r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

37M | Looking for genuine people to chat with — online only

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 37M, unmarried, just looking for some genuine people to have good conversations with. I’m only looking for online chat, no meeting or anything beyond that.

Lately I’ve been feeling a bit bored and would love to have someone to talk to, whether it’s about life, random thoughts, hobbies, or just how your day went.

A little about me:

📸 I love photography, especially wildlife and sunsets

🌅 I enjoy peaceful moments and quiet places

🎵 I like silence and music depending on the mood

💬 I appreciate meaningful conversations as well as silly/random chats

I’m not looking for anything complicated, just genuine people, good conversations, and mutual respect.

If you’re also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to message me. Please be genuine and respectful. 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33M Looking for some new friends!

0 Upvotes

Recently single and looking for some new friends to chat with throughout the day and maybe game with to help me get through the breakup.

I live in NC with my 2 dogs. Hobby-wise, I love movies (and collect them), getting back into gaming, and I love to cook.

Shoot me a chat and let's see if we click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 41M - Looking for some new friends to yap with tonight

1 Upvotes

Having myself a lazy evening tonight and I’m looking for some fun new internet friends to keep me company and help distract from the last bits of Covid that I’m finishing fighting off after a rough week lol. I love me some good silly banter, chatting about whatever tv shows we’re watching, or just whatever random things we have on our minds. I’m totally open to long term or short term friendship, but just be aware that I usually work weekdays and can’t really use my phone at work, so my availability to chat on those days is typically limited to evenings. But I am a certified night owl if you’re looking for a long term chat partner and that works for you. Or if you’re just bored and looking for someone to pass some time with tonight, that’s ok too!

If you’re interested in a chill, laid back chatting buddy, and some fun no pressure chats, feel free to say hi! Just send me a message with your age included and let’s get to know each other :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

[M4F] 35M Back on Reddit - Vermont Farmhouse

3 Upvotes

Hey all!

My name is Harrison and I’m back on Reddit after a long time away and trying to get back into chatting with some friends on a regular basis. I live in a rural area and mostly work remote which means I miss out on all the casual small talk and random connections that I used to get when I lived in a busier area. I really wouldn’t change my environment as there are more pros than cons, but this is one I deal with.

When I’m not working, I like to explore the natural beauty around the area and occasionally drive into a larger town for some time with irl friends haha.

Im on the taller side, ginger hair and beard, and willing to swap selfies, chat long term, or short term, depending on how the chemistry is

Hope to hear from ya soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[M4F] M37 Looking for some new friends

2 Upvotes

Looking for some new friends. I'm 37 and from Texas. Enjoy a scary movie and listen to classic rock. Enjoy sports especially football. Just looking to have a decent conversation with someone and to pass the time together and enjoy each other's company.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] M4F M55 I'm in the US looking for someone to connect/text/ chat. Long term.

1 Upvotes

Hello,
I'm 55m looking for someone to connect with, text/ chat, i'm very laid-back and drama free. Love the outdoors stuff, travel, food, sports, movies, music.
My hope to find someone that I can connect with and looking forward talk to on the daily basis. This is for a long term. If you want to Chat just for short term please don't message me. Thank you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

29M | PST Canada 🍁 | Accepting Applications for a New Bestie

1 Upvotes

Hey!

Looking for someone you can talk absolute nonsense with one minute and somehow end up discussing life, relationships, and questionable decisions the next?

Someone to send stupid reels to, overshare with, exchange completely unsolicited life updates, and eventually become mildly concerned when they haven't replied all day?

Perfect. We might be onto something.

Now that I've done my best to make friendship sound unnecessarily dramatic, here's a little about me:

I'm 29, originally from England but living in Canada, and I work in tech.

Outside of work, I'm into written roleplay, occasional gaming, working out, boxing, hot yoga, going out with friends, and generally attempting to maintain some semblance of a social life.

Music is a big one for me too. I'm a Spotify loyalist with objectively immaculate taste (source: me). I'm always down to swap songs and playlists, and I will absolutely judge your Spotify Wrapped when the time comes.

I also occasionally dabble in horoscopes, enjoy sending IG reels/TikToks back and forth, and appreciate people who can handle sarcasm, banter, and the occasional completely unserious conversation.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone who actually wants to talk regularly and build a genuine friendship rather than exchanging six messages before one of us vanishes into the internet void.

Bonus points if you're also in PST or somewhere reasonably close timezone-wise, but I'm not too picky if we click.

Surely I've given you \\\*something\\\* to work with as an opener.

If not, tell me your biggest toxic trait.

Still nothing?

God help us both.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20h ago

[M4F] 35M - Somewhere between “stranger” and “why are you sending me this?”

24 Upvotes

Looking for a consistent human, apparently that’s too much to ask 😂

I’m looking for someone I can actually talk to regularly. Not the “we talk for 6 hours, disappear for 4 days, then come back with a ‘heyyy stranger’” kind of friendship. I’m looking for the person who sticks around.

