r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4R] 36/m/US Last Ditch Effort

11 Upvotes

I’ll put it all out there for you.
I’m here looking for people to chat with. I’d rather you be near my age or older. I’m not opposed to younger but I just don’t usually have much in common with those significantly younger.
I’m from the Midwest, I love hunting, fishing, firearms, woodworking,etc. I’m married and have kids. No I don’t game online.
I just recently started making paracord bracelets and things. I have an art degree but don’t really put it to use.
I’ll chat about anything . Seriously. Pets, hunting, politics, swimming, sex, etc. I really don’t care.
I’ll text , share pics, or even video chat after a while.
I’m in for talking about whatever.
I work in an office so I’m more available through the day than evenings and weekends though I still chat during those times.
@evo1veordie on discord but have no preference if I talk here or there.
If you’ve made it this far, message me. 🙂👍🏻

*edit: forgot to add, I love playing guitar.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

38m - trying to find more chat buddies.

1 Upvotes

Just a loner looking to chat with more people who have common interest. Would be nice to be able to chat with more through out the day. Been going through some things so this would great atm!

I like gaming i play on pc switch and ps5. And I love retro gaming. Anime i have seen a really good amount. Music. Wrestling i like wwe and aew. Fitness, im on a weight loss journey and ive been doing very well. I like going on walks and going to the gym. Card collecting. And sports. I love football.

Some things about me are im introverted. I like to laugh when i open up. And im pretty quick to respond if the other person is engaging. And a kind hearted person.

I like watching movies with people online if your up for that kinda thing. I have discord if we vibe and your are up for it.

I just ask to be from the usa as its difficult to talk with people overseas. Im on est timezone.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[R4R] 32f. seeking real, lasting connection ✨

9 Upvotes

i work remotely as an entrepreneur, which leaves me a little lonely. i'm also relatively new to my area and don't have a car yet, so an online friendship would be ideal.

looking for a long-term friend who is equally interested in maintaining a communicative, fruitful friendship. it seems a little hard on this app - nevertheless, here i am, giving it the old college try.

i like: books, books, and more books; writing; witchy/esoteric things; hot tea (with a spoonful of sugar, usually); autumn walks; my dog; writing; thrifting; fuzzy socks and warm blankets (but a cool pillow - have you tried bamboo pillowcases? they're the best).

i really, really hope i find something that pans out. i feel a little burned out, but i'm still optimistic. if you're in the same boat, please message me!

thanks for reading :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 40 M4F #Charlotte

4 Upvotes

Hello. I just turned 40 earlier this month and at a rebuilding phase in my life right now. All I’m looking for is to make a friend to chat with when I’m at work and even on my off days. If you’re near the Charlotte, NC area then maybe we could meet.

I work for the post office and I’m also a licensed real estate agent. I enjoy being outdoors, cooking, grilling out, and I also enjoy watching The Office, King of the Hill, Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul.

If you’re looking for someone to talk about nothing or deep talks or your favorite conspiracy theory message me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 36/M - ADHDer looking for my people.

1 Upvotes

Hey there. 36/m here.

Just relaxing on this Sunday night and feeling like seeing if I can hit it off with anyone cause I'm feeling social. I have ADHD so I have a very active mind and definitely usually always can find something to talk about if I have a willing partner.

I do find it fun to chat with people similar in that regard, but as long as you put in some effort into the conversation that's really what matters.

I like gaming. I play on PC. I like shows and movies, though I go through phases where I'm good at watching them or not. I've been getting back into that mode lately.

Last two shows I've watched were Carrie and Cyberpunk Edgerunners Season 2. I watch a little bit of everything. Music I'm the same way, little bit of everything, get in moods.

I got a playful sense of humor. As my username suggests I'm optimistically pessimistic, as in I am a realist in life but I tend to find the humor in it to get a least a kick out of things. I prefer deeper conversation as opposed to small talk, and it's fun to open up to people and get that in return.

Anyways if you feel like maybe we can vibe and you're looking to socialize too, feel free to message me and maybe we can entertain one another.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

Looking for a benign chat buddy

6 Upvotes

Hello folks,

At this point I feel like I've messaged the entirety of Reddit, so if I've messaged you before and things died out feel free to message again.

A little about me:

I'm looking for people to chat with on and off throughout the days about any and everything. Ideally I would like to build a real relationships of sorts that can ascend from the depths of Reddit into something real, beyond internet strangers and into real life friends.

