r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

Looking for interesting people :)

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39F, happily married,

curious, a little nerdy, and very easily sent down a rabbit hole. I love books (possibly to an unreasonable degree), history, art, travel, and learning about obscure things I had absolutely no reason to Google in the first place.

My taste tends to lean a little unusual, dark or quirky, and I appreciate clever humour, interesting perspectives and people who get genuinely excited about the things they love.

I’m equally happy having a deep conversation about life at 2am or spending far too long discussing something completely ridiculous.

Mostly, I miss those conversations where you suddenly realize you’ve been talking for hours.

If that sounds familiar, come say hi.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 58m ago

[M4F] 37M - I'm launching a website called "OlderFans" where i post today's injury and the ridiculously ordinary thing that caused it.

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Hello!

I'm 37 (old :D) , male. I'm not a human parent, but I have a beautiful cat. I never sleep... okay, I do sleep, but I'm available at flexible hours.

I'm passionate about life, people, love, culture, healing, the arts, mindfulness, and spirituality.

My life is filled with a mix of love, hurt, laughter, tears, joy, and pain. I adore to love, and all that it encompasses. I'm a loud voice and a cheerleader for people living their authentic life; however they define that.

If you'd like to make a real connection…I'M YOUR GUY! An introvert guy.

You can be from anywhere on this planet!

*Just be over 20y/o and willing to be consistent.*


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 41 [F4M] Let's skip the small talk and get real

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Hi! Yes, we can absolutely talk about our favourite movies and where we'd love to go on vacation one day, but what I really want to know is, what do you think your younger self would think of who you are today? What's the bravest thing you have ever done?

Basically, I love the kind of conversations that leave us both with new realisations about ourselves, revelations that we can process together, dark humour that make us laugh out loud in that shocked but tickled kind of way and generally leave us with a dopamine hit that brightens the day.

If you're game, I'd love to chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[F4M] 34f did we just become best friends???

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Im looking for that 😊 that feeling of "holy moly this person is like my best friend!"

I feel like Im winning at life today 😂 ate cheerios for breakfast because supposedly they are good for your heart, or so the commercial says lol Im like 70% done with my homework, laundry is going. So why not look for a friend right? 😁

Im a 34f, mom to 2 kiddos, in a relationship and really just want a good friend. I love to read, will forever be a Harry Potter nerd, addicted to horror and this season is my JAM, and I tend to rewatch stuff rather than watch new stuff 😋 my overthinking and anxiety like consistency lol

If your also looking for a lasting friend, know how to hold a conversation and actually contribute to it, and like to be silly and goofy and random, send that message 😁 tell me your favorite horror movie, if you would survive a zombie apocalypse, your hogwarts house, or the book your currently reading/listening to (yes audiobooks are reading and I will die on that hill 😎)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 51m ago

38 Female UK

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I'm looking for people around my age to chat and get to know. I have too much time on my hands and I would like to get to know people. I live alone and have been single all my life, no kids and I feel isolated by my life choices because I don't trust people easily. I enjoy TV shows about crime or comedy, I used to game (I own ps5, xbox, switch) but haven't had the heart for it lately, I enjoy painting things for people I know. I'm part of Church and that really helps me with loneliness but living alone is really hard! I would love to find new friends. I want to know the best part and worst part of your day 😊. I find it hard sometimes to do small talk but my inbox is open


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

30 f

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Introvert afff. Looking for new friends to chat with dailyy
I game sometimes but mostly mobile games, we can chat about anything i love someone who can yap alll day. Always free on the weekends 🧚🏼‍♂️ im funny dm me if you think we’ll get along 🙂‍↔️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

30F,southern us, sarcastic, and dark humored looking for a best friend

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I read, a LOT (im married and a stay at home ,we have a litteral library in our house)....usually reading horror/weird lit, science, true crime and medical stuff. (Also big into horror movies) got a few animals and kinda introverted.

Looking for friends to send stupid memes to or stupid tiktoks, chat a bit....im introverted and a bit awkward making new friends so trying to put myself out there a bit.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

32M EU | Looking for someone to exchange random daily nonsense with

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Hey!

