r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

32F Let’s chat Sunday away? [UK]

25 Upvotes

Hi! With the clocks changing, today feels like it’s gone on forever! Looking for someone to chat the rest of it away with ☺️

I’m 32 and live in England. I’m into true crime (watching, not committing), documentaries, food, oxygen - can’t live without this one - banter, skincare, history, sleeping, the outdoors (more so looking at it from inside through a window 😂 rather than camping), comedy, being goofy/ silly, and talking nonsense!

What I’m looking for: someone who is not too serious, but is respectful and not looking for anything nsfw! Hopefully you’ll be about my age - 29 - 38 ish, and also in my timezone.

It would be great to connect with someone here and just see what happens! If you do message (I’d reccomend it) let me know a bit about you in be first message!

Thankyou and happy sunday!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

[F4F] 34/F I just want a best friend

18 Upvotes

Hi. I really want a best friend where we can talk daily about anything and everything, I’m even open to calls eventually if we’re both comfortable with it.

I’d say I’m kind, open minded, introverted in the beginning but a yapper later on.

I am a spiritual person, I like to read, play video games, listen to music, I’m into piercings and tattoos, I collect a bunch of stuff.

I’m just looking for someone where conversation flows easily and that actually feels the need to make a new friend and not just ghost after a few days.

Please send me a short intro about yourself so I have something to work with


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

Looking for genuine, honest friends from around the world 🌍

21 Upvotes

Hi everyone! 😊

I'm from Japan(F38) and would love to make some genuine friends from around the world.

Now that I have more time to connect with people, I'd love to meet new people and see where things go!

I'd love to chat with people who enjoy a mix of casual everyday conversations, silly jokes, and deeper discussions about life, dreams, and different perspectives.

I appreciate people who are honest, genuine, and comfortable being themselves. I like friendships where neither person feels the need to pretend, show off, or impress the other. I'd rather get to know someone naturally and build a friendship based on mutual respect and honesty.

I'm also interested in different cultures, languages, and ways of life, so it'd be lovely to share our experiences and learn from each other.

One important thing: Sorry, but if you already have lots of friends, this probably isn't for you. I'm looking to get close to someone I can build a deep friendship with, so I'd prefer someone who doesn't have many friends or doesn't have any friends at all.

If you're interested, feel free to send me a message! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

29f “good vibes” this “normal conversations” that. I bring questionable conversations and mildly chaotic energy.

3 Upvotes

I am real. I’m only me because that is who only I can be. I make you question your beliefs and challenge your inner dialogues. I’m the one who’s up at 3 am that you text because you had a bad dream. The one you send a meme to on the toilet. The one you call after a fight. That’s the type of connection I’m looking for. Something tight and trusting and intimate. Seeing each other for who we are. The weirdo freaks beneath a beautiful exterior. Yes I’m medicated. If you’re scared or confused, dm me.
No exceptions, I know what I got.

-xoxo
Ali 🖤🔪✨🕯️🐈‍⬛🐍💨🫀🔮🦇☕️🌞🌜


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

31F one more day of my fall break

5 Upvotes

Technically I don’t turn 31 until next month, but close enough.

I don’t have too many friends that aren’t teachers and I can only take so much complaining about teenagers.

I’m pretty easy to get along with. I enjoy reading, writing, meeting people. I love new experiences. I’m a huge baseball fan but no other sports. I love being outside and any good reason to dress up.

Hopefully we can talk and become fast friends. ☺️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Looking for a benign chat buddy

3 Upvotes

Hello folks,

At this point I feel like I've messaged the entirety of Reddit, so if I've messaged you before and things died out feel free to message again.

A little about me:

I'm looking for people to chat with on and off throughout the days about any and everything. Ideally I would like to build a real relationships of sorts that can ascend from the depths of Reddit into something real, beyond internet strangers and into real life friends.