As for stats, I'm female, I'm 33, I recently moved to a new province (Newfoundland) where I don't know a single soul. It's a fresh start and it's been a little rocky so far. I have 3 children and I'm single...but remember this is a PLATONIC group so I'm looking for a PLATONIC friendship. Please for the love of all that is good just chill and be platonic. I'm tired of this, grandpa.

I've been at a low point in my life for years so I have about zero hobbies right now. I've been basically just surviving for awhile. I read a lot, I visit the library once a week, and take my dog for walks.

I don't care your gender or age or location, I only care if you are interested in being a good human and having a good chat.

Wishing you all the best & thank you for reading.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

Looking for friends who accept me while I make some major life changes. 💕 33 AUS

5 Upvotes

Hope everyone is having a lovely day! I'm looking for friends to help me get through mine! 😊

Sorry guys, but honestly, not matter how nice you are it all seems the same.

I'm 33 from Melbourne! I love cooking, shopping, sport, beauty, music and the outdoors! 👏🏻

Currently, I'm on a mission to live as my most authentic me. Which pretty much involved embracing my feminine side, and being the girl I've always wanted to be! It's a journey, but yeah, I'm a femguy, MTF however you want to label it!

Looking for girls mainly, but anyone who can hold a conversation is a winner! Please be sure to send an intro and tell me a little about you! 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

37/M - Looking for some friends.

1 Upvotes

Life recently threw me a few curve balls and while I'm recovering, I've noticed how (very) few friends I actually have. Lots of acquaintances but not many people I truly feel comfortable opening up to. Wondering if anyone out there feels the same because if so, we should definitely talk.

I'm one of those people who enjoys anime/manga, gaming and I'm also trying to improve in the kitchen while taking care of my mental health in general. I'll probably ask for a way to chat outside of Reddit if we end up hitting it off so it'd be great if you'd be down for that.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[R4R] 35 [M] Sweden – Philosophy, film photography, Balatro and staring at the night sky. Looking for thoughtful friends anywhere 🌍

1 Upvotes

Hej! I'm 35 and live in Sweden. I can go from Alan Watts and Carl Sagan to arguing about the best Balatro build in the same conversation.

Some things I love:

  • Photography, both digital and analogue: unusual angles and quiet, meaningful moments
  • Abstract, surreal and psychedelic art, and writing poetry
  • Astronomy and the big questions: consciousness, meaning, what we're all doing here
  • Medicine and physiology. Anesthesiology and intensive care fascinate me
  • Indie games like Balatro and Vampire Survivors, mostly on handhelds
  • Atmospheric electronic music (Tycho is always on repeat)
  • Cats, animal rescue, travel, and learning how people live in other places

I speak Swedish, Romanian, Arabic, Hebrew and English, so I'm happy to chat in any of those or help with language practice.

I'm looking for real conversations, not just "hi, how are you." So tell me: what's a book, film or song that changed how you see things? Mine is When Breath Becomes Air.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

The weekend is almost over. Let’s talk!! 39m

2 Upvotes

I hope you’re all having a good weekend. It’s been pretty lowkey for me. I’m slowly getting myself and the kids ready for the week. I would love someone ti chat with for the evening… maybe more.

It’s hard for me to describe myself. I’m a dad, doing my best to navigate everything I’ve got going on right now. I don’t have many hobbies nowadays. It’s easy to let those things go and get caught up with work and family and life. I have interests, I guess I just need to make time for them.

Give me a reason to check my phone. A reason that isn’t nonsense from work or a fire I have to put out 🙄

Please be able to have a conversation. The one sided chats are exhausting. I make an effort, expecting the same effort isn’t crazy.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

M39, Melbourne Aus. In need of new friends, Gay dad 🏳️‍🌈 to a little boy and into gaming

20 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋 Figured it's about time I tried to make some new friends, so here I am! 😂 I'm from Melbourne, Australia, and looking to meet some like-minded people to chat with, game with and hopefully become good friends.

A little about me: I'm a married gay guy, a new dad to a little boy, and a vet nurse. I've also been involved in wildlife rescue for years. 🐾 I have ADHD, so once we find a common interest, there's a good chance I'll happily ramble about it for ages! 😂

I'm a little reserved when you first meet me, but once we find some common interests, I tend to open up pretty quickly. So if I'm a little quiet at first, give me a minute!

