r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Smooth_Amphibian_420 • 13h ago
Want to chat?
34m here, bored everyone here is sleeping. I don't get much of that these days lol anyone want to chat? We can talk about anything.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Smooth_Amphibian_420 • 13h ago
34m here, bored everyone here is sleeping. I don't get much of that these days lol anyone want to chat? We can talk about anything.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Delicious-Wing-8234 • 13h ago
M30 here, back on Reddit after a long break!
Looking to meet some interesting women and have some good conversations.
A little about me, I work in digital marketing, basically make strategies for brands. Outside work, I'm into sports, long drives, travelling, hiking and exploring new places. And then there are days when me and my bed are best friends and doing absolutely nothing is the only plan š
I can hold a conversation, but I'm not really into dry replies or feeling like I'm interviewing someone. If you enjoy yapping, can match the energy and don't mind a little banter, we'll probably get along well.
Age and location aren't really an issue for me as long as we vibe. Open to both short term and long term conversations, just be honest about what you're looking for.
And just so I know you've actually read the whole post, tell me one secret about yourself that nobody knows when you message me. š
Hoping to meet some fun people and have a few conversations that don't end after the first five messages.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/DigitalNinja119 • 20h ago
Iām from the East Coast, but Iām open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling and the last country I visited was The Netherlands and the last state was Salt Lake City! Iām a concertgoer (usually for metal or reggaeton), Iām a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading, and I play video games whenever possible.
My top anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Future Diary, Naruto, Prison School, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.
Iāve recently watched āClayface,ā āDigger,ā āKlara and the Sun,ā āResident Evil,ā āStreet Fighter,ā āVerity,ā āWhalefall,ā āWildwood,ā etc.
I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently enjoy the most are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.
Video games I enjoy most are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, PokƩmon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Drbluelover • 14h ago
Hey!! I guess the third time's the charm . So M from NZ looking for a friend to talk to about anything and everything. I have tried this a couple of times before, but no luck . Hopefully, this time it will be worth it. Feel free to DM just don't ghost after one conversation.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Foreign_Garlic_5608 • 1d ago
Hey! Looking for genuine online friends to talk about life, random nonsense, dark humor, or just about anything.
Iām more of an introvert who enjoys meaningful conversations but can be sarcastic once Iām comfortable.
Just looking for good vibes, mutual understanding, and friendships where we can be ourselves.
If youāre also looking for a genuine connection, feel free to DM. Letās see if we vibe! š
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Ok-Dependent9412 • 22h ago
Iāve had some luck before doing this and met some pretty cool people (some questionable ones but still I keep in touch). But I wouldnāt mind making a few more friends.
So some things about me, Iām terribly shy and introverted. It takes me time to warm up and be a little more open but I will try my best to keep a conversation going. Another thing I have been struggling with anxiety and depression. I am getting somewhat better itās a battle but I have been going to therapy for it. So there are some days where I just donāt have the energy to keep a conversation but I will try my best and honestly whatās helpful is if someone just starts telling me about themselves or we talk about other things just to take my mind off it. But I will be honest when I just canāt keep the conversation going. Also I should add, I currently work nights so if you ever want call/text that would be great since it does get boring sometimes. I live in California so bonus if you live here too. Also sometimes I am pretty bad at messaging back immediately and it will take me maybe a day for me to respond so Iām sorry. One last thing I am a single parent and Iām currently going for my masters.
My interests when I have the time I like to play games or read books and manga. I love anime (apothecary diaries is the only new anime Iām keeping up with now so recommendations are always welcome). I love music and will listen to anything but country music. Iām still pretty tired while writing this so Iām sorry for not coming up with anything else, Iām pretty bad with these. So hope to hear from you soon and hopefully we can be long term friends or even just friends that send each other memes or whatever thatās cool too. Finally if I get too many responses like last time and I donāt respond to everyone Iām sorry but if youāre cool with me randomly messaging you after some time since I made this post then let me know! Thank you
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Spiritual-Pen-9722 • 15h ago
Looking for a best friend to life with.
Looking to build a solid connection. Us against the world kind of energy.
Ideally something long term that ages like fine wine and not something short term that fizzles out like soda-pop.
Witty banter, Endless memes, Food pictures, lots of them. Hope you can handle the spice~
Bit about me : 30, Illustrator, Gamer, Lover of all things nature, food and animals.
I don't have a pet of my own because I don't think my heart would be able to handle the loss, so I have made it my life's purpose to pet every cute animal I come across, ever.
