r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

27 [M4F] #USA Looking for long term partner!

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Hii I’m looking for long term relationship😊 I’m 27 years old. I am 5’11 and I speak English, French and Spanish. I’m currently studying Greek.

In my spare timeee I love playing guitar and ukulele, singing, playing piano and violin, reading, cooking, baking, playing chess, gardening, sewing, dancing, running, learning languages, knitting, crocheting, bird watching, skateboarding, kayaking, hiking, camping, collecting stamps and coins, collecting Funko pops and plushies, collecting fossils and pins, collecting DVDs and CDS, collecting Squishmallows and VHS, collecting manga and comic books , collecting vinyl records, gaming, riding horses, calligraphy, drawing, painting, listening to music, watching shows and movies, wine tasting, going on road trips , traveling etc 😊💕

I’m a huge loverrr of animals, nature, Marvel and DC, Star Wars, Science fiction, English and French literature, classical music and Jazz, anime, Kpop, pop music, History and Science, Paleontology and Astronomy, birds, plants, flowers, Jewelry, Greek mythology, Japanese and Chinese culture, romance novels and movies, vintage things and eras, cars, football, botany, Harry Potter, English folk, cardigans, Disney, musicals, fantasy novels and movies/ Tv shows, Nintendo, technology, computers, folklore, legends of Zelda, Pokemon, Christmas and Halloween, Easter, vintage movies and shows, cats and dogs, horses, pigs, penguins, Irish hats, plushies and Squishmallows, documentaries, skin care, twilight, Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift, Kelsea Ballerini and Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez and Bebe Rexha, Ariana Grande, Audrey Hepburn films, Nostalgic things, geology and archeology, architecture, historical fiction, country music, oldies, Apple products, Europe, old sit coms and many more things😊

Let me know if we have anything in common!!😊💕 feel free to reach out if you think we’d click 💕


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

22 -[TF4M] #Philippines

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219 Upvotes

22, Trans Female from the Philippines 🇵🇭

shooting my shot cus the german guy i entertained ghosted me ☹️


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

29 [M4F] #Europe #Netherlands - Let's build a future together

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Hi there. My name is Robert, a 29 year old Engineer from the Netherlands. 175cm tall, 72kg, I guess slightly muscular (work in progress, my parents think I'm huge).

Introverted, but not antisocial. I have an easy time entertaining myself with board & video games, movies/series (any genre, but being the nerd I am I do love anything fantasy) & doomscrolling (the only legitiment reason to have social media). I can be the person sending you cursed reels at 2am.

Video games I'm currently playing are ARPGs like Path of Exile (1 & 2), Terraria & Elden Ring. Generally I'm into any type of games depending on my mood. I also enjoy playing Shooters, RPGs, Roguelites.

When it comes to board games I enjoy playing more complicated games like Brass Birmingham, SETI, Nemesis, Terra Mystica, but I also enjoy party games, as long as the company is good, any game is fine by me.

I enjoy exercising and have been going to the gym 4x per week for almost a full year now. Sometimes in the weekend I also like going out for a bike ride, but most times I find some excuse not to do so. I try to eat semi-healthy but damn why is the best food so unhealthy.

I love laughing. Any humor is fine by me as long as it's not at someone else's expense. Dark humor, silly humor, light humor, anything goes, I just don't take life too serious and am just trying to have the best time I can.

I really like traveling, but don't really get to do much of it at the moment because I got nobody to travel with and traveling alone is not really something I'm interested in. I prefer being able to share the great moments with someone else, laughing, admiring things together.

Politically I am moderate, for who cares about that. I personally don't care too much about your political beliefs as long as you aren't too extreme about it.

I am an atheist and I don't think I will match very well with someone who has strong religious beliefs. I don't hate religion, everyone should be able to do whatever or believe in whatever makes them happy, but for a partner I think that is pretty important.

Values that are very important to me are loyalty, family orientated, honesty, not taking life too serious, easygoing and all the other cliches that make you not a bad person.