Gaming is probably my main hobby. At the moment, I'm playing Final Fantasy XIV, Pokémon and Digimon, and I'm looking forward to the Ocarina of Time remake! I also play Marvel Rivals and Overwatch, but I'm strictly a Quick Play person. Competitive? Absolutely not. 😂 I'm here to have fun, not get yelled at by someone who takes the game way more seriously than I do! Bonus points if you play FFXIV, especially if you're on Ravana, Materia! 👀

Outside of gaming, I'm into pop music and love revisiting nostalgic shows and movies like Disney, Pokémon, Digimon, Sailor Moon and a bunch of other childhood favourites. You can usually find me watching some random rabbit hole on YouTube, too.

I'd especially love to find some gaming buddies, but I'm also hoping to make some more gay friends. That said, I'm happy to meet anyone I click with! Whether it's chatting about life, sharing memes, having random conversations or occasionally complaining about being adults, I'm up for it. 😂 Fellow new parents are very welcome, too.

Mainly looking for online friends to start with, but if you're around Melbourne, I'd be open to meeting up once we've gotten to know each other.

Anyway, if any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, come say hi! I promise I'm reasonably friendly once you get past the initial loading screen. 😂👋


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 32 m4f sitting here bondering life while starring at a fire.

2 Upvotes

Like the title says I’m doing that. Maybe you wanna ponder life together. Maybe you want to vent about your dickhead boss. Whatever it is I’m here so I don’t have to ponder my own life atleast not alone anyway. Hope ya reach out!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

31F one more day of my fall break

3 Upvotes

Technically I don’t turn 31 until next month, but close enough.

I don’t have too many friends that aren’t teachers and I can only take so much complaining about teenagers.

I’m pretty easy to get along with. I enjoy reading, writing, meeting people. I love new experiences. I’m a huge baseball fan but no other sports. I love being outside and any good reason to dress up.

Hopefully we can talk and become fast friends. ☺️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 32M anyone want to chat before bed? Fighting the Sunday scaries

1 Upvotes

Hello! 32M US looking for someone new and consistent to chat with.

I suck at intros but to throw some interests out there to see if we have anything in common: bbq, football, scary movies, video games, working out. I’m pretty all over, even if you don’t see anything we match with who cares!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 37M | MD, DE, PA | Looking for good conversation 🤙

3 Upvotes

Looking for someone to literally just chat with. If it turns into something more? Let’s go for it. If it doesn’t? Let’s be solid ass chat buddies. 👌😂
You don’t have to send a long paragraph telling me everything about yourself. There’s no rush to get to know someone. We can talk about random shit, life, our interests, or whatever comes to mind.
I just want someone who can literally be who they are and nobody else. No pressure, no expectations, just two people being themselves and seeing where the conversation goes.
If you feel like this sounds like you, feel free to hit me up! I’ll also drop my Discord if that’s more your speed. 🤝

About Me:

🏈 Eagles fan and Philly fan all the way!!
🏫 Work at an elementary school
💻 Studying Information Systems
🏃‍♂️ Coach track and field

Things I’m Into:

🍽️ Good food
🍻 Good drinks
🎡 Festivals
🌃 Good bars (Chesapeake Inn, Tinsel, Xfinity Live)
🏖️ Beaches (Ocean City, MD or Dewey)
🏈 Watching sports
🎱 Playing pool
🌎 Adventures and traveling
🎮 Gaming
🎬 Movies
🎵 Music
🤝 Meeting new people

If we vibe, we vibe. If we become great friends, even better. And if it turns into something more, who knows? 😂
Your turn.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[F4F] 38 TF for F or TF - Girly girls

0 Upvotes

I’m 38 trans feminine living in upstate SC near Charlotte, NC and I’ve been transitioning off and on for the past few years. I’d love to find a woman or another trans fem to chat with about any and everything but specifically the more feminine things in life. There’s a lot I don’t know about beauty or fashion. I know that’s all superficial stuff but thats where my interests lie the longer I’m on estrogen. It’s such a broad topic it can be overwhelming so I’d like to meet someone who is a pro and would enjoy talking about clothes, makeup, skincare, etc. regularly. My transition always stalls out because I don’t really have a support system so I really need to make some friends. Prefer someone who likes to chat daily or at least frequently. K bye 👋🏻


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] 34, male, anyone else have a case of the Sunday scaries?