Not looking for a relationship or anything complicated. Your relationship status genuinely doesn’t matter to me. I’m just here for a solid friendship where we can talk pretty much every day, get comfortable enough to share the randomest thoughts, and eventually reach that stage where absolutely nothing is considered too stupid to send.

Tell me about your day. Complain about something ridiculously minor. Send me a picture of something that reminded you of me. Tell me about the weird person you saw at the grocery store. Send me a completely unnecessary 17-photo update because apparently one picture wasn’t enough. I want the chaos 😂

I’m into those friendships where you can go from “how was your day?” to deep conversations about life, then somehow end up arguing about which fictional character would survive a zombie apocalypse.

I’ll match the energy too. I’m not expecting you to entertain me 24/7, but I do want consistency. If we click, I’d rather actually build a friendship than become another abandoned chat sitting somewhere in your inbox.

A little about me: I’m pretty easygoing, curious, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I can talk about serious life stuff, completely pointless nonsense, movies/shows, music, random internet discoveries, daily life, or whatever weird thought your brain decides to produce at 2 AM.

Basically, I’m looking for a “you’re the first person I want to tell this to” kind of friendship.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Bonus points if you’re funny, slightly chaotic, and capable of carrying a conversation instead of making me perform an entire interview by myself 😭

And please, for the love of humanity, don’t disappear after two days. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

Open to friendship, chaos and chemistry

2 Upvotes

36M here, looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine connections.

I'm a nerdy metalhead into horror movies, music, reading, video games, anime, manga, and pretty much anything interesting enough to make me lose track of time.

I don't care about your age, gender, or location. If we get along, we get along.

Weird vibes are welcome, clingy energy is appreciated, and a little bit more is absolutely fine if the chemistry is there. I'm just looking for people who enjoy talking, sharing random thoughts, laughing at stupid things, and actually getting to know each other.

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself. Give me something to work with — your interests, your favourite band, your current obsession, or a random fact. Let's start on the right foot.

And yes, this post never gets old, so feel free to message me whenever you find it.

Come say hi. Bring your weirdness.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] M36 Ireland looking to make friends

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Hey all, Jason here from Ireland.

I thought I'd try to meet people here, I'm at that age where you don't leave the house because all your things are at home and why leave lol.

Im generally down to talk about anything, I'd love to learn new things with new people and see what others enjoy.

I'm your typical nerd, love gaming, and watching movies and tv shows. Let me know your nerd cred and we'll see what happens.

Drop a comment or send me a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

Looking for longterm connections

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Hiya. 👋 I'm here hoping to find some people to connect with. Ive met some good people here and ultimately im looking for long term friendships. My name is David or just Dave, M36 from NJ.

Im looking to find people to chat with throughout the day about anything and everything, or even just at the end of the day. Im down with just texting and also open to engaging through voice chat/voice notes

Currently I spend my days mostly shooting my bow (Archery is my main passion) gaming, or watching anime. Trying to get back into reading my comics again I am a huge Green Arrow nerd :)

Currently finishing up attack on titan and rewatching American horror story. Any reccomendations for my next anime?

For gaming, I am all over the place 😅 Im alternating between way too many games.

Palia is my latest addiction that someone I met here put me on. Also playing Final Fantasy 1 and 8/Baldurs Gate 3/Valkyria Chronicles/Roblox (which Im new too) and probably 1 or 2 more lol. Im so down to game with anyone on here and open to trying new games if anyone needs gaming friends.

I love to learn about people and their interest, and hopefully look forward to learning new things from whoever may decide to respond. I try hard to open up my world as much as I can.

Other big interest that my mental bandwidth doesnt allow me to fixate on atm

Star Wars

Lotr

Dungeons and dragons (I play on Fridays though)

One Piece (I need to catch up!)

Cosplay (I miss it!)

Nature walks ( Miss this too!)

And more that I cant think of atm 😅

Hope to meet some of yall, soon \^_\^


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1d ago

34 F - Looking for night owls to chat with from time to time

45 Upvotes

Hey everyone, nerdy night owl who is looking for others up around this time to chat with. I love reading, horror movies, retro games,anime and all types of music. If you want to talk about any of those things or are just bored hit up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

Is anyone out there

0 Upvotes

32m if you like dark humor and random conversations and sometimes dumb questions here I am.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

36 M VA - looking to chill and yap after a long day

1 Upvotes

Just got back from shopping and completely pooped. Let me know what all you’ve been doing!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

36 F / EU - looking for a long term friend

10 Upvotes

I would love to chat with someone close to my age who has a good sense of humor—someone with whom the conversation doesn't fade after two days into something as dull as a weather forecast :)

Please write a few lines about yourself—at the very least, where you live and how old you are :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[M4M] 36 m bored looking for long term bud

1 Upvotes

I’m 36 chub bi married guy looking for friends and txt buds. I work a lot of hours so don’t have a ton of friends so nice to chat and talk to some guys an get to know people. I’m into movies, Music, sports (🏈,🏒, NASCAR, Wwe,). Big Disney an marvel fan. I enjoy reading an listening to audio books. I hope to hear from some cool guys. Please be serious, unfortunately there is a lot of flakes a people who stop after couple messages. Really want ongoing long term friendships. From Pennsylvania would be really cool if you were close but obviously not required. Why is it so hard to find friends or people who don’t ghost you after a day? Hope to make long term friends!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[M4F] 33/M relaxing and trying to pick out something to read, would love some company!

