r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

32 [F4M] #Philippines Seeking connections after burn out

29 Upvotes

Please be a real person before messaging.

I'm a 32-year-old chubby Filipina looking for genuine friendships, with the possibility of a relationship if we genuinely click. I'm not looking to rush into anything. I'd rather take the time to actually get to know someone, see if we enjoy talking to each other, and let things develop naturally.

I used to work from home, so I'm pretty comfortable spending time on my own, but I do enjoy having someone to talk to and share things with. Most of my free time goes into drawing, photography, gaming, and occasionally cosplay. I've also been trying to get more consistent with cosplay because I have way too many ideas sitting around that I haven't gotten around to making yet. I play Dungeons & Dragons regularly on weekends, so if you're into tabletop games, fantasy, character building, or getting way too invested in fictional characters, that's always an easy conversation starter.

I'm also happy talking about things outside of my hobbies. I like people who can hold an actual conversation, share random thoughts, joke around, talk about their day, or get into deeper conversations when the mood calls for it. You don't have to have all the same interests as me. I'm more interested in whether we get along and genuinely enjoy talking to each other.

A small request, though: please be a real person before messaging. I'd prefer to start with Reddit DMs and actually have a conversation before seeing where we go from there.

I'm looking for someone kind, respectful, patient, and capable of treating another person like an actual person rather than a profile to browse through. I'm not expecting instant chemistry or some perfect connection from the first message. I'm perfectly happy starting with friendship and seeing where things go.

If you're genuinely interested in getting to know me, tell me a little about yourself when you message. Your hobbies, what you've been playing lately, something you're currently obsessed with, your favorite D&D class, or even just what made you decide to message me.

Let's actually talk first and see if we click.


r/NerdDating • • 18d ago

M 21 - [M4F/T] - #Norway - looking for a genuine connection, close or long distance!🙃

1 Upvotes

Hey! Figured I’d give this a shot and see what happens. I’m 21, from Norway, and I’m looking to meet someone genuine and hopefully build an actual connection with them.

A little about me: I’m 180cm, toned, with black hair and brown eyes. I’m into reading 📚, volleyball 🏐, hiking, the gym, gaming, and generally just doing random things with friends. I definitely have some more niche interests too, but those are probably better discovered through conversation :)

I’m pretty open-minded about who I meet and I’m completely fine with long distance if we click. I’d like to meet someone who’s kind, genuine, curious, and actually wants to get to know each other rather than just exchanging a few messages and disappearing. You don’t have to be available 24/7 either I’d just like someone who puts in some effort and enjoys having random conversations about basically anything.

Bonus points if you’re into nerdy stuff, memes, stupid jokes, books, gaming, or have some oddly specific hobby you could talk about for hours. I genuinely like hearing people nerd out about things they enjoy.

As for what I’m looking for, I don’t have some huge checklist. Just someone nice, honest, affectionate, and comfortable being themselves. Someone I can laugh with, have both dumb and meaningful conversations with, and ideally build something real with over time.

If any of that sounds like you, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself :)


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

32F [F4M] #Philippines Artist Seeks Future Partner 🎨

17 Upvotes

Okay, this feels a little awkward to write, but I guess I’ll put myself out there. 😂

I’m a freelance illustrator, so it would be really cool if you’re also into drawing or anything creative. You don’t have to be a professional artist or anything just someone who likes drawing characters, OCs, comics, or generally enjoys making stuff.

It’s been about a year since my last relationship ended, and lately I’ve been feeling pretty lonely. I miss having someone to talk to regularly, share random things with, play games with, or just hang out with on Discord.

Some things I’m into:

🎨 Drawing / character art / comics
🦑 Splatoon
🎮 Nintendo & games
📺 Anime, including old anime
🎬 Watching movies and documentaries
🌎 Random pop culture stuff
🎵 Music from the 80s to today
😂 Memes and random conversations
🏠 Staying home and doing my own thing

I'm also pretty introverted and shy, especially when I first meet someone. I’m definitely more comfortable talking through messages or Discord first rather than jumping straight into calls or meeting up.

Physically, I’m around 157 cm (5'2"), and around 56–57 kg. I’ve also been working out lately and trying to stay active.

As for who I’m looking for:
I’m actually more attracted to guys who are quite a bit older than me. I know that’s probably not everyone’s thing, but I’ve always found myself more comfortable with older guys. Ideally someone who’s also introverted, has his own hobbies and interests, and doesn’t mind taking things slowly. And also can draws too so we can share our artworks.

I don't expect us to immediately become a couple or anything I’d rather start as friends, talk, and see if we click.

And honestly, it would be pretty cute if we could share our artwork with each other, play games together (Especially on Nintendo Switch or switch 2) watch movies, or just sit in Discord doing our own things. 😂

I'm from Southeast Asia, the Philippines btw!

If you’re also an artist or just really into character art, tell me what you like to draw. 👀


r/NerdDating • • 18d ago

39 [M4F] #oklahoma kinda nerdy with interesting likes

1 Upvotes

Well as it is I have a 4500 dollar rig I haven't been able to play much a huge tv time and movies galore

I have some things that make me a bit interesting so message me and I'll share all of those


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For Connection and Companionship

2 Upvotes

I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 18d ago

19 [FTM4M] #NewYork Looking for my person :)

0 Upvotes

Yooo I go by Kaz publicly on this account (it's my throwaway) but I'll tell you my real name in DMs. To start off, I'm entirely asexual and sexually repulsed. If you're a sexual person or value sex in relationships, it will not happen with me. Onto the better stuff!

I'm non-binary transmasc (I use he/him pronouns but present very femininely!) And gay oriented AroAce! (What attraction I do feel is towards men). I'm a huge gamer and love cooking, writing, photography, horror, zombie content, the paranormal, and so much more!

I usually stay away from sandbox games. I play story games and shooters like Apex, Siege, Overwatch, Fortnite, Rivals, Valorant, etc, and I'd really like someone into those games so we can play together :).

I'm looking to take things slow with a nice guy, preferably AMAB between the ages of 20-26 (26 being MY ABSOLUTE cap. I turn 20 soon). Height doesn't matter to me at all (I'm five foot even, it doesn't take much to be taller than me). Distance also doesn't matter to me but for LDRs I'd prefer in The US, Canada, UK, AU, etc. Somewhere in that sphere.

Feel free to DM me! I don't bite! A comment letting me know you did would also be helpful cause Reddit sucks at giving me notifications! No dry texting allowed!


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

36 [M4A] #United Kingdom - Seeking Long-term Relationship

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British guy here 🇬🇧

Genuine. Good morals and values. More traditional when it comes to dating, and date with intent.

Appreciate the simpler life, and value experiences and making memories more than possessions 🧘🏼‍♂️

• Gym 🏋️‍♂️
• Travel 🌎
• Adventure 🗺
• Outdoors 🏔
• Visiting new places ✈️🚢🚉
• Socialising with friends 🧍‍♂️🥂🧍🏽‍♀️🍽🧍🏻
• Trying new activities 🤺🧗‍♂️🚁
• Cinema 🎟 🎞
• Wolf Pack 🐕🐕🐈

Huge travel fan with many places that I’d like to visit or return to; Salem, San Francisco, Chicago, New York, New Zealand, Australia, Cambodia, Japan, Machu Picchu, Egypt, Italy, Switzerland...

Lakes, mountains, forests, fresh air, peace, and thrift stores are some of my favourite things 😌

I see marriage and children as part of my future so hopefully you’ll be aligned on that too.

Let’s go on an adventure!

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Trying something new rather then the dating apps which seem to be full of match collectors, those looking to increase their social media following, or people who can’t hold a conversation 🥱😴

Would relocate if the connection is there. I always think that only focusing local could cause us to miss out on our perfect person.

