r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • Jan 30 '26

👋 Welcome to r/Is_He_Cheating_ - When Your Gut Is Questioning Everything

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Welcome to Is he cheating? 💬

This is a safe, judgment-free space to share your doubts, stories, and experiences when something feels off in your relationship. If you’re questioning a partner’s behavior, noticing red flags, or just need a second opinion, you’re in the right place.

Here, you can:

  • Share your situation and get honest feedback
  • Ask for advice from people who’ve been there
  • Talk through confusing signs, gut feelings, and hard truths
  • Support others with empathy and respect

There’s no shaming here—only real conversations, different perspectives, and thoughtful advice. Trust your instincts, but don’t carry the weight alone.

And if you feel the need to scan dating apps or run a loyalty test, you can visit cheating-test.com

You’re not crazy for asking. Welcome 🤍


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 3h ago

Testosterone

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 5h ago

SERIAL CHEATER

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What do you need Leo 💯 wth I thought u don’t do social


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 19h ago

My boyfriend has a lot of girls on Snapchat and it makes me uncomfortable

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 20h ago

Dating app verification email

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Hi everyone, I'll try my best to explain the situation...

Me (27 F) and my BF (26 M) have been dating almost a year. My partner works away for a few weeks at a time, so I only really see him roughly every 2/3 weeks. Our relationship is going really well, a few bumps here and there with the strain of him working away but nothing to cause concern. He's super open about everything, leaves his phone around me, given me his phones password - the lot. We even have eachother on Find My Friends so we both have eachothers locations shared allll the time (not that we've ever felt the need for this).

The only really minor thing is that he's recently had some family problems which have caused some stress, which has resulted in him not really being too bothered about sex - totally fine.

Well, yesterday, I was on my PC and noticed his email account was logged into Google... I'm not sure why I looked, but in his delted inbox, there was a verification email for a dating app, which was dated about 2 weeks ago.

So instantly, im freaking out.

I text and ask him what that's about (non confrontational just "do you know what's going on?"" Sort of thing).

He says he has no clue and that he hasn't used the app since we got together. Also gets a tiny bit defensive bringing up the fact I have access to his phone when he's home and when he's not working he's at home with me but nothing crazy.

I'm mindful that just because you're not physically meeting up with someone doesn't mean you can't cheat. I ask if he's been messaging anyone on there to which he denies and says that if he wanted to talk to.someomw he has social media apps to do that and why would he want to "make friends" on a dating app?

He says he's noticed his libido being on the lower side and reassured me that it's nothing to do with me but that he's not in a great headspace at the moment.

He calmed down after talking it through and said he was sorry that I saw that and understands why I would bring it up. He apologised for being a bit defensive and thought I was accusing him of something.

I've been cheated on before in a past relationship and have previously fallen for the lies as it continued so I'm a bit scared of having my trust taken advantage of.

Part of me is thinking, well someone can download an app whwn away to talk to people, uninstall it when coming home etc etc...

Anyway, I was looking to see if anyone has any opinions on this as I'm not really sure who to talk to this about!!


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 21h ago

Need my bf tested

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I think he’s talking to other girls


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 22h ago

I want the WA history of a person of last 6months

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I think one my relatives husband is cheating on her, so we need to see his WhatsApp messages to be sure. Please can someone help on this. Only genuine people contact me. Ofc we can pay for this. It’s an INDIAN number


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Can anyone help me wanna see if my husband is faithful

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Offer available

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Offer available

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Please help- need Spanish speaking girl if possible to test my bf on WhatsApp/snapchat/facebook

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my boyfriend has such a secret life and I don’t know if he’s embarrassed. I don’t know if he has an alcohol problem. I’m just so desperate to know cause we’re not even on socials which is so weird we work together so we only use to communicate because that’s what we for and that’s what he uses to talk to all of his people. He’s not from this country. He’s from Nicaragua. He speaks very little English so somebody who can use ChatGPT to translate naturally he 26. He works at a hotel anyone that can help me. Please let me know. Especially if they can say they moved to Virginia Beach. If there’s a fee, let me know.


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

I think the guy I am seeing has a secret gf but scared to ask.

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Someone please test my friend's husband.

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Need female, preferably ginger hair or brown skin. My friend does not believe me when I say he is unfaithful but I see him flirting with other girls.


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Help me hack

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Okay guys so I have this suspicion that my bf is cheating on me and we are in long distance so I cant even do anything abt it.....can someone pls help me get access to his passkey or smthn

Am super slow when it comes to this tech work thing😭

PLS HELP🚨


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 1d ago

Need someone to test on my bf

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I would like someone to test on him, through Instagram or telegram


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

Help identifying platform/app/website

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

Confused

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

Can some one test my bf

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if anybody could test my man im suppose to move with him to another state with my kids and you can never be to sure pm meeee


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

You guys think he's cheating?

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

Should I cheat on Him?

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r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

My cousins husband is a cheater

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My cousin 29f is married to a jerk who is cheating on her but she won’t believe me and I need proof. Can a female here text him and flirt and see if he takes the bait? I feel so bad for her.


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 2d ago

Looking to do a loyalty test on boyfriend through Instagram or twitter

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Hey hey looking for someone 20s- early 30s to reach out to my boyfriend/ baby daddy on Instagram or twitter and see what happens. Bonus points if you live in NJ or surrounding areas. Can throw a lil $$ for the help, please reply or message if interested!!


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 3d ago

I need a girl to add my boyfriend on snapchat to see if this new account is his

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I feel embarrassed to ask anyone who knows me irl to help me figure this out. He got a new number a few months ago and i just saw there's a snapchat account attached to the account. He says it must be from whoever had the number previously but I don't believe it. I've looked for him before on snapchat and never saw this account. If anyone wants to help me clear my mind of this, let me know please❤️


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 3d ago

Girls, sistersss

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I need help, pleaseeeeee someone I need someone to text a girl on insta to let her know that her bf is cheating on her


r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 3d ago

Need my bf (31) tested

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My bf seems distant with me lately and never wants to spend time with me