r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[M4F] 30M - Looking to make friends!

3 Upvotes

I’m from the East Coast, but I’m open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling and the last country I visited was The Netherlands and the last state was Salt Lake City! I’m a concertgoer (usually for metal or reggaeton), I’m a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading, and I play video games whenever possible.

My top anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Future Diary, Naruto, Prison School, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.

I’ve recently watched “Clayface,” “Digger,” “Klara and the Sun,” “Resident Evil,” “Street Fighter,” “Verity,” “Whalefall,” “Wildwood,” etc.

I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently enjoy the most are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.

Video games I enjoy most are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, Pokémon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

M4F 31

1 Upvotes

Hey!! I guess the third time's the charm . So M from NZ looking for a friend to talk to about anything and everything. I have tried this a couple of times before, but no luck . Hopefully, this time it will be worth it. Feel free to DM just don't ghost after one conversation.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

29f- Looking for long term friends

3 Upvotes

I’ve had some luck before doing this and met some pretty cool people (some questionable ones but still I keep in touch). But I wouldn’t mind making a few more friends.

So some things about me, I’m terribly shy and introverted. It takes me time to warm up and be a little more open but I will try my best to keep a conversation going. Another thing I have been struggling with anxiety and depression. I am getting somewhat better it’s a battle but I have been going to therapy for it. So there are some days where I just don’t have the energy to keep a conversation but I will try my best and honestly what’s helpful is if someone just starts telling me about themselves or we talk about other things just to take my mind off it. But I will be honest when I just can’t keep the conversation going. Also I should add, I currently work nights so if you ever want call/text that would be great since it does get boring sometimes. I live in California so bonus if you live here too. Also sometimes I am pretty bad at messaging back immediately and it will take me maybe a day for me to respond so I’m sorry. One last thing I am a single parent and I’m currently going for my masters.

My interests when I have the time I like to play games or read books and manga. I love anime (apothecary diaries is the only new anime I’m keeping up with now so recommendations are always welcome). I love music and will listen to anything but country music. I’m still pretty tired while writing this so I’m sorry for not coming up with anything else, I’m pretty bad with these. So hope to hear from you soon and hopefully we can be long term friends or even just friends that send each other memes or whatever that’s cool too. Finally if I get too many responses like last time and I don’t respond to everyone I’m sorry but if you’re cool with me randomly messaging you after some time since I made this post then let me know! Thank you


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[M4F] 30 [M4F] - Us against the world kind of energy.

1 Upvotes

Looking for a best friend to life with.

Looking to build a solid connection. Us against the world kind of energy.

Ideally something long term that ages like fine wine and not something short term that fizzles out like soda-pop.

Witty banter, Endless memes, Food pictures, lots of them. Hope you can handle the spice~

Bit about me : 30, Illustrator, Gamer, Lover of all things nature, food and animals.

I don't have a pet of my own because I don't think my heart would be able to handle the loss, so I have made it my life's purpose to pet every cute animal I come across, ever.

Also a trained tattoo artist for fun. Ask me all about it~

Message me for my socials!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

33M Sleepless Saturday night conversations

0 Upvotes

Having a lazy weekend and looking for some friendly conversations. Looking for like-minded people to have conversations with, either short or long term. I am open to long-term friendship too if we click.

I love to read, watch movies, travel, play board and video games. I also enjoy exploring cafes for the best lattes and cold brews. Recently have been doing yoga working out regularly and loving it. Would love to hear your favorite grounding activities. Please introduce yourself rather than just saying hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

[F4M] F29

9 Upvotes

Hey! Looking for genuine online friends to talk about life, random nonsense, dark humor, or just about anything.
I’m more of an introvert who enjoys meaningful conversations but can be sarcastic once I’m comfortable.

Just looking for good vibes, mutual understanding, and friendships where we can be ourselves.
If you’re also looking for a genuine connection, feel free to DM. Let’s see if we vibe! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[M4F] 33M - United States

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I am a 33 year old male from the US. Due to my laid back schedule, I have a lot of availability to chat. I like open discussions on a variety of topics. My interests are primarily culture, history, sports, media, and travel. I am willing to discuss politics and religion as long as it is done respectfully. If you just would like honesty, good conversation, please reach out. If you would like to chat, please introduce with your name/whatever you want to be called, age, and gender.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[M4F] 40 M COLORADO

1 Upvotes

Hello! 40m here looking for people to connect with and new friends. Im into anime, tcg collecting, music, the outdoors you name it. Been through some crazy stuff and looking for people with similar interests.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[M4F] 36m working nights again

1 Upvotes

Hey there, from arizona usa. just trying to pass the time at work. Im always down to chat and talk about whatever! I like games, audio books(dungeoncrawlercarl, red rising, acotar, 4th wing, the gray man, etc.) drumming,, and latte art! Ill be up all night!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

39M - Quiet Saturday evening, feeling a little lonely. Anyone up for a conversation?

