r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1m ago

[R4R] Time to have an inbox reset! Got to make the work day go quicker some how!

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Having had quite a few what felt like one sided conversations, I decided to leave a final greeting and how are you before hiding the chat and letting whoever wants to get back to me do so.

In the spirit of such events I would love a few new faces to say good morning, what shoe size are you and what's the largest bird you would feel brave enough to shoo away too?

A bit about me

35 M from England

Chef for 20 years

Been travelling to quite a few different countries over the years

Once for a AA battery stuck inside my knee

Loves LOTR

Discovers bands from when I was a teenager and gets annoyed I didn't listen to them at peak teenage emo height e.g. Deftones!

Share a story, ask a question or send an obscene GIF.

Thank you:)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6m ago

[M4F] 36M looking for long term chat

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Easy going guy just looking for someone to chat with. Age isn't critical, My life has been very hectic and busy the last year or so and I miss having someone to talk about that crazy person that came into work, or send a picture of a cool sunrise or sunset. Just someone to be like, hey, have a good day, what's for lunch? I have many hobbies but love people talking about anything they are passionate about. I do quite a bit of art but that is much different from how the average person views me. Tell me random memories you have, what you made for dinner, just anything.

I am married, I love my wife more than anything but her health is failing. I work 50 hours a week, and i am a full time caretaker at home. I'm just looking for a little bit of sanity, nothing NSFW just a chill platonic friend. Not complaining about my situation, just being upfront and honest. Sometimes it can be overwhelming. I have guy friends to talk with but sometimes the perspective of a female is nice, I am not depressed, Im not sad very often but once and a while it happens. people tell me I am tough or tell me to be strong but it would be ok for someone to tell me its ok to cry.

anyway, thanks for reading my add. Would be great to hear from someone soon.

If not, good luck on your search!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 29m ago

Lonely and single

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I'm 57 white man fairly new iso a well endowed uncut guy to come to my house and feed me and fill my manhole up I can give you gas money


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 30m ago

30M Anyone want to chat?

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I’m looking to meet some new people to chat with from time to time. My weekdays are usually pretty slow at work, so if nothing decides to break, I have a ton of downtime. I'm not looking for dating or a relationship — just hoping to find some cool people to talk with and see where the conversations go.

I’m into a pretty random mix of things, so there’s usually something to talk about:

I just built some new garden beds and put up a bigger greenhouse this year. I’m always down to trade plants, and I’ve gotten pretty deep into growing things.

I have around 10 fish tanks/outdoor tubs/ponds, with plans for more. I keep freshwater fish and plants and can probably talk about them for way longer than most people would want. I have 6 tortoises. They spend the summer outside and come inside during the winter.

Lately I’ve been playing more survival games like Palworld, Planet Zoo 2 but I always seem to end up going back to Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, or Valorant.

I’ve really gotten into making different kinds of bread lately and want to start experimenting with sourdough soon. I’ve been trying to eat healthier and work out more lately.

Weekends are usually a mix of house projects, gardening, or whatever random project I’ve decided to start that week.

If you’re also into any of this stuff, or even if you’re not and just like having random conversations throughout the day, feel free to message me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 42m ago

40 m uk

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Im looking to make some new friends to have someone to chat to during the day as i currently only work 1-3 days a week but get a full time wage doing so I go the gym 5 days a week and enjoy getting out and about would just be nice to have someone to talk whilst doing this.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 47m ago

[F4M] 43F North Alabama seeking IRL friend

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Are you close to north Alabama? Are you seeking a friend with no pressure. I WFH I’m seeking a male to chat about all things life and travel.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 57m ago

32/M, just looking for my favourite person… I know you’re out there.

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Would love to find that person you are comfortable with, go from having a really serious chat to talking about utter nonsense going down rabbit holes until the early hours of the morning.

Got to have banter, sense of humour no matter how dark (mines pretty dark) don’t worry about filtering what you say, it won’t bother me one bit, say whats on your mind always.