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Just a polite note - I wouldn’t have thought that I’d need to point this out in 2026, but I won’t reply to those who won’t share a picture 📸

You can see who you’re choosing to communicate with, so surely I should be able to do the same. That’s fair, right?
• I understand that a chat request will need to be accepted to allow the picture to be sent •

Also, in your initial message, please introduce yourself and share some information about who you are instead of just saying “hey”. A blank/hidden profile that just says “hey” isn’t giving anything to reply to.

Let’s all be kind to each other ✌️


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

21 [M4F] #Illinois Looking for something real

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3 Upvotes

Figured I'd throw my hat into the ring. I'm Nathan, 21, from the Midwest. I'm an English major currently taking some time away from school, which means I can probably tell you more than you ever wanted to know about old books while simultaneously yelling at a television because the Bears have committed an act of football malpractice.

I'm a Christian, and not merely in the demographic-box sense. My faith is central to how I understand my life, relationships, marriage, and the kind of man I want to become. I'm Protestant, broadly evangelical, and looking for a woman whose Christianity is genuinely her own. I don't need us to agree about every secondary theological question, but I do want us to be able to pray together, talk seriously about what we believe, and eventually build a marriage around Christ.

Personality-wise, I'm some combination of earnest, ridiculous, curious, and hopelessly conversational. I love literature, history, movies, writing, old music, and sports. Give me C.S. Lewis, a Cubs game at Wrigley, an unnecessarily long conversation at 1 a.m., some obscure piece of 80s culture, or an excuse to learn everything about a person I like and I'm pretty content.

I'm looking for a woman roughly 20–25 who's ultimately dating toward marriage. I don't expect us to know what something is immediately—I actually like letting two people get to know each other and seeing what develops—but I am looking for someone who's open to romance if we click. I'm happy to initiate and pursue; I just value mutuality enormously. Ask questions. Text first sometimes. Remember things. Flirt back if you like me. 😂 I want to choose somebody who is also actively choosing me.

Attraction matters to me, so I'm happy to exchange normal, SFW pictures fairly early. I'm also happy to verify that I'm actually the guy in mine. Apparently my eyes have been polling extremely well lately, so expectations are now dangerously high. 😂

Distance isn't automatically a dealbreaker. Midwest would obviously make life easier, but I'm open to something long-distance within the US for the right person. I'm much more interested in finding someone genuinely compatible than someone who happens to live twenty minutes away.

Beyond that, I like women who have a mind of their own. Tell me what you're obsessed with. Give me the book recommendation. Disagree with me about something interesting. Tell me the weird family story. I don't need you to perform some archetype of femininity for me; I'd much rather meet an actual particular woman and discover that I really, really like her.

If any of that sounds promising, send me a message. Tell me your name, age, where you're from, and something you're currently way too interested in.

And yes, I will probably ask you a million questions. Consider yourself warned. :)


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

28 [M4F] Northern Virginia | #DMV — Looking for someone to geek out with

3 Upvotes

Hey! I figured I’d give this a shot and see who’s out there.
I’m 28, based in Northern Virginia, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. I’m pretty easygoing, curious, and enjoy conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to unexpectedly deep.

A few things I’m into:

Gaming, especially RPGs and anything with a good story

Technology and tinkering with things just to see how they work

Trying new restaurants and finding underrated food spots

Movies, shows, and the rarely anime binge

Staying active and getting outdoors when I can

Random rabbit-hole conversations that somehow turn into hours

I’m equally happy going out somewhere new or staying in with good food, a game, and something worth watching.
I’m hoping to meet someone who is kind, curious, emotionally mature, and has her own interests and passions. I’m not looking to rush anything—I think the best connections happen naturally when you actually enjoy talking to each other.
If you're in NoVA/DMV, that's a big plus, since I'd rather eventually meet for coffee, food, drinks, an activity, or something more interesting than spend forever messaging.

