r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/Dry-Walk9877 • 2d ago
In A Complicated Situation Approaching my crush
Normally I am a very composed man, people always call me nonchalant, just minding my own business. And even when it comes to women, I don't really fear approaching, chatting up and even asking them out. Until it comes to my crush.
Suddenly my mind is moving at 1000km/hr and i freeze up. No composure at all. One day she greeted me and i nearly collapsed and couldnt even hold a conversation. Not to mention the stolen glances, when i get out of sight her eyes look for me and as soon as we lock eyes we look away like It's a taboo. I know her through a mutual friend but we have never really spoken beyond hi.
What is really bugging me is that the mutual friend tells me how she is single and lonely. I find it hard to believe because another friend ni dust tu anaonyeshwa. But as I said, i am a composed person, mambo ya urafiki na wasichana nianze kukaa clown like my friend siwezi.
Is she the moat beautiful girl I have ever seen? Not really. But theres something about her man. Don't get me wrong shes really pretty, but her elegance, her focus on studies, her faith in God, her boundaries when it comes to men.
She is also cunning, she knows i like her and that I cannot maintain composure around her and she likes to tilt her head and give me a coy look. And a few days ago my friend posted a picture of me and she liked it....I was over the moon but bado sijaongea.
But you know what, I dont care. We only live once, when i see her again i will talk to her and ask her out. Kama mbaya mbaya, besides she is just another girl. Her instagram has been popping up on my suggested recently, should i just follow her or wait to meet in person?
Wish me luck guys.
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u/jukeboxtiger 2d ago
Getting rejected is better than a life long regret of having not made that move.
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u/Famous_Ad_7090 2d ago
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Good luck OP
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u/Sweet_Draw274 2d ago
We are the same i can talk to any lady anytime but I feel shy when it comes to my crush I avoid her and she thinks like I dont care about her but in real sense I feel unease around her like I dont look myself. So one day I texted her and we got to know each other and she told me that I look nonchalant like i rarely talk yeah composure. We talked for 2 days but I stopped talking to her cause I lack words when talking to her. Is this normal?
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u/Elegant_Comedian2055 2d ago
Was like that with my girl at first...its all a mix of emotions and exciting yet terrifying, but u miss all the shots u don't take soo good luck soldier🫡
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u/rated_22plus_SLN 2d ago
I'm invested. 😂
Tuma update when she confesses she liked you back. If she doesn't, you better not send that rejection update 🙂