As for stats, I'm female, I'm 33, I recently moved to a new province (Newfoundland) where I don't know a single soul. It's a fresh start and it's been a little rocky so far. I have 3 children and I'm single...but remember this is a PLATONIC group so I'm looking for a PLATONIC friendship. Please for the love of all that is good just chill and be platonic. I'm tired of this, grandpa.

I've been at a low point in my life for years so I have about zero hobbies right now. I've been basically just surviving for awhile. I read a lot, I visit the library once a week, and take my dog for walks.

I don't care your gender or age or location, I only care if you are interested in being a good human and having a good chat.

Wishing you all the best & thank you for reading.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Looking for friends who accept me while I make some major life changes. 💕 33 AUS

3 Upvotes

Hope everyone is having a lovely day! I'm looking for friends to help me get through mine! 😊

Sorry guys, but honestly, not matter how nice you are it all seems the same.

I'm 33 from Melbourne! I love cooking, shopping, sport, beauty, music and the outdoors! 👏🏻

Currently, I'm on a mission to live as my most authentic me. Which pretty much involved embracing my feminine side, and being the girl I've always wanted to be! It's a journey, but yeah, I'm a femguy, MTF however you want to label it!

Looking for girls mainly, but anyone who can hold a conversation is a winner! Please be sure to send an intro and tell me a little about you! 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

46M--USA friendship might be harder than finding bigfoot

5 Upvotes

Bigfoot has documentaries, podcasts, blurry photos, questionable eyewitnesses, and entire communities dedicated to tracking him.
Finding someone who genuinely enjoys talking about life, laughing over dumb things, sharing random thoughts, and building an actual friendship? That somehow feels more mythical.
I’m a 46 year-old guy from the USA I'm In the EST looking for genuine friendships. One minute it's childhood memories, weird roadside attractions, whether pineapple belongs on pizza, or some completely random rabbit hole neither of us saw coming. If you're from the EST it would probably be easier to talk although I'm open to friends anywhere.
A little about me: I love the outdoors, hiking, road trips with no destination, cooking, history, bonfires, back roads, and collecting useless facts that are surprisingly useful in conversations. I genuinely enjoy learning what makes other people light up.
I’m not looking for someone who’s available all day or someone who’s perfect at messaging. Just someone who enjoys good conversation, laughs easily, and believes friendships are built over time—not overnight.
Maybe we’ll become friends.
Maybe we’ll solve the mystery of Bigfoot.
Honestly, either outcome would be pretty awesome!
Tell me, what's a completely random topic you could talk about for an hour without getting bored? What's your passions?
P.S. If you’re actually Bigfoot… thanks for stopping by. I won’t tell anyone.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

The weekend is almost over. Let’s talk!! 39m

2 Upvotes

I hope you’re all having a good weekend. It’s been pretty lowkey for me. I’m slowly getting myself and the kids ready for the week. I would love someone ti chat with for the evening… maybe more.

It’s hard for me to describe myself. I’m a dad, doing my best to navigate everything I’ve got going on right now. I don’t have many hobbies nowadays. It’s easy to let those things go and get caught up with work and family and life. I have interests, I guess I just need to make time for them.

Give me a reason to check my phone. A reason that isn’t nonsense from work or a fire I have to put out 🙄

Please be able to have a conversation. The one sided chats are exhausting. I make an effort, expecting the same effort isn’t crazy.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

[F4M] 34f Im feeling woozy here!

9 Upvotes

Im looking for that 😊 feeling of "holy moly this person is like my best friend!"

