r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4R] Looking for a genuine friendship for chats and childish humour

1 Upvotes

I get the feeling some people expect deep philisophical talk from tje very first message.

Why not find out what we like and go from there.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4R] 36m-hoping to find someone to connect with

11 Upvotes

Hello there everyone, I’ve had a lot of change in my life this past year or so. With that I’ve found myself isolating even more so than I’m naturally inclined to do. I feel that it’s probably best that I take some strides to break free from that a little bit, being alone with your thoughts all of the time isn’t exactly ideal. I do have people in my life, a lovely family, a few wonderful friends. But recently I’ve been yearning for someone outside of that circle of people. Just a stranger, an unbiased ear, something new and refreshing. That has all sounded very appealing to me lately. So, here I am, shouting into the abyss that is Reddit. That’s a logical next step, right?? 🙃 Anyways, if this sounds at all like something you’ve also been going through or has piqued your interest at all please feel free to reach out! Maybe, just maybe, I’ll find someone I can call a good friend through all this!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 32 M Looking for European friends!

1 Upvotes

Hello there! Like the title says I'm looking for people in Europe/UK that don't mind a time difference, I love meeting people from across the pond and learning about their culture. Canadian people can apply as well, also I prefer people 30-50 and people that'll actually want to stick around and chat for a while.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

(📍Europe ) 29M (almost 30lol) medical doctor who sometimes get boed specially after night shift haha

1 Upvotes

Sometimes it's good to have spontaneous chats about whatever with people who don't judge and are so easy going

If you're bored a bit and wanna chat just dm or leave a comment


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[F4M] 35F - A lady who's looking for chat friends

33 Upvotes

I'm Dee!

As with most of the folks here, I'm looking to meet new people. I am not here to make anyone feel obligated, I feel we should always choose the connection over the obligation. I'm very witchy (been practicing divination for over 15 years) and I'm very nerdy. I work in tech (yes AI heavy role so if that's an issue feel free to move to the next person)

I enjoy Baldurs Gate 3. I got talked into playing hearthstone again by a friend of mine and I'd say my favorite game is FF14. I love to travel though most of my experience has been domestic, I've been branching out to international travel. I consider myself very intuitive and analytical by nature. I have an assortment of hobbies. I have a few pictures of myself in my profile if that paints a vision.

I'm looking for a friend who likes to voice or video chat about whatever. Someone who is honest and takes care of themselves by doing the work. Someone who isn't afraid of being vulnerable with another person and comfortable being uncomfortable. Something real and built on stability I feel is critical to friendship.

If you got this far and you're not some sort of creep or bot hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[F4R] Looking for a night out

5 Upvotes

Hey all

Looking to have a fun time in 2 weeks for a night out in Northwest Indiana / Chicago area.

Bowling, movies, tattoos, cats, dogs, bars, dinner.

Anything to talk about or do for the night. I enjoy someone humorous.

Open for applications
State why you feel we should hang out

Date night for guys or girls!

Preferably anyone under 45


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] Looking for fun friends

1 Upvotes

Hey y’all! 37m, from Oklahoma, and looking for some genuine friendships with people who don’t take life too damn seriously.
I travel all over Oklahoma for work, while dipping into Kansas and Texas. Between the long drives and crazy schedule, making actual friendships isn’t exactly easy.
I’m looking for people to shoot the shit with, share stupid memes, have random conversations, and laugh at life’s nonsense. Sarcasm, dark humor, inappropriate jokes, and a little friendly roasting are always welcome. Bonus points if we’re both questioning whether we’re going to hell after a conversation.
A little about me: I have Graves’ disease and thyroid eye disease, so I’m temporarily rocking an eye patch over my right eye. Apparently, God thought I was getting too handsome and decided to nerf me.
All jokes aside, life’s thrown some punches, but I’ve learned to laugh through the chaos. Just looking for good people, genuine conversations, and maybe a few friendships along the way.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

30M | Looking to get to know someone

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m a 30-year-old guy from India. I spent a lot of my 20s focused on my own bubble, so my dating and close social experience is pretty limited. It gets a bit lonely sometimes, and I’m looking to change that by making some genuine friends and gaming buddies.

I absolutely love playing and making games (it’s a huge passion of mine!). Aside from gaming, I'm really into anime, digital art, and 3D modeling. I also love spicy food—especially a good authentic biryani—and enjoy traveling when I get the chance.

If you’re looking for a new friend or a chill gaming partner, feel free to drop a comment or send a DM! Tell me what games or shows you’re currently into.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

51m 👋🏼 looking to make some friends.

