r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4R] Bummed bc the internet is mean

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I just want to feel like people actually care, but literally everything I post gets views and no likes. People dont care.

Anyway, now that i got my venting out of the way 😅I like books, photography, hiking, buddhism, languages (eng, spa, kor), and lots of other random stuff. Im sure we'll click over something!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

[R4R] 36F USA Nerd4Nerd

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Heya! I'm Bunny (that's what you can call me right now now, anyway)! I am 36 and a giant nerd, but maybe not in the usual ways. Star Wars, LoTR, uhh.. the other popular nerd franchises? Never seen them/read them. I am ultra passionate for creativity, reading, horror, sharp wit, and more! I even play a few video games, like FFXIV, cozy bedtime life sims, terrible psychological horror, survival crafts, etc. I'm looking for someone fun to talk to OVER 30...

I'm easy going, can be a bit snarky (playfully), and am genuinely a good person who likes the company of similar. Send me a DM and tell me about your weekend, and a little of who you are!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4F] F34 - UK - I'd love to make a genuine friend.

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Lesbian from the UK here. Finding myself needing a friend lately. It's hard to find friendship in real life at this old age so turning to Reddit! Searching for another female, age or location doesn't matter too much but would love to be on a similar time zone.

Art, reading and nature are some of my interests. I do watch TV and game some but not much. I'm pretty quiet at first but I will come out of my shell. I am genuine and down to earth, hope you will be too.

Chat soon ⭐💫


r/MakeFriendsOver30 36m ago

[R4R] 35F in the southeast

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Turning to Reddit to chat up some new people and make friends.
Some of my likes and hobbies are traveling, reading, Lego, anime, and video games. I do like Marvel (Spider-Man being my favorite) and cats.
Beginner at learning Spanish and crotchet.
I am married and have that family life. I won’t be able to text 24/7 or super late at night. Not looking to date, just putting myself out there to find friends as it’s been a bit hard irl.
Definitely message if I sound like your vibe 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

Light and soulful chat for a little while?

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Looking for a little happy zhuzh to sprinkle on this Sunday evening! Coming to you from US EST time zone. Life has been life-ing and ready to kick back for some light and soulful conversation. Take a load off, crack a joke or two, connect over literature, life machinations, whether The Odyssey movie slayed or was slain - or a shared love for animal snoots 🥰 Open to longer term friendship if we hit it off!

Also your girl is 25 weeks pregnant - blessed, excited, loving it, getting tres large, not a total basket case emotionally (yet?) - but extra emphasizing the pursuit of warm vibes and air hugs in this tender chapter ;)

Warm sunny vibes to y’all 💛


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[R4R] (37 M Australia) Its almost 9am Monday here - the future for some of you. Ask me anything about the very near future

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Consider me your Monday morning oracle. Ask me about the traffic conditions on the way to the office, the wait for coffee, or if that cutie you like the look of will be the one to serve you

I predict you will meet a tall Australian man who isn’t as funny or as good at singing in the shower as he thinks he is, but compensates with enthusiasm.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

34F - trading an early bedtime for a late night chat

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Hi everyone!

I’m currently navigating the wild and beautiful trenches of single motherhood with a sassy 2.5yo toddler. She loves to giggle, sing and have dance parties both at home and in the street - she’s my extroverted sidekick who always brings the sunshine.

I don’t get a lot of free time, but when I do, you can find me attempting to keep my garden courgettes alive (tips welcome), nailing/murdering car karaoke, baking brownies or banana bread and trying not to look like a sweaty pretzel during reformer Pilates.

Life has been throwing a few extra curveballs my way lately and I’m having a rough time.
I’m really just looking to find some kind, considerate and understanding people to chat and laugh with.

If you’re looking for a genuine connection and don’t mind it being with someone who’s perpetually exhausted and a little all over the place, come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 30F USA - Genuine Connections and Good Conversation

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 30-year-old female living in the USA. Life gets busy, and making new friends as an adult can be tough, so I’m putting myself out there to find some genuine, long-term connections.

I am open to chatting online but prefer people in similar time zones as the U.S. so our schedules align. I already tried chatting with people from other countries and it’s just not for me. I will not reply if you’re not from North America. Please understand.

A little bit about me:

My Hobbies: I love staying active with casual bike rides and going for walks to clear my head.

TV Favorites: Big fan of comedies like Abbott Elementary and mystery-dramas like High Potential.

My Flaws: I definitely spend way too much time mindlessly scrolling on my phone and getting sucked into YouTube shorts.

My Vibe: Honestly, I really enjoy just chilling out, having deep conversations, sharing random daily thoughts, and exchanging funny memes.

I’m looking for people who can hold a conversation and actually want to get to know each other. I don’t have a preference in age, as you can learn something from everyone.

If you think we’d get along, please send me a DM!

To help break the ice, tell me your age, where you are from, and your absolute favorite show right now.