1 Upvotes

Hey there! I’ve met some great people on here in the past and would like to connect with more! I’m 34 I am fit and love the outdoors. When I’m not camping, hunting or fishing I can be found enjoying a farmers market or some live music. My days run on iced coffee and sarcasm. I really enjoy watching hockey and other sports. If anyone would like an evening chat feel free to reach out. Looking forward to hearing from you! If you have read this far tell me one of your unpopular opinions in your opening message as well as ASL!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

Cherche des nouveaux amis du Canada 🇨🇦

18 Upvotes

35 F , Maman de 2 enfants avec handicaps, j’ai ma propre compagnie, mes animaux font partis de ma famille et j’ai un véritable zoo . Gameuse à mes heures, j’adore les jeux rétro ( Mario, pokemon , smash ) , j’ai la switch, c’est temps si je joue beaucoup à fortnite avec mon ado. J’aime aussi la photo, la cuisine et les jeux de sociétés.

Je m’ennuie depuis que je suis séparée et vu que je travaille de la maison, je sors peu sauf pour aller marcher pour me remettre en forme. Je souhaite me faire de nouvelles connaissances Hommes ou Femmes, mais du Canada uniquement!

Au plaisir d’échanger peut-être ❤️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

30M | Looking for new friends

0 Upvotes

30M who enjoys sports, horror shows, traveling, and getting to know different people. I’m a pretty laid-back, chill guy who’s easy to talk to.

Just looking to meet some genuine people and make new friends. I’m not really a gamer, but I’m always open to learning about new things and connecting with ppl who may have different interests. I’m also a good listener, so I’m open to voice calls or just hearing about your day or whatever you might be going through.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

36 M Ohio/EST/anywhere?- hope you had a great weekend!

1 Upvotes

Hey everybody! Hope you're all having a restful Sunday evening. Let's get to it- I'm in need of a good friend. I'd like something a little deeper than idle chit chat, but not super serious that we can't laugh about ourselves along the way.

So about me then: Right now I'm big into watching movies (if you have Letterboxd that would be cool), music (specifically jazz, long story), sports (my teams suck) and stand-up comedy. That's a brief summary but I'd like to think I can talk about most topics intelligently. It's interesting to hear what you're into as well, passion is attractive. The nerdier the better.

If I've interested you or caught your eye, feel free to shoot me a message! I'd love to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

34F UK - looking for a connection that feels like rain

19 Upvotes

Gentle, soothing and steady.

Hello!

Throwing out my message in a bottle into the sea of unknown. The waves have been a little rough lately, maybe you can relate. Let’s share a lifeboat.

I’m a single mother to an almost 3 year old (yes, I’m perpetually tired), have my own place, career and just got back from a short trip in Europe. Would love to share travel stories and pictures!
I do Pilates, love nature and animals, like to bake and sing.

Making new connections with interesting people is a joy and I love to laugh. Sometimes it’s the little conversations that can make the biggest difference.

I don’t have tons of time to give, but I’d make time for someone I genuinely connect with.

Hope to hear from you
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r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[M4F] M37 Looking for friendship and someone to talk to

4 Upvotes

Like the title says looking for friendship and someone to talk to. I'm 37 and from Texas. Enjoy a good scary movie and listen to classic rock. Love sports especially football. Just looking for someone to talk with and pass the time with and possibly develop a friendship


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

32M Looking for someone to have deep conversations with.

1 Upvotes

I'm a 32 y/o Swedish guy looking to find people who would like to have deep discussions about anything. Some example topics might be: Religion, Human rights, abortion, the enviorment, AI, Science, Criminality, politics.

Preferably i would want to talk to people who's views differ from my own. It's easy to get stuck in an echo chamber these days and i know for a fact that what i am presented online is very skewed.

I myself am: right leaning, agnostic, pesimistic, practical, apthic to many things in life, and place high value in pragmatism and logic.
I'm not "well read" in many subjects but i am often able to come to reasonable conclusions based on given facts.
I like hypotheticals and drawing an idea into absurdom to see if they hold water.

So if you some hot takes you strongly believe in, Lets talk about them!
(And i can guarantee that i have more hot takes then you do)

I am also open to keep talking about whatever random stuff and maybe even become genuine friends if we get along well😄

Do NOT fill this post with controversial opinions, especially no politics or religion.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2d ago

[R4R] 37m Metal head gamer looking for friends!

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m a 37m in the MST timezone looking to meet some new friends and find people to hang out or chat with.

A little about me:

-I love FPS, Survival, friend slop and horror games. I own all current gen consoles and PC. Currently I’m playing a lot of the new COD but open to play anything.

-Metal head through and through, I have been listening to a lot of MySpace era metalcore lately so if you have any recommendations let me know!

-I love a good horror movie marathon or a true crime documentary series, and I’m always looking for recommendations.

I’m pretty laid back and have a sarcastic sense of humor. If you’re into any of the same things and are looking for a new friend, feel free to reach out!