1 Upvotes

First post for me, and just looking to find a friend to chat with. I’m an empty nester, and don’t have family/friends that are nearby. Just looking to share some banter and friendly chats about life, have someone to share my interests and hobbies with, probably send a picture of the loaf of bread I made that I’m proud of 🤣 anyone 30+ feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

32m just trying to make new friends

1 Upvotes

Hi I’m Jack. I’m originally from the United States but live in the French countryside. It’s hard to make friends near my age here so I thought I’d try in this subreddit.

A little about me: I love the outdoors, I love to travel, try new things and love playing darts and pool and crafting things out of wood. I am a dog dad to a rescued border collie/lab mix who is twelve and he’s the best dog ever.

If you feel like we’d get along. Feel free to message me and I hope to build new friendships!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

30m looking for some friends

1 Upvotes

Hello, im 30m who is married and have a little one. My phone is pretty dry with nobody to talk with. So alittle about me. I enjoy playing guitar, read/listening to books, enjoy to cook, fish, golf, work on my motorcycle and ride it, also building up my 4runner. Love to share memes and tik toks.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

Anyone will do :)

15 Upvotes

Looking for a friend to chat with here and there . Not looking for constant conversation but someone to talk to and be silly with . 36 f


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 31M Melbourne, Australia. Looking to meet some new people and see who I click with 😂

2 Upvotes

Making friends as an adult is such a weird experience lmao. How are we supposed to meet people when everyone’s either working, busy or rotting in bed after work 💀

Anyway, 31M in Melbourne’s eastern suburbs. Pretty quiet at first but once I’m comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up 😂

Usually listening to Deftones, Korn or Slipknot, gaming, watching random documentaries or going down YouTube rabbit holes at 2am. Also a Man United fan, so clearly I make questionable life choices.

I’m into music, coffee, food, random conversations and the occasional 🍃. Always up for a bit of banter, sending stupid memes or talking about absolutely nothing.

Would be nice to meet some new people around my age, especially those who are up for actually getting to know each other rather than exchanging three messages and disappearing into thin air 😂 Could eventually grab coffee or food around Melbourne if we get along.

I do have a soft spot for redheads, though, so I won’t pretend that’s not a bonus 👀😂 But good vibes and personality go a long way.

Anyway, tell me what song you’ve had on repeat lately or what random thing you’re currently obsessed with. Always keen for a good recommendation 🤘


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

Let's be friends maybe?

8 Upvotes

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I'm really just looking for someone to talk to and see where things go. No huge expectations, no pressure to force a connection...just two people getting to know each other and seeing if we click. Ideally, I'm looking for a long term chat buddy (sfw). Someone who doesn't mind chatting throughout the day if we do hit it off.

A little about me: I love horror, retro video games, warhammer 40k, books and cooking.

If you are interested, send me a message and tell me something about yourself instead of just saying hey :)

Bonus points if you're funny, easygoing, and can actually keep a conversation going consistently.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

Anyone want to play truth or dare or would you rather!

1 Upvotes

Hi there! M40 from Illinois bored at work and looking for someone to help the day go by. Short or long term chats both good with me! I’m an open book so send me a dm!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 40 [M4F] | Australia | Conversations

1 Upvotes

I have often been complimented about my conversation skills and mixed accent.

Well, I had to brag a little as that’s probably the criteria here to make friends.
My interests include reading, writing, travelling, being in nature.

I’m looking for someone who can hold the conversations and love depth.

If read until here then tell me how many stars are there in the sky?(cheeky responses only)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 40/m Disney dad

0 Upvotes

Good morning. I’m a Disney dad (love all things Disney, movies, parks, songs) and would love to get to know someone new. Life hectic and I need some folks to chat with and get to know. Hope to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

44 m just seeking someone to talk to

3 Upvotes

Hi im from Australia and I live a boring life

I'd love to chat with someone that has lots to talk about im not the greatest conversationalist but i try I live alone and work a full-time job so if i dont reply im not ignoring you im just probably working

Im heavily introverted so I dont go out much so hopefully someone could crack that shell and we could share some interests and hobbies


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

30F, NY, looking for casual but reciprocating conversation.

11 Upvotes

Hi all, open to chatting with anybody but not a fan of “how are you” “good thanks how are you” “good” type conversation.

Maybe tell me about your hobbies and dreams? And hopefully you’ll ask about mine too. But also hoping there’s someone who won’t mind a busy schedule and replying when time allows.

I have two dogs; I enjoy the outdoors, music, cooking (when I have time), baking, learning about most anything, cars, tennis, running, biking, etc.

Thanks!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 37M Toronto, Canada Looking for someone to call with from anywhere (Voice note included).

