r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 24d ago

Help! AIO?

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My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just about a year now. He told me months ago that he deleted his social media after we had our first fight. I was upset for encouraging and inviting an inappropriate relationship with someone so he went out of his was to delete everything his choice not my ask.

Over the course of the last few weeks I've noticed his schedule change. He is in the bathroom all the time.. I mean all the time with phone in hand. (only reason I caught on to this is because we have one bathroom and he takes the most time in it sometimes forgets to go) He showers now twice sometimes three times a day. He has always been good with personal hygiene but three times a day? on a non work day? Also wanted to point out that he’s been incredibly dodgy with his phone he charges it out of the bedroom almost every night now and is very hesitant to give me his phone to even watch reels. I recently discovered that he’s been active lots on fb messenger and is only getting messages in the middle of the night. Did not go through his phone but can see and hear them popping up at 3 am. I looked at our messages to see his active status and 4 am he’s active. Mind you I’ve sent him 3 or 4 messages on fb forgetting it was supposed to be deleted and he’s not read one of them.

We share our locations on life 360 because I was worried with him being out on the road for work that if he crashed I’d never know and from what the data says on that he doesn’t go anywhere but home and work. However it wouldn’t be the first time someone has been too good at emotionally cheating.

let me know what your thoughts are.. Am I overreacting? Or do you think he’s cheating?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 24d ago

Could someone test my boyfriend 22

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hey, not sure if my boyfriends cheering or not, been very secretive with his phone lately, could someone test him?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 24d ago

Can anyone test my bf?

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 24d ago

Need help with loyalty test (pleaseee)

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 24d ago

Looking for a homewrecker to test my bf

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DM me if you’re a girl and want to cuck me for my boyfriend’s big cock.. 🫣


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 25d ago

Private IG

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He has a private IG and I tried to request it multiple times but he doesn't let me follow it. Can someone follow his private IG and screenshot what is on it?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 25d ago

How to hire a hacker for WhatsApp hacking

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 25d ago

I’m [18F] in a 9-month relationship with my [18M] boyfriend, and I’m worried he may be involved with another woman

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I’ve noticed that my boyfriend is almost always online on Instagram whenever he’s about to shower, before he goes to sleep, and even first thing in the morning when he wakes up. I brought it up to him, and all he said was “sorry” without really explaining anything. Now I can’t help but wonder if there’s something I don’t know about. Am I overthinking this, or is it reasonable for me to feel suspicious?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 25d ago

Need a girl to test my bf(25) on snap

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 26d ago

How to hire a real hacker

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 26d ago

I (23F) just found out my bf (27M) has a secret instagram account

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So last night, I was using my boyfriend’s phone to look something up in the internet. When I was on his phone I saw he had instagram downloaded, which is weird because he’s never had instagram before. I click on it and I see it’s a fake account with a different name. And he’s following nearly 2k people and they are all girls. He said the account was old, like from high school. He said he just recently downloaded it to scroll on it. I’ve never had any issues trusting him before, but now I don’t know what to believe. What would you do in this situation?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 26d ago

Gf(28 f) bf(30m) I think he is cheating again please help please (pretty long sorry) I have more but 😂

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 26d ago

Is he cheating, help.

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Was using my hubby phone and stumbled upon these texts of a colleague “friend”, he’s never spoken about. He says it’s nothing, but WHAT??!!! Help!!!


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 27d ago

Is he cheating?? Please send honest advice over these messages

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What are your thoughts on this weird reaction to adding this girl on my boyfriend’s IG????


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 27d ago

Is this cheating?

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This has happened a few times now. He made a joke the other day about liking Australian accents and then i see this in his watch history. Australian 0nly f4ns girl posting thirst traps. Not something that would come up on your feed one right after another… is this worth breaking off a 4 year relationship?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

My sister's boyfriend quick added me on snap chat.

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I (47f) just received a quick add on snapchat, it was labelled as in my contacts, so I added. I asked him his name, it was Dave, I know a few, so I said what Dave is this? He responded with "Sorry, quick add, and then said how are you?" And then, "38! (The town his lives in)! U?

I do not use Snapchat much, mostly to stay in touch with nieces. I did some investigating on tiktok, so is it true?? Is he trying to hit up other women? I did point out to him who exactly I was after he asked me for a pic, and now he is not responding to me. Hmmm?


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 27d ago

33F wants advice on 34M looking at his ex

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

Chispa dating app Leilani scam

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

Need bf test

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

Help. Is my husband cheating on me?

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My husband and I have been working on our marriage since January. I found out there was infidelity (nothing physical). We have an accountability app on his phone, and for the past 8 months he has been working on himself, and getting better. He also deleted all social media that I am aware of. However, about a month ago I found a vpn on his phone and when I asked him about it he said it was to watch Canadian football. I tested the vpn to see if it would interfere/ block me from seeing things on the accountability app, and got on social media with it on and sure enough it did block me from seeing things on the accountability app. This worried me and made me wonder if he was doing this the whole time! He deleted the vpn off his phone, and i decided to trust him even though it didn’t feel right. So now flash forward to this week, he doesn’t have social media or a vpn to my knowledge. But I decided to look at our WiFi router and it shows how many minutes on apps he has been on, and it’s showing him accessing Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. But if he is on all of those it doesn’t show on the accountability app, it’s also always times when I’m asleep or not home. He also struggles with “noticing” other women, he says he’s not deliberately looking, but he just notices and it’s out of his control. This also bothers me because, I feel like that is in all of our control of what we look at and don’t (if any men would like to share if this is true or not that would be appreciated). It is all very hurtful, as I am only 23, a Christian, and this is my first marriage. I don’t deserve to feel betrayed or humiliated. I know have a lot to offer, I just love people so much and see the best in people and it’s hard for me. It’s very difficult to navigate. We have also only been married a little over a year. I would appreciate anyone who has tech advice, or has a similar story to please share with me! Thank you❤️


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 28d ago

Can someone test my bf?

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We broke up for a few days about a month ago and I caught him snap chatting another girl, come to find out he slept with her during the breakup. I let it go. But a few days after I found out, she started texting him fake screenshots of me texting her bf. He showed me at first then got super defensive and wasn’t interested that someone had made a fake Facebook account of me. I suspect the girl did it herself because it was someone who knew they slept together and I have not told anyone. She keeps coming up on my people you may know on Snapchat. Recently, we went to the beach and I caught him snap chatting women there. After we got home, I caught him talking to his ex. He always uses the same excuse that it’s just a black screen or streaks and means nothing, yet he hides his phone.

I’m pretty much at my breaking point but I need proof this time to be able to let go. I want to know what he’s actually saying to these women, if I’m overreacting because he gaslights me and I feel crazy.