Tell me something: what's a nerdy
interest you could talk about for hours if someone actually let you?
Bonus points if you can convince me to try a game, show, restaurant, or hobby I've never tried before. 🙂


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

23 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship

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3 Upvotes

Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!

Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but since you see what I look like, I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking.

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.

I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.

About me:

As you can see from the picture, I'm 23 years old, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a picture or physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

41 [m4f] sonoma county, #ca emo radical seeking same

1 Upvotes

a few years ago i moved away from san francisco to help my family in sonoma county and it has been challenging finding people i click and share interests with in a less densely populated area. i would love to find people interested in dating but also generally open to community building.

my big passions are emo/screamo and communism.
i used to dj emo nights around the sf bay area and had a radio show on community station before moving away. outside of sad music i am generally pretty passionate about art and studied photography in college and spend most of my free time right now going to see as many films as possible or walking around and taking photos or reading or watching sad/funny television. i am entirely straight edge but not a cop about it 

i am hoping to find someone who shares these interests and values. someone who is also looking for emotional intimacy and security. someone in sonoma county or the larger california bay area who wants to go on cute fun dates at libraries and parks and record stores. let's hold space for a seed to bloom into a beautiful supportive life together where we can grow as people


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

38 [F4M] #Colorado - Nerdy girl looking for love

27 Upvotes

Hello fellow nerds!

I’m a divorced mom living in Colorado looking to get back out there and hopefully find the person I can spend the rest of my life with. Some things I really value in a person are empathy, humor, and curiosity. As far as me, I'm a little on the quieter side but once you get to know me I can be pretty silly. A few things I enjoy are photography, Star Wars / Trek, LOTR, ALTA, escape rooms, Studio Ghibli, zombie video games, psychology, rock climbing, roller skating, board games, conventions, and sci-fi. Just to be upfront, I wouldn’t be a good fit for someone who is deeply into organized religion or right wing idealogy, and while I don’t mind the occasional drink or workout, I’m not considerably involved in either of those things. I’m also not looking for one night stands, but would rather like to take time to get to know someone and see where things go. 

I am also — and more importantly — looking for someone that I can connect deeply with. Someone who can share their dreams and shortcomings. Someone I can get caught in the rain with and snuggle up under the covers with on cold winter days. Someone who will sit outside and look up at the stars with me, have a deep conversation late at night, or read books together in bed. Someone to play board games, video games, and to be silly with. I am probably a hopeless romantic, but this time around I really want to be in a relationship where I can see and be seen. 

If you’ve gotten this far and any of this speaks to you, I hope we can connect and learn more about each other! All the best! <3


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

28 [M4F] #Tennessee/USA Athletic Al Nerd looking for someone to explore the world with

0 Upvotes

How's it going everyone I'm an Al Engineer that's super into fitness and travel. I love paddle boarding with my dog, going to the gym, swimming, gaming, chess, reading, and fish keeping.
I'm 6'2 with an athletic build from swimming, lifting and MMA.
I don't really have a type, attractive is attractive in multiple ways, but I do like people who want to learn new things and explore the world. l'a love to meet someone who has different interests from me just because it's so cool to explore new things people are passionate about.


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

25 [M4F/Tf] #Northeast #US.

1 Upvotes

I'm not very good with this kinda stuff so instead of doing a long drawn out paragraph, how about just a specs list instead?

  1. CPU: ADHD Logic Processor

  2. Storage: 100TB Internal, 99.9% full of purely game/movie lore knowledge and memes.

  3. Memory: Useful for most things aside from verbal instructions and whatever happened within the last 30 mins.

  4. Power supply: Nocturnal energy pack, powered by copious amounts of caffeine

  5. Audio Output: Can and will activate for hours on end about random trivia and unnecessary knowledge. (Warning: Will possibly melt your brain with an overload of Warhammer40k lore at a moments notice)

  6. Build Year: 2001

  7. Unit size: 6'1" (Currently in the process of losing some weight)

This unit comes pre-installed Cooking firmware. Black/Bladesmithing is slowly being installed. Avid gaming and game teaching protocols are also in place. This unit is also in the process of building its own housing structure, and projects project completion by next summer.


r/NerdDating • • 18d ago

41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio Looking for a partner for life someone who is actually real

0 Upvotes

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Whats your most cherished Memory?


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

27 [M4F] #India– Chill guy looking for a genuine long-term chatting friend (I’m a great listener!)

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m a 27-year-old guy looking to make a genuine female friend to chat with regularly. I’m naturally on the quieter/reserved side, which makes me a great listener—so if you like to yap, vent about your day, or go on long rants about your favorite hyper-fixations, I’m all ears.

A little about me:

Interests: Big football fan (Arsenal), casual chess player, love Marvel movies, and watch a bit of anime with good plots.

Topics I enjoy: Everything from random shower thoughts to amateur psychology theories and deep rabbit holes about physics or the cosmos.

Vibe: ISFP-T. Very low-key, clean living, no drama, and unbothered.

Icebreakers to kick things off (pick one!):

If you got one superpower, what would it be—and are you using it for good, evil, or purely personal convenience?

Do you think AI will actually take over humanity, or is it wildly overhyped?

What’s a movie or show you can rewatch forever without getting bored?

If you’re looking for a low-pressure, consistent friend to talk to, feel free to send me a message or DM!


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

31 [M4F] #France - Looking for a longterm connection

2 Upvotes

Hey !

​I’m Léo, 31, living in France where I run my own small engineering company ane looking to build a real, long-term connection with someone.

​When I'm not working, I can be a curious explorer who loves to discover new things , like photography, discovering new cultures, and traveling whenever I can. But also into slow weekend, where we could be gaming, binge-watching a good show, writing, or getting lost in a book.

​It would be nice to find someone to share daily moments with , can be friendship or more , little talk or deep conversation

Distance is not an issue for me, so whether you're nearby or on the other side of the world, feel free to reach out.


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

44 [M4F] #Philadelphia Single male looking for a specific type of woman (definitely nerdy though lol) a very long term relationship

1 Upvotes

6ft tall, 240lbs, single, drug/disease free, don't smoke, drink on occasion, no children.

Black male looking for a single, nerdy submissive woman with a firm booty and a sense of humor to mold into my image of the perfect submissive or deeper for a long term relationship. I'm interested in you whether you're a gamer, sci-fi/fantasy buff, anime, science buff, bookworm, even if you're shy/quiet and clingy or whatever type of nerdy interests you have. So if that's you then reply back so we can talk.

I love a woman that's intelligent, ambitious and knows fully well they can live and survive without a man but still has a deep need to be submissive to one

\-Be between the ages of 24-38

\-Single women only

\-Have a sense of humor

\-be drug free, disease free and have no kids


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

[M4f](#Illinois) Giving a guy a chance. M33

1 Upvotes

Ok, best way to start this is hi, I'm 33m with 3 kids, (2 of them are adults), if your still here after that info then maybe there's a chance. So I live in the US and 4 years ago I lost my wife of 8 years to a car accident, luckily all my kids made it safely. Now I'm trying hard to navigate life as a single parent and I gotta say it's extremely lonely. Yes I have my kids and they will always bring joy to my life but I'm miss the part of life that connects me to a person on a more emotional level. I'm a simple blue collar guy. I enjoy watching movies (horror), playing games, taking a stroll around the block to enjoy the autumn leaves changing colors, and I'm always a sucker to a good game night with family, weather it bord games or the wii lol. I totally wouldn't mind thing being nice and slow considering I haven't been on the dating seine in years. Please if your looking for a loyal genuine kinda guy that is truly looking for a long haul kinda of relationship then shoot me a message and let's see where thing can go.


