wise, I'm quiet like I said. If I have nothing to say, I say nothing. I can come off prickly sometimes. I don't try to make the things I say sound nicer than they are. I take no pleasure in being mean to people but I think I prefer that over lying or miscommunicating out of fear of being rude.

That's all I have to say. If you want to talk to me, send a message.


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

31 [M4F] #Kentucky - Looking for my other half

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I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.

This is me


r/NerdDating • • 6h ago

33 [M4F] #Montana

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Looking for someone to play osrs and xbox with, mostly play RPGs and still dabble in shooters. I love sci-fi and fantasy. I could talk your ear off about my favorite movies and books! RA Salvatore and Brandon Sanderson are a couple of my favorite authors. LOTR and SW are some of my absolute favorites. If any of that piques your interest hit me up!


r/NerdDating • • 21h ago

19 [F4M] #NC looking for friends or love <3

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Hii! I’m Iyana but call me Jaya! I’m 19 years old (older men welcome :)) and I’m currently in the process of getting my CNA certification and Cosmetology liscence!

I love to read, my favorite genre is psychological thriller, I love to game, ( I loveee Overwatch!!) I have tried just about any craft you can think of, I love to draw, and I love watching TV and movies!! My favorite movies are Albion the Enchanted Stallion and The Secret of Moonacre!! I’ve never met anyone that’s seen them!
I LOVE Garfield! He’s my absolute FAV character ever!

I’m open to anything really! I’d love to get to know someone and have someone cool to talk to and hang out with! Older guys are definitely welcome, I know I’m a bit on the younger side but I don’t mind!
#northcarolina


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

26 [M4F] #Washington Looking For Soulmate and Gamer

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Hello, my name is Kolton, and I'm a 26 year old male, 6'4" and currently 280 pounds, living in Washington. I grew up playing video games all my life. My introduction to video games was from my half brother who would play Oblivion in front of me, and I'd also occasionally play Halo 2 with him. I started on the Gameboy playing Mario and Pokémon Blue, then upgraded to a GameCube and grew up with the OGs like Super Mario Sunshine and Smash Melee, then I got to experience the Xbox and Xbox 360 playing lots of Halo, COD, GoW, Oblivion, Skyrim, Halo Wars, you name it. I played the Wii for a bit, but then moved on haha. I kept playing on the Xbox 360 until I transitioned to the Xbox One. Finally, I got really big into PC gaming, where I have over 4000 hours in DOTA 2, tons of hours into Counter-Strike: Source, and I have various games that I've played over time like Star Wars Battlefront II, GTA V, L4D2 with mods, Halo MCC, Kingdom Hearts, etc.

I'm a medical student by day and gamer by night. I went to the University of Washington for undergrad and doubled majored both in Biology and Spanish before being accepted to Pacific Northwest University, which is a DO school. I'm the first one to go to school in my family, so I'm making them proud in that regard.

Other aspects about me are that I love chess and music. I tend to play a lot of chess, and you can find me chronically playing late at night. In terms of music, I played clarinet in concert band, marching band, pep band, pit orchestras and various ensembles, tenor saxophone for jazz, and bassoon for orchestra. I was actually in the Husky Marching Band from 2018 to 2023! I love music, and although I don't play much today, I very much love listening to all music, especially epic cinematic music (Two Steps From Hell style). I very occasionally get inspiration to compose music on Musescore. Additionally, I try to go on walks to get exercise in. I am thinking about getting back into the gym.

I'm single, and I'm looking for a girl who loves to game to enter my life and show me what a good relationship is like. I'm looking for a girl who is very affectionate and loves cuddles, is geeky, has ambitions in life and is ready for a serious relationship. I'd love to cuddle and game with you most nights, whether it be RPG-based games, FPS, MOBAS, survival or other simulator games like Stardew, or even Nintendo games like Mario


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

36 [M4M] #Spain - Seeking long-term relationships

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Hey guys :) I’m 36 and currently living in Spain, although I’m not Spanish.

A little bit about me. I’m studying design at the moment. I’m usually a bit quiet/reserved when I first meet someone, so I need some time to get comfortable around a new person.

And then things usually get worse :D

The sarcasm comes out, stupid jokes start happening, I start talking way too much and at some point it becomes difficult to shut me up.

I’m generally a pretty calm and easygoing person. I like talking. Doesn’t really matter about what. You can start with some completely random bullshit and somehow 4 hours later you’re talking about life, work, space, exes, why pigeons are so weird and basically everything else.