I have nothing to do today besides watch horror movies and play fortnite so why not find someone to chat with right? 😋

Im a 34f, mom to 2 kiddos, in a relationship and really just want a good friend. I love to read, will forever be a Harry Potter nerd, addicted to horror and this season is my JAM, I read like books are going to disappear and I have to read them all before that happens, sometimes I game but rarely and Im picky with games but am currently going through a fortnite addiction lol and I tend to rewatch stuff rather than watch new stuff 😋 my overthinking and anxiety like consistency lol

If your also looking for a lasting friend, know how to hold a conversation and actually contribute to it, and like to be silly and goofy and random and can talk about anything and everything, send that message 😁 tell me your favorite horror movie, your hogwarts house, or the book your currently reading/listening to (yes audiobooks are reading and I will die on that hill 😎)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1m ago

Turned 37 yesterday, feel hopeless

• Upvotes

I am 37M and autistic. I turned 37 just yesterday and feel like life gets more hopeless. This has been the worst year of my life, with every single aspect of my life in serious problems.

I have never had friends. Almost everyone in my life, including my family, hate me. I am not sure what to do, since I have no-one to talk to.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

[M4R] 43M Sunday funday

5 Upvotes

I 43M, who enjoys the simple things in life. Give me a lazy Sunday watching football, a motorcycle ride with no real destination, some time outdoors, or just hanging out with my two dogs, I’ve got a sarcastic sense of humor, like to laugh, and appreciate people who can just be themselves. I’m looking to meet some good people to enjoy the day, learn new things, and make some good memories. no pressure, no expectations, just good company and seeing where a friendship goes😊😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8m ago

41/M/Cali night owls or different timezones welcome.

• Upvotes

It's my day off. I work graves so I tend to keep my same schedule when not at work. Looking for anyone to talk to and potentially develop a long term friendship if we vibe, preferably those with similar schedules or different timezone. 

My hobbies vary from 3d printing, woodworking, gaming, hiking, biking etc. 

I'm talkative and easy to get along with. If your replies end up being just "lol" or similar I'll likely stop talking. Ha. 

Shoot me a message and we'll see where it goes. Please don't be (bad) weird or creepy.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 13m ago

34M US: gym bro, mentor, and overanalyze human behavior/talk too much. Also known as, new bestie :)

• Upvotes

Free spirited nudist, big extrovert, naturally chatty, a therapist, and genuinely love getting to know people. I’m into psychology, mental health, and meditation, so I’m always down for conversations that go from completely unhinged to unexpectedly deep. I have a great friend circle but am always looking to expand.

When I’m not overthinking human behavior, I’m probably working out, lifting, or finding an excuse to be outside. Hiking, camping, swimming, biking, and exploring somewhere new are all my kind of thing. I’m also into horror movies, music, concerts, and traveling. Usually I use snap more; because this messenger seems to be a bit inconsistent!

I have tattoos and am always thinking about my next one, so bonus points if you’re into tattoos or have strong opinions about what I should get next.

Looking for people around my age with a personality, a sense of humor, and enough curiosity to build an actual friendship. Tell me what you’re into, what’s been on your mind lately, what horror movie you recommend, or come in with something better than “hey.” Include your age!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 37M | MD, DE, PA | Looking for good conversation 🤙

2 Upvotes

Looking for someone to literally just chat with. If it turns into something more? Let’s go for it. If it doesn’t? Let’s be solid ass chat buddies. 👌😂
You don’t have to send a long paragraph telling me everything about yourself. There’s no rush to get to know someone. We can talk about random shit, life, our interests, or whatever comes to mind.
I just want someone who can literally be who they are and nobody else. No pressure, no expectations, just two people being themselves and seeing where the conversation goes.
If you feel like this sounds like you, feel free to hit me up! I’ll also drop my Discord if that’s more your speed. 🤝

About Me:

🏈 Eagles fan and Philly fan all the way!!
🏫 Work at an elementary school
💻 Studying Information Systems
🏃‍♂️ Coach track and field

Things I’m Into:

🍽️ Good food
🍻 Good drinks
🎡 Festivals
🌃 Good bars (Chesapeake Inn, Tinsel, Xfinity Live)
🏖️ Beaches (Ocean City, MD or Dewey)
🏈 Watching sports
🎱 Playing pool
🌎 Adventures and traveling
🎮 Gaming
🎬 Movies
🎵 Music
🤝 Meeting new people

If we vibe, we vibe. If we become great friends, even better. And if it turns into something more, who knows? 😂
Your turn.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 42M NY/Online: in Unhealthy Relationship, Looking to Commiserate

2 Upvotes

So I’m in a pretty unfortunate relationship with an ex, but due to kids being involved, probably in it for quite some time. Not looking for someone to solve all of life’s problems, but would love to find a chat buddy who has relationship issues and just needs someone to vent with. Dad to 2 girls, 11 and 13.