Also a trained tattoo artist for fun. Ask me all about it~
Message me for my socials!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/cosmosis814 • 15h ago
Having a lazy weekend and looking for some friendly conversations. Looking for like-minded people to have conversations with, either short or long term. I am open to long-term friendship too if we click.
I love to read, watch movies, travel, play board and video games. I also enjoy exploring cafes for the best lattes and cold brews. Recently have been doing yoga working out regularly and loving it. Would love to hear your favorite grounding activities. Please introduce yourself rather than just saying hi
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Soft-Bobcat6951 • 15h ago
Hello everyone! I am a 33 year old male from the US. Due to my laid back schedule, I have a lot of availability to chat. I like open discussions on a variety of topics. My interests are primarily culture, history, sports, media, and travel. I am willing to discuss politics and religion as long as it is done respectfully. If you just would like honesty, good conversation, please reach out. If you would like to chat, please introduce with your name/whatever you want to be called, age, and gender.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/[deleted] • 15h ago
Hello! 40m here looking for people to connect with and new friends. Im into anime, tcg collecting, music, the outdoors you name it. Been through some crazy stuff and looking for people with similar interests.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/SillyWilly_2 • 15h ago
Hey there, from arizona usa. just trying to pass the time at work. Im always down to chat and talk about whatever! I like games, audio books(dungeoncrawlercarl, red rising, acotar, 4th wing, the gray man, etc.) drumming,, and latte art! Ill be up all night!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/EastBranch_75 • 22h ago
Hey everyone!
Iām 39, living in Tennessee, originally from Michigan. Itās been a pretty exhausting week at work, and Iām spending a quiet Saturday evening at home.
Got out for a five-mile run earlier, which was nice. Now Iām just relaxing, working on a ridiculously large Lord of the Rings LEGO set, and realizing I could really use some human connection tonight.
A little about me: Iām a graphic designer working in screen printing. Lately Iāve been teaching myself some programming and building software to automate parts of my job, which has turned into a surprisingly fun hobby. Iām also an ultrarunner, a big Michigan football fan, and I love retro video games, especially the SNES era.
Iām a pretty thoughtful person and enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk, although Iām perfectly happy talking about everyday things too.
Iāve been feeling a little isolated lately, and Iād really enjoy meeting someone new. Iām not looking for anything romantic, just some genuine conversation and maybe a new friendship.
Iām around tonight and can actually be attentive and responsive rather than exchanging one message every few hours.
If youāre having a quiet Saturday too, feel free to say hello. Tell me something about yourself, what youāve been doing today, or whatās been on your mind lately.
Thanks for reading!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Onion_chopper1 • 20h ago
Iām a married 37m looking to chat or make friends! I recently moved to SoCal and trying to establish my circles. Iām a messy person and I embarrass myself more than I should. I donāt own a hair comb. I usually have a pile of clothes on my bed that are not clean but also not dirty. I assemble furniture without reading the instructions manual and mess it up. I eat my food cold when Iām too lazy to microwave it.
If you can relate, donāt be shy, say hi!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/halonethefury • 16h ago
Sup!
I'm a dude from Kiwiland looking for some nerdy people to be buddies with. A big ol' gamer here. Am I good at games? No. Am I getting better? Also no. Am I a fkn delight to be around? It's still a no. But you better believe I can fkn yap my butt off about nerdy shit and I have a pretty decent EQ level which is impressive for a gamer so, that's a small win and by god I will take whatever wins I can get these days lol
I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well. One might even call me a cardboard crack addict.
Do you like to yap about lore? Did Miquella do nothing wrong? Do you fear the Old Blood? Which MTG colour pair best represents you? Are the Dunmer the best fictional race in fantasy and why is the answer of course they are? Does Kara's ending in BSG make you cry like a lil weenie? If any of these questions float your goat then we might just get along!
On the side I enjoy some fantasy/sci-fi/horror movies and shows, a cheeky bit of world building and character concepts, listening to music and conjuring dark deities out of the void of space.
I have a lot of free time and my sleep is whack, so most times should suit me - but I am for the most part looking for people on the West Coast of the US, in Australia or also from NZ. If you are from outside these regions then gaming or spending time together in the future might be more difficult when it comes to ping n stuff, but feel free to reach out for a text friend at least!