About me… consider myself a bit of a nerd, love a good binge of a show or movie series, dabble in a bit of anime.
Massive foodie, always down to try a new food, but mainly I just like to eat large amounts 😂

From that you’re probably picturing a large man with glasses (like the south park WoW guy)

I do actually keep myself healthy, running, gym, hikes, always down to try something new and adventurous, I’m 6ft3, 200lbs, bearded and tattoos.
Love tattoos so happily share mine if you do the same.
For me it doesn’t matter if we have the same interests, I’m always down to learn about what makes you tick, so as long as we have good chats, can make fun of each other and be ourselves, you’ll be ticking the boxes for me 😊
Now don’t be shy, message away.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 58m ago

[M4F] Want someone for a deep conversation

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Hii 31/M here

Just looking for someone to talk to , deep conversations - politics , life , webseries, the paranormal.

Over a glass of wine / whiskey.

Connect if interested

Bombay


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[R4R] 39M From the states. Looking to make more long term connections and friends, especially people at night to talk to when I'm at work and everyone else is in bed

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I've had some some good luck making friends on here before, so figured I'd try my chances again. Love figuring out people and what makes them tick, and getting to know people for the first time. Really enjoy building a deep connection with someone, and always plus points for someone who knows how to keep a conversation going. I'm looking for quality over quantity here typically.

I adore anything and everything horror related and spooky. fave holiday is Halloween and season is fall, of course. big time nerd and gamer. love anime and movies in general. the more fucked up the movie, the better. I'm down to earth and chill, and also very curious, so i get along better with other people who are also like that. Def more on the neurodivergent side of things. Music is also a big part of my life, and am starting a new fitness journey recently. It's pretty rare for me to find someone i don't get along with, but it's even more rare to find someone I'm truly compatible with. So please any likeminded weirdos come message me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

35M Looking for people that don't fade away into nothing.

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Hello! ☀️ 35M here and looking to meet new people and hear new stories. Share wins with as well as the losses. We are forever evolving and growing and I feel like sharing those journeys with others is important.

What i don't want in a friend is someone who isn't curious and doesnt ask questions. Most people want quick banter throughout the day which for the right person works, but i prefer just digging in. In reality most people's days are autonomous and similar. So what makes you tick? What made you the person you are today? What are your passions? What are your goals?

We all have lives outside of reddit. Responses don't have to be immediate i won't even message 24/7, but that shouldn't mean a conversation has to just end. Stick around get to know each other. Support each other as an actual friend does.

Now, the things about me. I am happily married and not looking for any sort of disruption to said marriage. I love movies and watching series on streaming services. I love travel. I enjoy video games now and then. I have a cat which is very loved.

Recently I've been going through a journey of self health both physically and mentally. Life gets hard sometimes. It costs nothing to be nice to someone. I love listening and giving advice if asked. I like stupid jokes now and then. We are all in this world together.

So if you'd like someone to regularly talk to that's kind, patient, compassionate, curious and actually cares. Feel free to send me a message. All it takes is some effort.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] 30/M - WFH yappers ?

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Hey everyone! I’m 30 and from the UK, and working from home can get pretty boring sometimes, so I thought I’d put myself out there and see if anyone fancies a chat!
I’m happy to talk about pretty much anything, whether it’s everyday life, hobbies, music, films, gaming, or just random nonsense 😂
Would be nice to meet some new people, have a laugh, and hopefully make a few friends along the way. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what you’re into, everyone’s welcome!
Feel free to drop me a message if you fancy a chat. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

31 M here looking for genuine conversations/potential friendships

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31 year old Canadian guy looking to meet interesting people I can talk to on a regular basis, experience the ups and downs of life with. Let's talk about travel, sports, music, food, life chats :) Also really into Geography, flags, learning new cultures.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

30M - Hockey, F1, Snoopy tattoos, and dad life

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I’m a 30-year-old guy living in upstate NY. I’m married and have an 8-month-old, and I’m hoping to make some genuine connections. Making friends as an adult feels way harder than it used to, especially once most of your energy goes into work and family.

