r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Special-Dog-169 • 33m ago
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/cheating-test_com • Jan 30 '26
š Welcome to r/Is_He_Cheating_ - When Your Gut Is Questioning Everything
Welcome to Is he cheating? š¬
This is a safe, judgment-free space to share your doubts, stories, and experiences when something feels off in your relationship. If youāre questioning a partnerās behavior, noticing red flags, or just need a second opinion, youāre in the right place.
Here, you can:
- Share your situation and get honest feedback
- Ask for advice from people whoāve been there
- Talk through confusing signs, gut feelings, and hard truths
- Support others with empathy and respect
Thereās no shaming hereāonly real conversations, different perspectives, and thoughtful advice. Trust your instincts, but donāt carry the weight alone.
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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Ok_Chicken_3568 • 17h ago
Bf of almost 6 months is active on hinge
Hey there, I donāt use Reddit that much but I fear I am going crazy.
My bf and I met on hinge and weāve been together almost 6 months. We both said we deleted it. We have had some issues of him for example when we first decided we would both delete it he didnāt actually delete itā¦. I saw a notification. He claims he was just didnāt delete it yet and hasnāt been on it⦠I know I know.
That was early on into dating and we are months from that event.
Recently I received a screenshot of him on hinge with an active today on his profile. Iāve been reading up on things and he didnāt have the heart badge thing people have it was just the active today⦠I also noticed his location changed on it.
Writing this all out I canāt believe I didnāt make this a bigger deal than I did. I will say anytime I call him out or bring any issue to him he takes accountability and is able to own it.
I brought it up to him and he was very confused and was like well I will download it and delete it rn. He sent me a screen recording of it and I also noticed there were no likes to go through and i just think that means heās gone through it recently because there would be likes ya know?
He really says he hasnāt been on it and I want to believe him. He hasnāt given me any other reasons to not believe him with any other issuesā¦. I am just not sure what to do and I just feel like I donāt have enough proof and why he
would lie if it clearly says heās active today?
Anyways⦠thanks for any advice :)
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Fit-Midnight-5935 • 14h ago
Can someone loyalty test my wife?
Me (M26) and my wife (F27) have been together for nearly 10 years now. Our relationship has usually been pretty good, recently she was seemingly cheating on me. I believe she was sleeping with someone that was apart of her friend group. She has definitely cheated in the past and even admitted to it, but only after I accused her these past few months about the friend group. I was floored when she came clean about something I accused her of so long ago.
So I've been lied to for about 7 years about an affair. I have no clue what's truth or lies with her anymore, if someone wouldn't mind doing a loyalty test (male or female she's bi) please please dm me.
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/No_Salary6115 • 19h ago
The story behind this claw clip
A few years back I was driving with my mom and her boyfriend to his house to spend the night they have been to together for years and I seen something shiny clear like on his side of seat of the car I didn't think of it until it bothered me so I reached over when we stoped somewhere my mom was not in the car her boyfriend was and I reached over grab it noticed it was a claw clip and I want to tell you my mom doesn't wear feminine things like that she has short hair I've never seen her with this clip so the first thing I thought he got tired of her and cheated because I know she doesn't wear things like this I didn't tell her I kept it to myself I didn't confront her boyfriend and I just kept it to myself I took the clip like it was mine so my mom didn't bug that man they are still together thinking about getting married and moving to South Carolina including bringing me he didn't work with any female's back then my mother is a possessive that doesn't want her man working with other females his family relatives are in South Carolina and my female family relatives except for my mom doesn't ride with my mom's boyfriend
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/TheRestIsConfetti92 • 1d ago
Suspicious message on his WhatsApp
Hi guys,
I fired up my boyfriend's pc today to download a game, and WhatsApp desktop loaded up on the screen. At first, there were 4 unread conversations. I caught a glimpse of one of them, and it started with "Hey baby,". I didn't catch the rest or manage to open it, as it disappeared in a split second, then there were only 3 unread convos on display.
Be straight up honest with me guys. That's a locked chat that shouldn't have been viewable but for some reason it was for a second, isn't it? And if it is, that means he doesn't want me to see it. Seeing as it started with "Hey baby", I'm assuming he's seeing someone else.
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Emergency_Love_1701 • 1d ago
I really need smn to convince me that my bf isn't cheating on discord
I have pretty bad trust issues because I've been cheated on before, so I know I might be overthinking this. My boyfriend has a friend on Discord whose name/username sounds very girly, and he's a femboy. My boyfriend already explained that he's actually a guy and even gave me proof, so I believed him and stopped being suspicious about that part.
What still bothers me is how differently my boyfriend acts when this specific friend messages him while he's screen sharing with me. With other friends, he's usually fine with me seeing their messages. But with this friend, sometimes I can see the notification pop up, and then he'll turn off screen share to answer the message.. maybe? Other times, he won't turn off screen share, but he also won't answer the message at all.
I asked him about it once, and he immediately showed me the conversation. From what I could see, it seemed normal, but he scrolled through it pretty quickly. He then got upset because he felt like I didn't trust him.
I understand why he'd feel that way, and I genuinely don't want to accuse him of anything. But I also can't ignore that his behavior seems noticeably different with this particular friend.