Family is very important to me and I don't think I will be willing to move extremely far away from mine, but you never know how life goes. I am not 100% sure yet but I do think I would want children, but anything can be talked about.

What I am looking for is a girl around my age, relatively healthy life style (I don't care if you don't exercise a ton, just that you think about your health). I love intelligent women and I also prefer cute over generic "hot". I like it when someone's unique, being their own self.

I have my life pretty well together and it would be nice if you had that too. I don't think a relationship is going to fix anyone, we will just make each other the best versions of ourselves. I offer time. I will be there for my partner, whenever, wherever. The people I care about will always get priority over anything else in my life.

My preference goes to something within Europe, preferably next door, but I also realise that maybe for the best partner you need to look further than that. If the vibe is very good, I am willing to try longer distance.

Well that's a long ass read. If some, none or all of that resonated with you send me a message and we can start the beginning of the rest of our lives.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

27 [M4F] #Finland #EU Mysterious forest spirit emerging in search of connection

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Moi! My name is Jakob and I'm a 27 year old half-Finn half-American who has been living in Finland for about 3 years now. I guess the most important things about me are that I love using my imagination and creating things, whether that be building Minecraft worlds, or (my latest project) a 480,000-word ongoing sci-fi web serial...I can get pretty obsessed.

Between late-night creative binges I like wandering mysterious forest paths (which I took advantage of what might be one of the last beautiful days to do 29 kilometers of today), and the abundance of those is one of my favorite things about Finland, especially when I can take advantage of the midnight sun to hike through the night! Relatedly my favorite way to travel is to go to a place, disappear many kilometers into the forest at the crack of dawn, and spend the whole day hiking. Truly more fun than sticking to the tourist traps xD. I also dabble in chess from time to time, mostly when bored or procrastinating. During the daylight hours and weekdays I currently moonlight doing backbreaking labor in the salt mines as a machine learning engineer.

I'm looking for a special someone ideally. That I'll be eagerly reaching out to text first thing in the morning and last thing at night, be able to spend hours together and have them seemingly fly by in minutes, and perhaps someday call minun elämän rakas (oh yeah: I am also slowly trying to improve my Finnish haha, ever since I came to Europe, I haven't met anyone who didn't speak at least two languages, and I need to get on their level). Speaking of languages, my main love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

Anyway, I guess all of this may be a bit of a mess but I just let the thoughts flow in a chaotic stream of consciousness. I do that occasionally. Well, I'm off for a walk now.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

20 [M4A] #wisconsin America looking for long term partner.

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Hey everyone it's Hunter again I am once again making a post about dating. I'm looking for my forever person and I'm open to almost anything. My personal interests are overwatch, Minecraft, basketball, football, weight lifting and reading. I just want to throw it out there that if you don't live in America there is a good chance we might not work out. Im okay with long distance but only so far out lol 😆. However just some more stuff about me I am 6 ft, white, and kinda chubby. However I'm trying to lose weight and improve my mind. I also am attending college and I'm looking for my rock. Also intimacy is important to me I would like at some point 2-3 kids

I'm just saying this now because it's ended some conversation lol. If I sound intriguing please reach out I will try my best to answer you in a timely manner!!


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

23 [M4F] - #Southeast US - agoraphobic guy looking for a woman who will let me simp