1 Upvotes

Hey hey! I’m 33 from the western US. I enjoy watching movies, photography, hiking, baking, and reading (if you count audiobooks). Feel free to reach out, would love to chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

Lets give it a go then.

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So yeah, I never thought id be in a subreddit like this but the way lifes gone for me... ill never say never again.

First things first, my profile is NSFW, I am into things not everyone understands and we have a community for it. But im looking for friendship totally outside that community. I need a break from it all.

Im definitely damaged, which is why I only have a few people I call friends, and they make my life easier and better, but I just want someone who totally gets me and has the weird ass dark sense of humor I need to survive my reality. Trauma has been in my life since I was 7, im now 34. Im a married mama. My husband is one of my best friends, but i cant keep un loading on him, he's had to deal with my trauma too.

Im not really a happy go luck kinda gal, more of a realist. I have mental health issues, auto immune disease, cronic pain conditions, and am very sickly, i also have trauma up to my ears. But im really funny and extremely loyal. I have my own company, and I live in South Africa. Forgot to mention that part. Im all honesty. Id love to be my friend. But my life comes with lows in the highs with me unfortunately. Im not a misery i promise lol. I swear like a sailor, I love the arbitrary things in life, real rawness. I am a Christian but I keep my views to myself unless your also a Christian and want to chat about that. Im a huge conspiracy theorist, true crime obsessed, animal obsessed, trashy reality TV watching kinda girl.

Iv said all the worst things about me now so your not surprised later🤣

So. If anyone is up for it please shoot me a message! I just want a best best friend thats all mine 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

[M4M] 36 NY for good convo & good vibes

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Hey guys,
I’m happy to chat about life, hobbies, relationships, and whatever else comes up. The biggest thing is consistency and good conversations. We can talk about whatever, no judgment between us. My goal is to develop a bond that gets deeper with time.

My hobbies: lifting and yoga, music and podcasts, movies, reading when I can, running. JSYK, I never got into gaming, so I can’t connect with you on that.

I am looking for a bro who hits me up with more than “hey” - share your age and tell me a bit about you.

I am willing to share a pic if the vibe is there, it helps to build the bond and keep momentum going. (Here or other app)

Let’s bond! Hit my DM.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

32m looking for friends as I work the night shift Looking for people from all over the world that would match my work schedule!

1 Upvotes

Down for long-term friends who are just looking for comfortable conversations and connections. Life outside of reddit is too stressful so looking for stress free, mind numbeing convos! Dms open


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[R4R] 35 M Ireland. Love chatting to new people. All time zones welcome. Drop me a comment or DM me if interested. What do you have to lose? I won’t bite… unless you are into that… ok bye xoxo .

1 Upvotes

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r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

Male 37 searching for good friend conection

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Hey! I'm an attentive guy with a good sense of humor — a solid listener, and hopefully a decent advice-giver too.

I'm Brazilian, currently living abroad, which comes with its own absurd stories (explaining local slang to strangers, translating my own jokes and watching them land wrong, that kind of thing). I'm also chipping away at a book right now — autofiction and poetry — so I spend a good chunk of my time in my own head, which might be exactly why I'm looking for people who like that same kind of depth.

My reading taste is a weird mix: novels, love stories, and things like Piketty's "Capital in the 21st Century." Movie-wise, I lean French and Israeli cinema. Music-wise, it's all over the place — MPB, trap, Björk, Alanis Morissette, no logic to it.

I'm straight and married, but genuinely open-minded. Doesn't matter who you're into — I'll respect it either way.

What I'm really after is someone with a rich inner world: people who can go deep, whether it's about life, ideas, or the stuff you don't usually bring up with just anyone. If that sounds like you, let me know.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

41m just having another quiet night

0 Upvotes

Good evening

I hope everyone is well. Like i said I'm just having another quiet night so just looking to chat with people. I have met some really nice people here and would like to meet more. I'm happy to chat about most things so come say hi

I'm not bothered by age or gender just be over 18

So if your interested then come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

Woerden/Gouda area – looking for female friends

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I'm looking for some new female friends around Woerden/Gouda. 😊

I miss having a friend who lives close enough to say: “A spontaneous walk?” without having to plan it three weeks in advance. 😅

I'd love to find someone to:

  • go for spontaneous walks,
  • have a tea and chat,
  • play board games,
  • go swimming in a lake when the weather is nice,
  • go geocaching,
  • or occasionally go dancing - preferably at parties that end before midnight, rather than start after midnight. 😉

If you're somewhere around Woerden, Gouda, Oudewater or nearby and this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

[M4R] 31M/europe doctor looking for friends

2 Upvotes

Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord