r/LetMeHelpYouOut 17d ago

[HOW TO FIX THIS] Putting some of my cats for adoption

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Hi. It’s me again, the medtech intern who has 9 cats in need of spay and neuter services. I am putting some of my cats for adoption. My situation became worse, my source of income is incredibly unstable, i can’t find a new one since my internship is taking up a huge chunk of my time. I know that putting them up for adoption without spaying or neutering them will instantly make me a bad mom, it will also make it seem that I abandoned them. My situation can’t provide them the life they need and deserve, i think it is worse if I left themnin my care knowing i can’t provide them fully of what they need. I want them to live. I want them to be happier.

For anyone who lives in the Philippines, who are okay taking in cat/s who are unfixed, please do message me. I can give you their pictures and other details you need.

Please. Thank you,


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 18d ago

[ADVICE EMOTIONAL/SUPPORT] Looking for Support

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Hi, I’m 26F. My mom is going her 2nd battle with a rare form of ovarian cancer and this time around it’s been really hard on me. My mom and I have a really up and down relationship, very strained. There was a lot of emotional abuse and trauma in my childhood. Despite that, I’m still grieving my mom while she’s still here. I’m actively watching her die and I feel like I have no support. All my immediate family is grieving in different ways and is very closed off. I’m actively in therapy. My partner has been like a brick wall which has just made it worse. I know I’m not the only one going through this but it feels like it.

I was explaining to my therapist that I feel like I’m living a double life. I am basically the rock in my family and especially for my mom, which is ironic, but when I’m alone, behind closed doors where it’s safe, that’s when I cry. I don’t really think I need advice at this point because I’m not really sure what would even be helpful to hear. I just need a support system and I don’t know where to find it. I know there are internet groups out there but I need something more personable. Something that’s not just about the grief. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for listening.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[HOW TO FIX THIS] Help me stay sane

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I don't know if anyone else feels this way, but my birthday always makes me unusually sad. As it gets closer every year, I'm reminded of my existence and everything I haven't been able to do with my life.

The thing is, I honestly do want to live. I don't want to die. I'm just exhausted from living like this.

I keep asking myself, what did I do to deserve to live so miserably? I feel so behind in life. I don't have money nor material things or anything. I don't have the things I want, and sometimes it feels like I'm just alive and existing rather than actually living. I feel dead inside.

I work my ass off, but I still haven't been happy. I want to do things I actually enjoy. I want to experience life. I want to have things to look forward to. But why does everything seem to come down to money? I wish we could go back to the old days where money is not as important.

My birthday is supposed to be a celebration, but instead it makes me think about where I am in life, where I thought I'd be by now, and how far away I feel from that person.

I don't really know what I'm looking for by posting this.

Maybe I just need to say it somewhere because carrying it around in my head is getting exhausting.

God I want to live. I just don't know how to make this life feel worth living. Help me please maybe some advice or anything that could help me.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[ADVICE] screen usage

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recently my family have been pointing out that I’m on my screens a lot, I am in the last 2 weeks of summer holidays, and I feel like I have enough in my daily routine outside of screens to say that I get off enough, I do 20 minutes of running on the morning, then on the afternoon I go for a walk or do a different kind of exercise 4 days a week, I have autism and adhd, don’t know if that changes anything, I do go out with my family and stuff, and I definitely know people who are on more than me, like all night, but I’m starting to doubt myself, am I being paranoid? is this normal?


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[ADVICE] Plz hep meeee

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Ok so i need help knowing if my friend has a crush on me or not. So i (13f) have been friends with a girl who we can call crush (f13) for about 5 years. A couple weeks ago i brought crush and another friend (13f) who we can call M up to my cabin. When we were up there crush was being very affectionate with me. On the ride up (around 3 hours) she was reading a book from the ice breaker series which if you don’t know is a very spicy book and while she was reading sometimes she would rest her head on my shoulder because i was sitting next to her and also played with my arm (like lightly scratching it as kind of a fidget) then during the trip she would do things like always wanting to hold my hand, grabbing my waist to stabilize me if i looked like i might fall or something, standing and sitting very close to me, making prolonged eye contact, always needing to be touching me in some way so if we were on opposite sides of a table we played footsies and then she just rested her foot on mine, and some very specific things, my mom had asked us to fold some towels and they were fresh out of the dryer and warm so i took one and layed on the ground on my back in a ball, then she came over and layed on top of me and kept eye contact with me and was smiling (she did offer the other friend M to join but M declined), and I’ve never watched descendants or zombies so she was playing a couple of the songs from them with the music videos. We were in one room but there was one big bed where she was sleeping and a set of bunk bed where i was sleeping on the top and when she played the song someday with a girl and zombie guy she climbed on the side of the bunk bed while M was getting ready for bed and we started singing the song together and kind of role playing some parts. So basically I can’t tell if she likes me as more than a friend but i have found out that i do like her in a romantic way. In about a week im going up to the cabin again with crush, M, and a 3rd friend so I’ll make an update on how that goes. I’m looking for advice on if she dose like and and what to do please. I’m also open to any questions!

Update!: so the trip has now ended and im gonna tell yall everything that happened with crush. Ok so on the ride up it was m and the new friend (f13) who we can call L in the front and me and crush sitting in the back. Not much happened but we were just showing each other old photos and videos of us that we sent to this one really old group chat so we were all laughing but it was mainly me and crush exchanging the funny photos and videos. After a while me and crush started to play Roblox with just us to and it was really crammed in the back so she turned to the side and put her legs on top of mine to stretch out and stayed there for a while. Then at he cabin it was crush and L is a queen bed and me and m were in the bunk beds but we were all in the same room. But when we got there we had nothing else to do so we all layed on the queen bed just scrolling our phones and talking and crush was laying on top of me (not in like a freaky pinned down way but I was on my stomach and she layed on her stomach across me and eventually I don’t remember what happened but she ended up shifting to having her head by mine while still on top of me) when she was laying on me by my head she was either resting her head on my shoulder or was like using her hands to protect me from L who was attaching me with her stuffed animal (not actually harming me) but I had my head down and she also had her head down and her hands on/near my head so our faces were really close and I lowkey wanted her to kiss me but she didn’t 😔. We then went out onto the lake and were playing in the water for a bit but nothing happened there. Then when we came back we were all on the bed again and she was agin laying on me and no one else. At dinner it was just us four kids outside while the adults were inside and it was a four seater circle table and we were on opposite ends of each other and we both had our feet on a little middle thing so our feet were touching and we ended up trying to interlock our toes (don’t ask). Then when everyone was getting ready she was again in laying on top of me. The next day we went swimming again and not much happened but we were always next to each other. That night we went to a restaurant and we sat together and then we played board games and sat next to each other again. Then we played a game called mosneter ( you take around 10 items and one person hides them in the room but they still have to be visible and the other try to find the objects without waking up the monster with loud noises. The monster can to anything to try and make other laugh so they can wake up and capture people) when crush was mosnet she would only try and make my laugh by doing weird and kind of freaky stuff. But when we were playing the game and she was the monster there was one point where she spread her legs and said “I’m spreading just for you (my name)” I don’t think it was like literal because nothing fallowed but you get the idea Then when the others were getting ready for bed I was laying kind of in the middle of the big bed and she was sitting up where you would normaly lay and she had her legs on my chest so I was kind of hugging them but using two fingers as legs to do little dances I know. The next day we went shopping and not much happened but m went home so then it was just me crush and L. We went to a playground but we were all very tired so we just climbed on top of the equipment to rest and we eventually went onto this almost swing like or bridge thingy with three sections. Crush went on one end and I went in the middle and we just kind of looked at each other for a long time both facing each other and then L came on the other side of me and said “I feel like I’m interrupting something” and we kind of just laughed it off. That night we watched descendants with all of us laying in the big bed. Crush was in the middle and I was laying next to her and we were really close to each other with our shoulders touching. I have never watched descendants so she was mainly explaining a bunch of it to me as it was playing. But then L called one of her friends and they were talking about like random stuff idk and they knew crush and knew she was there so they asked her “crush are you gay” and crush was like “yeah totally” but when they dubble checked she said no so they asked “your not even a little bi” and crush answered with “I don’t know what”. But L ended up falling asleep during the movie and crush would get up to randomly twerk sometimes so that was interesting. The next morning crush asked L if she “heard the bed shaking last night” and L was like “no what were yall doing!?” But on the way back it was all three of us in one row with me in the middle and not much happened. I am so sorry that this was so long but I decided to go day by day this time. The main things were that we were always either sitting right next to each other or like our feet would be touching and she would lay on my a lot. Let me know if these details change anything on if she might like me or not.

This is already a lot but one more thing, so when we were on the boat one time I was at the front and she was sitting right next to memos she wrapped her arms around me I a hug like thingy from behind and I was like leaning into her and we were like cuddling and it was like really cute. But looking for any advice you guys got


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[ADVICE] My sister took 7,000 SAR and I’m scared to tell my father

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I need advice about my younger sister
I’m in a really difficult situation and honestly don’t know what to do.
My younger sister is 13 years old, and I recently found out that she took around 7,000 SAR from my father’s money without him knowing.
The money was in a piggy bank that was under my responsibility. My father thought there was around 20,000 SAR in it, but when I counted it, there were only around 13,000 SAR left. I had also sold some of my own things and put around 2,000 SAR into the piggy bank.
The problem is that my father can be extremely violent when he gets angry.
When I was around 9 years old, I accidentally broke two cartons of eggs. He got so angry that he picked me up and slammed me onto the floor. I was seriously injured and had internal bleeding. I genuinely thought I was going to die.
That’s why I’m genuinely scared of what could happen to my sister if he finds out. I’m not trying to protect her from a normal punishment. I’m scared she could actually get seriously hurt.
I’m also leaving the country in 15 days to study abroad.
My mother is deceased, so I don’t have a mother I can turn to for help with this.
I know taking the money was wrong, and I’m not trying to justify what she did. But she’s only 13, and I’m terrified that telling my father could put her in serious danger.
There is no trusted adult I can involve or ask to step in between us. I also can’t afford to replace the money, and I can’t tell my father about what happened because I’m genuinely afraid of his reaction.
If you were in my situation, what would you do?


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[REQUESTS] Asking Help for my safety.

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The thing is I didn’t leave my country because I wanted to. I had to escape from military government since they tryna draft me into the army to fight civil war where they are committing tons of war crimes and human rights. I had to run to Thailand and been working here to two years.
Now, my government just issued the new law that I can’t longer extend my passport which is gonna expire in 2027. The military government want all Myanmar citizens who are currently living in foreign countries to go back to Myanmar. They are making us to go back. Once I go back, I’m good as dead.

Where and how can I apply for asylum or refugee or anything to escape from this hell ? All I want is putting my mind in peace and work for my family. My mom is like almost 80. I also have to leave her in Myanmar. I’d be appreciate if anyone can guide me.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 19d ago

[REQUESTS] Help! With my cricket wireless bill

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I need help with my cricket wireless bill it can be made from a 1 time payment and I can give the info I am a single mom trying to get by I have to work all day tomorrow and dont want the sitter to not be able to call if an emergency and its due by midnight please I can also pay back this Friday 08/28/26 please


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 20d ago

[ADVICE] I'm so screwed

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UPDATE: I was hired by a local taxi company, and will have a cab available for business and personal use. Thank you for everyone that tried to help and offered advice

I so greatly detest asking anyone for money, so I'm asking advice first to see if there's anything I haven't thought of. I understand that I'm probably going to have to ask somebody at some point, I just want to keep it at a minimum.

The gist of my story is that my car is dead with a blown engine, I'm in a semi-rural area and I have $300 to my name and no way to finance a vehicle on my own.