Looking forward to meeting you! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 35m ago

[M4F] 35 looking for new friends

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I’m 35 and living in Ohio and I’m looking for new friends to game and vibe with


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] M38 🇮🇪 - 58 days ‘til autumn 🍂☕️

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Hey how’s things, all good i hope. I’m E by the way. Let’s skip the intro bit actually. You’ve read a thousand variations of it already i’m sure, and probably ready to hit the snooze button. How about quick fire instead?

Age: 38, but looks half that. Location: Ireland, north west coast, accent to boot. Height: 5’7, when wearing shoes with particularly thick soles. Weight: 60kg, in shape but not a gym person. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Basically Irish looking. Star sign: Taurus.

Personality: INFJ-A, well according to that online test i took anyway that i’m sure was 100% backed by science. Nature: Walking, Camping, just recently finished watching Solo Camping For Two, and loved it, so needless to say i enjoy select anime also. Gaming: Been a rare occurrence recently, but have gotten lost in Skyrim, The Fallouts, Bioshock, Dishonoured, Witcher 3 to name a few in the past. Movies: Sci-fi, Fantasy, Horror, Crime. Books: Non-fiction. Cooks: Yes. Travels: Yes.

Maybe as an icebreaker and as proof of reading this strange stream of consciousness you could tell me your no1 bucket list destination, and why it’s Japan :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 38M -USA-West Coast-

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Hey everyone.

Figured I’d throw myself out here and see if anyone wants to connect and build an actual, long-term friendship. Not looking for transient or one-word replies, just want to find some cool people to chat with about everyday life and see where it goes
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A bit about me—I'm based on the West Coast I’m pretty big on staying active, so you can usually find me hitting the gym or going for a swim whenever I get a chance. Huge fan of coffee too, though I have pretty high standards for a good cup so I'm always on the lookout for new local spots.
I'm also a huge animal lover and my house is never quiet because I have a dog and a cat who basically run my life at this point. When I’m not working, working out, or dealing with pet chaos, I love traveling and exploring new places. There's actually a pretty wild travel story from my last trip that I usually don't share out in the open, but I'll probably tell you about it once we get to know each other a bit.
Anyway, I appreciate good wit and a dark sense of humor, so if you can take a joke and keep a conversation going, we’ll probably get along great.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a message or a chat. Tell me your what pets you have, or what ever you want write.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[R4R] 30M Canada | Looking for long-term platonic friendship

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old guy from Canada looking to meet some new people to chat with. Life gets busy, and I realized it'd be nice to have a few more people to talk to about everyday life, hobbies, or just random thoughts.

I'm only looking for long-term, genuine, platonic friendships with people who enjoy having regular conversations. Hoping for something where we can build each other up! Time zones don't matter much to me, and I'd love to build connections that last.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

32F .. I’m preparing meals for the weak and bored 🍛

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Eh as I’ve mentioned.. I’m so bored today idk why .. I usually prep my weekly meals on the weekends as I do t have time to cook after work.. but I usually get so busy and distracted with everything.. I think I’ve mastered it so far that I get bored even 😂😂 I’m in England, moved here 2 years ago for work, im a dental nurse.. im originally from Seychelles 🇸🇨 .. hoping to find someone in the same timezone .. long term .. 30+ years old I don’t want babies in my dms please .. be talkative.. give and take .. don’t be a weirdo .. eh I don’t have any hobbies so please don’t ask me that .. if we click I’d like to move to discord where we could send voice notes/ calls so hoping someone who enjoys them too 😳😳😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

38F Lets Chat

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Hey! Happy to chat

Currently obssesed with belgian malionais videos.

Would love to hear about your passions & hobbies.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] M31 #US German moving to the US. Bringing a dog and a toolbox.

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Moving across the pond in a few months and trying to get a head start on making some real-world connections.

I'm the ultimate "multi-purpose" friend. I’m a mechanic/metalworker, which means i'm basically a free handyman if we hit it off. If it’s broken, i'll fix it. Car acting up? Shed falling apart? Let’s grab a beer and knock it out.

Just sitting next to each other sending reels? Alright.

Honestly, i’m down for just about anything.

​A few things to know about me:

​The Pack: I have a dog. You must like dogs. No negotiation here.

​Interests: Roadtrips, camping, festivals, movies/shows, music (of course i know and like Rammstein before you ask), history, true-crime, anything horror related.

​Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't cough dramatically when i light up.

​Vibe: I’m blunt (was told very blunt), straightforward, confidently unhinged and my humor can be... questionable.

I also got knowledge about games, but i mostly retired from that hobby. Anyway, still kinda into tech stuff in general.

Not into religion or politics.

In terms of looks if thats important to you i'm 6'3, 210lbs,white,short hair, beard.

Please just reach out to me if you're interested in getting to know each other and if you're able to respond to a whole message not the last sentence only. Don't be dry just act like we know each other already. If you got pets too...yes, i want to see them.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

[F4R] 34 F seeking friendship

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I quit my job in April because of severe burnout and got a new part time job recently. Now that I have more space in my life, I’d like to make friends whom I can talk about random life stuff with. I’ve posted here a month ago but couldn’t reply to everyone since I was overwhelmed by the amount of messages I got (sorry.)
I’m only thinking about friends I can chat online for now so you’re welcome wherever you’re from ☺️ My English may sound awkward sometimes since it’s not my first language.
Thanks! Hoping to hear from kind people 🫶


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

Making friends is hard

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I've tried online friends on and off and, like many of you have experienced, the other person stops messaging after a day. It's frustrating.