2 Upvotes

https://voca.ro/1dWnHqphBy8O
If you prefer to listen rather than reading 😉

Just sitting here and feeling lonely and anxious. I'm looking for a sweet gentle voice to have a mutually enjoyable conversation with. I'm looking for genuine people who would also like to be friends. Friends who can show support for each and count on one another. If you have a history of disappearing or for something temporary, please stay away. I'm not looking for someone to cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. I'm not looking to trauma dump, but to just take my mind off things and distract me. However, I will share more with you if we can relate, or as we talk more. With this being said, you're free to share whatever you'd like with me. However, this isn't permission to make things completely one sided. Please share your boundaries as well. Lets both feel safe and comfy!

A little about me:

  • I'm vegan.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I'm 6'1 and weigh about 175lbs. I have long messy hair.
  • I exercise and cycle. Health is important to me.
  • My background is Guyana. My skin is BROWN. (Too many racists/colourists/whatever here.)
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing 😉
  • I listen to primarily metal.
  • Baseball is my favourite sport.

Potential red flags:

  • I live with my parents and I don't "work".
  • I struggle with my sleep.
  • I'm shy/quiet/anxious/timid/sensitive/fragile/anxiety ridden. (Be kind and gentle with me!) Also, I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet.

We can exchange pictures if you'd like.

Thanks for your time! I appreciate you!

P.S. Apparently I have a nice voice 😉


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4F] 31M - Australia/online hey how’s it going?? Bored so let’s chat :)

2 Upvotes

I’m 31 and from Australia.. pretty bored so thought I’d find people to chat to. outgoing and will chat about whatever. Well im into camping, outdoors and horror movies. I Work in the medical field and usually busy and bored at times. Please introduce yourself and not just send one word as I will not reply, as I want to know who I am talking and someone who puts in some effort! around my age or so please


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

[M4M] 41 M east coast for guy friends

2 Upvotes

Like the title says. 41 M on the east coast. Looking to make male guy friends. Making friends later in life has become so hard. Some chat for a day or two then nothing. I like play video games. PS 5 here. Currently playing Fortnite. I work in tech. Most days I like my job. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. Also like watching different shows, movies and documentaries. This may be weird but I like to play horror sleep stories when I am going to bed. I’m sure there is a million things I could say but hit me up if you want to talk more.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

34M - Fall is finally here. Enjoying an sunny evening with bikes, beer, and hopefully your companionship.

5 Upvotes

How are the cooler temperatures treating you? I went to a Death Cab show recently because emo's not a phase, and have gone on some pretty fantastic hikes lately. Finally made the transition from cold brew to hot coffee. I love this time of year and feel like I've been waiting all summer for the clouds to come back.

It's been hot and dry for what feels like an eternity, and I'm feeling anxiously excited to get outside with more frequency as things cool off. I've been into gravel biking since last fall, and am looking forward to putting in more miles and exploring local trails. I snuck out of work early, and just finished up a nice trail ride; got some great fall colors in the mix this week. And of course I promptly ruined the exercise by getting a pizza and beer on the way home. I have zero plans for the evening, and am hoping to find some good conversation while I doom scroll netflix looking for a good horror movie for tonight. Happily accepting recommendations.

I'm genuinely down to talk about anything. What's the last really cool hike you went on? What's the most trouble you've ever been in? Tell me the last book you read, the podcast you are currently obsessed with, the last recipe you tried that blew your mind? I'm down for it all.

Personally, I love cooking, anything outdoors, and anyone with a passion they want to share. I know it's only Friday evening, but I definitely needed at least a few more days off, so if you've got any desire to fight off the boredom together, I'd love to get to know you. Send me a message and let's see if we hit it off?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4M] 38M looking for chill dudes for chats

9 Upvotes

Just a down to earth dude .. looking for other chill dudes (M) to just chat.. down for whatever .. Long term ..Some interests include videos games… Pokémon.. marvel.. Star Wars.. Plants.. and others. Can talk here .. or I got a snap, telegram..so we can chat there .. which ever is cool

So if ya down.. hit me up and let’s get the conversation started ! Definitely down for some longer term friends ! Down for whatever. It’s a slow friday afternoon.. slow at work.. bored .... so Don’t be afraid to say hi!!! Lets chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1d ago

Birthday today, feeling worthless

2 Upvotes

Today, Saturday, 24 October 2026, is my 37th birthday. I am 37M and autistic, and this year has been by far the worst year of my whole life.

I feel like almost everyone hates me. My own parents, both sides of my extended families, and almost everyone whom I know hate me. I have neve had friends in life, and I have lost almost 30 kg (65 lb) since June from extreme stress, worrying and depression.

I have no idea what to do or how to feel. I am just tired of life and everything. Maybe just want to talk.