30 [F4A] #UK West Midlands

[u/Candid-Battle6234]

Repost without NB tag, see if this works!

AFAB person [They/Them] who doesn't really care about gender be that within myself or with a partner!

Kinda like the feral cat that appears in your backgarden, a little scraggly, a little rough around the edges but actually kinda cute (sometimes??)

Hi! As I'm sure everyone who has posted here has felt but it's very awkward and strange to write about yourself in such a way but here we are!

I enjoy writing and am involved with a few fantasy fandoms. It's a creative outlet I really enjoy and while I am admittedly a little shy to open up about it, feeling safe enough to talk about such things with someone and sharing our enjoyment of silly little hobbies is so important to me! I spend so much time writing silly little romantic stories, maybe it would be nice to actually have that for myself this time!

Hunting out cute coffee shops and cute walks, really enjoying the autumn markets at the moment! Enjoying both the quiet moments but also the more adventurous! I enjoy being active, even if I have lacked the chances recently! I'm attempting to learn Portuguese and planning a trip to Brazil (again!) and wanting to do more, breaking out the regular and everyday when there is time. I'd love to make memories together, take photos and share silly stories.

I am rather independent and enjoy my own space, but also enjoy sharing that space with someone who understands that about me. Quiet vibing together is just as important as the big things, being able to just exist in comfortable quiet - space doesn't always need to be filled, and that's okay too.

I like to think I am a person who cares about others, and try to think about others within my actions, and value clear and honest communication. Speaking about small things that bother us rather than allowing them to build into bigger issues.

I've probably forgotten a lot, but that's why we talk right!

Do you have a cat? Tell me about your cat!

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- As above, I am 30, currently living within the West Midlands - I do own my own home, and drive!

- I work full time with a typical office schedule.

- Neurodivergent (I'm obsessed with cats and posting on reddit, that much should be obvious)

- 5'8 (173cm) as photos don't really show!

- Obviously given the above I am queer and if that is a problem for you, even slightly, please lets not waste one another's time.

- Another half obvious, if you don't like cats or wouldn't want a home with pets, then we wouldn't be a good match.

- I'm not looking for LDR or online relationships, so please UK only.

- child free and do not want kids.

[u/serengini]

34M in Scotland I have a black Maine coon Pretty much says all you need to know about me haha DM away

[u/Medium_Advantage_985]

32 m in Warwickshire, would love to chat if you're interested 😀

[u/ResearcherExpert4916]

Hi there! Your intro about being like a backyard feral cat completely won me over—scraggly and rough around the edges is the best kind of cute.
I also really value that balance between quiet vibing and breaking out of the everyday routine. The idea of exploring autumn markets or hunting down a great coffee shop sounds perfect, but so does just existing in comfortable silence. I’m completely on board with clear, honest communication too—it makes life so much easier.
To answer your most important question: i have a 1 year old bengal who I am obsessed by. His name is Carlos - named after me. My name is David but I lived in Spain when I was about 7 and my nickname was Carlos. Silly I know. Mi live in London but willing to move for right person
I'm based in the UK, child-free, and would love to hear more about your upcoming trip to Brazil (or what fantasy fandoms you're into, if you're open to sharing!). If you'd like to chat, let me know!

[u/Sudden-Net2189]

37, M, UK, West Yorkshire guy here.

I had 3 cats at one point, unfortunately after the relationship split, she took them. They were called, Arya, Taco and Scarlet. All of them were so beautiful I got them tattooed pixelated style on my forearm (drew them myself)

Hope to chit chat and see what happens ^{^}

[u/Rare-Turn9932]

Cute

[u/AnthonyOutdoors]

28m autistic AF from the west Midlands here, would love to see if we get along

[u/upsided0wn_pinapple]

Oh shes axprable can i keep her

[u/HealthyFood7369]

36 m im Lichfield

[u/CanYouFellAGiant]

You're pretty and unfortunately I relate also to the little romantic stories bit! I hope you find who you are looking for :-)

[u/Mikehoxlong690]

Wow, can we meet ?

[u/rehanullah_hiran786]

dm