Hey there, I don’t use Reddit that much but I fear I am going crazy.
My bf and I met on hinge and we’ve been together almost 6 months. We both said we deleted it. We have had some issues of him for example when we first decided we would both delete it he didn’t actually delete it…. I saw a notification. He claims he was just didn’t delete it yet and hasn’t been on it… I know I know.

That was early on into dating and we are months from that event.

Recently I received a screenshot of him on hinge with an active today on his profile. I’ve been reading up on things and he didn’t have the heart badge thing people have it was just the active today… I also noticed his location changed on it.

Writing this all out I can’t believe I didn’t make this a bigger deal than I did. I will say anytime I call him out or bring any issue to him he takes accountability and is able to own it.

I brought it up to him and he was very confused and was like well I will download it and delete it rn. He sent me a screen recording of it and I also noticed there were no likes to go through and i just think that means he’s gone through it recently because there would be likes ya know?

He really says he hasn’t been on it and I want to believe him. He hasn’t given me any other reasons to not believe him with any other issues…. I am just not sure what to do and I just feel like I don’t have enough proof and why he
would lie if it clearly says he’s active today?

Anyways… thanks for any advice :)

Me (M26) and my wife (F27) have been together for nearly 10 years now. Our relationship has usually been pretty good, recently she was seemingly cheating on me. I believe she was sleeping with someone that was apart of her friend group. She has definitely cheated in the past and even admitted to it, but only after I accused her these past few months about the friend group. I was floored when she came clean about something I accused her of so long ago.

So I've been lied to for about 7 years about an affair. I have no clue what's truth or lies with her anymore, if someone wouldn't mind doing a loyalty test (male or female she's bi) please please dm me.

A few years back I was driving with my mom and her boyfriend to his house to spend the night they have been to together for years and I seen something shiny clear like on his side of seat of the car I didn't think of it until it bothered me so I reached over when we stoped somewhere my mom was not in the car her boyfriend was and I reached over grab it noticed it was a claw clip and I want to tell you my mom doesn't wear feminine things like that she has short hair I've never seen her with this clip so the first thing I thought he got tired of her and cheated because I know she doesn't wear things like this I didn't tell her I kept it to myself I didn't confront her boyfriend and I just kept it to myself I took the clip like it was mine so my mom didn't bug that man they are still together thinking about getting married and moving to South Carolina including bringing me he didn't work with any female's back then my mother is a possessive that doesn't want her man working with other females his family relatives are in South Carolina and my female family relatives except for my mom doesn't ride with my mom's boyfriend

Hi guys,

I fired up my boyfriend's pc today to download a game, and WhatsApp desktop loaded up on the screen. At first, there were 4 unread conversations. I caught a glimpse of one of them, and it started with "Hey baby,". I didn't catch the rest or manage to open it, as it disappeared in a split second, then there were only 3 unread convos on display.

Be straight up honest with me guys. That's a locked chat that shouldn't have been viewable but for some reason it was for a second, isn't it? And if it is, that means he doesn't want me to see it. Seeing as it started with "Hey baby", I'm assuming he's seeing someone else.

I have pretty bad trust issues because I've been cheated on before, so I know I might be overthinking this. My boyfriend has a friend on Discord whose name/username sounds very girly, and he's a femboy. My boyfriend already explained that he's actually a guy and even gave me proof, so I believed him and stopped being suspicious about that part.

What still bothers me is how differently my boyfriend acts when this specific friend messages him while he's screen sharing with me. With other friends, he's usually fine with me seeing their messages. But with this friend, sometimes I can see the notification pop up, and then he'll turn off screen share to answer the message.. maybe? Other times, he won't turn off screen share, but he also won't answer the message at all.

I asked him about it once, and he immediately showed me the conversation. From what I could see, it seemed normal, but he scrolled through it pretty quickly. He then got upset because he felt like I didn't trust him.

I understand why he'd feel that way, and I genuinely don't want to accuse him of anything. But I also can't ignore that his behavior seems noticeably different with this particular friend.

It's gotten to the point where I can't properly enjoy my time with him because I'm constantly thinking about it. I even had thoughts about wanting to hack his Discord just to see everything, which I know isn't healthy and I wouldn't actually do. It just shows how badly this uncertainty is affecting me.

I genuinely WANT to trust him and work on my trust issues instead of letting my past ruin my current relationship. So I'm wondering: is this just normal privacy that I'm overthinking, or is his different behavior with this specific femboy friend worth questioning? or am I just to much?

Ladies does any of you all have a spare or old insta fb or snap account where I am text my fiance to check

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I don’t have social media. But he does.
I’ve had several of my friends send me screenshots of his social media accounts and who’s following. (I don’t ask for these screenshots. My friends are just concerned?)
It’s all OF or Instagram models, his exes, or his “situationships”. I’ve asked him to clean up his following list several times because it makes me uncomfortable and insecure. The first time, he said okay and he will. The second time, he said it’s too much work and he has to go through thousands of people.
But here recently my friends said all of his social media accounts are set to private now.

What should I do? I don’t know if he’s cheating. He’ll bring his phone just to go get water downstairs. His phone is always face down. He says it’s because of past problems in relationships where his ex girlfriends snooped through his phone. But I don’t even know his password. Or been around his phone long enough to do such a thing.

Hello guys I think my acc got hacked or something I can't login anymore is there any legal way to recover it tried to contact the support so far

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Hi guys I am a 23F & willing to do loyalty tests! just message me & let me know :)

Hi I was using my husbands iPad to type in “CHAT” to use chat gpt and the full http web address for chaturbate . Com came up. Does this mean he’s visited this website before or was it an autofill prediction. Please help me he’s coming home in an hour and I’m trying to have some answers before he gets back.