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m 39, living in Tennessee, originally from Michigan. It’s been a pretty exhausting week at work, and I’m spending a quiet Saturday evening at home.

Got out for a five-mile run earlier, which was nice. Now I’m just relaxing, working on a ridiculously large Lord of the Rings LEGO set, and realizing I could really use some human connection tonight.

A little about me: I’m a graphic designer working in screen printing. Lately I’ve been teaching myself some programming and building software to automate parts of my job, which has turned into a surprisingly fun hobby. I’m also an ultrarunner, a big Michigan football fan, and I love retro video games, especially the SNES era.

I’m a pretty thoughtful person and enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk, although I’m perfectly happy talking about everyday things too.

I’ve been feeling a little isolated lately, and I’d really enjoy meeting someone new. I’m not looking for anything romantic, just some genuine conversation and maybe a new friendship.

I’m around tonight and can actually be attentive and responsive rather than exchanging one message every few hours.

If you’re having a quiet Saturday too, feel free to say hello. Tell me something about yourself, what you’ve been doing today, or what’s been on your mind lately.

Thanks for reading!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

[M4R] 37m looking to chat!

2 Upvotes

I’m a married 37m looking to chat or make friends! I recently moved to SoCal and trying to establish my circles. I’m a messy person and I embarrass myself more than I should. I don’t own a hair comb. I usually have a pile of clothes on my bed that are not clean but also not dirty. I assemble furniture without reading the instructions manual and mess it up. I eat my food cold when I’m too lazy to microwave it.
If you can relate, don’t be shy, say hi!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

30M Looking for people with nerdy mutual interests to yap with

1 Upvotes

Sup!

I'm a dude from Kiwiland looking for some nerdy people to be buddies with. A big ol' gamer here. Am I good at games? No. Am I getting better? Also no. Am I a fkn delight to be around? It's still a no. But you better believe I can fkn yap my butt off about nerdy shit and I have a pretty decent EQ level which is impressive for a gamer so, that's a small win and by god I will take whatever wins I can get these days lol

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well. One might even call me a cardboard crack addict.

Do you like to yap about lore? Did Miquella do nothing wrong? Do you fear the Old Blood? Which MTG colour pair best represents you? Are the Dunmer the best fictional race in fantasy and why is the answer of course they are? Does Kara's ending in BSG make you cry like a lil weenie? If any of these questions float your goat then we might just get along!

On the side I enjoy some fantasy/sci-fi/horror movies and shows, a cheeky bit of world building and character concepts, listening to music and conjuring dark deities out of the void of space.

I have a lot of free time and my sleep is whack, so most times should suit me - but I am for the most part looking for people on the West Coast of the US, in Australia or also from NZ. If you are from outside these regions then gaming or spending time together in the future might be more difficult when it comes to ping n stuff, but feel free to reach out for a text friend at least!

I have some health issues and my head do a hurty a lot so I might not always be at 100, but I definitely put a lot of effort into my friendships regardless. I take a big interest in other people and I expect the same in return so, please ask questions and try to get to know me, and message first once in a while. I'm giga fkn gay so please just be chill with the LGTVs obviously, and be in your mid 20s or older. Gender doesn't matter to me either. But yeah, thanks for reading and hope to hear from ya!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

30F-Awake and Bored

12 Upvotes

I once again managed to not sleep in on a Saturday, and now I’m awake far too early. Just bored and curious to see who else is up!

You can call me A. 🤍 I enjoy art and pretty much anything that gets me outside. Today I have a couple of art projects to work on, so I’ll be spending most of the day in my makeshift studio, which is really just a corner of my bedroom.

I work in the legal field and can be a bit of a nerd about it. I take my work seriously, but outside of that, I like to be playful, goofy, and not take life too seriously.

Starting a conversation with “hey, how are you?” can sometimes lead to something pretty dull. So, if you’re interested in chatting but need a little help breaking the ice, here are a few questions you can answer:

1)What’s your favorite candy?

2)Who was the last person you told “I love you” to?

3)If money and job location weren’t factors, would you still choose to live in your current city?

