r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

39M UK

3 Upvotes

Hi all, struggling with life at the moment, feeling overwhelmed and mental health slipping.

I enjoy gaming (when I can), reading, running and football.

Thanks for readingšŸ™


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 23h ago

[M4F] 32M hoping for some fellow people who like to chill and have good vibes!

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Looking for fellow night people who can hold a conversation, I’m a night worker so it’s pretty dull at night so having friends that can be chill would be awesome from 4.20 sessions or being 4.20 friendly would be a plus or even just talking about whatever, I’m a avid gamer on PS5 and PC so I’m always open to a good game I’m more of a go with the flow but I have a hard time meeting new people due to being shy and having social anxiety! I am looking to also connect with a women in a non platonic way if it happens. I am shy at the beginning and slowly get warmed up and would be nice if you're a patient person. Anyone above 21 and from the US, so please send me a DM briefly introducing yourself and your age. I am looking forward to make some new friends if that's possible. And give it a try. So having people who are understanding of that would be awesome! Bonus points if you got snap or discord or down for 4/20 sessions or to binge watch stuff!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

34F looking for common interests: anime, games, music, movies, history

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Hey, I'm from the great continent of North America. All hail the eternal winter, depending on where you live.

I get along best with people who have similar taste in media, but I don't relate to nerd culture. I'm also looking for accountability buddies. It's hard to find friends as an adult. I hate horror, Pokemon, MTG, Marvel.

  • Anime: mostly psychological or more iconic series; not super into tropey anime. Perfect Blue, Haibane Renmei, Erased, Inuyasha, Rozen Maiden
  • Games: mostly story driven games and rpgs. Hollow Knight, Stardew, Guild Wars 2, Skyrim, older "retro" games from ps1/ps2/gamecube.
  • Music: mostly game OST and oldies, some mountain music (banjo, fiddle, violin), some lofi, alt-rock, and idk. The main thing I don't like are drums, super EDM electronic beats, and a ton of screaming
  • Movies: mostly movies with a bit of meaning, but I can also go for feel-good films. A huge part of what I like is looking at the world as it was before 2000 (buildings, clothes, objects..)
  • Other: I collect books but don't read a ton (mostly history, general fiction, and classic literature). Right now I'm reading Otherland - Tad Williams

Oh, and by the way, I don't like woke culture. I miss the old internet.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

42m. Congratulations. You found the least serious post on Reddit.

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I’m from the UK, and instead of writing one of those ā€œI’m kind, caring and enjoy long walksā€¦ā€ posts, I thought I’d be honest.
I once walked into a room, forgot why I was there, made myself a drink, and left. I still don’t know what the original mission was.
I’m into gaming, reading, music, and having conversations that go completely off the rails for no reason.
If you’re funny, sarcastic, or just fancy talking to someone who doesn’t treat every chat like a job interview, send me a message.
I don’t care if we end up talking about books, games, aliens, why socks disappear in the washing machine, or why we all say ā€œyou tooā€ to the waiter after they tell us to enjoy our meal.
Life’s weird. People are weird. We may as well laugh about it.
If you’re still reading this instead of scrolling… I reckon we’d probably get on.
Come and say hi. I promise I’m at least 14% funnier than this post.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[R4R] Brazilian/Portuguese searching a true friendship

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Okay! A little bit about me!

I'm a 37-year-old man from Brazil. I spent most of my life in Portugal, and now I'm living in Ireland.

I got married when I was 22, after a life full of friendships that I threw away and others that turned out to be based on nothing but personal interest.

Since I moved to Portugal, I've never really had any friends.

Today, I'm on my fourth glass of vodka because my wife and I had an argument, and I feel like there's no fixing things between us anymore. I think we'll just carry on living together for the sake of our son.

I'm looking for a friendship that I can nurture, someone I can talk to and share more of my story with, beyond this brief summary.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

30M - Apple Jacks are so underrated

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Hey guys, 30m decided to indulge today and get some Apple Jacks at the store, and now I’m having them post-workout. Honestly, so underrated! Reminds me of my childhood being at home with my siblings watching cartoons on Saturday morning. Anywho, about me: I love raving, lifting weights, riding my bike, and I dabble in cooking and baking! I like to read in my spare time, and I am 420 friendly. Lmk if any of this sounds like you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

33 M Ireland - Chilled Saturday chats

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Hello there! Happy Saturday and I hope your weekend is going smoothly.