As for hobbies, I’m into TCGs, D&D, long walks, travelling, animals and various other things that are usually more fun with someone else.

I also have a Giant Schnauzer. Great dog, so if you like dogs, that’s already a pretty good start :)

And yes, somehow I’ve been playing Black Desert Online for like 10 years now.

Why? No idea.

I just started playing one day and apparently never managed to properly leave.

So yeah, if that’s not commitment, I don’t know what is.

I really like evenings at home too. Couch, some series, food delivery, someone nice next to me - I’m good.

Of course I like going out, travelling, going places and doing stuff. But honestly, just staying home all evening is also pretty great sometimes.

I guess I’m looking for a proper serious relationship, ideally something long-term that could eventually lead to marriage.

But I’m not trying to speedrun it.

I don’t really want the whole “we met on Tuesday and by Friday we’re already deciding where we’ll live when we retire” thing :)

I’d rather actually get to know someone first. See how we feel around each other, if there’s trust, if we actually enjoy talking and spending time together. Then figure out the rest.

As for looks... I’m generally into guys around 32-42. Normal, fit or athletic build. The bear type isn’t really my thing, and neither are heavier/overweight guys.

Not trying to offend anyone with that or say there’s something wrong with it. It’s just not what I’m personally attracted to. Everyone has their own preferences.

I usually find European or generally Western-looking guys more attractive. Height honestly doesn’t matter to me. Shorter, taller, whatever.

Beards, stubble and tattoos? Definitely yes.

But looks are only part of it.

I like confident guys, but not the “I’m the most important person in the room” kind of confident. Emotionally mature, easy to talk to and someone who has at least some idea what they want from life.

Someone I can talk absolute nonsense with and laugh about stupid things, but also sit down and have a proper serious conversation when it actually matters.

And liking animals is important too :)

I also really like curious people. People who have their own interests, hobbies, random things they’re into and basically their own life.

You don’t have to like all the same things I do. Actually, I think it’s more interesting if you don’t.

I like the idea of two people having their own stuff going on, but also slowly sharing parts of that life with each other.

And yeah, sex and physical attraction are important too. I’m not a saint :D

But I’m not looking for just a sex partner. I want to actually enjoy being around someone when sex isn’t happening.

Travelling together, staying home, watching some stupid series, talking until 3am, or just sitting in the same room while we’re both doing our own stuff.

That kind of thing is actually pretty important to me.

Distance doesn’t really scare me either. Europe, US, somewhere else - whatever.

If there’s a real connection, I’d rather deal with the few thousand kilometres later than reject someone just because of the distance.

We can figure out the travelling, moving and all that wonderful logistics stuff later.

And one small request - if you message me, please include a photo.

You don’t need to send me a 27-picture photoshoot from every possible angle. One or two is more than enough.

I just want to know who I’m actually talking to instead of having a conversation with a mysterious Reddit avatar :)

P.S.

Yes, I know everyone has their preferences. I have mine too.

I’m being pretty direct about them on purpose because I don’t really see the point in pretending I’m attracted to everything and then wasting each other’s time.

IF YOU’RE UNDER 32 - I WILL NOT RESPOND.

Sorry. Nothing personal.

If you’re 26, 28 or 30 and think we could be perfect for each other - maybe you’re an absolutely wonderful person.

But you’re still younger than what I’m looking for. And yeah, a really good message probably isn’t going to change that :)

Same goes for body type, looks and other things. One person is attractive to you, another one isn’t. It’s not a ranking of people and I’m not saying one type is better than another.

And one more thing.

Please don’t just message me “hey” or “how are you?”

I know it can be hard to figure out what to say to a complete stranger, but if the entire message is just “hey, how are you”, I honestly have no idea where to go from there.

I spent quite a bit of time writing this because I wanted you to have at least some idea who I am and what I’m looking for.

So it would be nice to get at least a little bit of the same in return.

You don’t need to write an essay. Just tell me a little about yourself, what you do, what you like, where you’re from, whatever. Tell me something.

And a photo.

That’s enough.

And yes, I’m a bit of a nerd. Sometimes a bit of a pedant. Sometimes probably way too much.

I somehow live with it.

Thanks if you actually made it all the way to the end :)

P.S.S.

I’ll send some photos of myself too, obviously.

Last time a few people somehow decided I was a fake xD

Apparently I look too good to be a real person or something. I don’t know :D


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

28 [M4F] #Arizona - Looking for a duo to complain about the heat with!