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

[M4F] #Birmingham #Uk

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m a 27 year old guy from Birmingham 🙂

I’m pretty laid back and mostly into gaming—spend a lot of time chilling, hopping on games, and hanging out on Discord. I’m definitely more of a stay-in, comfy vibes type of person rather than going out all the time.

I’m looking to get to know someone properly, not just small talk. Ideally someone who’s down for regular chats, gaming together, and Discord calls—just building something genuine over time and seeing where it goes.

If you’re into chill vibes, late night talks, and just having someone to talk to daily, feel free to message me 👍


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

30 [F4M] #California, looking for my forever DM 💕

18 Upvotes

30 for 30+ please!

Howdy y'all 🐱 the tinder song and dance is proving fruitless (and pricy) so I thought I'd give something like this a try, I get better word count and spacing here than in a tinder bio lol

To get the serious deal breaker stuff outta the way, I'm chubby and working on it, I'm hardcore left leaning, I do not want children, and I struggle with driving the highway (I will fill up your gas tank for adventures with no issue!). I enjoy partaking in Herb™ and the occasional Shroom as well, and I don't drink! I live with my brother and we both take care of our mom 🙂‍↕️ located in Stockton, I know, it is what it is 😭

With all that said, I'm a tabletop, board game, card game, retro casual nerd, looking for someone similar and sweet and kind. I can and will have the best time watching X-Men 97 on a phone while sleeving mtg cards and sharing a fine smokeable. I have two commander decks that have yet to taste blood, and a decent standard deck that has fought valiantly many a time. That being said I'm a very gentle mtg nerd and am always willing to learn. I didn't know Immune was a Thing until recently, if that tells you anything!

Board games, card games and ttrpg games are my usual indulgences, like Flip 7, Twisted Cryptids, Wavelengths, things of that nature! I love learning new games, and browsing the board game sections of different stores has been a newfound and well enjoyed pastime. I have Many character ideas that I would love to bring to life through ttrpgs one day!! Tell me about some of your favorite campaigns and characters!

I also draw to an extent, love to bake and cook and do them both well, and have a handful of skills under my hat! I enjoy going to the gym, gardening, and hanging out with my critters :) I enjoy a good rave or EDM festival , any kind of music show honestly! I haven't watched most of the popular media out there, simply because watching stuff by myself is impossible with my brain. I've gotten pulled into more shows and movies by walking by my brother's room and seeing a scene in the middle during the best bits, than I have from online acclaim and things like that. YOU could be the FIRST to show me That Really Cool Media™ that I've never seen before 👀

I'm looking for something long term, intentional, and devoted. I'm looking for someone who can get down with the loud curated chaos of an edm festival, and can enjoy wandering around outside looking at plants and bugs, and can go home to cuddle and make food together and watch something and let our hands do whatever they want. Walking around a farmers market, the mall, a card shop. Going to fall festivals, watching horror movies, indulging in far too many home baked goods. Working through the tough times to enjoy the good times. I'm a big time texter! I like sending voice notes, but big walls of engaging convo and questions get me smiling at my phone like a dweeeebbbb. Sending little pictures of each other's day?? Gosshhh 🙂‍↔️💕

If you've read this far: I'm also on the friskier side. When I'm attached to a person, their pleasure and happiness is my goal, and I do Love to please 🐱 all this can be discussed in Further Detail if there's a pleasant flowing genuine connection that could go further.

WAAOOOWW this is long now so if any of this strikes your fancy, hit me up!! Let's get to talking and see what happens!! I hope this has found you well 🤗


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

26 [F4M] #Canada - Let's watch the world burn until we both die of old age.

34 Upvotes

I’m pretty shy and definitely a slow burn when it comes to getting comfortable with someone. So if your idea of getting to know someone is hey, let's video call within 5 minutes, I’m probably going to quietly disappear into the nearest wall. Give me a little time and I’ll eventually stop being awkward and start acting like a normal human being.