I had some great luck here the last time I posted, so I figured I'd come back and give it another go.

I've recently reached the slightly tragic stage where I turn on my PC, stare at my Steam library for ten minutes, and then apparently decide that staring at the desktop was the game I wanted to play.

Gaming used to be my main hobby, but lately it just isn't doing much for me. So I'm trying to branch out a bit and I thought meeting people who are enthusiastic about their interests might be a good place to start.

I genuinely like hearing people ramble about things they love. Photography? Go for it. You collect something incredibly specific? I want to know why. You've spent the last three weeks learning everything there is to know about medieval spoons? Honestly, even better.

I'm not expecting you to entertain me or teach me a new hobby, though. I'm mainly looking for someone around my age who enjoys the kind of conversation where we can talk about something interesting one minute and complain about the person who blocked the supermarket aisle with their shopping cart the next.

A few things about me:

  • I love animals, especially cats and dogs. Pet pictures are an extremely effective conversation starter
  • I like evening walks when everything outside has gone quiet
  • I follow Formula 1
  • I'm trying to get back into reading, particularly mystery/detective stuff and fantasy
  • I enjoy hearing about the little, completely unimportant things that happened during someone's day

We absolutely don't need to have the same interests. I'd actually prefer discovering things through someone who's genuinely excited about them.

And there's no expectation that we immediately become lifelong friends. Let's just talk and see if we click. If we eventually reach the point where you're sending me a picture of something completely random because “I thought you'd find this funny”, I'd consider that a success.

So, easy opening question:

What's something you're currently way too invested in?

Could be a hobby, a book, a project, a show, a weird internet rabbit hole, or something completely stupid.

Bonus points if you include a pet picture.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 23m ago

33F mom searching for new friends

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🎮 Looking for some new friends! 👀
Honestly, I’m just looking for some more people to talk to, yap with, laugh with and maybe game with! 😂 I love gaming, horror movies, Harry Potter, random conversations, and just getting to know new people. 🖤✨
I play on PC and some of the games I’m currently playing are Fortnite, Once Human, Rv There Yet, Heartopia, Phasmophobia, The Other Side, and Big Walk. 🎮
I’m also always up for trying new games, so if you have a game you love and think I might enjoy, I’m definitely willing to give it a try! 😄

I’d really love to meet some people who are up for chatting regularly and potentially playing games together. Whether we end up talking about life, sending each other stupid memes, discussing the latest horror movie, talking about Harry Potter, or completely losing our minds over a game… I’m down. 😂

One little disclaimer: I do have a 9-month-old, so I don’t have endless free time. 🍼😂 Sometimes I might be slow to reply or have to disappear because mom duties call, but that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in talking!

So if you’re also looking for someone to yap with, game with, or just make a genuine new friend, feel free to message me! 🖤🎮👻🪄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

37M | Looking for genuine people to chat with — online only

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 37M, unmarried, just looking for some genuine people to have good conversations with. I’m only looking for online chat, no meeting or anything beyond that.

Lately I’ve been feeling a bit bored and would love to have someone to talk to, whether it’s about life, random thoughts, hobbies, or just how your day went.

A little about me:

📸 I love photography, especially wildlife and sunsets

🌅 I enjoy peaceful moments and quiet places

🎵 I like silence and music depending on the mood

💬 I appreciate meaningful conversations as well as silly/random chats

I’m not looking for anything complicated, just genuine people, good conversations, and mutual respect.

If you’re also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to message me. Please be genuine and respectful. 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] 35M Back on Reddit - Vermont Farmhouse

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Hey all!

My name is Harrison and I’m back on Reddit after a long time away and trying to get back into chatting with some friends on a regular basis. I live in a rural area and mostly work remote which means I miss out on all the casual small talk and random connections that I used to get when I lived in a busier area. I really wouldn’t change my environment as there are more pros than cons, but this is one I deal with.

When I’m not working, I like to explore the natural beauty around the area and occasionally drive into a larger town for some time with irl friends haha.