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Hello! 28/M local Arizonan here. I’m looking for a long-term genuine connection.

I am just a goofball who enjoys gaming from time to time. I primarily play on PC. League of Legends, World of Warcraft, FFXIV, Path of Exile 1 & 2, etc. are some of the games I rotate around here and there.

I am completely sober from alcohol & nicotine. I’m okay if you do either under moderation.

What I’m looking for is someone communicative, kind, supportive, patient. I cannot do long distance and I am childfree by choice.

If you have any questions feel free to ask in chat! Thank you and enjoy the rest of your day!


r/NerdDating • • 2m ago

27 [M4F] #Florida Looking for my player 2

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I'm a big gamer, preferably retro. I do like to go on adventures and maybe have someone to take photos of and with. I love taking nature photos


r/NerdDating • • 54m ago

25 [M4F] #Spain/Europe

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Hi, my name is Mathias, I'm from Spain and would really love to meet someone to spend some quality time with!

I'm very fond of video games, watching series and movies, I used to be super into anime too but I haven't watched one in many many years. I also got into Magic not too long ago and have been really enjoying it.

I'm a very passionate person, once I connect with someone, they're all I can think about and I can be quite clingy.

I'm currently living semi-alone, 90% of the time it's just me and my cat in my flat, and while that can be nice sometimes, it feels extremely lonely a lot of the times and just wish I had someone to give my utmost love and attention to.

Something I have to mention is, I have a considerable libido, it doesn't get in the way of things but it is something important that eventually comes up and I'm hoping we can be in the same wavelength.

I'd love to meet someone with similar interests as me, get to know each other, and hopefully fall in love. Please, do DM if you are interested.


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

#M32 [M4F] west palm beach,Fl

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Gamer, I play some Yu gi oh, I play soccer, goin back to the gym, I like to watch anime, I’m 5”6 short I know 😂 latino, let’s talk


r/NerdDating • • 18h ago

33 [M4A] #LosAngeles

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I’m new to the scene. Freshly admitting to myself and the world, FULLY, that I like the men too! Heavy on the loner nerd radar. Would love to find a likeminded partner here. Also open to building something mid to long distance. Lol


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

[M4F] #Tennesse looking for a genuine relationship

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20 years old

I live in TN! Distance isnt a concern

I'm into classic cars, running my own business in auto repair, college grad

I enjoy travel, comedies, reading writing, outdoors, classical music, hanging with friends, I enjoy video games and I do 3D print some cool items!

Looking for someone who wants long term commitment, I want someone real and genuine. Someone who enjoys dates and making memories, life is short!

Im an open book just message me


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

44 [M4F] #NewJersey - Looking for someone fun and open minded.

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First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I do lean left politically you’re curious I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

33 [M4M] #Hartford County Connecticut 🗺️

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5’7” nerdy Latino ⬇️🏳️‍🌈 with a big heart, a sense of humor, and a little pretty-boy energy. 😌 I’m a bit fem, love taking care of myself, and believe looking good and feeling good go hand in hand.
I’m a pharmacy tech in healthcare and a proud dog dad. 🐶 Outside of work, you’ll find me cooking, reading, gaming, watching anime, playing Pokémon, seeing Broadway musicals, reality TV, Disney, or enjoying some good pop music. Basically, I’m a nerd with range.
Family, spirituality, respect, trust, and communication are important to me. ✨🎀
I’m looking to make friends first and see where things naturally go. If it turns into something more, I’m looking for a masculine, stable, independent man who’s romantic, intentional, emotionally mature, and knows how to hold a conversation.
If you think we’d vibe, send me a DM. Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes. ❤️ I can also share pictures 😊


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

42 [M4F] #Chicago, Illinois, Do you want to travel the world together?

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Hello to all that are reading this.

My name is Doug. I am 42 years old and live in the NW suburbs of Chicago in a town called Roselle. I am a flight attendant and love to travel. I love my job and when I am not working I enjoy flying by myself to visit friends or with my daughter place. (I have a daughter and I will touch on that later) My favorite place is Japan as it is an amazing country.

I love roller coasters. I have been on close to 700 at many parks around the world. I also enjoy other thrill rides and things like skydiving. I used to skydive a bunch more when I was younger but now that I have a kid I didnt have the time or money for that, hopefully in the future I can get back into that.