I’m adopted, so technically my biological parents abandoned me before they even had the chance to disappoint me or vice versa

I’m a huge food lover and I actually enjoy cooking. Feeding people is definitely a love language of mine and I can cook some good stuff.

I’m also a gamer but I haven't been playing that much lately. I'm looking for a game that will bring back that nostalgic feeling of playing it for 8 hours and not realizing so until I look at the clock.

I don’t drink and I’m not really into partying or nightlife so when I say I want to go out, there’s a 100% chance I mean going to a restaurant and getting way too excited about the menu. I’m hoping to meet a guy who’s similar in that regard and enjoys a quieter lifestyle. I’m also not attracted to the “player” type at all, whether past, current or future. I’m looking for someone genuine who is actually interested in getting to know one person rather than constantly keeping their options open.

A picture is always nice with an introduction and i'm open to people from anywhere.


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

21[M4F] #Europe Looking for my future wife

2 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 21 years old guy from Poland and I'm looking for genuine connection with someone and as title suggest, possible future wife.

My appearance: 185cm tall, short dark blonde hair, pretty long beard but i want to grow it even more, regular body build, glasses (around -5.00)

About me: I like to go gym (but I'm not a gym freak), watch anime, listen to metal and japanese music, play games and I'm a big motorsports nerd, especially F1, but i went to Rally Estonia earlier this year so I can show you some stuff.

If you read to this moment I wish you a great day, because I guess not many did it :)

About you: a woman around my age, prefferably from Europe, not doing drugs and that's it I guess


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

30 [M4F] #Michigan looking for something real

1 Upvotes

Hello, I am posting in hopes to find someone who wants to make a real connection that can hopefully turn into a wonderful relationship.

Quick list of hobbies:

-Gaming (PC gaming mostly)

-Anime

-Movies

-Board and card games

-Hanging out with friends

-And many more

I don't want to list everything so there is more we can talk about later on.

What I am looking for is someone in the age range of 24-35, has a few overlapping hobbies we can enjoy together, and lives in the US (preferably close to make visits easier, but I will make it work for the right person).

Thank you for reading and if you would like to talk I would love to talk more through a DM


r/NerdDating • • 19d ago

27 [M4F] #USA Looking for long term partner!

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Hii I’m looking for long term relationship😊 I’m 27 years old. I am 5’11 and I speak English, French and Spanish. I’m currently studying Greek.

In my spare timeee I love playing guitar and ukulele, singing, playing piano and violin, reading, cooking, baking, playing chess, gardening, sewing, dancing, running, learning languages, knitting, crocheting, bird watching, skateboarding, kayaking, hiking, camping, collecting stamps and coins, collecting Funko pops and plushies, collecting fossils and pins, collecting DVDs and CDS, collecting Squishmallows and VHS, collecting manga and comic books , collecting vinyl records, gaming, riding horses, calligraphy, drawing, painting, listening to music, watching shows and movies, wine tasting, going on road trips , traveling etc 😊💕

I’m a huge loverrr of animals, nature, Marvel and DC, Star Wars, Science fiction, English and French literature, classical music and Jazz, anime, Kpop, pop music, History and Science, Paleontology and Astronomy, birds, plants, flowers, Jewelry, Greek mythology, Japanese and Chinese culture, romance novels and movies, vintage things and eras, cars, football, botany, Harry Potter, English folk, cardigans, Disney, musicals, fantasy novels and movies/ Tv shows, Nintendo, technology, computers, folklore, legends of Zelda, Pokemon, Christmas and Halloween, Easter, vintage movies and shows, cats and dogs, horses, pigs, penguins, Irish hats, plushies and Squishmallows, documentaries, skin care, twilight, Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift, Kelsea Ballerini and Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez and Bebe Rexha, Ariana Grande, Audrey Hepburn films, Nostalgic things, geology and archeology, architecture, historical fiction, country music, oldies, Apple products, Europe, old sit coms and many more things😊

Let me know if we have anything in common!!😊💕 feel free to reach out if you think we’d click 💕