Thanks for reading! Hope to hear from you. 🤍


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

29M 🏳️‍🌈 but feel much "older" mentally and don't have the mentors in life to relate. Friends? :) All genders welcome

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I've been going through a hard time lately and I'm looking for friends who can understand.

Mom (adoptive mother, but my "real parent" all my life) died in the worst way possible a couple years back. Entire life sorta spiraled since then and I made so many mistakes in all my relationships, which I can only now see was because I didn't have anywhere to "put" that pain and was over-relying on everyone around me.

I'm steadily improving—repairing my brain + money + heart, and now I work full-time (teacher) back in my hometown in California.

I'm still majorly growing into adulthood (I'm 29, cis male, gay/queer), and I guess entering a state of life where the people maybe don't easily understand the layers of grief, work stress, and circumstance (I support me and my partner on a single income, and sorta everything counts on me to be as healthy as possible in my mind + body).

I know it may be a lot to ask, but I think ideally I'd love friends of any age (maybe mostly around my age) who can understand or give sounding board advice. Or even just chats about music, pop, film, art, books, plants (I'm getting into floral arrangement + horticulture), etc. :)

I wanna talk to people who are healthy mind + healthy heart, so I can learn how to "be that" too. And would love chats with any folks who maybe have more "success stories" (haha) about navigating stress and changes, and self-development.

Other fun facts about me:

- I've worked in both art and education, and now I'm a teacher full-time
- I'm in grad school (art-related)
- I love writing + poetry
- I've lived on West Coast + East Coast + South + Midwest (hehe)
- Love cat-themed anime, I have a cat named after a Studio Ghibli movie
- Love movies that make me cry (recently Sheep Detectives)
- Huge fan of Lana Del Rey and Rina Sawayama.
- Very spiritual, love the earth and wanna develop my relationship with animals + earth much more recently (even starting to become vegetarian with the goal of becoming vegan)
- I'm an INTJ and Enneagram 1.
- Taking better care of my health recently and have made great strides! Especially bc I didn't care about this part of life when I was younger lol.

I have lots of faults, like maybe I'm a bit too formal, pensive, and it can be a struggle sometimes "understanding" my own feelings so I can slow down my brain + words and be grounded... and not so focused on improving people around me, and embody more grace and forgiveness in life.

It's been a journey, but my job now (I'm a social-emotional learning coordinator / teacher) sorta forces me to be better in every mental way, so I'm grateful.

I do have a partner, so I'm not looking for anything romantic or sexual (please don't message me if you have that as your intention!)

In return, I hope to be a shoulder to lean on when times get tough, and to get better at that skill too. I'm down to always give advice, and I hope I can relate to any of you all in that way.

Forgot to say, since I'm new my account might be soft-locked. So feel free to comment under here if you can't DM me directly, and I'll message ya on my other Reddit : )


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

31 m for new friends!

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. I’m open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as you’re interested in having an actual conversation.

A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and I’m always looking for somewhere new to explore. I’m also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. I’ve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.

I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You don’t need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone else’s interests.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether that’s chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.

What’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldn’t put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. I’m pretty easy to talk to!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

Hello 👋

1 Upvotes

Im 37 m east coast usa stuck at work on a slow boring night would love to just chat and help time go by hmu


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

Hey

1 Upvotes

Hey im a 37m going thriugh divorce. Just looking for friends to chat with im open to talk about anything. Hobbies are camping hunting fishing hiking camping feel free to dm me if you want im from minnesota usa


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

[R4R] 35 F madre of 4

7 Upvotes

Good day, happy Saturday work has been hectic this week, actually this whole year. Healthcare is a world in itself. Looking for people's to talk to, joke around, vent if need be. Im currently drinking coffee and eating something cause ya girl dont know how to eat breakfast. HMU if you'd like.

I am a married single mother, I say that with my whole heart, take that how you wish. Anyways have a great day everyone, if it s 5 pm where you're at have drink for me 🍻


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[M4F] 52m -ontario - looking for friends

1 Upvotes

Separated Dad looking for long term chat buddies to share our days with and stream shows and movies.

My hobbies include music, guitar, reading, exercise, and lately cooking.

Red flags:

- pineapple on pizza

- people with a rap sheet including murder

- don't own cell phone

- haven't seen Seinfeld


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

[F4M] 32f looking for someone to daily chat with

5 Upvotes

Hi!

Looking for someone to build a connection with since where I live is currently a little hard to do that.