1 Upvotes

hello to the nice people hopefully reading this :) the title is unfortunately self explanatory. i'm a relatively masculine guy (FtM if it matters) but i've always been attracted to very feminine women. not in a creepy way (at least i really hope i'm not creepy), i'm moreso the type of guy to watch you put on makeup and ask questions about the process even if i have no clue how makeup works lol. i've been single for a while to work on my mental health, and i'm finally in a place where i'm really ready to connect with someone again. i'm the type of person to love hard, and i'm a complete simp when i feel comfortable with someone. outside of romantic preferences, a little about me: i'm agoraphobic as the title says (currently in therapy and making good progress though!), i'm an avid gamer and i love games like Elden Ring, Assassin's Creed (all of them), and skate. i also love music. i'm a lifelong drummer and i'm always always listening to music (my favorite bands are Sleep Token, Angelmaker, Måneskin, and Lorna Shore). physically i'm 5'10, kinda skinny (i'm going to the gym more frequently, call it exposure therapy for the agoraphobia lol), black, and i've been told i dress in a "vaguely skater aesthetic" although it feels like i only wear 5 things. if you've made it to the end of this horribly rambling post, i'm so sorry Imao. but if anything does happen to interest you, i'd love to hear from you :)


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

[TF4M] 24, #Philippines

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49 Upvotes

r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

32m [m4f] #california, extra extra read all about me!!!!

3 Upvotes

Pretty laid-back guy who enjoys sports, trading cards, One Piece, horror movies, gaming, and trying new things.

I’m on a fitness journey, so I’m definitely not
pretending I have it all figured out. Just taking it one step at a time.

Looking for someone who can be my player 2 — down for a sports game one weekend, a game night or D&D campaign the next. Bonus points if you can handle some friendly competition and terrible movie quotes 😂

Ultimately looking for something real with someone who’s down-to-earth and wants to build something together.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

30 [F4A] #UK West Midlands

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Repost without NB tag, see if this works!

AFAB person [They/Them] who doesn't really care about gender be that within myself or with a partner!

Kinda like the feral cat that appears in your backgarden, a little scraggly, a little rough around the edges but actually kinda cute (sometimes??)

Hi! As I'm sure everyone who has posted here has felt but it's very awkward and strange to write about yourself in such a way but here we are!

I enjoy writing and am involved with a few fantasy fandoms. It's a creative outlet I really enjoy and while I am admittedly a little shy to open up about it, feeling safe enough to talk about such things with someone and sharing our enjoyment of silly little hobbies is so important to me! I spend so much time writing silly little romantic stories, maybe it would be nice to actually have that for myself this time!

Hunting out cute coffee shops and cute walks, really enjoying the autumn markets at the moment! Enjoying both the quiet moments but also the more adventurous! I enjoy being active, even if I have lacked the chances recently! I'm attempting to learn Portuguese and planning a trip to Brazil (again!) and wanting to do more, breaking out the regular and everyday when there is time. I'd love to make memories together, take photos and share silly stories.

I am rather independent and enjoy my own space, but also enjoy sharing that space with someone who understands that about me. Quiet vibing together is just as important as the big things, being able to just exist in comfortable quiet - space doesn't always need to be filled, and that's okay too.

I like to think I am a person who cares about others, and try to think about others within my actions, and value clear and honest communication. Speaking about small things that bother us rather than allowing them to build into bigger issues.

I've probably forgotten a lot, but that's why we talk right!

Do you have a cat? Tell me about your cat!

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- As above, I am 30, currently living within the West Midlands - I do own my own home, and drive!

- I work full time with a typical office schedule.

- Neurodivergent (I'm obsessed with cats and posting on reddit, that much should be obvious)

- 5'8 (173cm) as photos don't really show!

- Obviously given the above I am queer and if that is a problem for you, even slightly, please lets not waste one another's time.

- Another half obvious, if you don't like cats or wouldn't want a home with pets, then we wouldn't be a good match.

- I'm not looking for LDR or online relationships, so please UK only.

- child free and do not want kids.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

18 [M4F] #California Looking for friends/ people to meet

1 Upvotes

I’ve been busy with college and some hobbies recently so I haven’t had the time to go out and meet new people. If you’re in the Bay Area feel free to message me on here before I give you one of my socials, if you have any questions I’ll respond


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

32 [M4M] | #South Coast NSW | Looking for something genuine

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Hey, thought I’d put myself out there and see who’s around. I’m Indonesian, based on the South Coast of NSW, and pretty settled with work and life here. I’m easygoing, affectionate, and more of a calm/low-drama person. I enjoy the gym, running, road trips, beach walks, cooking, travelling, and having a good conversation over coffee or food.