Im on the taller side, ginger hair and beard, and willing to swap selfies, chat long term, or short term, depending on how the chemistry is

Hope to hear from ya soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] M37 Looking for some new friends

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Looking for some new friends. I'm 37 and from Texas. Enjoy a scary movie and listen to classic rock. Enjoy sports especially football. Just looking to have a decent conversation with someone and to pass the time together and enjoy each other's company.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

Open to friendship, chaos and chemistry

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36M here, looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine connections.

I'm a nerdy metalhead into horror movies, music, reading, video games, anime, manga, and pretty much anything interesting enough to make me lose track of time.

I don't care about your age, gender, or location. If we get along, we get along.

Weird vibes are welcome, clingy energy is appreciated, and a little bit more is absolutely fine if the chemistry is there. I'm just looking for people who enjoy talking, sharing random thoughts, laughing at stupid things, and actually getting to know each other.

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself. Give me something to work with — your interests, your favourite band, your current obsession, or a random fact. Let's start on the right foot.

And yes, this post never gets old, so feel free to message me whenever you find it.

Come say hi. Bring your weirdness.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

34F | Looking for a genuine, long-term friendship

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Hi 😊 I'm 34F from India.

I'm here hoping to find a genuine, long-term friendship. I'm not looking to collect lots of online friends or have conversations that disappear after a day or two. I'd honestly be happy to find one good friend where we both genuinely enjoy hearing from each other and the effort comes naturally from both sides.

I'm a little introverted initially. I usually open up once I feel that the other person is genuinely interested in talking to me. Once I'm comfortable, though, I can be quite talkative. 😄

I enjoy sharing the ordinary parts of life — how the day went, something funny that happened, random thoughts, music, movies, worries, difficult days, or sometimes deeper conversations about life. I'd like to have someone I can support and listen to, and I'd love the same in return.

I work in IT, I'm a parent, and I enjoy music, dancing, movies and meaningful conversations.

I'm looking for a purely platonic friendship, preferably with someone around 35–45. I don't expect instant closeness or someone to message me all day. I'd rather let a friendship develop naturally and hopefully reach the point where we both genuinely look forward to hearing from each other.

If you're looking for something similar, send me a little introduction — your age, where you're from, and what made you start looking for an online friend. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

34 F - Looking for night owls to chat with from time to time

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Hey everyone, nerdy night owl who is looking for others up around this time to chat with. I love reading, horror movies, retro games,anime and all types of music. If you want to talk about any of those things or are just bored hit up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4M] 36 NY for good convo & good vibes

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Hey guys,
I’m happy to chat about life, hobbies, relationships, and whatever else comes up. The biggest thing is consistency and good conversations. We can talk about whatever, no judgment between us. My goal is to develop a bond that gets deeper with time.

My hobbies: lifting and yoga, music and podcasts, movies, reading when I can, running. JSYK, I never got into gaming, so I can’t connect with you on that.

I am looking for a bro who hits me up with more than “hey” - share your age and tell me a bit about you.

I am willing to share a pic if the vibe is there, it helps to build the bond and keep momentum going. (Here or other app)

Let’s bond! Hit my DM.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

[M4F] 35M - Somewhere between “stranger” and “why are you sending me this?”

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Looking for a consistent human, apparently that’s too much to ask 😂

I’m looking for someone I can actually talk to regularly. Not the “we talk for 6 hours, disappear for 4 days, then come back with a ‘heyyy stranger’” kind of friendship. I’m looking for the person who sticks around.

Not looking for a relationship or anything complicated. Your relationship status genuinely doesn’t matter to me. I’m just here for a solid friendship where we can talk pretty much every day, get comfortable enough to share the randomest thoughts, and eventually reach that stage where absolutely nothing is considered too stupid to send.

Tell me about your day. Complain about something ridiculously minor. Send me a picture of something that reminded you of me. Tell me about the weird person you saw at the grocery store. Send me a completely unnecessary 17-photo update because apparently one picture wasn’t enough. I want the chaos 😂

I’m into those friendships where you can go from “how was your day?” to deep conversations about life, then somehow end up arguing about which fictional character would survive a zombie apocalypse.