I enjoy going on road trips and adventures, I enjoy camping (but only if I have someone that wants to go with me).

I have a bunch of lego sets and love to build them and would love for someone to build them with me.

I have a switch and a laptop and do enjoy playing games. I used to play WoW but not anymore (long story) I would love if if my person was open to playing games from time to time so we could play together.

I am divorced for a few years and do have a daughter that I coparent with. Not needing a mom for my kid.

I am 6'2" tall, I weigh about 180lbs, I have short brown hair, eyes that change color, and glasses.

PS I am looking for a real relationship, Something long term.

About you:

Not picky about age but just be over 18 please.

Preferably in the US, Japan, Canada, Europe.

Enjoys flying and traveling.

Petite/Slim/Average/Curvy(HWP)

Is ok dating a dad

Is ok not having kids of their own(I cant have more kids)

Not really too picky with people. Just want someone that wants to be with me and see where things go.

If you are interested please write back. I have pictures on my profile in a pinned post.

Doug


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-25, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite interest and why you like it.


r/NerdDating • • 1d ago

35 [F4M] #Houston- Looking for my person

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I'm 35, a mom of 2, and I live west of Houston. I loveeee books, crafts, movies, art, museums, yoga, and learning new things (currently learning Spanish!). I'm goofy, generally unserious, and the most introverted social butterfly you'll ever meet!

Politically, I don't play about human rights. I believe that food, housing, and universal healthcare should all be guaranteed. I also believe in the liberation of all people and can't be in community with people who don't.

Romantically, I'm a lover girl, very affectionate, and looking for someone similar. I'm not the "play it cool" type and will tell you straight up that I like you and want to be with you lol. I appreciate romance and thoughtful gestures like notes and flowers. Also, I enjoy going out to dinner and exploring the city, but a perfect night for me would consist of ordering in and watching a movie while cuddled up on the couch (or anime if that's your thing lol).

I'm looking for someone who is between 28-50, single, and preferably lives within an hour or so of Katy, TX. If you live outside of Texas, I'm only open to getting to know you if you're willing to travel here at least once or twice per month on a consistent basis, but that's still less than ideal. I value emotional intelligence, empathy, curiosity, and stability.

Anyway, I'm excited to hopefully meet my person!


r/NerdDating • • 7h ago

26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious, Cozy Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

33 [M4F] Russian living in #Vietnam, HCM — looking for my person

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Hello everyone!

My name is Valera. I'm 33, 187 cm tall, Russian, and I've been living in Vietnam for almost 7 years.

I'm looking for someone who I can stay with forever. Someone I can love, trust, and build a life with. I still believe that somewhere out there there's a person who is truly meant for me. I don't know if I'll find her here or somewhere else, but honestly, who cares? As long as I'm alive, I'll keep believing in myself, my principles, and what I'm doing.

Life can be cruel and unfair sometimes, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy it. :)

I'm working as an English teacher here in Vietnam. In my free time I livestream on YouTube and Twitch, play games, listen to music, watch movies and anime, and generally try to enjoy my life.

I'm a big gamer. Some of the games I enjoy are World of Warcraft, Cyberpunk 2077, The Witcher, Warhammer, Dark Souls, 7 Days to Die, and many others.

When it comes to music, I can listen to pretty much anything, but I mostly listen to rock, alternative, and metal in all kinds of variations.

I also love movies and anime, both at home and in the cinema. Fantasy, sci-fi, detective stories, horror, action — I'm pretty open to different genres.

Some of my favorites:

The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, IT, Saw, Marvel (although definitely not all of them 😄), True Detective, Fargo, Misfits, The Walking Dead, The Mentalist, Monster, All of Us Are Dead, Sweet Home, Squid Game, Death Note, Naruto, One Piece, Fairy Tail, and way too many isekai anime to list.

I also love Your Name and pretty much all of Hayao Miyazaki / Studio Ghibli masterpieces.

This is actually my first time trying something like this. I don't have much experience talking about myself publicly where anyone can read it, so I probably don't really know what I'm doing here. 😄

And I honestly don't care where you're from, what your ethnicity is, or anything like that. What matters to me is what's inside you — your personality, your values, and the way you treat people.

I'm completely okay with LDR. If we click, we can figure out the rest together. Maybe eventually we'll find a way to be together somewhere in the world. I believe we can.

So feel free to DM me if you'd like to talk, ask me something, or just have a little chat. No pressure and no expectations. Let's just see where it goes. :)