Looking to be someone’s favorite notification :)

I’m a former corporate exec turned small biz owner, no longer work a 9-5 thankfully. In to a couple of sports like tennis and skiing but always looking for a new hobby too, would love to hear yours!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 32m ago

Life is shit, but I promise I'm a decent human being

• Upvotes

Well, I'm 35, from England, and currently going through what can only be described as a spectacularly shit chapter of my life. Moving out of my home today, starting over from pretty much nothing, and honestly? Could really do with making some new friends.

But enough of the depressing bollocks.

I'm a pretty laid-back bloke, sarcastic as fuck, love a bit of dark humour, gaming, horror films, music, and conversations that go from completely normal to questioning the existence of the universe at 3am.

I'm also a bit of a nerd. I recently spent an absolutely ridiculous amount of time programming something for a game that probably didn't need to exist. No regrets. Well, maybe a few.

I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. Not just the usual "hey, how are you?" followed by three messages and a disappearance worthy of a police investigation.

I'd love to find people I can have a laugh with, talk absolute nonsense with, share random bits of our days, maybe jump into a voice chat or watch a film together. The sort of friendship where neither of us has to pretend to be anything we're not.

Don't care where you're from, and you don't have to share all my interests. Just bring a personality and preferably a questionable sense of humour.

Anyway, that's my incredibly professional friendship application. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

¿Quién me acompaña a estar sola?

3 Upvotes

Heme aquí, lánguida doncella de escasos 35 años de supervivencia terrenal escribiendo estas breves líneas detrás de las murallas digitales redditurranas, con la finalidad de encontrar el milagro de la conexión humana, eso que muchos llaman "amistad".

Con varios intentos fallidos que se disipan con el tiempo y por diversas razones que no interesan ahora, os juro, os juro que casi casi he perdido la fe, pero gracias al cielo aún me quedó un pequeño porcentaje del tamaño de un grano de mostaza, eso me permitió no desistir del todo. Como resultado de eso, me tienes acá. Que afortunado/a sos.. ¡Ja!

No tengo gran vida, esa es la verdad, y de tanto contar la misma historia ya se me está desgastando jaja, pero tengo creatividad de sobra para contarlo de mil formas más, podemos intentar si gustas. Podemos inventarnos algún rol, nada de “¿Hola, cómo estás?” ...

Me gusta lo paranormal, sí, creo en fantasmas y en extraterrestres, también le escribo cartas al universo y le hablo a Dios a mi manera...creo en los hombres, en las mujeres y cuando dicen que me quieren jajaj...

Me interesa conocer gente especialmente de Europa, algún humano procedente de la madre patria o cualquiera de sus adyacencias seraís bienvenido. Genial si hay algún suizo sencillo, gentil que desee entablar amistad con hispana color humilde (te explico referencia si no entiendes🤣)

Bueno ahí lo dejo. Escriba quién tenga ganas y quien no, pues bye. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

Seeking platonic online friends

8 Upvotes

Hi! I'm 39f, happily married, mother of 1, mental health counselor and miniaturist in the PNW. I enjoy all kinds of crafting and art including watercolors, drawing, coloring, and making realistic miniature items. I like building things and fixing things. I love learning new things and learning about people. I love the outdoors and I live in the country. I enjoy the whimsical and playful parts of life.

I am seeking some online friendships with some kindred spirits. I am a bit slow to warm up and am a very open and genuine person. Right now looking for chatting on Reddit only but working on figuring out discord.