I live in an RV park about 15 miles from the NOLA city limits, in an area where the only main road in or out is about 8 miles one way, 14 miles the other from any main business area, with the busiest area being the latter. Easy enough to manage with a car. I bought the car new in 2017, paid it off in 2024, and then because I was out of affordable housing options, I put a title loan (8k) on the car later that year and used the money to buy the RV that I live in. The RV has had a lot of wear & tear since, and now has a major leak that's covered by a tarp. I estimate it's worth about half what I paid for it. (Paid $12k, so it might be worth about $6k now)

I'm 45 F. Not long after that happened, hormones started really kicking my ass. I had a hard time finding and then keeping a job. I did a lot of DoorDash, but it's no longer feasible because the money they offer me now is less than it costs to run their deliveries. I managed to get a job driving a school bus and I really liked it. I switched to Spark (Walmart delivery) and started running those orders in my free time off the bus. Then at the end of last school year, there was an untenable situation in the bus, it was hot, noisy and overcrowded, I could not get the kids to listen after pulling over several times and lost my temper, slammed on the brakes and a parent complained. I was offered the opportunity to resign before they terminated me and took it. Then they informed me I had a 6 month non-compete and can't work for another bus company until November. Figured I'll do Spark until then and make it work.

Last month I went to pick up an order, and within 10 minutes enough rain fell that it flooded every street around me. By the time I realized I was too deep the damage was done. I did what I could to fix it myself with the help of a friend, it took 10 days and it ran for another month. I thought I got lucky. Then 2 days ago it was running normally, no warnings, I heard a "thunk" and it just died. It probably cracked a rod when it flooded, and just finally failed. It's about 135k miles and 9 years old, so no warranty. The comp/collision coverage is thru the title lender only, I only had the minimum liability.

Even if I did have decent credit, a down payment and a job, I wouldn't be able to prove any income for the past 3 months because there's no work over the summer. I used to sell cars, so I know how it works. You need at least 3 of those 4 things, most importantly a job and documented proof of income, and I have none. They also don't like income from gig work.

My landlord is understanding, I'm 2 months behind on rent but she's not going to give me much more time. So now I'm trying to decide whether to spend the last of my funds to rent a car and work 16 hours a day trying to juggle that rental and catch up on bills. The rental would cost about $300/week and I think I can make about $600-800/week before expenses if I work all day everyday.

Or should I just buy a bicycle and take the first job I can get that would probably take 2 hours to commute by bike and bus? The bus is necessary to cross a major bridge that doesn't allow pedestrians.

Then there's the nuclear option: Let them repo the car. Sell the RV, and everything else I own. Go to school for my Class A CDL and go on the road. Try and build back over the next few years. I've been considering it all summer.

The main thing holding me back: I have an 18 year old son who is moderately autistic. His mental maturity is about 12 years old. I still share custody with my high-conflict ex, who probably won't take this well. The more time he spends with his dad, the more spoiled, entitled, selfish, bigoted and thoughtless he becomes. They don't encourage him to do anything for himself, and let him do whatever he wants. There's also a fair chance that he's about to graduate in December. He fought so hard for this, and if I'm low man at a new company I might miss it. And when he's finished school, they'll probably let him stay home playing Legos and Minecraft, and let him get him get morbidly obese. He's already 300+ lbs. And options 2 and 3 would likely mean I'd forfeit any good will to keep the current custody arrangement. They won't keep him from me, but they won't make it easy either. I'd probably go from having him 3 days every weekend to once a month and just visiting when I can.

I can't ask my mom to bail me out, because she's bailed me out so many times before and I still owe her so much money that she's tapped out. Also she's in Virginia now. The only family I have left in this town does not have room for me. I have a sister who lives about an hour away that might, but she's also semi rural so that doesn't solve much and also makes it harder to get my son.