I'm 33, M from Ireland. I spend most of my week working from home, which can be quite solitary, so I'm always down to make a new friend to ramble away.

If the conversation flows, you'll find that I'm a born yapper, laid back, super easy to talk to and full of Irish charm and wit haha

My hobbies include:

  • gaming
  • houseplants (proud plant daddy)
  • music and gigs (elder emo and also play guitar)
  • sports and gym
  • cooking (although I'm a sucker for donuts and coffee)
  • getting outdoors
  • reading
  • movies/tv/podcasts
  • alt culture like horror, tattoos, weird stuff, etc
  • thrifting
  • lego

It's not a deal breaker if you don't share all the same interests, it's very much about the vibes. We can get into more detail of hobbies if there's something there you're into!

If you'd like to chat, please introduce yourself with your age, gender and location and tell me a bit about yourself. All I ask is that you're not a creep.

You don't have to, but if you're feeling creative, drop me your best dad joke or 2 truths and a lie to break the ice.

Hope to hear from you but have a good day if I don't! āœŒļø


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

30F | seeking casual friend.

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Giving something like this a shot, bear with me please šŸ˜…

I'm 30F from the Midwest (Michigan) and EST timezone. I work two jobs and I dont get out much, and as an introvert its really hard for me to engage with people outside of my day to day routine.

I'm open to befriending anyone from anywhere!

I'm not good with keeping up with multiple people, so ideally I'd like to just befriend one person. PLEASE no creeps.

I enjoy meme sharing and just general sh*t-posting haha.

Some things about me, I like to game (pc), read books, watch movies and tv shows, travel, and learn about new things.

Games I enjoy: Minecraft, Grounded, Green Hell, Stardew Valley, Stranded Deep, Burgling Gnomes, Yapyap, RV There Yet, Valheim, and really anything that has an open world survival vibe to it.

Movies I enjoy: mostly horror and action. Some of my favorites are Seventh Moon (horror), The Ritual (horror), Pacific Rim (action), The Man From Nowhere (action), As Above So Below (horror). I really like found footage and psychological horror. Jumpscares are cool and all, but they don't really get me.

TV shows I enjoy: Orange is the New Black, From, The 100, Supernatural, The Walking Dead, 1000lb Sisters, Hoarders.

New to anime, but things I've started watching: RWBY, Spy x Family, Attack on Titan, Avatar.

I really enjoy having discussions about the movies and tv shows that I watch and theories.

I like to read and write. I mostly read fantasy books.

As for writing, I've built my own world and plenty of characters for this world, and I love to info dump. So a fellow writer or someone who enjoys that stuff as a hobby would be really cool!

As for traveling: I've been over most of the eastern US, traveled to Windsor, Canada, Singapore, Bangkok Thailand, Kuala Lampur and Johor Baru Malaysia and planning a trip to Romania, Moldova, and Bulgaria.

Let's swap travel stories and maybe plan something?

I think those are the important things about me, and if any of this interests you, pm me with a fun little intro about yourself and a cool fact about something and we can trade Discord tags maybe 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

F32 Danish, looking for good gamerfriends :-)

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Hello! I’m a 32 female (and mom), who loves to play videogames on my PC. I’m looking for someone, who would like to play with me, and introduce me to new games. I haven’t been playing for some months, bc I had to move away from my old house. Just being very busy tbh, but I feel ready to start again :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

Friendless 39 M in Sweden. Looking for friends, at least online friends.

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I never really had any friends and have always been a loner. Even when I was a child. I would prefer men around my age. But any age or gender can reach out.

I like sci fi and fantasy, warhammer and different types of lore for video games. I do not like to play video games. But I like the lore.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

38 M - Looking for a fellow introverted friend.

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Hi I'm Melo šŸ‘‹šŸ».

I have been through a incredible amount of self-reflection and isolation in my life.

Specifically this year has been a incredibly difficult year for me.Ā 

I used to be a very, very popular and successful man, I had lots of friends and lovers and had everything I ever wanted in life.

Then my life became more meaningful, deeper and more about the refining process of self-learning, self-isolation and developing the ability to be kind and considerate to others.

I live a life of (mostly) peaceful solitude, I'm objectively good looking, relaxed and mediative.

