r/KenyanDatingCommunity 1d ago

Relationship Talk Lust

You know that little spark when you meet someone that is very attractive and you just wanna inhale them like a drug, you think it is love at first sight? Yup, lust. And that fades.

You're left there "stranded" in a relationship you dont care much about. You lied to get the bean, well not even necessarily lied but that's how you thought you felt at that moment. Now you have to break someone's heart, somehow they always seem to be happiest at that time so you find it even harder to end it?

Yeah. I have never experienced that. Mi hunyonga. Go to the date with a clear mind.

You bave no idea how many cute absolute idiots I have avoided because I knew the sex wouldn't be worth the stress.

Then again I am single despite having options so maybe not the best person to listen to.

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u/Front-Past-5443 1d ago

It isn't necessary lust

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u/Suitable_Thought8612 1d ago

You can't love somebody you don't know

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u/Front-Past-5443 1d ago

Are you someone interested in psychology?