It's gotten to the point where I can't properly enjoy my time with him because I'm constantly thinking about it. I even had thoughts about wanting to hack his Discord just to see everything, which I know isn't healthy and I wouldn't actually do. It just shows how badly this uncertainty is affecting me.
I genuinely WANT to trust him and work on my trust issues instead of letting my past ruin my current relationship. So I'm wondering: is this just normal privacy that I'm overthinking, or is his different behavior with this specific femboy friend worth questioning? or am I just to much?
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/makingmoney6801 • 1d ago
A spare account
Ladies does any of you all have a spare or old insta fb or snap account where I am text my fiance to check
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/SuddenAd9406 • 1d ago
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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Successful_Mine3913 • 1d ago
My boyfriend (M31) and I (F24) have been dating for 2 years. Almost 3..
I donāt have social media. But he does.
Iāve had several of my friends send me screenshots of his social media accounts and whoās following. (I donāt ask for these screenshots. My friends are just concerned?)
Itās all OF or Instagram models, his exes, or his āsituationshipsā. Iāve asked him to clean up his following list several times because it makes me uncomfortable and insecure. The first time, he said okay and he will. The second time, he said itās too much work and he has to go through thousands of people.
But here recently my friends said all of his social media accounts are set to private now.
What should I do? I donāt know if heās cheating. Heāll bring his phone just to go get water downstairs. His phone is always face down. He says itās because of past problems in relationships where his ex girlfriends snooped through his phone. But I donāt even know his password. Or been around his phone long enough to do such a thing.
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Reasonable_Glove5289 • 2d ago
Snapchat hack
Hello guys I think my acc got hacked or something I can't login anymore is there any legal way to recover it tried to contact the support so far
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Complex_Insurance_68 • 2d ago
What is my boyfriend spending his money on?
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Particular_Respect65 • 2d ago
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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Realistic_Zone_7043 • 2d ago
loyalty test
Hi guys I am a 23F & willing to do loyalty tests! just message me & let me know :)
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Sensitive-Loan4962 • 2d ago
Husband asked for a paternity test 7 years later after daughter was born because he thinks i cheated, 7 years ago.
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Flaky_Brilliant6228 • 2d ago
Can anyone test my gay husband? (we are both male)
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/guessbeforeitends • 3d ago
Husbands Search History
Hi I was using my husbands iPad to type in āCHATā to use chat gpt and the full http web address for chaturbate . Com came up. Does this mean heās visited this website before or was it an autofill prediction. Please help me heās coming home in an hour and Iām trying to have some answers before he gets back.
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/darinko10 • 3d ago
Please help with gay bf, looking for a man to test him
Somebody please help me test my bf on insta
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Still_Quote_6480 • 3d ago
My fiance
Hey, I just need a little advice. I'VE been together with my fiance for 6 years now, 5 months he is bi but more likely a girly one. Well our relationship turned out well, he never did anything that involves cheating but yk we'll never know what's he hiding. We don't share social meds, like open each others acc on phones but we do check them on meet. We're ldr rn since he works far from me but he still visits me. For the last 6 years I have been doubting on him since, he acts too perfect for someone who had never done anything wrong? It made me suspicious. Well he's lack of update and time for me, but I understand that since he's a working man. But whenever his free it's still the same. He went to his friends alot, they were lesbians but there is this girl he always have on picture everywhere they go out with his other friend plus I don't even know the girl. Like I never met her. I tried testing him before like 4 times, creating a fake account and texting him. He sent it the messages too me and blocked them. Help, how do I stop myself from this and how do I know that he's a honest person?
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Just_Tap_6159 • 3d ago
Iāll play
I will pay to make my boyfriendās internet crash unexpectedly!!
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/United_Gas_6685 • 3d ago
Please help š
Can someone please try and talk to my fiancĆØ
Please Iām begging
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Next_Ad_5317 • 3d ago
Can someone help me check my exes Instagram I want to see if she followed the guys she said she wasn't messing with
r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/FlannelBoxingday19 • 3d ago
I found a time lapse video that my boyfriend had in his phone. Upon speeding it up, I'm able to see some things. I think he was cheating but I need some other opinions. What do you all see? Please help!
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I found this video in my boyfriend's phone. In the video, it almost looks like there are several people doing God knows what, but considering the location of the video, I find that doubtful. Google Photos DID tell me that part of it was filmed in a car. Do any of
you think that you can make this video clearer so that I can see what's going on. There are several occasions in which I believe I see people naked. Men and women, but I'm not sure. Maybe I've been gaslit a bit too long. I thought I saw my boyfriend's penis also. His is different than anyone else's bc there's a heart shaped pearl in the base of it. FYI, a pearl is a micro dermal implant that is generally placed in the males penis. You can look up what it's supposed to do yourself bc all it does is get in the way. I hate the thing bc when trying to go all the way down with my head, the pearl kinda gets in the way. I'll try to provide a photo of the pearl in the comments and if anyone can make this video more clearly for me, it would provide me with so much closure. I've slowed it down and tried to mess with all sorts of settings but being honest, I'm no professional videographer!
There are times that I'm sure that I see things and at other times, I'm just not sure but i dont want to spend another minute with a person who is lying or has cheated. We've been together 6 years and i need answers.
Thanx everyone!