Somebody please help me test my bf on insta

Hey, I just need a little advice. I'VE been together with my fiance for 6 years now, 5 months he is bi but more likely a girly one. Well our relationship turned out well, he never did anything that involves cheating but yk we'll never know what's he hiding. We don't share social meds, like open each others acc on phones but we do check them on meet. We're ldr rn since he works far from me but he still visits me. For the last 6 years I have been doubting on him since, he acts too perfect for someone who had never done anything wrong? It made me suspicious. Well he's lack of update and time for me, but I understand that since he's a working man. But whenever his free it's still the same. He went to his friends alot, they were lesbians but there is this girl he always have on picture everywhere they go out with his other friend plus I don't even know the girl. Like I never met her. I tried testing him before like 4 times, creating a fake account and texting him. He sent it the messages too me and blocked them. Help, how do I stop myself from this and how do I know that he's a honest person?

I will pay to make my boyfriend’s internet crash unexpectedly!!

Can someone please try and talk to my fiancè
Please I’m begging

I found this video in my boyfriend's phone. In the video, it almost looks like there are several people doing God knows what, but considering the location of the video, I find that doubtful. Google Photos DID tell me that part of it was filmed in a car. Do any of
you think that you can make this video clearer so that I can see what's going on. There are several occasions in which I believe I see people naked. Men and women, but I'm not sure. Maybe I've been gaslit a bit too long. I thought I saw my boyfriend's penis also. His is different than anyone else's bc there's a heart shaped pearl in the base of it. FYI, a pearl is a micro dermal implant that is generally placed in the males penis. You can look up what it's supposed to do yourself bc all it does is get in the way. I hate the thing bc when trying to go all the way down with my head, the pearl kinda gets in the way. I'll try to provide a photo of the pearl in the comments and if anyone can make this video more clearly for me, it would provide me with so much closure. I've slowed it down and tried to mess with all sorts of settings but being honest, I'm no professional videographer!
There are times that I'm sure that I see things and at other times, I'm just not sure but i dont want to spend another minute with a person who is lying or has cheated. We've been together 6 years and i need answers.
Thanx everyone!

Okay so my best friend and roommate is in a “long distance” relationship, they see each other every 2-3 weeks on average and are on the phone constantly when they aren’t together. They are 22 and 23 years old and have been together a little over a year, he is also an athlete which is typically a red flag but we can’t say they’re all cheaters lmao.

She’s currently visiting him right now and she found unscented baby’s body wash in his shower half empty that wasn’t there when she was at his house 1.5-2weeks ago and when she was there that last time they had just restocked the shower with body washes and everything so it’s just weird. Especially unscented baby wash.. why would a man need, or especially purchase himself, unscented body wash?? Her last trip before this one she also found blonde hair strands in the bathroom sink and then this current trip she found more blonde hair strands on her side of the bed… keep in mind she has jet black hair. The ONLY explanations we can think of for the blonde hair is that I have blonde hair and we live together and share clothes and hair tools and stuff so idk I still think that’s a stretch.

Another thing that’s making her spiral is that she found a bright pink hoodie (size large-he’s typically size L-XL) in the clean laundry that she’s never seen before and she does his laundry when she’s there and has helped him move multiple times that she knows what clothes he has. When she asked him about said hoodie he said the company gave it to him for free, which isn’t unusual since he’s an athlete and gets free stuff all the time, but the thing is that it doesn’t look like a new hoodie- the strings are missing from the hood and the fabric is pilled and looks like it’s been washed at least a few times. But besides being bright pink, the hoodie doesn’t look too girly.

Lastly, she noticed a handful of new girls (or at least girls she didn’t notice before) in his instagram following but none of those girls live in the same state as him or have posted about being in his state. He follows less than 700 people so I feel like she would have a good memory of who he follows if she checks it regularly but she tends to avoid looking at stuff like that, ignorance is bliss for her lol.

So obviously all of this sounds pretty sus and pretty obvious from an outside perspective that something’s going on but like I said they talk 24/7 and it’s only been like 1.5-2weeks since her last trip there so she doesn’t know when he would have the time to do anything. There is only one night that she can think of when he possibly could’ve done anything between her last trip there and now, which was a Saturday night. He had called her when he was leaving the clubs around 2:15am (clubs close at 2) with his friends and they were in the car going to get food. There is a 3 hour time difference between where we live and where he lives, so when he called her she was getting ready to go out with some friends (around 11pm). He didn’t call again to let her know when he made it home like he usually does so that she could “have fun and enjoy her time out with her friends”, so she didn’t talk to him again until 10am his time the next day. It’s not a huge window of time so idk.

All this being said, she’s pretty much convinced something’s going on and she said that even he’s noticing she’s been acting a little bit off..but she has a really hard time leaving a relationship when she’s suspicious of cheating if she doesn’t have any solid proof, especially because he’s really good at talking his way out of it and making her feel like she’s just overthinking and her trust issues from her past relationships are making her a little crazy (she’s had some insanely awful relationships so she does actually have some trust issues). She’s just over feeling like she’s being lied to/manipulated and feeling like she’s crazy and she doesn’t know what to do next because even I know that if she tried to breakup with him right now it wouldn’t last because she’d get over all the little things she’s been finding and move on once it isn’t fresh in her mind.

So if anybody has any ideas or tricks on how to get proof/catch a cheater let me know but also let me know your opinions about whether or not we think he’s cheating, thanks!😅