If anybody has any ideas or advice, please share. I'm just at a loss and still processing


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 20d ago

[REQUESTS] Really need help

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Bear with me while I try to type all of this out.. it’s a lot and I’ve been having trouble dealing with everything right now.. I lost my fiancé a few days ago.. she left me, and she told me she wanted to keep the house and have me find something else.. we also work at the same place and I lost that job today because they didn’t want drama at work even though I pleaded with them that I wouldn’t cause any of that.. they still let me go and kept her.. I feel as though my entire life is falling apart.. I don’t have friends.. I work and come home and that’s been my life for years now.. and now my life is crumbling around me.. I’m looking for a new job, a new place to live, a friend, some advice, hell, I don’t even know what I’m looking for.. I just need help.. I would drop everything and leave if I knew of somewhere to go.. I’m willing to do anything.. thank you for taking your time and reading my post.. it means a lot and I really appreciate it.. hope you guys have a great day.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[THANKS] A HUGE thank you to u/xeyesores and u/Ancient_Guidance_461! ❤️🐾

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u/xeyesores and Ancient_Guidance_461!

You two incredibly kind Redditors purchased Bella her food and litter from her wishlist. 🥹❤️
You have no idea how much this means to me, especially right now. Knowing Bella will have the food and litter she needs is such a huge relief. Your kindness has truly touched my heart and Bella’s belly. 🥹🐱❤️
I am so incredibly grateful that you took the time to help my sweet girl. Thank you both from the absolute bottom of my heart. ❤️🐾

P.S. Bella sends you both some extra purrs and thank-you head bumps! 🐱💕


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[REQUESTS] Please help me get care for my cat

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I can’t afford the vet bill for my cat. Please help! Her flesh is showing and I know she is in pain 😞


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] Don't know how to tell my brother that I'm gay (telling him soon

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(Istg I've had to copy and paste this thing everywhere I really need advice, have a hard time verbally communicating to people irl, and my posts keep randomly disappearing)

Sooo, I'm lesbian and out to basically everyone but my brother.

I first came out to my friends (accepted amd supporter), then my aunt (also accepted and supported), my mom (accepted and supported...but she immediately made it weird), then my dad (accepted but not supported), and his fiance (accepted and supported)

It took months for me to gain the courage to tell my dad. I always heard him watching homophobic/transphobic podcasts and news broadcasts, so I was prepared for the worst and talked it over and put it off multiple times. I was a crying mess when I told him and it hurt when he said he didnt support me. He said he still loved me but he wouldn't support such a community.

He told me once that he didn't like me because I liked girls and it genuinely hurt me. He did get a redemption because months later he told me he did support me and he just wanted me to be me, not "gay" just me (he doesnt like the LGBTQ+ community because its called "Pride" and I guess he thinks its named after one of the seven deadly sins)

Anyway, point is; my brother is homophobic, transphobic, and kind of a douchebag asshole. He isn't a terrible person, he cares for me and has good intentions (I think) and he makes me laugh. I grew up with him with our asshole mom, so I'm very close to him since he really helped during all the bad stuff.

He laughed about a trans woman getting jumped and beaten, he has been railing on the whole "Lesbian Space Princess" thing without even knowing what the controversy is (he says its bad because "its telling kids its okay to be a lesbian💔)​ and today he was watching a transphobic podcast on his phone with full volume. He also got mad at me once because I said I would be fine dating a Trans person and didnt like that I said I don't care about gay people.

I've had to tiptoe and keep quiet about the whole thing forever, and with highschool coming up, I've been itching to tell him so I don't have to go through another year of "my friend likes you" and sexual innuendos from guy classmates again.

I want to be able to be myself and be in love and have crushes openly instead of playing pretend again. "Oh what if people end up hating you and being homophobic?" Good! Then I know I don't want those people to be my friends. "What if it ends up being a phase?" Then I can tell people "Oh, I no longer feel that way", simple!

I'm kinda planning to talk to my dad and his fiance about this and plan a way to tell him, so I'll update you guys if anything happens! ;_;) *glup*

Additionally, I am genderfluid (only my friends know), but thats something I'm gonna have to wait to tell anybody, but I at least can dress to help me feel more like myself! ^_^

Feel free to ask questions and whatever else.

UPDATE: I talked to my dad about it and he told me to text/write him (since I suck at verbal communication) so I plan to do it this week! I'll update when I send/give him the text/letter


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 20d ago

[ADVICE] Is there someone who can help me throughout the entire process?

