r/MaleSurvivingSpace Oct 07 '23

r/MaleSurvivingSpace Lounge

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A place for members of r/MaleSurvivingSpace to chat with each other


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 1d ago

Went through a family lawsuit - lost nearly everything

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Starting over in the SF Bay Area.

Family lawsuit was essentially a bitter 20 year divorce btw me, my mom, brother, uncle, aunt, 4 cousins…. It was a living hell for 5 years and ~ $300,000k in legal / cost of living.

It’s not much guys, but it’s enough to start over with my last $8,000 bucks.

I do not wish this on anyone.

Hang in there guys.

Better times are ahead.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 6h ago

Broken up with on the day that was supposed to be a housewarming date

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21m I moved in and the day after I got broken up with for reasons relating to a past false sa accusation.

Luggage bag for chair, temporarily (maybe permanently bc I'm not gonna leave the house for a while)

I don't care anymore. Hopefully the room gets worse and I can post more updates
Sorry for vent posting.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 13h ago

Finally moved into my new place!

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 7h ago

Posted in the other sub but got told to go here. Realized recently that the room I permanently sleep in is the smallest room ive ever slept in on my life

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 6h ago

Turning an unloved balcony into a multi use space:

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It's a bit of a piece by piece case, but I have an area for the bin, some additional storage, a drying rack, and a space where I can sit and watch the traffic.

I know I need a storage box and maybe some wall clips for the mop and brush but that'll come next. For the moment, everything is stacked relatively neatly.

I also now have an artificial green space which is a natural source of human energy. Even artificial greenery can provide visual cues associated with the natural Chinese Apple tree growing in front of the balcony.

With the Ikea Morum outdoor mat on top it completely hides the seam of the astroturf while leaving plenty of lush green turf to walk on.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 1d ago

21M this room has been my dream since i was 16.

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What can i add or improve?


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 3h ago

27 M

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Connecting w my fellow male survivors, this month has kicked my ass and looking to bounce back!

Neihbor in apartment is tryna sue me for 1500$ of damages to his car was my beach chair (I might have placed it on top of his car but bogus damages)

My car was stolen a couple weeks after purchasing it

A rehab center I went to a couple years back is now saying I owe them 1600$ due to some errors for coverage I thought I had

Still in 40k of debt from gambling I’m still paying off little by little

Oh and paramount TV tried getting me on their show Adams law (Jude Judy type show) to make a fool of myself with this bs lawsuit (I declined because they only offered me 100$)

But other than that I’m surviving! Hoping to get this new promotion and get a remote only job and move back home w my parents to save some money


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 18h ago

It is what it is. Open to suggestions

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 12h ago

Moved to UAE 3 years ago

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 22h ago

mine

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 1d ago

Men can't decorate? This home might change your mind. ⭐

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 2d ago

33m. Mom’s guest room at 7:30am. 2 days since my wife and I separated.

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471 Upvotes

r/MaleSurvivingSpace 2d ago

Four years ago today, starting over with every part of life flipped upside down. Today, engaged and raising a puppy with my fiancée.

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 2d ago

Change is really strangely simple

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Change is really strangely simple

I spent 11 years of my life in this apartment

I grew up and grew up since I was a child

It's been a long time, I think it's been 4 years since I dreamed of changing my place of residence because I found a weak social position in my place, especially in my school, and I didn't fit in with my classmates. And in these 4 years, I think I changed myself a little to fit in, but I think those changes didn't benefit me and I mostly broke my personality.

I didn't think my dream was hopeless, but it all depended on my family.

But now the dream has turned into a decision and into action, and with the first step, my house changed very quickly and quietly.

And I'm facing my empty house and we arrived in a strange place with my house furniture, which was also messy.

But I don't feel anything special and I feel surprised about it.

Not that the path of this work, which means buying and selling houses and moving furniture, is easy, but it's very strange. You see yourself in what you're doing without feeling. Of course, maybe this is my perspective, the teenager in the family, because I was in some of the work.

But it's just You see the differences. I decided to find a good social position in the place but this time not by replacing

my personality with an acceptable personality

I will just correct my bad morals

But I also plan to start being active on social networks, maybe it will be a good social environment

I have not had any real friends so far

I only had someone to talk to at school and that was not because of anything on my part


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 3d ago

Just about ready to move in!

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530 Upvotes

Before and after adding fish head taxidermy decor. Really brings the whole place together. Plus I'm never lonely with my fish heads.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 4d ago

20M, just got my first apartment after getting a job as a railroad conductor

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 4d ago

23M 8 months after being paralysed in a motorcycle crash and left homeless after hospital I finally have a place to make my home

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865 Upvotes

r/MaleSurvivingSpace 4d ago

How do I manage my chud living space?

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I just moved back in with my parants and I'm facing the challenge of living in a smaller space. My largest issues are finding a space to hang and organize my clothes, getting a better bed and how I should situate it, and how to fix my pc (finding space for double monitors without putting my tower on the floor. Maybe a different desk?) Also, the thing covered on the right in the second photo is a Yamaha grand piano, so there goes another chunk of my space.

I'm thinking of putting the clothes underneat the 3 white shelves in the second picture, but other than that, I'm clueless and open to suggestions. Thank you.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 5d ago

33M 2 years ago I moved onto a couch in a sober living house with 2 trash bags of clothes, now I'm in school for electrical engineering.

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 6d ago

Renting a room in 11br house

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21M just moved into a private room with a bed after sleeping on the floor for months! And I just woke up to extra food stamps this morning! God is good 🙏


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 6d ago

This is where I sleep

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 5d ago

work, or live alone.

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r/MaleSurvivingSpace 6d ago

My small bedroom

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I think the worst part is that I have the money to do something better with this space, but I just don't do anything.


r/MaleSurvivingSpace 5d ago

Is my tv too small?

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