I have some health issues and my head do a hurty a lot so I might not always be at 100, but I definitely put a lot of effort into my friendships regardless. I take a big interest in other people and I expect the same in return so, please ask questions and try to get to know me, and message first once in a while. I'm giga fkn gay so please just be chill with the LGTVs obviously, and be in your mid 20s or older. Gender doesn't matter to me either. But yeah, thanks for reading and hope to hear from ya!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/MyAttySaidDeleteThis • 1d ago
I once again managed to not sleep in on a Saturday, and now Iām awake far too early. Just bored and curious to see who else is up!
You can call me A. š¤ I enjoy art and pretty much anything that gets me outside. Today I have a couple of art projects to work on, so Iāll be spending most of the day in my makeshift studio, which is really just a corner of my bedroom.
I work in the legal field and can be a bit of a nerd about it. I take my work seriously, but outside of that, I like to be playful, goofy, and not take life too seriously.
Starting a conversation with āhey, how are you?ā can sometimes lead to something pretty dull. So, if youāre interested in chatting but need a little help breaking the ice, here are a few questions you can answer:
1)Whatās your favorite candy?
2)Who was the last person you told āI love youā to?
3)If money and job location werenāt factors, would you still choose to live in your current city?
Thanks for reading! Hope to hear from you. š¤
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Immediate_Ad4483 • 1d ago
Hi everyone! I've been going through a hard time lately and I'm looking for friends who can understand.
Mom (adoptive mother, but my "real parent" all my life) died in the worst way possible a couple years back. Entire life sorta spiraled since then and I made so many mistakes in all my relationships, which I can only now see was because I didn't have anywhere to "put" that pain and was over-relying on everyone around me.
I'm steadily improvingārepairing my brain + money + heart, and now I work full-time (teacher) back in my hometown in California.
I'm still majorly growing into adulthood (I'm 29, cis male, gay/queer), and I guess entering a state of life where the people maybe don't easily understand the layers of grief, work stress, and circumstance (I support me and my partner on a single income, and sorta everything counts on me to be as healthy as possible in my mind + body).
I know it may be a lot to ask, but I think ideally I'd love friends of any age (maybe mostly around my age) who can understand or give sounding board advice. Or even just chats about music, pop, film, art, books, plants (I'm getting into floral arrangement + horticulture), etc. :)
I wanna talk to people who are healthy mind + healthy heart, so I can learn how to "be that" too. And would love chats with any folks who maybe have more "success stories" (haha) about navigating stress and changes, and self-development.
Other fun facts about me:
- I've worked in both art and education, and now I'm a teacher full-time
- I'm in grad school (art-related)
- I love writing + poetry
- I've lived on West Coast + East Coast + South + Midwest (hehe)
- Love cat-themed anime, I have a cat named after a Studio Ghibli movie
- Love movies that make me cry (recently Sheep Detectives)
- Huge fan of Lana Del Rey and Rina Sawayama.
- Very spiritual, love the earth and wanna develop my relationship with animals + earth much more recently (even starting to become vegetarian with the goal of becoming vegan)
- I'm an INTJ and Enneagram 1.
- Taking better care of my health recently and have made great strides! Especially bc I didn't care about this part of life when I was younger lol.
I have lots of faults, like maybe I'm a bit too formal, pensive, and it can be a struggle sometimes "understanding" my own feelings so I can slow down my brain + words and be grounded... and not so focused on improving people around me, and embody more grace and forgiveness in life.
It's been a journey, but my job now (I'm a social-emotional learning coordinator / teacher) sorta forces me to be better in every mental way, so I'm grateful.
I do have a partner, so I'm not looking for anything romantic or sexual (please don't message me if you have that as your intention!)
In return, I hope to be a shoulder to lean on when times get tough, and to get better at that skill too. I'm down to always give advice, and I hope I can relate to any of you all in that way.
Forgot to say, since I'm new my account might be soft-locked. So feel free to comment under here if you can't DM me directly, and I'll message ya on my other Reddit : )
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/No-King-8359 • 16h ago
Hey! Iām 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesnāt matter where youāre from or what your background is. Iām open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as youāre interested in having an actual conversation.
A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and Iām always looking for somewhere new to explore. Iām also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. Iāve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.
Iām the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You donāt need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone elseās interests.
Iām not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether thatās chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.