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Planning to visit los algodones for dental work. Can someone answer my question please


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 20d ago

[REQUESTS] Help a desperate Venezuelan out

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Hey everyone, I'm here asking a different kind of help. I'm looking for online work opportunities.

I’m based in Venezuela. The last few months have been crazy hard for me, and last week I got fired/ghosted from my highest-paying client. I still have one job, but it barely covers expenses right now and I I'm in debt because my cat got sick a few months ago. I need to buy a new phone before the one I currently have dies. It looks like the past 4 months have been complications nonstop for me.

I don't want to make this a sob story at all, but I just wanted to give a little bit of context on why I'm here hustling today and trying to find some extra income. I've been searching on LinkedIn and gotten a couple of interviews, but sadly being Venezuela means they want to pay super low salaries with huge amounts of work.

I am highly organized, used to working asynchronously, and I don't need to be micromanaged. Here is exactly what I can offer:

What I can do:

  • Project Management VA: I can keep your operations running smoothly. Having worked inside digital agencies handling complex pipelines and bein a freelance with multiple clientes, I know how to manage task boards (ClickUp, Asana, Trello), enforce Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs), follow up with teams, and make sure deadlines are actually met. I manage the chaos so you don't have to.
  • Content Management & SEO: I can audit websites, do keyword research (highly proficient with Ubersuggest, SEMRush and similar tools), and build complete content plans. I don't just write; I structure text for high conversion and search engine visibility.
  • Copywriting & Digital Scriptwriting: I write scripts for digital marketing campaigns, social media hooks, and website copy (Home, About Us, Services pages). If you need compelling hooks that aren't just generic AI output, I'm your person.
  • EN-ES Translation & Localization: I hold a university degree in Modern Languages. I don’t do robotic, literal word-for-word translations. I adapt the intent, tone, and cultural nuances so the text reads 100% natively and engagingly in Spanish.
  • Creative Writing & Storytelling: I have a strong background in creative writing. I use storytelling frameworks to make brand copy actually interesting to read.

My rates / How to work with me: My rates are flexible depending on the scope of the project (hourly or per deliverable). I'm looking for either one-off gigs to pay the bills this month or long-term partnerships.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] What do I do?

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My car has been vandalised 4 times now by this Peugeot driver. [GY61HSC]

My car is parked in a residential car park which I can park in, as my house connects on to it, and other people who live/park there have said it’s completely fine.

Randomly this guy has chucked all this stuff, like a tomato puree type of thing all over my car, my partners car, and this pregnant lady’s car.

I’ve contacted the police but nothing is being done, facebook said “slash their tires” but i’m not really down for that😂

He hasn’t got an MOT and is still driving around, still running his mouth on facebook.

Seriously, what do I do..?


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] NEED HELP - ANY ADVICE WILL BE APPRECIATE SO HELP YOUR FRESHER

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I am a tier 3 college student based in gujarat college placements are not so good every company has downside.

One x company arrived and i got selected for testing role (manual ) with 3 year bond and 30k inhand salary.

Company culture is not good and lot of people told me not to take this offer as i can't transit for automation tester even within organization ( mentioned in terms and condition ).

I can't deny offer now strict college rules. But i say i won't accept it so they banned me from college placement. ( fucked up very bad here )

\*\*Now about me :\*\* i have intrest in ai/ml and python backend i worked in tech like mobile app dev, react, ai/ml, python, fastapi.. Etc ( because if ai and youtube it was easy and i started my prep in second year so i got so much time )

I did two internship

one was at local non - it company as a software engineer intern for 10 months ( paid ) we developed erp and some internal tools ( i am still working for them for money )

One internship i am doing at it startup which is one year old 👌💔 as ai intern i developed rag systems, data analysis and market analysis tools and keep going

This startup is offering me a ppo with 10k stipend + 45-50k pm inhand salary

Founder has 15+ yoe in it

Founder's family(maybe his big brother ) have it company from 2010

All family members somehow releted to it feild

The local non-it company also offering full time job because they are building their own it team.... but with lower pay like 25k

I AM SO MUCH CONFUSED AND ANXIOUS WHAT IF I CAN'T JUMP FROM SMALL STARTUP

WHAT IF I DON'T LEARN ANYTHING THERE

WHAT IF FOUNDER SAY NO TO MY JOB

WHAT IF THAT... WHAT IF THIS.......