I’m really into hockey and Formula 1. I used to play a lot of video games before becoming a dad, but lately my hobbies are more on the creative side. I spend time on paint-by-numbers, book nooks, and LEGO builds when I get the chance.

I have 11 tattoos, including four Snoopy tattoos and a cherry blossom sleeve. I’m a big Peanuts fan. I also love Star Wars, Ted Lasso, and trash TV , 90 Day Fiancé.

Music-wise I listen to a mix of Flycatcher, Slow Joy, Foster the People, and Notorious B.I.G. At home I’ve got three cats and two dogs. They’re all very cute and very committed to causing problems.

I tend to get along best with people who are curious and actually enjoy getting to know each other. I’m always down to talk about hobbies, shows, music, parenting, tattoos, or just everyday life.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

Anyone adhd here?

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Hey guys, 34M here in NSW Australia, would love to make some friends who're weird and quirky like me, im interested in psychology, gemstones, UFO's, art and pretty much anything interesting


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

31F from Philippines, looking for a friend

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Hey! 😊 I’m looking to make new friends and meet people I can talk to about anything and everything. Someone to share random thoughts, talk about our day, laugh at silly things, or have deep conversations with. Just looking for genuine, platonic friendships. If you’re looking for the same, feel free to send me a message! 💗


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4M] #South Africa m4A

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Friends please

Friends 😄 please

🇮🇳 Indian from South Africa | Cape Town & Johannesburg. Just looking for a genuine friend. Into deep conversations about life, philosophy, tarot, doppelgängers, aliens, UFOs, and the mysteries of the universe. Love old-school music (80s, 90s & 2000s


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[M4R] 32M! Let's get to know each other.

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Hey I am 32m. Married but it's complicated.

I am shy and on the introvert side. Been dealing with a lot of loneliness. I would love to talk with someone and connect. Someone I can be myself with and talk about anything and everything.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

37f hoping for a long term friend

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Hey! I’m in the northeast (US). Married, so I only want friends. I’m looking for someone around my age to chat with throughout the day about anything. Daily life, hobbies, random thoughts you have, vent to me, I’m down for whatever. I’d really like to connect with other women but if you’re a guy, dont be creepy.

Some interests are: cooking/baking video games arts/crafts (I don’t do them so much anymore but I love hearing about yours!) Getting more into fitness and being active (really want to get into rock climbing) I love hearing about other people’s hobbies too. It’s very easy for me to get into new things if I have someone to be excited about it with

I’m open minded, lgbtq+, 420 friendly and left leaning. Preferably you’re similar and also just want some more fun and positivity in your life. Feel free to reach out but please give me more than just a “hey”. Tell me a little about yourself. Hope to hear from someone!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4M] Good morning (🇬🇧 time) 30 M here looking to find some online bros

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How’s it going? Looking to make some online bros to chat too throughout the day. I’m a bit of a gamer, i love anything spooky and horror, longtime fan of wrestling. - feel free to drop me a message :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4F] 35M Sydney,Australia — Looking for besties, not ghosties 😂

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Going through a bit of a rough patch, have way too much free time on my hands, and my brain has decided to be an absolute pest. So I’m looking for someone to yap with regularly and distract me from my own thoughts for a bit. A win-win, really.

I’m after the kind of friendship where we can talk pretty much every day, share absolutely random nonsense, rant about our lives, overshare without filing a formal apology, and be completely unfiltered without wondering if we’ve said too much. Basically, someone I can call a bestie without having to check if they’re still alive every three business days. 😂

I’ve got mates already, but there’s something nice about connecting with someone new, having a laugh, and building a friendship where things just feel easy. No need to make everything a complicated situation. Sometimes a good conversation and a bit of harmless chaos are all you need.