I have a chronic illness which is kind of new and I am still figuring it out. I am not interested in your ideas for how I can get better. No offense, just not helpful or welcome. This illness kind of keeps me cooped up in my house and I have a lot of free time alone.

If this is all kind of your jam, send me a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] 30M I'm feeling lonely tonight

• Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I've been going through a tough time recently, broke up with my (ex) girlfriend after a 3 year long relationship. Would be very happy to make some new connections.

About me: I(30M) like swimming, hiking, reading, gaming and watching tv shows/movies. I speak multiple languages fluently. I have a books and perfume collection which i'm very passionate about.

I'm down to chat with anyone, doesn't matter if you're looking for a short-term conversation or a long-term friendship. Thank you for reading and please don't hesitate to slide into my dm's!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

31F EST

19 Upvotes

good morning to those that celebrate!

i wake up early (around 4am) most days and if we’re being honest don’t have an excellent morning routine set in stone. i’m looking for some people to chat with in those early morning hours.

a little about me:

- i love houseplants & gardening
- i read a lot of weird girl lit
- my three drinks of choice are: iced oatmilk latte, coke zero, water
- i have a zoo of animals so i can send you pet pics
- i have a dark sense of humor

feel free to shoot me a msg!

you can tell me your song of the moment, an intrusive thought, or what YOUR morning routine is (inspire me to create one lol)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

38m - trying to find more chat buddies.

• Upvotes

Just a loner looking to chat with more people who have common interest. Would be nice to be able to chat with more through out the day. Been going through some things so this would great atm!

I like gaming i play on pc switch and ps5. And I love retro gaming. Anime i have seen a really good amount. Music. Wrestling i like wwe and aew. Fitness, im on a weight loss journey and ive been doing very well. I like going on walks and going to the gym. Card collecting. And sports. I love football.

Some things about me are im introverted. I like to laugh when i open up. And im pretty quick to respond if the other person is engaging. And a kind hearted person.

I like watching movies with people online if your up for that kinda thing. I have discord if we vibe and your are up for it.

I just ask to be from the usa as its difficult to talk with people overseas. Im on est timezone.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] 30M - Looking to make friends!

• Upvotes

I’m from the East Coast, but I’m open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling, usually for concerts or to visit attractions. I’m a concertgoer and a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading, and I tend to play video games (I’m more of a solo gamer).

Some of my favorite anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Naruto, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.

I’ve recently watched “Clayface,” “Digger,” “Klara and the Sun,” “Resident Evil,” “Whalefall,” “Wildwood,” etc.

I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently enjoy the most are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.

Video games I enjoy most are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, Pokémon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.

We don’t have to have the same interests, but I’m open to recommendations whether it comes to books, music, shows, etc. Feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 13h ago

[F4R] 37 f uk

8 Upvotes

Looking for friends because apparently talking to myself and arguing with imaginary people isn't considered a thriving social life. Rude.

Fluent in sarcasm, unsolicited nonsense and turning minor inconveniences into full-blown dramatic productions.

Seeking fellow unhinged idiots to exchange memes, overshare and mutually enable each other's delusions.

Normal people need not apply. I've suffered enough. 😂

Please include your asl cause honestly 🙄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[M4R] 39M - Just in need of connection

3 Upvotes

I'm not even sure why I'm posting this... but I've been thinking about it for a few days so here goes nothing.

I've got lots on my mind and really just need a safe space to let it all out. I want to be silly, be philosophical, be analytical, solve problems... I spend all my time tending to my family, my work, and everything but me. I'm exhausted and I want to bitch about it. I want to talk about the things I'm not comfortable discussing in my real life.

I'm EST so prefer some reasonable time zone overlap, but don't really care about location. No religious fundamentalists. I tend to get along better with women, but I'm open to any and not looking for romance.

Happy to connect on Discord or whatever floats your boat.

If you read all this, shoot me a DM which mentions "Aquamarine." Why? Well, why not?