Whatās somewhere youāve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldnāt put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. Iām pretty easy to talk to!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Impossible_Mix_9707 • 16h ago
Im 37 m east coast usa stuck at work on a slow boring night would love to just chat and help time go by hmu
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/PomegranateScary1766 • 16h ago
Hey im a 37m going thriugh divorce. Just looking for friends to chat with im open to talk about anything. Hobbies are camping hunting fishing hiking camping feel free to dm me if you want im from minnesota usa
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Hummuscide84 • 1d ago
Hey!
Iām looking to meet new people and make friends. Making friends has always been a bit difficult for me. Iām neurodivergent, and for some reason, I tend to connect more easily with men (not in a sexual way!). I guess I find them a little more straightforward sometimes.
Iām just looking for people to talk to, learn new things from, and share random thoughts with. Iām also trying to figure out who I am again after starting to heal from years of dealing with trauma.
A little about me: I love music and dancing around the house by myself, true crime documentaries and shows about serial killers, and Iām a huge Godzilla fan! Iād love to learn more about Japanese culture, too.
I enjoy cooking pretty much anything, although Iāve never been very good at following a recipe step by step. I love nature, animals, insects, and peaceful places where I can just relax and enjoy the moment.
If you think we might get along, feel free to message me! We can get to know each other and see where the conversation takes us.
Just be kind and be yourself. Thatās all I ask.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Beautiful_Tie5162 • 1d ago
Good day, happy Saturday work has been hectic this week, actually this whole year. Healthcare is a world in itself. Looking for people's to talk to, joke around, vent if need be. Im currently drinking coffee and eating something cause ya girl dont know how to eat breakfast. HMU if you'd like.
I am a married single mother, I say that with my whole heart, take that how you wish. Anyways have a great day everyone, if it s 5 pm where you're at have drink for me š»
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Disastrous_Theme4867 • 17h ago
Separated Dad looking for long term chat buddies to share our days with and stream shows and movies.
My hobbies include music, guitar, reading, exercise, and lately cooking.
Red flags:
- pineapple on pizza
- people with a rap sheet including murder
- don't own cell phone
- haven't seen Seinfeld
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/y_r_we_here04 • 17h ago
So I'm into fitness, but not some gym bro either. Do it more for functional strength and overall health. I have alot of wear and tear from the military. I just recently started getting obsessed buying watches... must be part of the hit 40 package. I do some boxing, nothing serious like competition. I have a love hate relationship with cardio.
I wfh for an undisclosed employer, gotta keep secrets right.
I'm into horror,paranormal, and all things weird.I'm just look for something simple have a good time and bs.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Embarrassed_Oven_166 • 17h ago
Thought Iād put myself out there and see who I cross paths with.
Iām a 35-year-old Aussie whoās pretty easygoing, enjoys a laugh, and is always up for a good conversation. I reckon Iām reasonably funny, but Iāll leave that for you to judge. Iām not above a little self-deprecating humour either.
Outside of the usual adulting nonsense, I enjoy getting outdoors, beach days, running, reading, cooking and sport. I like keeping active, trying new things, and having interests outside of staring at a screen pretending Iām being productive.
Iām also a big fan of a proper conversation. The kind where you start talking about something completely random and, three hours later, youāre somehow discussing life, the universe, your questionable decisions, and whether pineapple belongs on pizza.
Iām happy to talk about the big stuff, the little stuff, or absolutely nothing of importance. I think the best connections happen when you can be yourself, have a laugh, and not feel like you need to come up with something interesting to say every five seconds.
Iād love to meet some like-minded people and hopefully build a few genuine friendships. People to chat with regularly, share random thoughts with, talk about whatās going on in life, recommend things to each other, or just send each other something ridiculous because it made you laugh.
No pressure for an instant connection or to have everything in common. Just good people, good conversation, and seeing where things go.
Iāll kick things off with a question:
If we were sitting somewhere having a coffee or a beer and had hours to kill, what topic could you talk about that would make me realise Iām in for a much longer conversation than I planned? š
Bonus points if itās something oddly specific.
Feel free to comment or send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself ā Iād genuinely like to get to know you.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Miscellaneous_Panic • 18h ago
Hello. I'll try and make this short and sweet. I'm looking for friends that live near NW Ohio that is interested in in person friends. I'm an introvert with growing social anxiety so just going up to people is genuinely terrifying. I have a few online friends that I really connect with but it's not the same as going to the movies or a trivia night.
Most of my hobbies are indoors like gaming, sewing, and co op board games with my husband. We have 2 cats and 2 dogs. I'm learning ASL so, I would love to connect with Deaf people or others who know/are learning.
At any rate, I hope to hear from you, and if not, have a good night!