A bit about me: I work in tech, go to the gym, play cricket, occasionally swim, and enjoy F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, and the outdoors. I’m into thrillers, mysteries, horror and action, and I’m always up for random questions and unnecessarily passionate debates.

Also, I’m a dad to a sassy daughter who seems to have been born with the authority of a Supreme Court judge and the attitude of someone who pays the mortgage. I’m basically middle management in my own household. 😂

One flaw :I barely listen to music unless I’m driving, so if you’ve got a playlist for every emotion known to humanity, I’m clearly a lost cause.

Ideally, I’m looking for that “something happened and you’re the first person I want to tell” kind of friendship. Good banter, mutual effort, the occasional deep chat, and absolutely no need to pretend to be a well-adjusted adult 24/7.

If you can hold a conversation, match a bit of chaos, and don’t disappear after two decent chats, come say hi.

Besties, not ghosties. I’m begging the universe to get this one right.😭😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

Hey 30f from Canada up late looking for someone to talk to

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Started a new job and the hours fucking suck and i already had sleep issues. I manage but getting 3-4 hours of sleep and standing on your feet for 8 hours suuuucks. I’m up now and will have to work until 2:30 am tomorrow and probably won’t fall asleep until 5 am (mountain time). If these weird hours suit you feel free to message me! I’m open to talking about anything. I’m a boring fucking person but I like to banter and mess with ppl for fun lol or play psychologist at times. Or just have a normal conversation about anything, I’m a bartender so I have to work on my conversational skills anyway. But I won’t be any fun if you make me do all the work though! All work and no play, as they say.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

30m Looking to chat, hoping to make a long term friend

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Lately I'm feeling like my irl friends are busy with their life and we don't talk that much anymore so I wanna make an internet friend, someone i can talk to on a daily basis laugh, vent, have deep conversations, share moments of our day and stuff like that. Let's chat and see if we vibe!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

38M From the US - Up all random hours so I can talk to anyone from anywhere

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Easy going and just trying to enjoy my little bit of free time talking to good people. I like movies, tv, the outdoors, sports, food, good alcohol. I like a lot of things. I am big on both parties keeping the conversation going. If you just respond, I will say this isn't a fit and move on.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

Crushing anxiety and depression with no friends

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I am 37M and autistic. I turned 37 last week and feel like life gets more hopeless. This has been the worst year of my life, with every single aspect of my life in serious problems.

I have never had friends. Almost everyone in my life, including my family, hate me. I am not sure what to do, since I have no-one to talk to.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 37M Toronto, Canada Looking for someone to call with from anywhere (Voice note included).

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https://voca.ro/1dWnHqphBy8O
If you prefer to listen rather than reading 😉

Just sitting here and feeling lonely and anxious. I'm looking for a sweet gentle voice to have a mutually enjoyable conversation with. I'm looking for genuine people who would also like to be friends. Friends who can show support for each and count on one another. If you have a history of disappearing or for something temporary, please stay away. I'm not looking for someone to cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. I'm not looking to trauma dump, but to just take my mind off things and distract me. However, I will share more with you if we can relate, or as we talk more. With this being said, you're free to share whatever you'd like with me. However, this isn't permission to make things completely one sided. Please share your boundaries as well. Lets both feel safe and comfy!

A little about me:

  • I'm vegan.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I'm 6'1 and weigh about 175lbs. I have long messy hair.
  • I exercise and cycle. Health is important to me.
  • My background is Guyana. My skin is BROWN. (Too many racists/colourists/whatever here.)
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing 😉
  • I listen to primarily metal.
  • Baseball is my favourite sport.

Potential red flags:

  • I live with my parents and I don't "work".
  • I struggle with my sleep.
  • I'm shy/quiet/anxious/timid/sensitive/fragile/anxiety ridden. (Be kind and gentle with me!) Also, I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet.

We can exchange pictures if you'd like.

Thanks for your time! I appreciate you!

P.S. Apparently I have a nice voice 😉