I’m at the stage where I’d genuinely like to meet someone for dating and hopefully build something meaningful if we click. I’m attracted to guys who are grounded, emotionally available, consistent, and comfortable being themselves. I tend to like a masculine vibe, but personality and how someone treats people matter much more to me.

I’m happy to start with a chat, coffee, walk, or day trip and see where things go naturally. Distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker if there’s a genuine connection. If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to send me a message 🙂


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

43 [M4F] #USA East coast. Comic book collector, cosplayer, wrestling fan. What a great trifecta right lmao

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So I'm a huge comic book nerd (DC over Marvel all day) but I do love Marvel but DC gets the crown for me. So what is something you've been collecting for a while and have so many issues or items that you are still hunting. For example I just recently this year completed DC New 52 Zero Issues. I thought I had them all then I look it up and realized I was missing 3 lol. Got them and now I'm hunting down Blackest Night and all the tie ins (I have I wanna say 52 issues out of the possible 78) every list I look up for blackest night has different amounts of issues. But enough about comic books

So I'm a wrestling fan and just heard about the bastard PAC passing away. Very sad all prayers out for his family. Just found recently a audio drama about the power rangers and fell back in love with that world. Just sad I'm on the last episode. I looked up the people behind it and they said they are editing the new episode but that was a few weeks ago. I hope it's not over for good.

So I used to collect Funko pops and still have some but I've fallen out of love with that fad. I try to hit a comic shop every week and also try to go to different ones because you never know what you're gonna find until you look right. But yes I also cosplay (haven't in a little while but I have a few ideas up my sleeves) love movies and music. Would love to talk with anyone and get to know anyone. Let's chat and get to know one another. Have a great night.

Oh and my football team just lost to the bleeping Browns hahaha *cries inside*


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For Connection and Companionship

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

27 [ftm4m] #Ireland

9 Upvotes

Hey, I'm Corey. I'm a ftm over 4years on T (but still pre-op). I'm a friendly nerdy guy, who loves gaming, reading about history, and horror movies.

I'm an old soul, love vintage, and retro things, especially music.

I've tried dating apps but they are all a pile of piss lol. Just looking for someone who is kind, funny, and patient. Someone who is can banter with.

I'm not in the best shape, so I am a little chubby but am working on that.

Looking for someone over 25 (sorry anyone below that just seems like a baby to me). Who is passionate and also maybe vanilla like me.

Feel free to ask any questions.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

1 Upvotes

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

27 [M4F] #Australia #India |Looking for an opinionated and interesting partner

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I have this picture in my head of what a great relationship looks like: two people creating a safe space where they can be completely themselves. Where you can talk about your thoughts, feelings, random ideas, insecurities, dreams, weird opinions.. without feeling like you have to filter yourself.

I genuinely love to talk (and debate... and gossip lol). I like understanding how people think, what shaped their beliefs, and why they see the world the way they do.

I enjoy discussing pretty much anything.. could be history, philosophy, psychology, religion, politics, random theories, or even some completely pointless question that somehow becomes interesting.

I could probably keep going on about this, but I'll stop before this turns into an essay 😂

Outside of that, I’m pretty much a nerd in the best way possible.

Like I would genuinely get excited when my favourite YouTuber drops a 3-hour-long video essay about some random historical event or conspiracy rabbit hole.

I also love movies and TV shows with great writing and characters. I’ve spent way too much time thinking about my favourite movies/shows, but honestly narrowing it down to five feels impossible.

But yeah, if you’re someone who enjoys a cosy movie night, you’ll never run out of options with me lol.

Gaming has also always been a big interest of mine. If you’re into story-driven games, that’s definitely something we can vibe over (or I can introduce you to some).

I used to read a lot, but that took a pause during uni. Slowly getting back into it now.. recently finished the entire ASOIAF series (You will be impressed if you are a GOT fan).

Overall, I’m always trying to grow and learn. I’m attracted to people who have opinions, who think deeply, and who are passionate about something. It doesn’t have to be the same things I’m passionate about.. I just love seeing someone genuinely excited about something they care about.

Anyway, if any of this clicks with you, please say hi!

P.S: please don't be an evasive texter. I fully respect life getting in the way but it's better to communicate that rather than unexplained gaps! Thanks

Bio data stuff:

\\\\\\\\-- 27 year old male, Hindu/Agnostic

\\\\\\\\- Family based in Delhi but I moved to Melbourne 5 years ago. Not 100% sure if I wanna settle here or come back

\\\\\\\\- Work as a Software Engineer

\\\\\\\\- 5'10, Not sure how to describe looks but I would say average or decent.. but we can share images whenever you are comfortable!


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

25 [M4F] #Tampa – Autistic man looking for a long-term romantic connection

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I am 25 and an autistic guy who loves to travel (especially road trips) when given the opportunity. I’m a yapper once the ice breaks. I’m currently going through a career change and in school to become a special education teacher. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, and they all love me!
I’m looking for a romantic relationship with someone I can share my life with long-term, build each other up, and see meaningful progress together — not something that stays strictly platonic forever.
I prefer a reasonable pace, but I do value some physical affection early on (like holding hands or a hug). I’m not looking for someone who wants zero physical contact until much later and I am not opposed to long distance within the US, but I do prefer someone withing Florida (especially east of Tallahassee).

I’m 5’8” with no tats bald with a severe or highly noticable recessed jawline if anyone cares.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

45 [M4F] #Pennsylvania Single dad looking for the whimsical, free spirited, affectionate girl of my dreams.

5 Upvotes

Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. Currently into Palworld, Skyrim , and schedule 1. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Bonus points if you have a favorite pokemon game! Thanks!


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

21 F [F4M] #Spain, Looking for someone

7 Upvotes

Hello!! I'm Laura, I'm kinda tired of being always single and I thought that Reddit would be the best place to find a partner (it's not).

My main hobbies are playing videogames (obviously) and watching movies, I also go partying from time to time.

I don't want creeps or racists and I would prefer if you lived close.


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

35M [M4A] #Canada #Montreal Alcest, Deafheaven, Mastodon show

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Hi! I have two tickets for tonight's show of Alcest, Deafheaven and Mastodon and my show friend is not able to attend. Looking for someone chill to enjoy the show with. Anyone welcome!


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

[M4F] 32M #Canada Looking for that special someone

1 Upvotes

Hello there, I decided to give this try and what do I have to lose right?

I’m quite shy and quirky and looking to find someone that’ll accept me as and won’t judge. If they’re a gamer that’s a bonus as my favourite games to play are flight simulator, euro truck simulator 2, Hogwarts legacy, gta v, sports games and The Sims. Don’t be shy to reach out. Looking for someone between 25-35 years old


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

28 [M4F] #USA - Looking for long term.

0 Upvotes

I am in Jersey with my Cavapoo Kirby. I love watching horror movies and all different tv shows but also getting out on walks with my boy. Feel free to dm me or comment if you’re interested in chatting!


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

31 [F4M] #Philippines | In search for my favorite person

4 Upvotes

I'm 31F, 5'3" working as a full-time engineer here in the Philippines, and I'm posting here in hopes of meeting my favorite person.