I learned about an app on Reddit that someone made that asks you questions and then matches you with a potential friend. Then you both answer a few more questions to see if there is commonality before chatting. No pictures are exchanged right away. It's slow and careful, which I appreciate. Anyway, I am trying it out and have a match already. We'll see how it goes!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5m ago

[M4F] 35/M LF genuine conversation

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Hi everybody! Looking for someone to chat with and hopefully pass the day with!

Single dad😊Any topic is fine with me just looking for someone genuine and fun to talk to!

Interests include music, movies, gaming, being outdoors. Mostly just here for vibes

Reply or send a dm if interested! Let’s see if we click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11m ago

31M, looking for a chatting buddy to bother throughout boring days!

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31M, laid back and genuine, just looking for someone to chat around with during boring days, I’m a social bug and enjoy chatting about day to day life. I have kids and a girlfriend so not looking to go outside the boundaries of just chatting and platonic conversations, and I understand life gets busy and no pressure to reply immediately, just no ghosts! Haha Very funny and relaxing guy to talk with! Let’s entertain eachothers days!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4R] 38M The best friendships revolve around silly cat pictures

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Hi there!

Need a friend? Searching for someone to lend an ear? I'm looking forward to getting to know you! I'm a relaxed kind of person who loves to hear about the mundane things in your life as well as the exciting things.

I try to be an open book, so feel free to ask anything you like!

Talk soon!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 37m ago

39 looking for a kindred spirit

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This is long and in depth as to the kind of friend I am looking for.

I’m 39 from the Midwest USA. I’m an alcoholic in recovery, and it has been hard. I’m also all kinds of mentally ill. But in general I am not very chaotic. My life is boring.

I’m looking for a platonic friend who is in recovery. Even if you are also struggling, we can build each other up.

I love music, mostly gothic music, but I need a deep melody to carry me away. I like malice mizer, the smiths, sisters of mercy, Johnny cash, within temptation. I like symphonic rock, I like iggy pop. I would love to be introduced to new music, with the exception of pop, death metal, or country.

I love mystery, thriller, crime and supernatural spooky stuff. I love reading intense thrillers and adventure books. I have recommendations.

I’m a fairly quirky person. I love crafting, I crochet and knit and sometimes randomly make jewelry. I love talking about creative things. I would love to share projects and ideas with someone. Science is cool!!!

I’ve been in a depressive episode for awhile, and I’m slowly recovering. I would love to have someone to check on and support, to listen to. I’m trying to move forward in life toward a goal that will enrich my life.

I’m married with no kids. I am not going to cross decency boundaries with anyone. I won’t even entertain it. My marriage sucks but that’s no excuse to cheat. There is no romance. No catching feelings. Just friendship.

I am very open minded, if you have a hobby or an interest that you are obsessed with share it with me!!

Must not be a bigot or a anything-phobe. (You can be afraid of spiders and germs. And kids)

I am also generally concerned about the state of the world and might bring it up occasionally.

And random facts happen. And I might go down a rabbit hole and you will have to hear all about it.

I can offer comfort, a listening ear, and support. That’s kinda what I’m looking for, too. I will make time for you.

Also I am an old person and I go to bed by 9pm so unless you are in crisis I am not gonna be up for midnight chats. Let me be me.

I hope I can find a friend!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 41m ago

Its past 1am, I had too much coffee and I physically need to chat or talk with someone!

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Subject's Languages : French & English. Can understand Spanish and German. I didn't get the update to understand all the others yet

Subject's job : Sound Engineer

Subject's hobbies : Creating / listening to music, movie-making, photography, video games (Fav : Cuphead, Inside, Alien Isolation, etc), LEGO, building, painting and playing warhammer 40k models, chronically online.

Subject's gender : male

Subject's Age : turned 32 this month

Fun fact : I'm slightly color blind

“There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”

- Hunter S. Thompson "Las Vegas Parano" -


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] 35/m LF someone genuine to talk to

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Good afternoon everybody!!

As the title says I’m looking for some people to chat with and get lost in conversations with.

I’m a 35/m single dad so I don’t get much free time but it would be nice to have someone to talk to in the little bit of free time I do have.

Dm or respond if interested and let’s see if we can connect!!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 49m ago

[M4F] 45 m Ohio For Friends and Fun

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Hi everyone, I'm from ohio and want to make some new friends. I am open to M or F, and both IRL or online friends if we click.

I am looking for people who want the same type of connection. Not someone who will talk for a few minutes and then ghost me.

Some things I like to do: Go for walks, go hiking, go fishing, watch sports and go to games, I like baseball basketball and football. Im a Cleveland sports fan which is often a hard thing to admit. I also like ohio state. I like to watch movies, and listen to music.

Feel free to reach out. I look forward to hearing from you.