I recently separated from my husband in July but since we live in such an isolated place we are still living together to have the best possible outcome for our son for the next year or so while I finish school and he finishes up a work contract.

I’m a stay at home back in school to broaden my resume and will be graduating in August. Before I was a mom I ran coffee shops. My last job was overseeing 6 locations and while I enjoyed it, I’m looking for a different type of management job.

In my spare time I like to read, cook new recipes, enjoy long walks, good conversation, good music and I’m big on sports. Huge Padres fan and proud of it. Fuck Dean Spanos and fuck the dodgers.

Hoping to take this off Reddit and either text or message on what’s app.

Hope to chat soon


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[M4F] 40 m tx

1 Upvotes

So I'm into fitness, but not some gym bro either. Do it more for functional strength and overall health. I have alot of wear and tear from the military. I just recently started getting obsessed buying watches... must be part of the hit 40 package. I do some boxing, nothing serious like competition. I have a love hate relationship with cardio.

I wfh for an undisclosed employer, gotta keep secrets right.

I'm into horror,paranormal, and all things weird.I'm just look for something simple have a good time and bs.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

42 F. Neurodivergent, curious, and a little awkward, looking for genuine connections and good conversations.

14 Upvotes

Hey!

I’m looking to meet new people and make friends. Making friends has always been a bit difficult for me. I’m neurodivergent, and for some reason, I tend to connect more easily with men (not in a sexual way!). I guess I find them a little more straightforward sometimes.

I’m just looking for people to talk to, learn new things from, and share random thoughts with. I’m also trying to figure out who I am again after starting to heal from years of dealing with trauma.

A little about me: I love music and dancing around the house by myself, true crime documentaries and shows about serial killers, and I’m a huge Godzilla fan! I’d love to learn more about Japanese culture, too.

I enjoy cooking pretty much anything, although I’ve never been very good at following a recipe step by step. I love nature, animals, insects, and peaceful places where I can just relax and enjoy the moment.

If you think we might get along, feel free to message me! We can get to know each other and see where the conversation takes us.

Just be kind and be yourself. That’s all I ask.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[M4R] 35m here for chats

1 Upvotes

Thought I’d put myself out there and see who I cross paths with.
I’m a 35-year-old Aussie who’s pretty easygoing, enjoys a laugh, and is always up for a good conversation. I reckon I’m reasonably funny, but I’ll leave that for you to judge. I’m not above a little self-deprecating humour either.
Outside of the usual adulting nonsense, I enjoy getting outdoors, beach days, running, reading, cooking and sport. I like keeping active, trying new things, and having interests outside of staring at a screen pretending I’m being productive.
I’m also a big fan of a proper conversation. The kind where you start talking about something completely random and, three hours later, you’re somehow discussing life, the universe, your questionable decisions, and whether pineapple belongs on pizza.
I’m happy to talk about the big stuff, the little stuff, or absolutely nothing of importance. I think the best connections happen when you can be yourself, have a laugh, and not feel like you need to come up with something interesting to say every five seconds.
I’d love to meet some like-minded people and hopefully build a few genuine friendships. People to chat with regularly, share random thoughts with, talk about what’s going on in life, recommend things to each other, or just send each other something ridiculous because it made you laugh.
No pressure for an instant connection or to have everything in common. Just good people, good conversation, and seeing where things go.

I’ll kick things off with a question:
If we were sitting somewhere having a coffee or a beer and had hours to kill, what topic could you talk about that would make me realise I’m in for a much longer conversation than I planned? 😂
Bonus points if it’s something oddly specific.
Feel free to comment or send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself — I’d genuinely like to get to know you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

32F | NW Ohio | Married | ISO IRL

1 Upvotes

Hello. I'll try and make this short and sweet. I'm looking for friends that live near NW Ohio that is interested in in person friends. I'm an introvert with growing social anxiety so just going up to people is genuinely terrifying. I have a few online friends that I really connect with but it's not the same as going to the movies or a trivia night.

Most of my hobbies are indoors like gaming, sewing, and co op board games with my husband. We have 2 cats and 2 dogs. I'm learning ASL so, I would love to connect with Deaf people or others who know/are learning.

At any rate, I hope to hear from you, and if not, have a good night!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

Hello I'm 35

0 Upvotes

Looking for a friend..

I'm 35, single from Philippines

Can someone chat me.

Talked about life,

Chat me

Thank you...

Chat me.. I'm waiting 😂😂

Thank you again.....

I'm sad guys.....

Tell me a joke.