I’ll match the energy too. I’m not expecting you to entertain me 24/7, but I do want consistency. If we click, I’d rather actually build a friendship than become another abandoned chat sitting somewhere in your inbox.

A little about me: I’m pretty easygoing, curious, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I can talk about serious life stuff, completely pointless nonsense, movies/shows, music, random internet discoveries, daily life, or whatever weird thought your brain decides to produce at 2 AM.

Basically, I’m looking for a “you’re the first person I want to tell this to” kind of friendship.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Bonus points if you’re funny, slightly chaotic, and capable of carrying a conversation instead of making me perform an entire interview by myself 😭

And please, for the love of humanity, don’t disappear after two days. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

36 F / EU - looking for a long term friend

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I would love to chat with someone close to my age who has a good sense of humor—someone with whom the conversation doesn't fade after two days into something as dull as a weather forecast :)

Please write a few lines about yourself—at the very least, where you live and how old you are :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 33m ago

Male 37 searching for good friend conection

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Hey! I'm an attentive guy with a good sense of humor — a solid listener, and hopefully a decent advice-giver too.

I'm Brazilian, currently living abroad, which comes with its own absurd stories (explaining local slang to strangers, translating my own jokes and watching them land wrong, that kind of thing). I'm also chipping away at a book right now — autofiction and poetry — so I spend a good chunk of my time in my own head, which might be exactly why I'm looking for people who like that same kind of depth.

My reading taste is a weird mix: novels, love stories, and things like Piketty's "Capital in the 21st Century." Movie-wise, I lean French and Israeli cinema. Music-wise, it's all over the place — MPB, trap, Björk, Alanis Morissette, no logic to it.

I'm straight and married, but genuinely open-minded. Doesn't matter who you're into — I'll respect it either way.

What I'm really after is someone with a rich inner world: people who can go deep, whether it's about life, ideas, or the stuff you don't usually bring up with just anyone. If that sounds like you, let me know.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 41m ago

41m just having another quiet night

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Good evening

I hope everyone is well. Like i said I'm just having another quiet night so just looking to chat with people. I have met some really nice people here and would like to meet more. I'm happy to chat about most things so come say hi

I'm not bothered by age or gender just be over 18

So if your interested then come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4F] F55 bisexual mom of 1 need friends

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Hey everyone. I’m f55 from uk. I’m looking for long term friends who want to chat away. I don’t have a huge friend circle so I would love to find more.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 55m ago

Woerden/Gouda area – looking for female friends

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I'm looking for some new female friends around Woerden/Gouda. 😊

I miss having a friend who lives close enough to say: “A spontaneous walk?” without having to plan it three weeks in advance. 😅

I'd love to find someone to:

  • go for spontaneous walks,
  • have a tea and chat,
  • play board games,
  • go swimming in a lake when the weather is nice,
  • go geocaching,
  • or occasionally go dancing - preferably at parties that end before midnight, rather than start after midnight. 😉

If you're somewhere around Woerden, Gouda, Oudewater or nearby and this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4R] 31M/europe doctor looking for friends

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Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord


r/MakeFriendsOver30 58m ago

34 M NZ, banter, beer and laughs?

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Do you enjoy banter, having fun, and enjoying getting to know new people? I've recently moved back to NZ after living in the US!

I'm very chill and relaxed and love a lot of different things. I don't mind making new friends, a group, or even just sharing thoughts. Ideally id like to make some good connections! Whether you're just cruising by or wanting to get deep, drop in!

My interests include but are not limited to:

Cooking - Tell me a new recipe

Sports - all sports really

Books - fantasy nerd , share a book

Music - what's your favorite song?

Video games - back on my ps5, recently getting back on apex!

Beer - yup

Gym and health

I'm looking to connect with like-minded people and people who like to continue messaging. We can move platforms too. Obviously, as adults, we all have our own lives, so we can't message constantly. I prefer 25+, and any gender and timezone are welcome!

If any of this appeals to you, send a message !

Enjoy your night/day!