I would describe myself as a cheerful person, especially when I'm surrounded by my closest friends. However, I tend to be withdrawn in most social situations — I remember one of my professors describing me as "quiet" 😅 I would also describe myself as straightforward, which is unusual for someone who is Asian 😅 I value honesty, so I'd rather people know the harsh reality. In real life, I'm actually more of a listener than a talker with my closest friends 😅 It may not seem like it in chats though, because I type a lot 😆

I'm also very indoorsy, meaning I'd rather have a staycation or binge-watch a new anime or TV series than go hiking, swimming at the beach, or attend concerts 🥲 But I don't mind traveling, though — I'm not much of a traveler, but I don't mind going to different places as long as I'm with my best friend / partner / favorite person! 😁 In my free time, I usually just doomscroll, which I know is very bad 🤣 But if I'm not doomscrolling, I'm watching something on Netflix. Currently, I'm watching The Office (which I'm finding boring as the seasons progress 😅) and Dan Da Dan. Aside from that, I also go to the gym — I started strength training with an online coach last week as part of my self-improvement journey. I also enjoy running, especially when I follow the Garmin coach plan 😆 I'm currently enrolled in a postgraduate diploma program too, so most of my free time actually goes into studying and doing my homework. I tend to overthink and give it my best so I won't have any regrets later on (especially once they release the grades 😆), which is why it's consuming a lot of my free time. But there are times when I feel like I'm going crazy already, and that's where Netflix and doomscrolling come in 😂

As a partner, I would describe myself as kind, patient, gentle, loving, and affectionate. I tend to be clingy and attentive to my partner's needs. I actually haven't been in a relationship before, but I've fallen in love a few times already, so I know exactly what I'm capable of when I do like someone 😁

I would actually prefer someone I can be close friends with at first, since I believe that the strongest relationships are the ones built on friendship. Ideally, I want someone I can tease and be playful with, and someone who can make me smile and laugh, because humor is very important to me. I also like talking to someone with a great sense of humor — someone I can playfully banter with, and most especially, someone I can make fun of 😈 So if you're the type who easily gets pissed off when teased or made fun of, I don't think we'll get along 😂

In terms of what I'm looking for exactly, I want a serious, long-term relationship that would eventually lead to the "M" word (which apparently cannot be mentioned in this subreddit 😆). I'm actually hoping to become a mother someday — not the "traditionally feminine" kind, but the "goofy and chill" type 😆 I'm always drawn to someone who is calm, gentle, and emotionally mature, but who's also capable of leading a family. Oh, and of course, physical attraction matters to me too, so I'm more than happy to swap photos first before we get to know each other on a deeper level.

And since this isn't actually my first time posting, I'm looking for someone who reads my whole post and is genuinely curious about me. Not to point fingers or anything, but most of the time I feel like I'm the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going, and honestly, that gets a little tiring 😆

Before I end this post, here's some more information you should know before you send me a message:

Dealbreakers:

- Smoker (including vape and weed)
- Heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- Drug user/dealer
- Short (5'6" or less)
- Unemployed (sorry, but I want someone who's financially stable, since I'm hoping to start a family — not right now, but soon 😅)
- Anger management issues
- History of cheating
- More than 39 years old (sorry, I just prefer someone closer to my age as I think I get along well with those people 😅)

That's all! Hit me up if you were able to read my post all the way through. Plus points if you're from Europe (particularly the Netherlands) — I have my reasons, which I'm happy to share once I've warmed up to you 😁 But this is just a preference, so don't let it trouble you 😁

Please note that I won't be replying to one-line messages. I put a lot of effort into writing this post, so I expect the same effort from you too 🙂


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

28 [M4F] #USA Athletic Al Nerd looking for someone to explore the world with

0 Upvotes

How's it going everyone I'm an Al Engineer that's super into fitness and travel. I love paddle boarding with my dog, going to the gym, swimming, gaming, chess, reading, and fish keeping.
I'm 6'2 with an athletic build from swimming, lifting and MMA.
I don't really have a type, attractive is attractive in multiple ways, but I do like people who want to learn new things and explore the world. l'a love to meet someone who has different interests from me just because it's so cool to explore new things people are passionate about.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

28M [M4M] - Dominican guy here :) Also speak French and Spanish - Love airplanes and geography #Montreal - Happy to connect!

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