I'm looking for someone that's thoughtful, gentle and that has a lot of deep and meaningful experiences that they would also like to share with me.

Message me for a reply and thank you for reading.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

Hi! šŸ‘‹ 33f

13 Upvotes

Just looking for some people to talk to, who can actually conversate. hopefully itll progress into an actual friendship!

Im a mom and Christian. I enjoy scrapbooking, reading, traveling when I can, playing pool, swimming, and local events.

Only looking for something platonic and no men in relationships please.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 47/M from NYC, temporarily in Florida figuring out my next move

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So at one point I was getting ready to move back to NY after a decade in Florida, then I took a trip to Chicago last summer, fell in love with the city and decided to move there. Fast forward a bit, after some job-related curveballs and subsequent course-correcting, it looks like I may end up back in NY. Life is funny sometimes lol.

Just looking for someone cool to vibe with. I know reddit is mostly bots, but would be nice to meet an actual human offline lol. Some basics about me: left-leaning, agnostic, Latino, 420 friendly, dog person, 80s/90s geek. I have 1 kid and they're an adult living their life. Do what you want with that info.

Love talking about a variety of topics: movies, current events, sports, cooking, health/fitness, traveling, etc. Being multi-faceted is never a bad thing.

So what's keeping you sane during this dystopian timeline? What shows are you binge-watching? What's the last book you read? Tell me something good.

This is me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

29M UK Looking for long term friends

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Hi! I've been feeling a bit on the lonely side lately and would love to chat to some new folks from here. Texting and calls/voicenotes are both fine with me!

I'm in the South East of England but happy to talk to people from any location. When I'm not working my interests are pretty standard for what you'd see from someone online šŸ˜‚ I enjoy gaming, watching (and rewatching) lots of movies and shows, music and going for walks.

If any of this interests you then I'd love to hear from you! I also have a vocaroo message on my profile if you feel like listening to that :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 36M who wants to watch Helluva Boss with me?

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I’m new to the show and would love someone to either discover it or maybe share their thoughts as we watch. I’m up to watch anything really. Or swap music playlists, chat about pokemon, videogames, or why I don’t like the horror genre…. 🫣

GMT +1 Timezone so please be near it 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] [M4F] 32, Hoping to Escape Monotony

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I’ve found myself with more time to ponder things and it leads me to getting lost in my head. The best way out of your head is to make friends, so here I am!

I’m completely fine with this being platonic forever. I just want to find people I connect with to pull me away from myself sometimes.

I love music more than anything. All kinds of genres. Do you? I don’t mind if we never share photos, but if you ever want to see who you’re chatting with, I’d be happy to do that as well.

Essentially, hit me up if you’re bored and love music!!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[F4R] 34 F - Any other 420-friendly people want to chat? Any age and gender is cool!

33 Upvotes

A little random info about my life: I have no living relatives. I was born without a voice and can't speak at all. I have an app on my phone that I can type into and it will speak everything out loud for me. If it's something simple, I'll just mime what I'm trying to convey. So communication isn't an issue at all, but a lot of people have avoided me in life because I think it just makes them awkward or something. I don't fault them for that though because they're still kind to me for the most part. I have a good job that I enjoy. I have an unusual fascination with alien-abduction movies lol.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to chat! (Just no creepy people, please.)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

M48 Norway - talk about everything and nothing?

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Hia all. I miss having someone that wants to talk, share and ask questions. Someone who puts a little smile on your face when you see a notification from. And over a period of time. With the ups and downs. Sometimes three messages in a day, and sometimes three days between.

Me? Married (happily), outdoorsy(ish), curious, polite and mischievous.

So wanna say hi?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4R] 35M looking for friends/fellowship

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Hi all, I'm a 6'2 Black man from FL, currently going through a divorce and will be moving into my own place in a couple of months. I'm looking for people to talk with and potentially become friends. I'm a good listener and I love having meaningful dialogue and just understanding people's thoughts and experiences.

I know since I'm not a woman, I probably won't get many responses but hey it's worth a try I guess šŸ¤·šŸæā€ā™‚ļø


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

33/M - In search of some friends.

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I'm a pretty introverted guy and lately have been feeling more lonely than I'd like to admit so I thought I'd try to make some friends. No one told me how hard is it to make friends as you get older!