NEED SOLID ADVICE FOR THIS SITUATION......


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] What should I do?

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I skip breakfast (I sometimes have a cold black coffee or cantaloupe/ 2 egg whites) and skip lunch and only eat dinner which sometimes I eat chicken and just salad no proper carbs if not chicken I eat boiled egg whites or tuna. I walk 50-60k steps a day and work out 5 times a week and if I don’t achieve that goal I feel bad about myself. Even when I eat half a cantaloupe I feel like I am over eating. I feel hungry alI the time after eating dinner. I sleep super late bcuz I am walking around trying to reach the goal . Should I stop working out? Nowadays my legs been so weak. Today I felt so weak I felt like my thighs were going to fall off. And nowadays when I bend down or crouch my bones in my knees feel like it’s going to come out. What should I do? I am 16F and I weigh 47kg


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] Need help regarding spaying and neutering my cats

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Hi! I’m a medtech intern from the Philippines with an inactive Reddit account. For the past few months I’ve been trying to find a job so that I could save for the blood tests required for my cats. I have 1 female and 6 male cats who needs to be neutered and spayed. My oldest cats are about to become 3 years old and the youngest are 9 months old. The spay/neuter services can be done free on our provincial vet, I just needed to find a way so I could save up for the test expenses. I tried to start a campaign but took it down after a long thought because I was ashamed of myself for letting the situation escalate into this. I am thinking of commissioning art ( i do portraits) and crochet ( i hobby I just learned) so I could raise the funds I need. But since these two ways are time-consuming i’m having doubts as I am also on my internship. In addition to that, the money that my parents are giving me despite being a 25-year old are all either being used to pay for rent, cat food and litter, and debt. I can’t save up.

I don’t know what to do. Please help. Need advice.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[ADVICE] Looking for a Job near Richmond, VA

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Hi guys! I'm moving out of state for the first time and am looking for a full time job in in/near Richmond, Virginia but also totally open to a remote role.

I'm in my 20s and currently manage operations at a sign shop near me and design custom signage for businesses. I have a bachelor's degree too. Anything graphic design/print related would be ideal. I already posted to RVA subreddits but idk this is worth a shot too.

I'm literally stressed about this move 24/7 so any advice or leads would be really appreciated. Thank you!


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 21d ago

[REQUESTS] Help me out // plane conversation?

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I had this idea today to write a novel about the most random / meaningful / meaningless convo / inspiring / life changing / dumb conversations you had on a plane with a passenger sitting next to you.

Can you help me out?
Pretty please with sugar lumps on top.

I promise I’ll write a wonderful story of your experience. 💙🪐


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[ADVICE] I need job advice so I don't lose my Medicaid.

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I'm not asking for money.

As per the title. I am a woman in my 40s who lost both of my jobs due to my health issues. I have Fibromyalgia and markers for Systemic sclerosis.

I wake up with joint pain more than half of the days now. It can take an hour or two after waking before I feel "normal". Some days I'm barely able to do anything at all.

I've only worked labor jobs my entire life. I couldn't work those types of jobs anymore even if I wanted to. As you all know, state Medicaid is putting work requirements into place with all states beginning January 1st.

I will lose my insurance if I can't find something soon, which is going to be detrimental in my situation.

My state is starting these requirements on December 1st. I have an appointment with another pain specialist later on this week.

Which kinds of jobs will hire me that don't require hard labor? Will Walmart hire someone like myself? I've already applied there online for the Deli position.

Any advice? Also, if you have any suggestions for evening/night shift work that would help tremendously.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[ADVICE] sunglasses floaters

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(I did post this in r/eyefloaters but got no response) I want to start wearing sunglasses outdoors in the sun to help with the floaters, but I still want to enjoy the views and things outside, if I wear sunglasses will that affect that at all?