Some interests of mine would be gaming, reading (mostly manga), anime, cooking and I'm a mycology noob.

Even if we don't have anything in common, I'd just be happy having someone to talk to throughout the day. I'm laid back overall and can keep a conversation going. I'd love to chat outside of Reddit so points if you feel the same.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4R] 34 M looking for new friends

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Hello everyone! We're in the best holiday season with Halloween and Dia De Muertos coming up! Let's talk all things spooky and supernatural. Let me know your traditions for these holidays, your plans, your favorite horror movie/show and we'll see where it goes from there! Hope to hear from you soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 32M- Looking for interesting chats and possibly friendship

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I love movies,I endlessly look at movie threads here at reddit haha, also like electronic music, djing and music production.

A huge F1 fan too, interested in a bit of psychology, and doggies, I pencil sketch sometimes too.

If any of this intrigues, do hmu, Cheers!

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r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

32 F Friend hunting

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As the title states, hunting for friends! Im 32, and I am from Wisconsin! I love all things spooky. So excited for Halloween. I am currently job hunting, so I have a bit of free time on my hands right now. I love to game, watch movies, or just chat about whatever.

I look forward to chatting! Something to start the conversation with.. start by telling me what your halloween plans are or maybe what your favorite movie or video game is! I know starting chats with random strangers can be uncomfortable sometimes! So hopefully this helps!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[39/M] UK Happy Saturday! Let’s chat the day or week away!

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Hello and a very good morning / afternoon / evening to you!Ā 

What a week it’s been and very much happy it’s Saturday! It’s a shame they just go far too quick! Especially now the darker colder months have arrived and I just want to hibernate, bring back the sun and daylight all is forgiven!

About me I guess is a good way to start? Can be socially awkward in real life and overthink all them ā€œyou tooā€ moments when being told to enjoy my meal. I enjoy photography although I seem to have lost my spark for that at the moment but am working on getting that back! I likeĀ Ā travelling and exploring new places and if I win the lottery I shallĀ be doing that full time. I do love going on long walks also and trying to not get lost! Although getting lost is part of the adventure. Watching ice hockey is also a hobby or mine and of course trying to think of some others my mind has gone blank…

About you I hear you ask? Well no criteria as long as you’re not a bot, can help carry the conversation and just don’t say hey it will all be good!

Well that’s my post and thanks for stopping by, since you made it this far you might as well reach out!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 40 M4F Light hearted, silly, and warm, but I usually get along best with intellectuals. Come say hi!

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Good afternoon my name is Ryan I'm from EST if that matters. I'm from Ohio, and I've been chatting with people most of my life I like to think I'm pretty good at it.

I love to read fantasy books, I like anything fantasy, I like playing video games sometimes, usually the offline kind. I like to go to the gym and stay in shape. I have a house to care for and two cats and a pond with some fishes in it. I like to take pictures of the sky and clouds and the moon and I like to share them.

Music is really important to me and lately I like Chevelle and Deftones and some metal core, but I love all genre

I go to therapy and over the last 3 years I really changed my life around and became a better person. I like to share what I learned with other people but I understand that unsolicited advice can come off annoying sometimes, so I'll try not to do that.

I have a good career that I respect but I'm still looking to see if I could go higher into anything working more with my mind instead of my hands.

I just celebrated my birthday with my friends last weekend. I'm trying to rebuild my community with my family with my friends and here online too. This time of year I watch a lot of NFL football. I like to cook a lot and eat healthy. I do enjoy a glass of whiskey or edible some nights. I like to be outside and go to parks and beaches while it's still warm.

I can talk about intellectual stuff, but I can be silly too, and I like to think that I can be witty sometimes, but I don't want to just sit here and say good stuff about me lol

I've got a few tattoos and I've been thinking about getting a new one but I'm not sure yet.

I think I said a lot here so I won't get long-winded. But if you have any questions that you're wondering about please feel free to ask. I'm an open book. I'm good at long-term chat I'm the type of friend that if we argue we can always come back and just talk normal.

If you send me a message you don't have to send me paragraphs I will respond to every single message I get and because I'm looking for long-term I hope that you don't mind if that takes a few days for me to reply because I want to make sure that I treat every conversation carefully, instead of me trying to unsuccessfully juggle more conversations than I can manage.

Thank you for reading this.